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Acidosis:
Yes, as long as your new woman has no issues with your past.


Yes


Yes

This is how you men cause enmity in families due to lust or whatever you may choose to call it
Why can't he respect himself and go for someone else other than that same family?
Is he the weapon fashion against that family?
He should respect himself and leave that family please

If you be prayer warriors.....that have no where to disseminate your power prayers then marry her. I thought you already kno better.

nairagenone:
As the topic states, I am close friends with a polygamous family of 2 wives.
About 9 years ago while a youth corper I dated the first born of the 2nd wife but we kept it secret, although I think her own mom knew although the mom is late now.

It wasn't a relationship per se as I was just sleeping with her and I knew she had other guys too at the time but she always wanted me to think we were in some sort of relationship just like most ladies would.
Anyway, the whole thing fizzled out when I relocated from that city.

8 years later, I am in a new city and meet her step sister, who is younger than her but from the first wife and we are getting along fine, turns out I really like her and now considering marrying her.

The lady I dated previously is currently not married, in her 30s and I heard she lost a pregnancy recently, I dont have any relation with her other than the fact she calls me occasionally to ask for money for assistance which I render when I have the means but sometimes I don't as I am also trying to put my life together.

I recall that she could be diabolic and wouldn't put it past her to do jazz or something.

Do you think I should go ahead and marry her step sister 9 years after dating her and how should I go about it?

Should I inform the lady I dated in the past out of respect for her cos she will still eventually get to know ?

Should I tell the lady I am planning to marry about the past relationship with her step sister ?

Please advise.

Look for a wife elsewhere bro. You are planning for a civil war.

Ok

Please leave that family alone. They're still sisters regardless of the polygamous home they came from.

I don't know what's wrong with guys these days. What kind of men are we raising. They're SISTERS for goodness sake!

It's a huge danger you are visibly entering like this. Your home will face constant attacks. Are you ready for such battles?

Please break it off. Flee for your own safety. You'll find another girl.

I didn't go through.

But Man, this is pure wickedness.

Better leave them alone and look for another lady to marry. Marriage is not a child play, heww

You met her when she was 21 there about and after destroying her life you want to be with her much younger step sister. You see this thing wan start, you go regret am...

Best thing for you to do is not go to that family if not you are going to have to live with battles all through you life time with that lady... You don hear 🙉 🙉 🙉 🙉

nairagenone:
As the topic states, I am close friends with a polygamous family of 2 wives.
About 9 years ago while a youth corper I dated the first born of the 2nd wife but we kept it secret, although I think her own mom knew although the mom is late now.

It wasn't a relationship per se as I was just sleeping with her and I knew she had other guys too at the time but she always wanted me to think we were in some sort of relationship just like most ladies would.
Anyway, the whole thing fizzled out when I relocated from that city.

8 years later, I am in a new city and meet her step sister, who is younger than her but from the first wife and we are getting along fine, turns out I really like her and now considering marrying her.

The lady I dated previously is currently not married, in her 30s and I heard she lost a pregnancy recently, I dont have any relation with her other than the fact she calls me occasionally to ask for money for assistance which I render when I have the means but sometimes I don't as I am also trying to put my life together.

I recall that she could be diabolic and wouldn't put it past her to do jazz or something.

Do you think I should go ahead and marry her step sister 9 years after dating her and how should I go about it?

Should I inform the lady I dated in the past out of respect for her cos she will still eventually get to know ?

Should I tell the lady I am planning to marry about the past relationship with her step sister ?

Please advise.

Wahalaaa you dey fine, wahahaa you get ooo!!!

Some people are good at complicating their lives by themselves.
make the bed na, anyhow it turns out, you will be the one to lie on it

nairagenone:
As the topic states, I am close friends with a polygamous family of 2 wives.
About 9 years ago while a youth corper I dated the first born of the 2nd wife but we kept it secret, although I think her own mom knew although the mom is late now.

It wasn't a relationship per se as I was just sleeping with her and I knew she had other guys too at the time but she always wanted me to think we were in some sort of relationship just like most ladies would.
Anyway, the whole thing fizzled out when I relocated from that city.

8 years later, I am in a new city and meet her step sister, who is younger than her but from the first wife and we are getting along fine, turns out I really like her and now considering marrying her.

The lady I dated previously is currently not married, in her 30s and I heard she lost a pregnancy recently, I dont have any relation with her other than the fact she calls me occasionally to ask for money for assistance which I render when I have the means but sometimes I don't as I am also trying to put my life together.

I recall that she could be diabolic and wouldn't put it past her to do jazz or something.

Do you think I should go ahead and marry her step sister 9 years after dating her and how should I go about it?

Should I inform the lady I dated in the past out of respect for her cos she will still eventually get to know ?

Should I tell the lady I am planning to marry about the past relationship with her step sister ?

Please advise.

FOOLISH AND STUPID CITIZEN REMAIN IN AFRICAN NATION , SEE WHAT YOU POST

go ahead with it and face the consequence alone bro

I don't think this will end well if you proceed

Utanisco:
So why are u telling us now



Mtcheeeeew


Abeg who get update for coup for nigeria
I hearsay coup go soon de naija

If dem kpai you now.....

Close the chapter. Open a new page.

Jovialjune1:
Common sense should have told you not to have anything to do with 2 sisters from the same family, stop creating unnecessary avoidable problems for yourself.

if his brother wants to date or marry the other sister do u think she will say no I dated ur brother?

u girls should think and put urselves in same shoes to have better perspective or u would sound hypocritical without knowing.

nairagenone:
As the topic states, I am close friends with a polygamous family of 2 wives.
About 9 years ago while a youth corper I dated the first born of the 2nd wife but we kept it secret, although I think her own mom knew although the mom is late now.

It wasn't a relationship per se as I was just sleeping with her and I knew she had other guys too at the time but she always wanted me to think we were in some sort of relationship just like most ladies would.
Anyway, the whole thing fizzled out when I relocated from that city.

8 years later, I am in a new city and meet her step sister, who is younger than her but from the first wife and we are getting along fine, turns out I really like her and now considering marrying her.

The lady I dated previously is currently not married, in her 30s and I heard she lost a pregnancy recently, I dont have any relation with her other than the fact she calls me occasionally to ask for money for assistance which I render when I have the means but sometimes I don't as I am also trying to put my life together.

I recall that she could be diabolic and wouldn't put it past her to do jazz or something.

Do you think I should go ahead and marry her step sister 9 years after dating her and how should I go about it?

Should I inform the lady I dated in the past out of respect for her cos she will still eventually get to know ?

Should I tell the lady I am planning to marry about the past relationship with her step sister ?

Please advise.

😆 🤣 go and multiply

Still calling you for financial assistance after several years of rigorous sex without emotional attachment!

Still not settled down till now after her past recklessly lifestyle!

She was recklessly with sex then!

Now, it's her STEP sister you want to settle down with!

If ur drama is real,

I see you destroy in-laws family.

I see you destroy your own future nuclear family

I see you break record by marrying 2 sisters

I see u becoming single father after few years of marriage. (And finally)

I see u go to grave earlier than ur time.

In every polygamous family, there is always hatred and competition between the two wives. I don’t know if such exist in ur girlfriend family. That’s handicap 0:1 already. Marrying from d same family you’ve dated before and the person you date hasn’t happily married yet or conceived is handicap 0:2. Now you’re still communicating, asking for financial assistance means the lady is not doing well to herself handicap 0:3. You now confirm that the lady is diabolic handicap 0:4

Why don’t you shift ur attention and divert you love to another channel

Think very well sha

nairagenone:
As the topic states, I am close friends with a polygamous family of 2 wives.
About 9 years ago while a youth corper I dated the first born of the 2nd wife but we kept it secret, although I think her own mom knew although the mom is late now.

It wasn't a relationship per se as I was just sleeping with her and I knew she had other guys too at the time but she always wanted me to think we were in some sort of relationship just like most ladies would.
Anyway, the whole thing fizzled out when I relocated from that city.

8 years later, I am in a new city and meet her step sister, who is younger than her but from the first wife and we are getting along fine, turns out I really like her and now considering marrying her.

The lady I dated previously is currently not married, in her 30s and I heard she lost a pregnancy recently, I dont have any relation with her other than the fact she calls me occasionally to ask for money for assistance which I render when I have the means but sometimes I don't as I am also trying to put my life together.

I recall that she could be diabolic and wouldn't put it past her to do jazz or something.

Do you think I should go ahead and marry her step sister 9 years after dating her and how should I go about it?

Should I inform the lady I dated in the past out of respect for her cos she will still eventually get to know ?

Should I tell the lady I am planning to marry about the past relationship with her step sister ?

Please advise.

Proverbs 22:3

A wise man see trouble from a far distance, and advoids it, but a foolish man sees trouble and goes to it, of which he would suffer the consequences.

Bro stay one place na, so we cna understand you, you just said its not a relationship per say? Now you are also saying you dated so which one you dey. Why you the fear the lady like this? Wetin you do her in the past.

nairagenone:
As the topic states, I am close friends with a polygamous family of 2 wives.
About 9 years ago while a youth corper I dated the first born of the 2nd wife but we kept it secret, although I think her own mom knew although the mom is late now.

It wasn't a relationship per se as I was just sleeping with her and I knew she had other guys too at the time but she always wanted me to think we were in some sort of relationship just like most ladies would.
Anyway, the whole thing fizzled out when I relocated from that city.

8 years later, I am in a new city and meet her step sister, who is younger than her but from the first wife and we are getting along fine, turns out I really like her and now considering marrying her.

The lady I dated previously is currently not married, in her 30s and I heard she lost a pregnancy recently, I dont have any relation with her other than the fact she calls me occasionally to ask for money for assistance which I render when I have the means but sometimes I don't as I am also trying to put my life together.

I recall that she could be diabolic and wouldn't put it past her to do jazz or something.

Do you think I should go ahead and marry her step sister 9 years after dating her and how should I go about it?

Should I inform the lady I dated in the past out of respect for her cos she will still eventually get to know ?

Should I tell the lady I am planning to marry about the past relationship with her step sister ?

Please advise.

Op, the only thing I think is wrong is your failure to let them know.
If you inform your new woman and she's fine with it, that settles it.

I habe read a lot of comments that don't really make sense.
The elder sister was just your sleeping partner, nothing serious. And it happened almost a decade ago.
This one is a serious relationship.
Theses are two things entirely.
Again, don't you see people marry two sisters?

Why are some people making a mountain put of a mole hill?

I hate it when adult of this age think like traditionalists

IconicR:
This is how you men cause enmity in families due to lust or whatever you may choose to call it
Why can't he respect himself and go for someone else other than that same family?
Is he the weapon fashion against that family?
He should respect himself and leave that family please

And the two girls will still remain unmarried?

The wise one knew that you had already made up your mind, now This is what I would do if I were you, sit myself down and imagine how I would feel if my ex married my elder bro .OP don't make life hard for yourself bcs of p*ssy, forget about the emotions and be logical. Stay away from marrying anyone from that family if you want peace in your marriage

Go ahead if you have enough jazz to counter hers!

Some find love inside Ashawo house

abobote:
And the two girls will still remain unmarried?

Family feud should be avoided at all cost.
The girls will find someone else
I don't know why he will have eyes for the younger sister having dated the older one
House maids are not safe with this type of man

nairagenone:
As the topic states, I am close friends with a polygamous family of 2 wives.
About 9 years ago while a youth corper I dated the first born of the 2nd wife but we kept it secret, although I think her own mom knew although the mom is late now.

It wasn't a relationship per se as I was just sleeping with her and I knew she had other guys too at the time but she always wanted me to think we were in some sort of relationship just like most ladies would.
Anyway, the whole thing fizzled out when I relocated from that city.

8 years later, I am in a new city and meet her step sister, who is younger than her but from the first wife and we are getting along fine, turns out I really like her and now considering marrying her.

The lady I dated previously is currently not married, in her 30s and I heard she lost a pregnancy recently, I dont have any relation with her other than the fact she calls me occasionally to ask for money for assistance which I render when I have the means but sometimes I don't as I am also trying to put my life together.

I recall that she could be diabolic and wouldn't put it past her to do jazz or something.

Do you think I should go ahead and marry her step sister 9 years after dating her and how should I go about it?

Should I inform the lady I dated in the past out of respect for her cos she will still eventually get to know ?

Should I tell the lady I am planning to marry about the past relationship with her step sister ?

Please advise.

Pls share the pictures first and evidence of all the above transactions as mentioned in your post

LegallyBlunt:
Please leave that family alone. They're still sisters regardless of the polygamous home they came from.

I don't know what's wrong with guys these days. What kind of men are we raising. They're SISTERS for goodness sake!

It's a huge danger you are visibly entering like this. Your home will face constant attacks. Are you ready for such battles?

Please break it off. Flee for your own safety. You'll find another girl.

Exactly
2 adopted Sisters are still Sisters

Biology doesn't come into it