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Re: As A Newly Married Man How Much should he Give his Wife For A Good Pot Of Soup by Jewessgratitud3: 1:06pm On Sep 07, 2023
Zupay:
What is difficult in sitting down with his wife and discuss it based on their financial situation?

What use it if I have an income of N450k monthly and because of our soup preferences, it costs my wife N18k to make the soup, my reality and his is not the same, so he has nothing to learn from me.
Ehn.. when you drop your 18k suggestion and another person drops his 10k and like that with the third, he'll be able to gauge and tell where his financial capacity falls, from everyones suggestions and settle for the one that suits his income.
Better than not having any idea and just spending blindly.

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Re: As A Newly Married Man How Much should he Give his Wife For A Good Pot Of Soup by Zupay: 1:19pm On Sep 07, 2023
Jewessgratitud3:
Ehn.. when you drop your 18k suggestion and another person drops his 10k and like that with the third, he'll be able to gauge and tell where his financial capacity falls, from everyones suggestions and settle for the one that suits his income.
Better than not having any idea and just spending blindly.

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Taking suggestions from outsiders would even aid spending blindly because every household dietary needs and preferences is not the same.

I guess all these is to avoid sitting down with the wife and discussing it as it may make him feel emasculated, he just want to drop money based on what he had been told outside.
Re: As A Newly Married Man How Much should he Give his Wife For A Good Pot Of Soup by Jewessgratitud3: 1:31pm On Sep 07, 2023
Zupay:
Taking suggestions from outsiders would even aid spending blindly because every household dietary needs and preferences is not the same.

I guess all these is to avoid sitting down with the wife and discussing it as it may make him feel emasculated, he just want to drop money based on what he had been told outside.
Well.. that's how he chose to run his home. By the way, if you check from the few suggestions we have already, you'll see that 75% of the estimate given are the same. The difference is not much. So... It's a fairly good guide to work with.
Re: As A Newly Married Man How Much should he Give his Wife For A Good Pot Of Soup by Kemadealadire(f): 1:57pm On Sep 07, 2023
Any amount his newly married wife requests for.
Re: As A Newly Married Man How Much should he Give his Wife For A Good Pot Of Soup by QuickStandard: 3:35pm On Sep 07, 2023
If you buy food at eateries you won't ask this question
gentposh:
Pls married men in the house help him out here...

My friend just called men to as me . I am yet to reply him
Re: As A Newly Married Man How Much should he Give his Wife For A Good Pot Of Soup by nnewsnjobs: 3:35pm On Sep 07, 2023
As a newly married man, how are you going to Bleep you wife?

Since na everything you people will come to nairaland to ask.
Re: As A Newly Married Man How Much should he Give his Wife For A Good Pot Of Soup by Nobody: 3:35pm On Sep 07, 2023
100 naira will be okay.
Re: As A Newly Married Man How Much should he Give his Wife For A Good Pot Of Soup by Debauhaus1990(m): 3:35pm On Sep 07, 2023
Nawa o, so it's nairalanders that will tell you how much to give your wife for cooking. You might as well ask us when to have s*x with her while you are at it.
Re: As A Newly Married Man How Much should he Give his Wife For A Good Pot Of Soup by denko(m): 3:36pm On Sep 07, 2023
Depend on were you lived.
gentposh:
Pls married men in the house help him out here...

My friend just called men to as me . I am yet to reply him
Re: As A Newly Married Man How Much should he Give his Wife For A Good Pot Of Soup by kuntash: 3:37pm On Sep 07, 2023
gentposh:
Pls married men in the house help him out here...

My friend just called men to as me . I am yet to reply him
With due respect, this is a very stupid question, not only lacking qualities to be tagged from a husband but every sense of maturity in it ..

Just tell him , as he starts sharing such information with outsiders , he is taking his marriage to the gutters if care is not taken ...
Re: As A Newly Married Man How Much should he Give his Wife For A Good Pot Of Soup by ppogba: 3:38pm On Sep 07, 2023
gentposh:
Pls married men in the house help him out here...

My friend just called men to as me . I am yet to reply him
So, your friend wants an answer from majority that are still being fed by their parents?

Why not go to the market square?
Re: As A Newly Married Man How Much should he Give his Wife For A Good Pot Of Soup by AngelicBeing: 3:38pm On Sep 07, 2023
Hmmmmmm, OK, l am not in Nigeria, let me call my Friend @ MariahAngel, she has chains of restaurants at Lekki phase 1, oya @ MariahAngel, how much to cook ogbono, oha, ofe nsala, vegetable soup, tomatoe stew soups in Nigeria as at today the 7th of September 2023 tongue
Re: As A Newly Married Man How Much should he Give his Wife For A Good Pot Of Soup by VEHINTOLAR: 3:38pm On Sep 07, 2023
Don't you trust your wife ? This is way too early to be asking this type of question ! Ask her how much she will need to prepare a pot of your favorite soup,abi wetin nah !
Re: As A Newly Married Man How Much should he Give his Wife For A Good Pot Of Soup by denko(m): 3:38pm On Sep 07, 2023
The economy is quite bad women does not want to understand, they want to be having savings from pot of soup all the time.
Re: As A Newly Married Man How Much should he Give his Wife For A Good Pot Of Soup by BGSM: 3:38pm On Sep 07, 2023
For a newly married man to ask an outsider this question, I can see obstacles, his marriage is over because he’s still a boy with no wisdom and common sense. Rubbish
Re: As A Newly Married Man How Much should he Give his Wife For A Good Pot Of Soup by elmagnifico411(m): 3:39pm On Sep 07, 2023
gentposh:
Pls married men in the house help him out here...

My friend just called men to as me . I am yet to reply him
give her 2k, u can then add 100 naira for bike. Your soup don set! Thank me later
Re: As A Newly Married Man How Much should he Give his Wife For A Good Pot Of Soup by denko(m): 3:39pm On Sep 07, 2023
Are you married
BGSM:
For a newly married man to ask an outsider this question, I can see obstacles, his marriage is over because he’s still a boy with no wisdom and common sense. Rubbish
Re: As A Newly Married Man How Much should he Give his Wife For A Good Pot Of Soup by wunmi590(m): 3:39pm On Sep 07, 2023
huh

I've said it times without number, marriage is not for kids..

Majority of the people getting married now are kids, what type of question is this from a supposed married man?

Are you sure your friend was not forced to get married at all cost?


Ask your wife the amount she will need to cook both of your desired soup 🍲 and give her the money...


My own part, if my wife ask me what soup she should cook, I simply tell her whatever she cook is fine by me, I don't have preference, she calculate the amount and I hand over the money to her even with extra change self...
Re: As A Newly Married Man How Much should he Give his Wife For A Good Pot Of Soup by kosiebe(m): 3:39pm On Sep 07, 2023
jaeyking:
Ask your wife the amount of money will make the desired soup for you.

no come dey disturb us

no be we say make you marry who u no trust

cuzz if u trust her, u no go dey ask this question for this place
Exactily 👍
Re: As A Newly Married Man How Much should he Give his Wife For A Good Pot Of Soup by denko(m): 3:40pm On Sep 07, 2023
Kwekeyo
elmagnifico411:
give her 2k, u can then add 100 naira for bike. Your soup don set! Thank me later
Re: As A Newly Married Man How Much should he Give his Wife For A Good Pot Of Soup by ItisWell22(f): 3:41pm On Sep 07, 2023
Zupay:
Why get the list from her, when he can write it out abi won't he know what has finished in the house?

When he buys them, he can store them and be bringing out the quantity the he wants the wife to cook as it would eliminate wastage.
Top notch! 😁🙌
Re: As A Newly Married Man How Much should he Give his Wife For A Good Pot Of Soup by KingMilli: 3:41pm On Sep 07, 2023
Yeye questions get yeye answers...As a newly married man, did anyone taught you how to Bleep your wife?
Re: As A Newly Married Man How Much should he Give his Wife For A Good Pot Of Soup by Tingotoe: 3:42pm On Sep 07, 2023
gentposh:
Pls married men in the house help him out here...

My friend just called men to as me . I am yet to reply him
This is the dumbest question I've come across on the internet so far
Re: As A Newly Married Man How Much should he Give his Wife For A Good Pot Of Soup by Meerahbel: 3:43pm On Sep 07, 2023
15k
Re: As A Newly Married Man How Much should he Give his Wife For A Good Pot Of Soup by Menclothing: 3:43pm On Sep 07, 2023
If you can’t ask her give her 300k because this question is like you have freebies
Re: As A Newly Married Man How Much should he Give his Wife For A Good Pot Of Soup by Meerahbel: 3:43pm On Sep 07, 2023
undecided
ojun50:
My advice for you is to make sure you buy food stuff and put at home, it will reduced the cost of cooking soups 🍲.

It depend on the numbers of days you want yr soup to stay.
Re: As A Newly Married Man How Much should he Give his Wife For A Good Pot Of Soup by GREATOMOIYA: 3:44pm On Sep 07, 2023
How much do you value the soup of your choice, if your woman is a good cook, give her 15k and above so she can prepare enough for up to two weeks, if you have a good freezer and steady power supply, the soup will last close to a month.
Re: As A Newly Married Man How Much should he Give his Wife For A Good Pot Of Soup by Meerahbel: 3:44pm On Sep 07, 2023
grin
Foodqueen:
Stingy men association.

God forbid.
Re: As A Newly Married Man How Much should he Give his Wife For A Good Pot Of Soup by Emily22(m): 3:44pm On Sep 07, 2023
Depends on your finance


I give my wife 20k weekly

And when sapa visits, I reduce it to 10 weekly
Re: As A Newly Married Man How Much should he Give his Wife For A Good Pot Of Soup by VaginaAcademic: 3:44pm On Sep 07, 2023
Is the wife jobless gone are those days wey woman go dey wait for money for soup or is she a paraplegic
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