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Samantha124:
I'm gonna speak from an African woman's perspective, especially a South African woman.

There's this stereotype that an African woman is expected to have a curvy figure like a figure 8... For example, as a South African woman, I didn't know that South Africa is considered to have a high number of curvy women until I joined nairaland because it had never came to my attention one bit.

At first I didn't take the comments seriously here on nairaland, until I came across two videos of Nigerian women based here in SA talking of how SA women are gifted with curves and big behinds... I never paid attention to any of those things, maybe because I'm also an SA woman.

So I decided that I was gonna do my own findings, this other time I was at a mall and I decided that I was gonna check my SA ladies out and I was shocked by what I saw, it was like 85% of them were bootylicious... ... But I was like noo, I can't make any conclusions yet because I'm in Durban and maybe it's possible that it's only the Zulu girls who have the booty, so I waited until I go home to Polokwane to check my Sepedi girls out...

Of course I finally did traveled back home and this one time I was at a shopping center with my nephew, we had ordered for some pies and while we were still waiting for our orders, I decided that I'm gonna check out my Sepedi ladies out to confirm what some male nairalanders have been saying... .. I was shocked the second time.. .. I saw Nicki Minaj figures walking around and I couldn't help but wonder to myself how come I didn't notice all these things all my life... Not all of them were curvy, but most of them did have the curves and the booty.

So as an African lady, if you lack self confidence, you might end up having a low self-esteem and using butt pads to look like other African ladies outside.... Even now I'm still shocked by what I saw...

Samantha124:
It doesn't matter..

Samantha124:
I have what?

Sleekfingers:
Fake eye lashes
Fake eye brow
Fake hair
Padded bra
Fake breasts
Fake butt
Fake hips
Fake camel toes
Fake nails

All just to attract men....Men are wonderfully created


Na wa oooo

Gucciswaz:
but if u ask them the type of men dy prefer, the will tell u God fearing and real men. But where as they full of fakes..

Samantha124:
I'm gonna speak from an African woman's perspective, especially a South African woman.

There's this stereotype that an African woman is expected to have a curvy figure like a figure 8... For example, as a South African woman, I didn't know that South Africa is considered to have a high number of curvy women until I joined nairaland because it had never came to my attention one bit.

At first I didn't take the comments seriously here on nairaland, until I came across two videos of Nigerian women based here in SA talking of how SA women are gifted with curves and big behinds... I never paid attention to any of those things, maybe because I'm also an SA woman.

So I decided that I was gonna do my own findings, this other time I was at a mall and I decided that I was gonna check my SA ladies out and I was shocked by what I saw, it was like 85% of them were bootylicious... ... But I was like noo, I can't make any conclusions yet because I'm in Durban and maybe it's possible that it's only the Zulu girls who have the booty, so I waited until I go home to Polokwane to check my Sepedi girls out...

Of course I finally did traveled back home and this one time I was at a shopping center with my nephew, we had ordered for some pies and while we were still waiting for our orders, I decided that I'm gonna check out my Sepedi ladies out to confirm what some male nairalanders have been saying... .. I was shocked the second time.. .. I saw Nicki Minaj figures walking around and I couldn't help but wonder to myself how come I didn't notice all these things all my life... Not all of them were curvy, but most of them did have the curves and the booty.

So as an African lady, if you lack self confidence, you might end up having a low self-esteem and using butt pads to look like other African ladies outside.... Even now I'm still shocked by what I saw...

Samantha124:
I'm gonna speak from an African woman's perspective, especially a South African woman.

There's this stereotype that an African woman is expected to have a curvy figure like a figure 8... For example, as a South African woman, I didn't know that South Africa is considered to have a high number of curvy women until I joined nairaland because it had never came to my attention one bit.

At first I didn't take the comments seriously here on nairaland, until I came across two videos of Nigerian women based here in SA talking of how SA women are gifted with curves and big behinds... I never paid attention to any of those things, maybe because I'm also an SA woman.

So I decided that I was gonna do my own findings, this other time I was at a mall and I decided that I was gonna check my SA ladies out and I was shocked by what I saw, it was like 85% of them were bootylicious... ... But I was like noo, I can't make any conclusions yet because I'm in Durban and maybe it's possible that it's only the Zulu girls who have the booty, so I waited until I go home to Polokwane to check my Sepedi girls out...

Of course I finally did traveled back home and this one time I was at a shopping center with my nephew, we had ordered for some pies and while we were still waiting for our orders, I decided that I'm gonna check out my Sepedi ladies out to confirm what some male nairalanders have been saying... .. I was shocked the second time.. .. I saw Nicki Minaj figures walking around and I couldn't help but wonder to myself how come I didn't notice all these things all my life... Not all of them were curvy, but most of them did have the curves and the booty.

So as an African lady, if you lack self confidence, you might end up having a low self-esteem and using butt pads to look like other African ladies outside.... Even now I'm still shocked by what I saw...

Samantha124:
I'm gonna speak from an African woman's perspective, especially a South African woman.

There's this stereotype that an African woman is expected to have a curvy figure like a figure 8... For example, as a South African woman, I didn't know that South Africa is considered to have a high number of curvy women until I joined nairaland because it had never came to my attention one bit.

At first I didn't take the comments seriously here on nairaland, until I came across two videos of Nigerian women based here in SA talking of how SA women are gifted with curves and big behinds... I never paid attention to any of those things, maybe because I'm also an SA woman.

So I decided that I was gonna do my own findings, this other time I was at a mall and I decided that I was gonna check my SA ladies out and I was shocked by what I saw, it was like 85% of them were bootylicious... ... But I was like noo, I can't make any conclusions yet because I'm in Durban and maybe it's possible that it's only the Zulu girls who have the booty, so I waited until I go home to Polokwane to check my Sepedi girls out...

Of course I finally did traveled back home and this one time I was at a shopping center with my nephew, we had ordered for some pies and while we were still waiting for our orders, I decided that I'm gonna check out my Sepedi ladies out to confirm what some male nairalanders have been saying... .. I was shocked the second time.. .. I saw Nicki Minaj figures walking around and I couldn't help but wonder to myself how come I didn't notice all these things all my life... Not all of them were curvy, but most of them did have the curves and the booty.

So as an African lady, if you lack self confidence, you might end up having a low self-esteem and using butt pads to look like other African ladies outside.... Even now I'm still shocked by what I saw...

Samantha124:
I'm gonna speak from an African woman's perspective, especially a South African woman.

There's this stereotype that an African woman is expected to have a curvy figure like a figure 8... For example, as a South African woman, I didn't know that South Africa is considered to have a high number of curvy women until I joined nairaland because it had never came to my attention one bit.

At first I didn't take the comments seriously here on nairaland, until I came across two videos of Nigerian women based here in SA talking of how SA women are gifted with curves and big behinds... I never paid attention to any of those things, maybe because I'm also an SA woman.

So I decided that I was gonna do my own findings, this other time I was at a mall and I decided that I was gonna check my SA ladies out and I was shocked by what I saw, it was like 85% of them were bootylicious... ... But I was like noo, I can't make any conclusions yet because I'm in Durban and maybe it's possible that it's only the Zulu girls who have the booty, so I waited until I go home to Polokwane to check my Sepedi girls out...

Of course I finally did traveled back home and this one time I was at a shopping center with my nephew, we had ordered for some pies and while we were still waiting for our orders, I decided that I'm gonna check out my Sepedi ladies out to confirm what some male nairalanders have been saying... .. I was shocked the second time.. .. I saw Nicki Minaj figures walking around and I couldn't help but wonder to myself how come I didn't notice all these things all my life... Not all of them were curvy, but most of them did have the curves and the booty.

So as an African lady, if you lack self confidence, you might end up having a low self-esteem and using butt pads to look like other African ladies outside.... Even now I'm still shocked by what I saw...

Samantha124:
So I decided that I was gonna do my own findings, this other time I was at a mall and I decided that I was gonna check my SA ladies out and I was shocked by what I saw, it was like 85% of them were bootylicious... .

pocohantas:
I don't see anything wrong in it anymore. Nyash gives fitting in clothes. And some of them are not really about the ass, but the hips. Especially for ladies with hip dips. Better than surgeries.

folake4u:
Let me order one now from this IG vendor.

marvelck:
Wearing of butt pads by ladies

Biko, what is the reason behind the wearing of butt pads (fake nyansh), by a lot of ladies these days...

I once noticed a lady was wearing butt pad. Cos the size of her yansh keep increasing and deflating every day like a motor tyre. To the extent, I became confused

Why go through such stress just to entice men. Are they low on confidence, or just doing it for fashion or to entice lustful men.. Cos I don't understand.

Yansh or no yansh, the beauty of a woman is not tied to her backside. Don't let any man mislead you to hell. Oyibo women no too get yansh, but men dey chase them upandan, for movies

Biko, let's stop being fake. Let any man that wants you, like you just the way you are. Don't deceive any man with artificial looks, yansh or status, only to end up being disgraced later.

Be proud of yourself.

Samantha124:
I think it's best you just focus on your wife only...

God forgive him for he doesn't know what he's saying.

okuta007:
i hope SA girls are not liability like our naija girls - once you tell a naija girl, hi.. sup and she figures you are liking her - she dumps all her life wahala on you, including her family and ancestral financial issues are offloaded on you 🤣

PaulOtl:
Lol..allow me intrude.
I'll share a personal experience from years ago.
So I was in a popular club in Beijing, on one of my weekend visits. I met these Khosa girls at the ViCS nightclub looking all gorgeous and stuff. I danced my way over to their side of the wide bar table, and started interacting with them.
Me: Hey...Hi, my name is XYZ.

The girls: Hiiiiii! (They were loud and buzzing, cuz the music was loud and they were in high spirits)
Me: umm... what's up, can I sit over here with you guys?

Girls : yes...yeah. where are you from ?
Me: I'm from South Africa (I instinctively knew they were African shawties, and definitely not Nigerians, so I had to lie quickly because Nigerians had a bad reputation back then when it came to dating foreigners)

Girls: Oh....your from SA?
We too , are from SA.

Me: are you Zulu (that's all I knew back then lol)
Girls: nah...we are Khosa girls. See our skin (she showed me her forearm stretched out )
Me: Oh... Khosa...nice.

Girls : so , say someth in Zulu language. Speak to us.
Me: umm..well, I wasn't brought up in South Africa. I spent....

Girls: it's a lieeee! You cannot be south African.

Me: I am..then, where do you think I'm from?
Girls: I think Nigeria or Ethiopia (since I was light skin to them)

Me: hahah, you caught me!
Okay, can I buy you both a drink.

Girls: yeah..sure.. but we've been drinking already, but yes, more drinks (they were bubbly girls )

Me: ok, if I buy more drinks, will one of you , or both of follow my cousin and I back to our hotel rooms when the club closes...that's should be around 5 am ?

Girls : yes. No problem.

Bro, that's how I went and bought two glasses of bloody-marys and some other tequila kind of drink that I can't recall properly. Then fruits and nuts (the way they serve them at clubs in china )
These girls drank them all and told me thanks. They said they will not be following me to any hotel room , and that they know how we Nigerian boys behave.
I was so heartbroken and I really was looking forward to banging one of them that Saturday morning. After spending my money and getting my hopes high. I still found a bird to take home that morning, though..a certain fat Chinese pharmacist. Wasn't what I wanted but had to make do with...

The verdict is that south African girls play hard to get initially, but from what I've seen and heard from other quaters is that they are equally liabilities. They love money and throw caution to the wind more than our Naija babes do. One I met was telling me how she'll give me sex on and on if I ever come to Gauteng in South Africa, seeing that I'm a Nigerian guy. She said I should just come with money and she'll take care of Al my other needs.
Where did I wanna get that money from back then to find such a trip just for frivolities? With a Nigerian guy's ex (dumped ) SA girlfriend.

They are liabilities and cheap too. That's why the HIV rate is on the high side. We have small fear over here in our own country.

BoldBrainz:
Your babe hips dey keep malice with her waist? Why the hips dey shift go down ?

Samantha124:
It doesn't matter..

EmekaA125:
This is so funny.

Ladies live their lives to seek validation from the male folks.

Too sad.

Amotolongbo:
It is due to low self yansh esteem 😔

Many of these fashions and make ups done by women are to rate higher up above our peers (not solely to attract men). Women are always afraid of rejection and oppression in a circle, hence the need to find a way to boost the self esteem.

In fact, women fashions are done because of women (and not because of men) cos woman normally would like to look and dress better than her mates and command envy from other girls and the attention from men

marvelck:
Wearing of butt pads by ladies

Biko, what is the reason behind the wearing of butt pads (fake nyansh), by a lot of ladies these days...

I once noticed a lady was wearing butt pad. Cos the size of her yansh keep increasing and deflating every day like a motor tyre. To the extent, I became confused, my brother niga girls never seize to amaze me, For God sake what is so special about the back side called nyash

Why go through such stress just to entice men. Are they low on confidence, or just doing it for fashion or to entice lustful men.. Cos I don't understand.

Yansh or no yansh, the beauty of a woman is not tied to her backside. Don't let any man mislead you to hell. Oyibo women no too get yansh, but men dey chase them upandan, for movies

Biko, let's stop being fake. Let any man that wants you, like you just the way you are. Don't deceive any man with artificial looks, yansh or status, only to end up being disgraced later.

Be proud of yourself.

pocohantas:
How much she dey sell?
E soft?

pocohantas:
How much she dey sell?
E soft?

folake4u:
Na 50k for original one.

E soft pass today bread.

Nazgul:
...

pocohantas:
I don't see anything wrong in it anymore. Nyash gives fitting in clothes. And some of them are not really about the ass, but the hips. Especially for ladies with hip dips. Better than surgeries.