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Re: Igunbor Sarah: Avoid Benin Men When Looking For A Romantic & Caring Partner by Michelle55: 2:16pm On Aug 29, 2023
UyaiIncomparabl:


Many of them are like that. Very very toxic. And when you respond or give them a taste of their medicine, they call you combative. Dated two of their kinds from Benin in the past. Thankfully, it all started and ended online. Gaslighting and manipulation na their second name. So razz and proud. They will always find ways to demean you and let you know how trashy you are to them. Use abusive slurs like it's food. Seek respect from you like it's their birthright and they don't even have what they seek.

Toxicity and them na 5 & 6. Especially with the ones domiciled in Benin, forget it. They are no good. It pained me so much that year but looking back now, I appreciate that we parted ways because they would have made me so toxic like them. And all I can see now is that they gaslighted me making me seem as if I was the problem.

One of them just even commented on this thread talking about how ladies with bad character can't date their kind. But, na him get bad character pass. I just read him comment dey laf. grin
You nailed it babe! I had to retrace my steps when my mom called my attention to it, she said she has never seen me insult anyone no matter how provoked I am. I realized that dude is turning me into what I'm not, I just had to block him before I become razz, proud and toxic like him.
The bolded is so freaking him!
He has this he's always right syndrome, the funny part is dude slept with a friend and still had the guts to tell me I set him up🤣🤣🤣. Person wey no get self control no get am yet na dem dey demand respect and loyalty pass

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Re: Igunbor Sarah: Avoid Benin Men When Looking For A Romantic & Caring Partner by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 2:53pm On Aug 29, 2023
Michelle55:

You nailed it babe! I had to retrace my steps when my mom called my attention to it, she said she has never seen me insult anyone no matter how provoked I am. I realized that dude is turning me into what I'm not, I just had to block him before I become razz, proud and toxic like him.
The bolded is so freaking him!
He has this he's always right syndrome, the funny part is dude slept with a friend and still had the guts to tell me I set him up🤣🤣🤣. Person wey no get self control no get am yet na dem dey demand respect and loyalty pass

I avoid people from that region generally. It's like they have something for being razz and uncouth. Always acting too wise and very cunning. Lol. Lucky you. He would have turned you into something else and before you know it, domestic violence would have set in. Crazy stuff.

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Re: Igunbor Sarah: Avoid Benin Men When Looking For A Romantic & Caring Partner by Hollandia2030: 3:12pm On Aug 29, 2023
THURAFTERNOON:
Make slawomirr catch u
😹😂
Re: Igunbor Sarah: Avoid Benin Men When Looking For A Romantic & Caring Partner by Michelle55: 3:15pm On Aug 29, 2023
UyaiIncomparabl:


I avoid people from that region generally. It's like they have something for being razz and uncouth. Always acting too wise and very cunning. Lol. Lucky you. He would have turned you into something else and before you know it, domestic violence would have set in. Crazy stuff.
Wish I had known earlier though, it wouldn't have gotten to this stage but anyway, nothing spoil.
Sometimes, I wonder why someone that educated would stoop so low to be uncouth and rain insults at every slight disagreement.
Glad it ended before person go turn me into a mad marketwoman.
😂😂😂

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Re: Igunbor Sarah: Avoid Benin Men When Looking For A Romantic & Caring Partner by Amayabor1: 6:14pm On Aug 29, 2023
KarinaSlim:



I laugh at your whole statement.

Someone I never spoke to more than twice throughout my whole service year

You are a comedian aswear.

You need to even see the person we are talking about here.

You are funny.

Please don't make me throw up. I'm eating.

Well, let me condescend to your level.

I do not waste my "bottom power" like you stated on such beings darling.

With power comes much responsibilities.

Read that again.


You never spoke to him more than twice during your service year.

I need to see the person we are talking about (meaning he is not up to your standard)

You don't waste your bottom power on people like him.

Yet, you told us he was cunning. Please, how did you know he was cunning? Because from your write-up, it appears you really didn't know this guy and both of you were not close.

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Re: Igunbor Sarah: Avoid Benin Men When Looking For A Romantic & Caring Partner by PrimadonnaO(f): 6:28pm On Aug 29, 2023
leanonme82:
Well, i noticed Benin city has plenty female landlords than male landlords.

When you even find a male landlord you later learn it is his sisters' house and the sister lives abroad.


While I was in Benin, the house I lived in throughout school was originally owned by a man. I met him.

Great landlord by all standards.

Well, in my 300 level, he became mysteriously sick...defying scientific medicine.

By 400 level, we had a landlady. Man died.

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Re: Igunbor Sarah: Avoid Benin Men When Looking For A Romantic & Caring Partner by AdaojoTheUrchin: 7:19pm On Aug 29, 2023
itsme01:



Ibos have many horrible personality

But Ibo men take good care of their wife

All the Ibo family in my area, the Husband works like a donkey, while the wife enjoys at home doing nothing

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I agree with you, all the yoruba family in my areas, their men are lazy while their women work very hard as breadwinners, selling Pepsi and coke in traffic and bus stops, while their men are lazy about looking for the next little shukuratu to impregnate.

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Re: Igunbor Sarah: Avoid Benin Men When Looking For A Romantic & Caring Partner by asanausana91: 7:39pm On Aug 29, 2023
My wife is from Auchi, infact she said she better remain unmarried through out her life time if she will marry an Edo man.
Igbos are romantic but their problem is if your husband eventually die, that will be the beginning of your surfering. They will accuse you of killing their son. They will want to take over everything owned by the late husband while the wife and children surfers

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Re: Igunbor Sarah: Avoid Benin Men When Looking For A Romantic & Caring Partner by Anny69: 4:14pm On Sep 04, 2023
UyaiIncomparabl:


Many of them are like that. Very very toxic. And when you respond or give them a taste of their medicine, they call you combative. Dated two of their kinds from Benin in the past. Thankfully, it all started and ended online. Gaslighting and manipulation na their second name. So razz and proud. They will always find ways to demean you and let you know how trashy you are to them. Use abusive slurs like it's food. Seek respect from you like it's their birthright and they don't even have what they seek.

Toxicity and them na 5 & 6. Especially with the ones domiciled in Benin, forget it. They are no good. It pained me so much that year but looking back now, I appreciate that we parted ways because they would have made me so toxic like them. And all I can see now is that they gaslighted me making me seem as if I was the problem.

One of them just even commented on this thread talking about how ladies with bad character can't date their kind. But, na him get bad character pass. I just read him comment dey laf. grin
Oh my goodness, I can relate. grin grin The one I was with crashed my mental health, thank goodness he's gone now.
Re: Igunbor Sarah: Avoid Benin Men When Looking For A Romantic & Caring Partner by Anny69: 4:24pm On Sep 04, 2023
Michelle55:

You nailed it babe! I had to retrace my steps when my mom called my attention to it, she said she has never seen me insult anyone no matter how provoked I am. I realized that dude is turning me into what I'm not, I just had to block him before I become razz, proud and toxic like him.
The bolded is so freaking him!
He has this he's always right syndrome, the funny part is dude slept with a friend and still had the guts to tell me I set him up🤣🤣🤣. Person wey no get self control no get am yet na dem dey demand respect and loyalty pass
I can relate. They have this negative influence and would make you feel you're the problem. The one I was with every 2 days, there was always fight between us, I've never met anyone that toxic.

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Re: Igunbor Sarah: Avoid Benin Men When Looking For A Romantic & Caring Partner by Nobody: 8:32am On Sep 27, 2023
UyaiIncomparabl:


Many of them are like that. Very very toxic. And when you respond or give them a taste of their medicine, they call you combative. Dated two of their kinds from Benin in the past. Thankfully, it all started and ended online. Gaslighting and manipulation na their second name. So razz and proud. They will always find ways to demean you and let you know how trashy you are to them. Use abusive slurs like it's food. Seek respect from you like it's their birthright and they don't even have what they seek.

Toxicity and them na 5 & 6. Especially with the ones domiciled in Benin, forget it. They are no good. It pained me so much that year but looking back now, I appreciate that we parted ways because they would have made me so toxic like them. And all I can see now is that they gaslighted me making me seem as if I was the problem.

One of them just even commented on this thread talking about how ladies with bad character can't date their kind. But, na him get bad character pass. I just read him comment dey laf. grin
Hahaha. Those guys really hit a nerve in you, and although you claim to have gotten over it(in retrospect) you seem to haven't.
Omo, how many frogs will you people kiss before you find prince charming, though...this body counts are no longer funny, man. Ladies be making the same wrong decisions, over and over.

@ emboldened, but you are toxic, nau. So they Anyway, we only read your own side of the story, which paints you out to be the victim. No one knows if you those guys saw shege in your hands (like flirting with others and giving your numbers out to guys). And other forms of sheges too grin
Maybe they were the ones who even left you, and couldn't stand you anym. But you're making it seem like you did the leaving. When you depend on guys for your needs (at that time ) you'll not be the one exiting the affair first.

"One of them just commented " Lol...so much for being over their matter, but you are still noticing and observing one of them. You're low-key still obsessed, or hurting.

No need for you to respond to this comment. I don't plan to return to this thread. I know u May want to sharp mouth, resist it.

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Re: Igunbor Sarah: Avoid Benin Men When Looking For A Romantic & Caring Partner by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 11:22am On Sep 28, 2023
PaulOtl:
Mugu. For how many years will I keep harbouring bitterness which I never even harbored in the first place? You seem to think I am like you with the multi-personality disorders. Dummy. Always projecting your realities on me. You no go try rest. tongue

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