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Samantha124:
But that doesn't change the fact that immediately you neglect your wife by stepping outside of your marriage, another man that's also polygamous in nature will step in because he can't just sit back and watch you neglect your wife's sexual needs just like that.

And in most cases, that man would be your friend because he'll be knowing your every movement.

Since the infidelity was not proven, then we can't say the wife was cheating, he was probably just tired of her and needed a way out... I'm sure the kids were sending their mother some money while in the US... Them bringing her to the US just shows that they have a close relationship with her and they were already taking care of her even though they might've not lived with her.

djon78:
Sure the kids were taking care of there mother
But they were doing it secretly

But that woman suffered
Some years ago I was with one of the man's son's
And there Mum was calling him demanding for Money
The guy told the Mum his Dad blocked everywhere

Recently though
They have grown
There Dad has settled them
That's why they could bring her to the US

The day the Man dies
They will bring back there mother

Honestly I was so sorry for that woman
Big Man with landed Properties across Nigeria Lagos Abuja Port Harcourt etc worth billions
His wife was begging for money

It was very pathetic

Animegirl:
Lies.

Animegirl:
I don't understand men at all. Before you guys get married, you always seem to love women with thick bodies, even ending up with them. But after marriage, you all want slim girls to be your side chics. Why is that?

Animegirl:
Lies.

Samantha124:
What matters now is that the children are taking care of their mother and she's enjoying herself.

You see? The woman still won in the end... She's enjoying the man's investments, he invested on the children and the children are now taking care of the her even if they're doing it secretly... She's enjoying his money indirectly...

advanceDNA:
Its basically human nature...u dont hold in very high regard what u have freely at ur disposal....we desire/want we dont have and sometimes want what we dont need just because others just seem to want that thing


It happens to men with with slim wife too...they start looking for curvy thick women later until they find the one 40 other men are rushing....

It happens to women too...u have fine, honest, guys that dont drink, smoke, or go to club.....u say he's boring..u start looking for trouble outside until u find the one that other women are heavily competing with u...

Abifarin16:
After you get the slim one, e go still commot for your head. Just stay where you are or become a chaser forever. Human desire is crazy.

Shedrack777:
thick ladies are hard working while slim ladies are lazy. thick ladies are for marriage, while slim ones are for chop and clean mouth (best used for side chick).

BRATISLAVA:
The thick they must refer to that irritates some husbands must be fat. Never really liked sitting long haul next to these "thick" people.

advanceDNA:
Na discipline be the real problem of human being

ruffhandu:
I agree. But for me, she na lepa be my spec, so when the fat come she will just be there, highest a little chubby.

Ladymillion:
what a myopic analysis, the so called thick marriageable doing all within thier power to loose weight?

Animegirl:
I don't understand men at all. Before you guys get married, you always seem to love women with thick bodies, even ending up with them. But after marriage, you all want slim girls to be your side chics. Why is that?

Ladymillion:
what a myopic analysis, the so called thick marriageable doing all within thier power to loose weight?

Animegirl:
Lies.

Whitecoal711:
Varieties they say makes the world beautuful
Joke aside men love with there heart flet with our head,

Samantha124:
I'm curious... Is a vagina of a slim girl different from that of a fat girl for you men?

Animegirl:
I don't understand men at all. Before you guys get married, you always seem to love women with thick bodies, even ending up with them. But after marriage, you all want slim girls to be your side chics. Why is that?

aQUINandmore:
Men generally love slim and sexy women like me.
But lately I have been attracting the poor ones amongst them abi there are no rich married men in Benin city

God please bless me with a rich sugar daddy like buhari and Tinubu.
I love tinubu

advanceDNA:
Its basically human nature with no discipline ...u dont hold in very high regard what u have freely at ur disposal....we desire/want we dont have and sometimes want what we dont need just because others just seem to want that thing


It happens to men with with slim wife too...they start looking for curvy thick women later until they find the one 40 other men are rushing....

It happens to women too...u have fine, honest, guys that dont drink, smoke, or go to club.....u say he's boring..u start looking for trouble outside until u find the one that other women are heavily competing with u...

Samantha124:
But many of those women don't get caught and you men end up raising children that are not biologically yours.

By the time some men find out, the children would already be in their late teens or adults.

The more you men keep justifying this thing of saying men are polygamous in nature, the more your fellow men are going to sleep with your wives because why not? They are polygamous at the end of the day..

And in most cases, it's always the men that are close to the husband that'll be sleeping with his wife... They'll encourage the husband to get a side chick just so they can enjoy the wife while he's busy galavanting with the side chick that'll later dump him after enjoying his money.

Even if she's sent packing, she'll leave with the kids that'll later take good care of her and there's no guarantee that things will be rosy in the man's next marriage, he may end up getting married to a fire breathing dragon that'll give him no peace...

djon78:
Na only a Jew/unsmart man that his woman will born children not his

When there are DNA centres everywhere now

A woman that sleeps around is already a very bad Omen
Which men don't tolerate

I know of a big man that sent his wife away
Since 25 years ago because of infidelity although it was not proven

He set up his children Financially well
He just lived with them till they grew up he didn't remarry

Two of his children lives in the US
They recently brought there mother to the US to babysit for them
After 25 years away

Infidelity does women no good
Be it proven and unproven one

Especially in this our clime

Myer:
A man simply wants some one who gives him peace of mind.
Fat ladies usually give less drama than slim ladies.

DonroxyII:
... you Get the Things Right ... E don be for men wey no sabi this game ...

Children tend to their mothers laslas than they tend to their fathers ... Laslas .. Mobile dicks wet no get sense na ihm Dey suffer pass & die helplessly ... !

Samantha124:
I didn't understand a thing you just wrote here...

DonroxyII:
You Can't be on Naija Forum & No sabi Pidgin English ...

U don tey for here na ...

How I wan break am down for you Now !

The Magnetism Fields between Mother-Child is so Strong that Once The Mother Emits any Iota of Pains From anywhere ... The Children would know no peace Anywhere They are unless they see their Mother ....

All she need is to Kick it, This is what I mean That Most Children Tend to their Mother's Needs Than Their Fathers at Old Age ...

DonroxyII:
Most Slim ladies are Pepperish .. It usually stem from inferiority complex from childhood where the body, boobs & Nyansh ain't growing with respect to the Societal Needs thus the remaining Space for the Specs is filled with Toxicity.....

Girls with specs Everywhere are usually Confident & Easy to be with But Cheated Upon With Same Bone Girls . .


Heaven and Naija Men shuuuuu ... ... I pray make e no Hard sha ...

Myer:
Lol this your analysis, guess that makes sense.
But really it's easier for a slim lady to add flesh than a fat person to lose weight though.
Except the person likes it that way which is also fine.

Honestly as much as looks is important, self-confidence is what matters most.
There are slim girls who are more confident than thick/fat girls and vice versa. Just because the person is comfortable in their skin.

Just4000:
This is not always the case. In fact in most cases this is not the case. Generally, we human go for what they don't have. So you will usually find a man with slim wife admiring curvy and chubby women and vice versa. I wouldn't want to share my personal experience here, but you will see men with full packaged wife still going for some ladies you'll tag "ugly and dirty". However, the choice of loyalty as well as manipulation in relationship are personal decision that is not gender specific, we still have men and women of integrity that can't compromise their stand.