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My cousin 34years old from S/S base in PH is @the edge & he is in the stew so he seek for my advice I decided to bring it here.

He is dating two women
One has two children (grown up to take care of theirselves)
Then one has no child

While he is confuse is bc
the single mother (33years) from middle belt base in PH is Caring, Honest, Considerate, Mature Mindset, working-class, Beautiful & Respectful.

While the other girl (24years) from Igbo land base in PH isn't Honest, Considerate & she is still learning a fashion&design, which simply means she will be demanding from my cousin that isnt financilly balance

Modified:My Cousin is 34years so he doesn't mind the single mother's age & He prefer the single mother bc of her behaviour & she doesn't demand from him.

A 34 years old man that is dating two women is seeking advice.

Carcholce:
A 34 years old man that is dating two women is seeking advice.

Yes now no body knowns it all
He just need the one he can settle down with

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34 years, yet he can't stand his ground to advise himself and decide what will be good for him in future. ....



SHM.

Rrchrd:
Yes now no body knowns it all
He just need the one he can settle down with

I have an advice that will work only if he’s ready to take it.

33yrs old with grown up kid is alreay into menopause..
24yrs old with entitle mentality is just menace if he happen to marry her..
Na only this two women dey for ph?..
None of them is fit for him... But if he want to just choose between the two then the single mom will be matured for marriage..
Telling me a woman at 33 has grown up kid to take care of theirselves is another lie or do you think we drunkers?
To marry single moms come with task...
If i were him i would have not marry any of them... Final...

Anyone of them that guarantee peace of mind is his best bet... Only him can advise himself

It's you, it's not your cousin

Has your 34 year old friend asked the single mom about the whereabouts of her kids father, or would he continue to play the mute because she's financially stable and marry her...then when the baby daddy shows up unannounced in he's house he'll start lamenting?

Tell him to do his homework thoroughly if he want's to settle down with her.

The matured one seems better.

But, is she a widow? 🤔

Why limit such an important life choice to the two of them?

He should explore more options.

He hasn't seen no wife.....else he wants wahala for himself....




The single mom just dey pretend for now, imagine single mom (33 years) of what again sef........lol see wahala in few months of wedding, well nairaland would always be here....




Well I might be taking rubbing sef cuz I don high for here lol.....
I no waiting them make me drink o ..

Omor if he likes the single mother make he Marry her

Rrchrd:
My cousin 34years old from S/S base in PH is @the edge & he is in the stew so he seek for my advice I decided to bring it here.

He is dating two women
One has two children (grown up to take care of theirselves)
Then one has no child

While he is confuse is bc
the single mother (33years) from middle belt base in PH is Caring, Honest, Considerate, Mature Mindset, working-class, Beautiful & Respectful.

While the other girl (24years) from Igbo land base in PH isn't Honest, Considerate & she is still learning a fashion&design, which simply means she will be demanding from my cousin that isnt financilly balance

Modified:My Cousin is 34years so he doesn't mind the single mother's age & He prefer the single mother bc of her behaviour & she doesn't demand from him.

Wetin make am single mother.

Person wey dey find something must bend down

If he see am finish e go stand up.

Na so the single mother be.

The young gal. Na flowers wey everybody wan buy dey do yanga.

So decide.

ItisWell22:
The matured one seems better.

But, is she a widow? 🤔

No She has never been married
Years ago she got the man cheated & left
The man later married someone else
Dou got sick & died

Yugoslavia247:
Wetin make am single mother.

Person wey dey find something must bend down

If he see am finish e go stand up.

Na so the single mother be.

The young gal. Na flowers wey everybody wan buy dey do yanga.

So decide.

Wise word

[quote author=Johnjnr post=125492577]Why limit such an important life choice to the two of them?

He should explore more options.[/quote
Is bc the single mum love him
& he is a kind of man that don't date many women

Carcholce:
I have an advice that will work only if he’s ready to take it.

I'm waiting Sir

Nazgul:
Has your 34 year old friend asked the single mom about the whereabouts of her kids father, or would he continue to play the mute because she's financially stable and marry her...then when the baby daddy shows up unannounced in he's house he'll start lamenting?

Tell him to do his homework thoroughly if he want's to settle down with her.

The man later married someone else
& he isnt alive again

Rrchrd:
My cousin 34years old from S/S base in PH is @the edge & he is in the stew so he seek for my advice I decided to bring it here.

He is dating two women
One has two children (grown up to take care of theirselves)
Then one has no child

While he is confuse is bc
the single mother (33years) from middle belt base in PH is Caring, Honest, Considerate, Mature Mindset, working-class, Beautiful & Respectful.

While the other girl (24years) from Igbo land base in PH isn't Honest, Considerate & she is still learning a fashion&design, which simply means she will be demanding from my cousin that isnt financilly balance

Modified:My Cousin is 34years so he doesn't mind the single mother's age & He prefer the single mother bc of her behaviour & she doesn't demand from him.

How comes a 33 years old woman has children who can take of themselves? What do you mean by take "care of themselves "

Abi you wanted to say they are no longer suckling

Make ya cousin just sample all of them, then move on..

Rrchrd:
No She has never been married
Years ago she got the man cheated & left
The man later married someone else
Dou got sick & died

Never been married, with 2 children?
Okay.

Twin babies?

It is well… 🙏

What, exactly, is the issue here?

ItisWell22:
Never been married, with 2 children?
Okay.

Twin babies?

It is well… 🙏

She said is bc they told her in different churches she shouldn't marry the man
Bc she was still with the man bc she was blinded by love, handsomeness of the man & his money

Eunoiaa:
What, exactly, is the issue here?

If he should go ahead & be in a serious relationship that will lead to marriage with the single mum