Good day dear Nlders.,

Please I plead with you all to read this thread very carefully. This could save someone or contribute positively to u or your loved ones.

The distance between EVERYONE and death is just like a 1% phone (Anything can happen!)
BE EXTREMELY CAREFUL!

I just got back home from an impromptu trip, tired and exhausted; I fell asleep , waking up with lots of missed calls. I called one of them ( My nigga in my neighbourhood) this Nigga shocked with the sad news of the DEATH OF ONE OF OUR FELLOW YOUNG PROMISING NIGGA, Very pathetic!
This late guy was my close pal, we were taking bottles together some few nights ago, discussing and laughing.

***I have and will keep telling our youths to be very, very careful because this is not the same life I was living joyful in my childhood and teen days-----

-----CONTROVERSIES SURROUNDING HIS DEATH------
1. This guy has 3 littles kids (The last is just few weeks old)
2. This guy was learning how to drive heavy duty vehicles before he switched to abandoning his dream and started staying with a younger YAHOO BOY (H.K/Office).
__The said Yahoo Boy this late nigga was staying with; is just in his 30's but very wealthy, with good houses, cars, trucks, lands and a very large agriculture farm etc, He buys cars like boxers!
I know him very well. Infact; He is perfect example of chop life gang.
Rumour has it that; as rich as this Nigga (has a lot of houses in different cities), his mom still lives in a rented apartment.
3. A lot of people will feel and think that he was used for rituals because he wasn't sick (He slept and didn't wake up yesterday; THEY MAY NOT BE FAR FROM THE TRUTH THOUGH!

------ MY VERDICT ON THIS ISSUE--------
I don't jump into foolish conclusions without a first hand strong evidence, it's ONLY a fool that does that.
While the supposed rumour that the YAHOO BOY used him MAY be right but that doesn't change the fact that; I BLAME THE LATE GUY 100%!

Leaving your good handwork that will help you in the long run to join people in shattering people's life in the name of Yahoo, was a very foolish move and to think of the fact that, the guy he moved in with made overnight wealth and a lot of Yahoo boys now use different diabolic means to up their games (Even if it takes sacrificing their own blood) and the guy still fell for the trap, is not reasonable.
LOOK @ THE SORRY STATE HE LEFT HIS FAMILY, WIFE AND CHILDREN.


-------MY MESSAGE----------
Please my Nlders, Always strive on Earth to make your hands as clean as possible, if you value yourself and your offspring. I learnt this from my dad a long time ago and it has and will forever be useful and applicable to EVERYONE.
2022 /2023 taught me a great lesson I wouldn't have known till I die, Sometimes pray that you fall in order for u to know the true snakes you have been taking VERY close to yourself as friends.

There is nothing in Life that is and can EVER be by your power, smartness or hard work. God has clearly said it that; All things on Earth belongs to him and He alone has the power to give to whoever He wishes ;whenever,and however He wants.
I remember some years ago when I was always busy chasing money, my father called me telling me that; "Son you don't chase money; rather, you position yourself in a place and money will start chasing you" (This is something ONLY the wise would understand).

Life is 100% God's timing, is only a fool that thinks He has any power of to alter things.
The only way to scale through life smoothly is; TO BE EXTREMELY PATIENT and under that; Inside this life; there is another new life that modernization is constantly creating (SOCIETAL TRENDS).
This trends is what any sensible person should and must desist from (It leads to nowhere but agony and generational bondages).

Whether anyone agree or not; God created this life PERFECTLY and there is nothing you have and will ever do that will not have a result or consequences. YOU / YOUR OFFSPRING MUST PAY THE PRICE NOW OR LATER. I remember our old neighbour when I was still a child, will always say: "If you do good, you do for yourself; if you do bad, you do for yourself, R.I.P Papa, your words still fresh in my memory.

One mistake people constantly make is; The mistake of thinking that because Me. A is doing it and it's working for him, that will automatically make it work for me (FOOLISH THINKING)
OR because Everyone is doing it, automatically makes a bad thing correct. EVERYONE IS DOING IT, CAN NEVER MAKE A BAD THING RIGHT.
Different faces, different timing and destiny.

One thing I Love about my life is that; Whenever I do any evil, be it cheating or any bad sin, I RECEIVE MY KARMA IN A VERY SHORT TIME, Unlike a lot that will pass theirs to their generations. I love my unborn child too much and I can never make her suffer for what she knows nothing about; hence, the reason I desist for evils as much as possible.

The menace of Yahoo is a place I have a surface coaching on, a long time ago (Thanks to my ex that warned me to quit and focus on an honest life) because she stated that she had dated a lot of them and she had seen what the end looks like.--- God bless you wherever you are dear.

When we talk about the fact that Yahoo is bad, it doesn't mean anyone is coming out to claim being perfect but the fact that; When you make someone cry, tears must always follow you.

Even the fornication I constantly engage in and other sins I commit sometimes; I am still not happy with myself. (It always haunt me in my heart) not to talk of going about making others go through pain and taking lives. HUMANS ARE REALLY TERRIBLE!


Let me put MY WARNINGS TO THE YOUTH AS FOLLOWS:

1. NEVER under rate yourself, we were all made from sand and to there we are all returning.
2. No one is bigger or better than you.
3. With patient ANYONE can get ANYTHING done but without it; NOTHING can be done.
4. Defrauding someone can NEVER take you to where you ought to be, rather; it will send you and your generation to the pool of regret sooner or later.
5. Never play with the power of time and patience while you work to get to your dream.
6. True happiness lies in self assertion that you have inner peace.
7. Nothing good comes easy.
8. Think of when you prayed to passed pry. 6 exams, God did it, Think of when you prayed to pass WAEC, God did it, Think of when you prayed and studied to graduate, God did it.
He is still with you and will continuously do it for you if you can be patient and work with ONLY faith as you have been doing during those times.
9. One secret to get faster to God's blessings is through a very strong provocative FAITH in him irrespective of your circumstances.
10. Nothing is too late to change when there is life and remember; we are all sinners striving to get it right.

Finally, it's only a fool that will tell you that money or flashy life is not good but when it comes @ the expense of illicit things, it means automatic signing for a life long regrets. BE WISE!
Money is good but if u have it, you will understand that nothing beats PEACE OF MIND.

I LOVE GOD,
I LOVE MY LIFE,
I LOVE MY FAMILY,
I LOVE NAIRALAND,
I LOVE YOU ALL.

******R.I.P MARO***********

I BLAME THE LATE GUY 100%!

Are you even sure this guy was your friend like you said
Are you guys having issues before his death?

This is not how to mourn a dead friend!

You just concluded he was used for rituals like as if he was the first to sleep and didn't wake up. I lost the most precious human to me this way!

I think you're more terrible than the World!

Continue to rest in peace, Maro

Zonefree:

Are you even sure this guy was your friend like you said
Are you guys having issues before his death?

This is not how to mourn to a dead friend!

You just concluded he was used for rituals like as if he was the first to sleep and didn't wake up. I lost the most precious human to me this way!

I think you're more terrible than the World!

Continue to rest in peace, Maro

Now I know why comprehension as simple as it is, is ALWAYS part of ALL English Test.
*Did I anywhere in my post said that He was used for rituals.
*"I blame the guy" I used there in that context, does it reflect ANYTHING like me saying he deserved to die or his death was justifiable?.
Bro. Who in his right senses leaves his wife and children to live in another city doing Yahoo, staying with someone that made overnight illicit wealth with lots of controversies?.
I doubt you know the processes it takes to make it in life aside Rare Grace.

For your info., My post is to educate the youth and not to mourn the Nigga, u ought to have known from my post, if u read carefully. And if you can't see the wrong in the Yahoo menace, then shove it off and continue living in Wrong.
I have Niggas, Relatives and others doing it and even if I am even doing it, I wil still come out to say it's wrong but Lord pls have mercy rather than supporting evil.
I Love and Care for the people I call guys/Naggas, He was one of them!.
Alhamdulilah!
Have a nice day.

quite unfortunate, I've heard and experience many similar cases as well.. there is no shortcut to success... the thing is that many want to walk a 10 years journey in under a month, tell me how that kind of person won't engage in evil deeds to achieve his or her goals... men dey do fraud, ritualist and kidnapping... we renamed fraud to yahoo, renamed olosho and prostitution to hookup and escorts, indirectly and directly encouraging it the more, tell me how people won't willingly do it.. very soon, people will be more vocal on the type of evil deeds they carry out and we will praise them for it..

social media is another evil on its own... the lies and acting people see on the net encourages them the more to partake in these evil actions... no quality thoughts, no innovative actions... just the way to kill, defraud, and scam one another.. this is why as a person, you need to be knowledgeable enough to quickly identify when you're dealing with these type of people.... the thing is that, if I realise your love for money is through the roof and you're also addicted to gambling and also do fraud, I will automatically sideline you and put you on my blacklist... nothing can ever make me have any business to do with you... and when you talk to these so called foolish Yahoo boys and oloshos, you'll hear something like it's all for survival or the government is bad blah blah blah, is it same system that other people also does legitimate businesses? it's only a foolish and lazy person that blames other people for their own failures..

there's one also popular here on nairaland which many people know, and he doesn't even hide what he does, slawomir or whatever the shit he call himself, he does fraud and still have effrontery to always showcase himself... some people even hail him, I guess they are his fellow foolish and diabolic friends... these is the debauchery we have to deal with these days... if you have ear, you better hear, because these people have no conscience or whatsoever, most of them don't even believe in God, so they do these evils without batting an eye... they believe they will eat their cake and have it... as time heals everything, time also reveal everything... with time, their doom will come...

Years ago I told God anything that will not make me sleep well at night,he should please take it from me.

I was raised to be contented with the little I have,work harder and smarter to improve n enlarge my coast,not to hurt others and never to take what isn't mine and never to be greedy.

And that is the principles I have successfully passed to my kids.

I have learnt over the years that peace of mind surpasses everything, there's nothing like peace of mind

In all I do,I m deligent in all my dealings and that has helped me in this life.

Be mindful of the circle of people you roll with.



May his

Zonefree:

Are you even sure this guy was your friend like you said
Are you guys having issues before his death?

This is not how to mourn to a dead friend!

You just concluded he was used for rituals like as if he was the first to sleep and didn't wake up. I lost the most precious human to me this way!

I think you're more terrible than the World!

Continue to rest in peace, Maro

You spoke my mind brotherly.

Nonsense friend the OP is. Although he said some truth about life, which im sure he read somewhere on quora.

Why is he ranting online, OP should have told the deceased all this rubbish b4 he died, and not on nairaland.

Like Reminderz said above: our society is so evil these days that we glorify evil with trendy names.

We now call fraud: YAHOO YAHOO.

We call rituals: YAHOO PLUS

We call prostitution: HOOK UP/ RUNS/ HUZZLING

Corruption is now so ingrained in kids of these days.

I weep for the country.

UDUJ:
Like Reminderz said above: our society is so evil these days that we glorify evil with trendy names.

We now call fraud: YAHOO YAHOO.

We call rituals: YAHOO PLUS

We call prostitution: HOOK UP/ RUNS/ HUZZLING

Corruption is now so ingrained in kids of these days.

I weep for the country.

Oga mi, good morning sir

I went to barb and I saw a boy less than 15 years doing G. Boy into fraud and already talking abt buying iPhone 12 if client respond

I was shocked

DenreleDave:


Oga mi, good morning sir

I went to barb and I saw a boy less than 15 years doing G. Boy into fraud and already talking abt buying iPhone 12 if client respond

I was shocked

Cut...not barb denreledave bush man.

What do you expect when parents have turned teenagers to bread winners?
You see parents shouting woah woah woah like ambulance when these teenagers bring home their I'll gotten loots.

Caaz:

Cut...not barb denrelve bush man.

What do you expect when parents have turned teenagers to bread winners?
You see parents shouting woah woah woah like ambulance when these teenagers bring home their I'll gotten loots.

Ok thanks.... Na me be bush man àbi


I was shocked.... Like how, what happened?

This small boy

Caaz:

Cut...not barb denreledave bush man.

What do you expect when parents have turned teenagers to bread winners?
You see parents shouting woah woah woah like ambulance when these teenagers bring home their I'll gotten loots.

exactly, this is another great point... most parents put unnecessary pressure on their children, most especially the male child... some foolish parents will even compare their child with another's... "can't you see your mate" and blah blah bullshit... foolish dad and mom, is your own mate not Dangote and Bill Gates?? am I the cause of your misfortune? why putting the unnecessary pressure on me? is my own mates not dead as well? these are the thoughts the child occupy himself/herself with until he/she eventually succumbs to pressure... if he can't take it anymore, he commits suicide...

they smile when a child bring something to them irrespective of what he or she does to get the dough, they demean the child who brings nothing and makes his effort worth seems fruitless... some foolish parents led their children on the path of doom... I don't know if it's poverty mentality or any other thing... some parents are just pathetic... other times, it's simply just greed... nothing more... lack of contentment and irresponsibility.. no readiness to work, laziness and procrastination...

nlfpmod, Seun, Dominique, this is front page worthy... this growing menace has to be curbed or else, everyone will be put at risk by the evils it perpetrates...

Reminderz:
nlfpmod, Seun, Dominique, this is front page worthy... this growing menace has to be curbed or else, everyone will be put at risk by the evils it perpetrates...

Truth be told.....it cannot be curb just like prostitution and drugs,it has come to stay.

MSN1

This message is directed at me

I could recall how i scale through high school after two attempts. Worked for 5 years and saved up before leaving for higher studies (university)

I suffered in school eh chai!

I graduated with strong 2.1 without any extra year or spillover.

Here i am today looking out for job.

I tell you most average youths are into cyber fraud and all other fraudulent acts on the basis of unemployment. While in school i had course mates that are into fraud and they're really cashing out till this very moment.

It's actually not easy though but fraud is never an option for me. I sincerely wish i could get a decent job to sort my financial needs.

I hope I'm heading somewhere better in no distance time.

It's so tiring seriously

@MSN1

Sorry about your loss

@Denreledave

Sad that someone that young could be talking about such "clients"

There seems to be this prevailing mindset that wealth can only be earned via some major windfall (e.g. a huge credit in the bank)

Maybe that's also why the number of youngsters with betting apps on their phones keeps increasing

Love to have more young people commit to building up themselves step by step.

The real wealth is gained from the skills you build on the way up.

No one can take away your skills from you.

DenreleDave:


Oga mi, good morning sir

I went to barb and I saw a boy less than 15 years doing G. Boy into fraud and already talking abt buying iPhone 12 if client respond

I was shocked

The thing is shocking bro.

UnfairLife7:
MSN1

This message is directed at me

I could recall how i scale through high school after two attempts. Worked for 5 years and saved up before leaving for higher studies (university)

I suffered in school eh chai!

I graduated with strong 2.1 without any extra year or spillover.

Here i am today looking out for job.

I tell you most average youths are into cyber fraud and all other fraudulent acts on the basis of unemployment. While in school i had course mates that are into fraud and they're really cashing out till this very moment.

It's actually not easy though but fraud is never an option for me. I sincerely wish i could get a decent job to sort my financial needs.

I hope I'm heading somewhere better in no distance time.

It's so tiring seriously

Bro. What God cannot do does not and will never exist.
Time and patience is a very beautiful thing.
Do u know if ur destiny is not in white collar job?
WHAT DID U READ?

Caaz:

Truth be told.....it cannot be curb just like prostitution and drugs,it has come to stay.

Continue...
My problem with people is not that they are committing sin (Everyone does) but Inability to agree to the fact that they are wrong.
It's human to sin, God already know but the mentality of staying in sin is VERY wrong.
BROS. HOW WOULD U FEEL IF U OR YOUR CLOSE PERSON WAS SCAMMED OF YOUR 10-20 YEARS SAVINGS?, START UR ARGUMENT FROM THERE.

Reminderz:
quite unfortunate, I've heard and experience many similar cases as well.. there is no shortcut to success... the thing is that many want to walk a 10 years journey in under a month, tell me how that kind of person won't engage in evil deeds to achieve his or her goals... men dey do fraud, ritualist and kidnapping... we renamed fraud to yahoo, renamed olosho and prostitution to hookup and escorts, indirectly and directly encouraging it the more, tell me how people won't willingly do it.. very soon, people will be more vocal on the type of evil deeds they carry out and we will praise them for it..

social media is another evil on its own... the lies and acting people see on the net encourages them the more to partake in these evil actions... no quality thoughts, no innovative actions... just the way to kill, defraud, and scam one another.. this is why as a person, you need to be knowledgeable enough to quickly identify when you're dealing with these type of people.... the thing is that, if I realise your love for money is through the roof and you're also addicted to gambling and also do fraud, I will automatically sideline you and put you on my blacklist... nothing can ever make me have any business to do with you... and when you talk to these so called foolish Yahoo boys and oloshos, you'll hear something like it's all for survival or the government is bad blah blah blah, is it same system that other people also does legitimate businesses? it's only a foolish and lazy person that blames other people for their own failures..

there's one also popular here on nairaland which many people know, and he doesn't even hide what he does, slawomir or whatever the shit he call himself, he does fraud and still have effrontery to always showcase himself... some people even hail him, I guess they are his fellow foolish and diabolic friends... these is the debauchery we have to deal with these days... if you have ear, you better hear, because these people have no conscience or whatsoever, most of them don't even believe in God, so they do these evils without batting an eye... they believe they will eat their cake and have it... as time heals everything, time also reveal everything... with time, their doom will come...

I bet I have not seen anyone this sound like u on this platform.
One thing I keep asking people is that; HOW WILL U FEEL IF U OR UR CLOSE PERSON WAS SCAMMED OF A. VERY IMPORTANT MONEY?
Time will surely tell those that failed to listen.

xavuv:


You spoke my mind brotherly.

Nonsense friend the OP is. Although he said some truth about life, which im sure he read somewhere on quora.

Why is he ranting online, OP should have told the deceased all this rubbish b4 he died, and not on nairaland.

Thanks Oga quota.
Too many children on this platform, Quota I don't even know anything about.
Everything and more I wrote here were from my head.
Bros. Take ur pen and come for schooling, don't allow Time to teach u, trust me; not everyone can survive after Time teaches them.
____Read my reply to the person u quoted.
Alhamdulilah.

UDUJ:
Like Reminderz said above: our society is so evil these days that we glorify evil with trendy names.

We now call fraud: YAHOO YAHOO.

We call rituals: YAHOO PLUS

We call prostitution: HOOK UP/ RUNS/ HUZZLING

Corruption is now so ingrained in kids of these days.

I weep for the country.

I don't see the youth of this generation being leaders even in 50yrs time!
It's very difficult seeing a 17yrs morally sound child these days, very pathetic.

DenreleDave:


Oga mi, good morning sir

I went to barb and I saw a boy less than 15 years doing G. Boy into fraud and already talking abt buying iPhone 12 if client respond

I was shocked

Bro. If u see what is happening, u will pray to go back to the 90's.. It's very difficult seeing 17yr old morally sound children these days.
Funny enough, these are the people that are hoping to be leaders tomorrow.

MSN1:

Bro. What God cannot do does and will never exist.
Time and patience is a very beautiful thing.
Do u know if ur destiny is not in white collar job?
WHAT DID U READ?

I can't even say bro. It's really frustrating. I studied Urban & regional planning.

Caaz:

Cut...not barb denreledave bush man.

What do you expect when parents have turned teenagers to bread winners?
You see parents shouting woah woah woah like ambulance when these teenagers bring home their I'll gotten loots.

Read my thread on parents being the problem of this generation.
Parents these days are our problem!.

DenreleDave:


Ok thanks.... Na me be bush man àbi


I was shocked.... Like how, what happened?

This small boy

Imagine,now do u think this boy can ever get to even 50yrs before one thing take his life?

Caaz:

Truth be told.....it cannot be curb just like prostitution and drugs,it has come to stay.

It can Bros.
We just need good parents and a cooperative society.

UnfairLife7:
I can't even say bro. It's really frustrating. I studied Urban & regional planning.

ALWAYS talk to God, trust me; u can never go wrong with God's direction.
TIME and PATIENCE is ALL we need to achieve everything on Earth.
Can u do Architecture jobs, I know a family friend that gets jobs steadily.

MSN1:

Thanks Oga quota.
Too many children on this platform, Quota I don't even know anything about.
Everything and more I wrote here were from my head.
Bros. Take ur pen and come for schooling, don't allow Time to teach u, trust me; not everyone can survive after Time teaches them.
____Read my reply to the person u quoted.
Alhamdulilah.

Lol its called QUORA and not quota, daft head . Liar, Go back to quora and read some more. No hard feelings son.

xavuv:


Lol its called QUORA and not quota, daft head . Liar, Go back to quora and read some more. No hard feelings son.

Lol... U are far behind time boy, lots of children on this platform.
GOD HELP U.

--------UPDATE---------

Thanks to those that contributed reasonably to this thread. It is a pity that a lot of people don't know how difficult it is to come out to educate / correct others based on their experiences. The truth is that; not everyone can survive after being taught by experience.
To those people that shared foolish comments, I pray u get to understand life.
---WHAT I DISCOVERED 2DAY--
So, I left this morning to the family compound.
It is very pathetic that the family members didn't even go to great extent to unravel the cause of the death.
I was schooling them on the need for autopsy but I stopped immediately I knew that nobody was interested in hearing my rubbish; I stopped!
I later heard from a very close friend of his who complained that he warned him before his death, to see the need to come back to his family and stay far from that Yahoo Guy, that a lot of the boy's family are avoiding. him seriously because the father died mysteriously.

The guy also said few days before his death, the Yahoo Guy took a lot of them to do a particular supposed protection medicine for them, where they were cut with razor blade coupled with some things rubbed on the body. Funny enough; none of the family members knew about this.

He died in his sleep with blood coming out of his nose.

I heard that no family member was allowed to see him, aside the Revrd. father, The Yahoo Guy brought his corpse in One of his cars (Hilux) accompanied with his other boys.
-------MY VERDICT--------
I don't know what killed him but ALL my posts is JUST TO WARN OUR YOUTHS.
Evil is something we should try to desist from.
Alhamdulilah.