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Good day everyone!!

Most people in relationships believe that a relationship ends the day one party call it quit. But that’s far from the truth. An average relationship that ended didn’t end that day, it probably ended few days, months or years before. So why didn’t the person just call it quit that same day?

It’s mainly because the party involved just wants time to enjoy the benefits they’ve been enjoying. It may be the gifts, money, sex, the trips etc.

So let me share the experience of a friend of mine. He was dating this girl sometime ago and it was going on very well. So I was with him in her house on this particular day and they were arguing about something that has to do with the male and female gender. He is an unapologetic alpha male and supports the male gender with all he has but this was a problem with her. She said something that annoyed him so he told her he was going home. The next thing madam said was “who the hell do you think you are? Every time you'd just be getting angry as if you’re God” As if that wasn’t enough she pushed us both out of her apartment and told him “get out of my house and go and die“.

As a gentleman he didn’t say anything to me, but knowing my friend, deep down I knew the relationship was over. But he didn’t end it that day or week or month. A few later, he just called her out of the blue and said it was over. Some days ago while going through my own dating issues, I messaged him asking why he broke off with her and he forwarded the video below and typed "that day" under it.

So guys, when did you know that your relationship was over?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FqQqxrWfCnk

I need your advice please.

ideamonster:
Good day everyone!!

Most people in relationships believe that a relationship ends the day one party call it quit. But that’s far from the truth. An average relationship that ended didn’t end that day, it probably ended few days, months or years before. So why didn’t the person just call it quit that same day?

It’s mainly because the party involved just wants time to enjoy the benefits they’ve been enjoying. It may be the gifts, money, sex, the trips etc.

So let me share the experience of a friend of mine. He was dating this girl sometime ago and it was going on very well. So I was with him in her house on this particular day and they were arguing about something that has to do with the male and female gender. He is an unapologetic alpha male and supports the male gender with all he has but this was a problem with her. She said something that annoyed him so he told her he was going home. The next thing madam said was “who the hell do you think you are? Every time you'd just be getting angry as if you’re God” As if that wasn’t enough she pushed us both out of her apartment and told him “get out of my house and go and die“.

As a gentleman he didn’t say anything to me, but knowing my friend, deep down I knew the relationship was over. But he didn’t end it that day or week or month. A few later, he just called her out of the blue and said it was over. Some days ago while going through my own dating issues, I messaged him asking why he broke off with her and he forwarded the video below and typed "that day" under it.

So guys, when did you know that your relationship was over?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FqQqxrWfCnk

interesting submissions

ideamonster:
interesting submissions

Great post. Long time no see

Mtcheeeew. You better get yourself busy with something else

Chris2863:
Mtcheeeew. You better get yourself busy with something else

hmmmn

Mine ended when she started showing lack of commitment in the relationship. I call, she doesn't pick and wouldn't call back. I sent messages via whatsapp, she wouldn't reply.

The day I realized that, no good thing can ever come from dating a 9ja girls.

The bottom line is that, the fact that you have not caught your GF/wife doing ashawo doesn't mean she is not an Ashawo. They are all the same...... Some do it codedly while others openly.

The day she said "Don't think I don't see guys, I have a lot of them toasting me"
She later begged, but I've made my decision already.

Savedday2:
The day I realized that, no good thing can ever come from dating a 9ja girls.

The bottom line is that, the fact that you have not caught your GF/wife doing ashawo doesn't mean she is not an Ashawo. They are all the same...... Some do it codedly while others openly.

hmmn.

Hints to ladies: any time your boyfriend tells you "whenever you see someone better than I, you can leave/get along with the person, that he doesnt mind" just know you are a fuckmate to him.

Secondly, if he doesn't set boundaries with you in a relationship, then you just dating yourself. You are a fuckmate to him.

When she started squeezing my balls too hard.

TheFinesseKid:
When she started squeezing my balls too hard.

shaking my damn head

When I realized she had nothing to offer outside her pvssy. And she kept expecting me to become her father at the same time

When she put her pussy on my face

ideamonster:
Good day everyone!!

Most people in relationships believe that a relationship ends the day one party call it quit. But that’s far from the truth. An average relationship that ended didn’t end that day, it probably ended few days, months or years before. So why didn’t the person just call it quit that same day?

It’s mainly because the party involved just wants time to enjoy the benefits they’ve been enjoying. It may be the gifts, money, sex, the trips etc.

So let me share the experience of a friend of mine. He was dating this girl sometime ago and it was going on very well. So I was with him in her house on this particular day and they were arguing about something that has to do with the male and female gender. He is an unapologetic alpha male and supports the male gender with all he has but this was a problem with her. She said something that annoyed him so he told her he was going home. The next thing madam said was “who the hell do you think you are? Every time you'd just be getting angry as if you’re God” As if that wasn’t enough she pushed us both out of her apartment and told him “get out of my house and go and die“.

As a gentleman he didn’t say anything to me, but knowing my friend, deep down I knew the relationship was over. But he didn’t end it that day or week or month. A few later, he just called her out of the blue and said it was over. Some days ago while going through my own dating issues, I messaged him asking why he broke off with her and he forwarded the video below and typed "that day" under it.

So guys, when did you know that your relationship was over?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FqQqxrWfCnk

The day he started demanding I do more than my power, while he was boldly allowing a woman feed him all in the name of being supportive..not like he did anything in return while we were dating I was living on empty promises.

Prettygirl200:
The day he started demanding I do more than my power, while he was boldly allowing a woman feed him all in the name of being supportive..not like he did anything in return while we were dating I was living on empty promises.

You sef rest

Miravik900:
You sef rest

I didn't make my comment on your mother's head. Sorry!!

Prettygirl200:
I didn't make my comment on your mother's head. Sorry!!

You have been crying all over nairaland na you be the first person them serve breakfast? Wailer 😂

Don’t find something to keep yourself busy keep fooling around for likes frustrated ewu

Miravik900:
You have been crying all over nairaland na you be the first person them serve breakfast? Wailer 😂

Don’t find something to keep yourself busy keep fooling around for likes frustrated ewu

Again I didn't make my comments on your mother's head, I don't know why u drinking panadol on some one elses headache. That bolded should be for you not me don't you think so?

H

Dimaya:
shaking my damn head

I know right. I felt the same way on that day. I was so disappointed.

lordnkem000:
When I realized she had nothing to offer outside her pvssy. And she kept expecting me to become her father at the same time

The stories you read on nairaland. Smdh

When I first caught her in a web of lies. She still wouldn't leave but I was already done with her cos I could never trust her at all

Dimaya:
The stories you read on nairaland. Smdh

I felt it was stories too like you until it started happening in my relationship. Had to use my head o

ideamonster:
Good day everyone!!

Most people in relationships believe that a relationship ends the day one party call it quit. But that’s far from the truth. An average relationship that ended didn’t end that day, it probably ended few days, months or years before. So why didn’t the person just call it quit that same day?

It’s mainly because the party involved just wants time to enjoy the benefits they’ve been enjoying. It may be the gifts, money, sex, the trips etc.

So let me share the experience of a friend of mine. He was dating this girl sometime ago and it was going on very well. So I was with him in her house on this particular day and they were arguing about something that has to do with the male and female gender. He is an unapologetic alpha male and supports the male gender with all he has but this was a problem with her. She said something that annoyed him so he told her he was going home. The next thing madam said was “who the hell do you think you are? Every time you'd just be getting angry as if you’re God” As if that wasn’t enough she pushed us both out of her apartment and told him “get out of my house and go and die“.

As a gentleman he didn’t say anything to me, but knowing my friend, deep down I knew the relationship was over. But he didn’t end it that day or week or month. A few later, he just called her out of the blue and said it was over. Some days ago while going through my own dating issues, I messaged him asking why he broke off with her and he forwarded the video below and typed "that day" under it.

So guys, when did you know that your relationship was over?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FqQqxrWfCnk

do not ignore joblessness or promiscuity. it rarely gets better

Oh, this boy with twenty accounts. I think say na better person. Probably a made up story.

I’m out.

Most relationships start declining when financial issues set in. When bills take over a couple's finances, there's a likelihood for marrital issues to set in.

This OP sef, why u wan know? Ur busy body don too much ooo
If I tell u now u go believe?
Abeg let sleeping bingos lie

When she told me she's a lesbian and she wants a party

When i listened to a message by Gbile Akanni

Gender ideologies and knowing the character/mentality of the opposite sex should be one of the essence of dating but we have turn it into a transaction of money and sex.