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Re: Can One Split His/her Tithe For Personal Reasons? by Tyktoker: 3:58pm On Sep 07, 2023
Wrong section for your question! Some of us here are not slaves of Daddy GOs and bishops of mammon!
Jewessgratitud3:
Is it right to split your tithe to different parishes if you don't want your parish to know how much you're earning? Will it still cumulate as tithe?

Is this a wrong or deceptive move?
Re: Can One Split His/her Tithe For Personal Reasons? by dannyzakks(m): 3:59pm On Sep 07, 2023
Tithes are offered anonymously. Why are you worried, if your church have tithe card. You should only tick the month you paid not the amount. Secondly don't pay through bank transfer. Envelope your tithe and offer.
Re: Can One Split His/her Tithe For Personal Reasons? by adefitim(m): 4:08pm On Sep 07, 2023
Shishi I no dey pay... May god Help me
Re: Can One Split His/her Tithe For Personal Reasons? by prizeless(m): 4:16pm On Sep 07, 2023
Stop asking all these questions, open your Bible, the answer is there staring at you. No one needs to tell you anything. It's all in there
Re: Can One Split His/her Tithe For Personal Reasons? by Nobody:
Women and religion. My wife has tried severely to emotionaly blackmail me into paying.

The pastor would monitor my paycheck when i used to pay.
Re: Can One Split His/her Tithe For Personal Reasons? by E2000: 4:39pm On Sep 07, 2023
Jewessgratitud3:
Is it right to split your tithe to different parishes if you don't want your parish to know how much you're earning? Will it still cumulate as tithe?

Is this a wrong or deceptive move?
I could be Wrong but the book of Deuteronomy 12 vs 11 vs 13 vs 14 vs 26 said somethings about this your question check it out yourself and make a decision. In fact read the whole Deuteronomy 12. The concept of tithing as I understand is to make the house of God have resources for the members of the church which includes the religion leader and every one else so technically if you give some of your tithe to the less privilege in your church you are not doing something wrong. just make sure you are sincere and give the right amount.
Re: Can One Split His/her Tithe For Personal Reasons? by alobright17(m): 4:43pm On Sep 07, 2023
Caaz:
This tithe thing is what I really need to do,I don't know why I have always skipped it.

Back to your question op,I have no idea?
tithe is so useless. Elon musk and Bill gate dangote, mark Zuckerberg e.t.c aren't wealthy or healthy because of tithe. You can't go to your dream heaven by paying it. You can't be healthy or richer by paying it. So what at all is special about tithe?

Teaxh me I want to understand.
Re: Can One Split His/her Tithe For Personal Reasons? by Fedar(m): 5:00pm On Sep 07, 2023
It's commendable of you to stick to paying your Tithe even when most people complain of things being tight.

It's not a bad thing to split your Tithes but your motive here is wrong, God whom you want to acknowledge with your tithe is not a man, he looks at the mind (motives) and that is what he rewards. You may receive the blessings of your pastor (maybe 2 if you decide to split) but ultimately not the blessing of God. But with the right motive, I'm sure God will reward you.

The reason I said it's not bad is cos... Few years ago, I have a case where I attended 2 parishes (work and family resident) cos I was posted far away, I am a faithful tither and walked up to my home resident Parish pastor about where I should pay my time cos of my dual membership and she recommended I pay half to each parish. I ensured I got the consent of the other pastor and I paid it like that for close to 3 years and I'm reaping the reward of tithing greatly.

If it's with the right motive, it's better to pay your Tithe to the church where you're being watered daily (that's the only place you get the blessing). Cos a tithe is a seed that only grows in a land of your own (where you're getting watered - your church), if you want to give money/support another church it shouldn't be from your tithe.

Any decision you want to make you can meet with your pastor/elder like my case and discuss your reasons (right motive) with them.

God bless you!
Re: Can One Split His/her Tithe For Personal Reasons? by Danmisra(m): 5:20pm On Sep 07, 2023
[quote author=Dammyseyon post=125641883]Yes, please. You can split your tithes into as many fraction as you deem fit as long as it sums up to your tithe. Personally, I can't remember the last time I paid tithe to a parish. I pay to struggling men of God, widows and even to the orphanage.
The bible or Quran does not explicitly state that tithes must be paid to churches.[/quote

Hahhaahahahah. My guy said " the Bible or the Qur'an does not explicitly state that........
.......... to churches"
Re: Can One Split His/her Tithe For Personal Reasons? by alibiz: 5:27pm On Sep 07, 2023
Malachi 3:10 "said bring he the full tithe into the storehouse" so if you must pay your tithe it must be complete not part.
Whether they know your earning or not is not your problem meanwhile your employer knows what there.
Re: Can One Split His/her Tithe For Personal Reasons? by Crazeworld(m): 5:45pm On Sep 07, 2023
bassdow:
Aunty, I only ECHOed what people belived in.

Moreover, me no longer is a Christian. I quit being a CHRISTian over 5-years ago Before then, I paid my tithe and never gave myself wahala of where it's going to, or what it's being used for.
If you don't mind me asking at the bolded, why sir?
Re: Can One Split His/her Tithe For Personal Reasons? by yemi1504: 7:17pm On Sep 07, 2023
Jewessgratitud3:
Is it right to split your tithe to different parishes if you don't want your parish to know how much you're earning? Will it still cumulate as tithe?

Is this a wrong or deceptive move?
You still dey allow god of men to deceive you?
Re: Can One Split His/her Tithe For Personal Reasons? by yemi1504: 7:19pm On Sep 07, 2023
Kenmatt:
Why wasting your money in the name of paying tithes?

Most of you claim you go to Church, you read and receive Bible teachings but you don't understand the teachings of Bible.

Just like Philip and the man he met near the River bank.
Abi
Re: Can One Split His/her Tithe For Personal Reasons? by yemi1504: 7:20pm On Sep 07, 2023
ednut1:
Na mumu dey pay tithe. Pure extortion
You get am!
Re: Can One Split His/her Tithe For Personal Reasons? by yemi1504: 7:21pm On Sep 07, 2023
sotall:
undecided

Enriching your fellow man while believing to reap from an unknown source is the definition of a fool and his money are soon parted.
Exactly!
Re: Can One Split His/her Tithe For Personal Reasons? by yemi1504: 7:22pm On Sep 07, 2023
TheNobleProphet:
Humans should STOP putting pressure on themselves because GOD ALMIGHTY FATHER our CREATOR does NOT need your money!

All HE wants from us (human beings) is to "genuinely strive and live in accordance with HIS Holy Laws and by "genuinely making sincere/practical efforts to live in accordance with HIS Holy Will"!

The "original concept of tithing" is in Deuteronomy where the verse (Deuteronomy 14 vs 22 - 29 kjv) explicitly explained what tithing is all about which is primarily giving to the needy/less privilege particularly "widows and orphans!

From the above mentioned bible verse, it can also be noted that "tithing" is meant to be given to your fellow men/Neighbour whether you choose do it in The House of The LORD is your choice!

Tithing is NOT to be submitted to any "criminal pastor" as it is being practiced now which is very WRONG!

The above mentioned verse also "prescribe" that you can "tithe" with alcohol!

Don't let NO criminal pastor fool/manipulate you!

Free yourselves from their "false/twisted" doctrines!

Shalom!
Exactly!
Re: Can One Split His/her Tithe For Personal Reasons? by yemi1504: 7:23pm On Sep 07, 2023
iramure:
Use your tithe for personal stuff. Tithe is a scam. your pastors only encourage you to continue being foolish and obedient to it because it favours them and their family members only. Oyedepo, Adeboye, suleiman, kumuyi and other are billionaires because of your own stupidity. The God that created this world without taking money from anyone doesn't need your money to survive. Na your pastors dey chop am.
Abi
Re: Can One Split His/her Tithe For Personal Reasons? by yemi1504: 7:24pm On Sep 07, 2023
gregng:
Totally irrelevant issues everywhere u go... For me i dont pay tithe becos its means nothing to me... If i must pay, giving it to the needy will be more appreciated...
Exactly!
Re: Can One Split His/her Tithe For Personal Reasons? by yemi1504: 7:26pm On Sep 07, 2023
Angelfrost:
How does it go to God?!! Your Bible clearly states that God doesn't delight in the sacrifice of Bulls and Rams??!

Even the tithing in Israel was directed at the Jews solely for the benefit of full-time God-ordained Priests who were forbidden from working and owning farms but to serve and eat strictly from the storehouses of the temples.

None of you present-day believers are Jews (Not One)... At best, you are gentiles allowed into God's promise by Grace.

If your church needs money for anything, then cheerfully donate to them without compulsion as The Bible clearly states that He loves those who give cheerfully.
Exactly! You get am!
Re: Can One Split His/her Tithe For Personal Reasons? by yemi1504: 7:27pm On Sep 07, 2023
Galaxydon1:
Stop enriching your pastors, they are All scammers, i sowed everything I had.now i beg to eat, pastor doesn't pick my calls again,
Abi. Hmmmm.
Re: Can One Split His/her Tithe For Personal Reasons? by yemi1504: 7:31pm On Sep 07, 2023
Skyview01:
Women and religion. My wife has tried several to emotionaly blackmail me into paying.

The pastor would monitor my paycheck when i used to pay.
Abi
Re: Can One Split His/her Tithe For Personal Reasons? by yemi1504: 7:33pm On Sep 07, 2023
Crazeworld:
If you don't mind me asking at the bolded, why sir?
With the God that is a preferential God and his adherents that are mostly not a light to the world like they should, why would he not quit?

It is not like they are ever give serious messages in those places of worship these days anymore asides prosperity preaching.
Re: Can One Split His/her Tithe For Personal Reasons? by OyinO: 7:34pm On Sep 07, 2023
We still have people paying tithes,?
Re: Can One Split His/her Tithe For Personal Reasons? by Prettychild(f): 7:34pm On Sep 07, 2023
Jewessgratitud3:
Is it right to split your tithe to different parishes if you don't want your parish to know how much you're earning? Will it still cumulate as tithe?

Is this a wrong or deceptive move?
There’s nothing wrong in that, so far you pay the correct amount at the end of the month. It’s between you and God
Re: Can One Split His/her Tithe For Personal Reasons? by BarrElChapo(m): 7:45pm On Sep 07, 2023
Jewessgratitud3:
Is it right to split your tithe to different parishes if you don't want your parish to know how much you're earning? Will it still cumulate as tithe?

Is this a wrong or deceptive move?
Do you write your name on your tithe envelope?
Re: Can One Split His/her Tithe For Personal Reasons? by bassdow: 7:59pm On Sep 07, 2023
Crazeworld:
If you don't mind me asking at the bolded, why sir?
because it's not WORTH my time.
Re: Can One Split His/her Tithe For Personal Reasons? by MirrorofChrist: 8:03pm On Sep 07, 2023
Jewessgratitud3:
Is it right to split your tithe to different parishes if you don't want your parish to know how much you're earning? Will it still cumulate as tithe?

Is this a wrong or deceptive move?
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Don't be religious,
Did the church you're attending gives you constant envelope or pulse you put your tithe that can make them know the actual amount you earn, or do they record tithes in your church? If this religious habit is being practiced in your church, then you need to grow beyond them. If you drop your tithe unanonimously, nobody will know the exact amount you're sowing..,

Another thing is that; to what you wrote here, I'm not judging you oo, but I can sense that your motive is not right, hope you're not thinking the money you're paying as tithe is too much for a church (your church) or you're thinking that where you're sowing your tithe is a dry land. Try and check your motive behind what you sow in the house of God, follow the Biblical laid down principles that guides giving
Re: Can One Split His/her Tithe For Personal Reasons? by Mhizzard(m): 8:03pm On Sep 07, 2023
So people actually pays their ten percent salary as tith
Re: Can One Split His/her Tithe For Personal Reasons? by clintwine(m): 8:19pm On Sep 07, 2023
Jewessgratitud3:
Is it right to split your tithe to different parishes if you don't want your parish to know how much you're earning? Will it still cumulate as tithe?

Is this a wrong or deceptive move?
.

I had this same conversation with some spirit/word filled brothers in my Uni fellowship some 20 years ago, and what I will say to you, is what I said to them and I have kept to it.

1. The bible says bring your tithe into the house of God. The House of God is not a denomination. They argued something along the line about you having a spiritual father and under a covering of a ministry. There is nothing like that, It is Men making themselves mini-gods and attaching things to themselves. One can be sent to shepherd a few, but there is no where about paying tithe to a shepherd because you are under their covering.

2. There is no where in the bible where the House of God was tasked to keep records of what people were paying as tithe, this is something that was brought into the church by men of God for accounting purposes.Unfortunately, they have abused this by favouriting the big man and using this to determine if their member receives help or not. God doesn't deal with men accounts, God sees your heart. It is a covenant between God and You and not the parish or pastor. Put your money in a brown envelop, talk to God via prayer that this is your tithe, and put it into the offering basket

3. As long as you pay your tithe into the house of God, you are fine.

I have been doing this for many years, I can be going to a church because it is closer to me or I like it, but walk into another church who I feel need the money on a sunday and drop my tithe there.

4. To the controversial question some have been asking -- Should I pay Tithe
-- Tithing is an Old testament doctrine, you would not see it anywhere in the new testament -- Have you asked yourself why we don't have it in the new testament. There are many things that were done in the Old Testament that we do not do anymore in the new testament.
Jesus never spoke about tithing but spoke about giving and generosity

Having said that, there is a blessing attached to Tithing (like sowing and reaping), If you follow it faithfully, there is a reward for it.
Re: Can One Split His/her Tithe For Personal Reasons? by DrDunamis(m): 8:23pm On Sep 07, 2023
Jewessgratitud3:
Is it right to split your tithe to different parishes if you don't want your parish to know how much you're earning? Will it still cumulate as tithe?

Is this a wrong or deceptive move?
Don't try it ooh...
Re: Can One Split His/her Tithe For Personal Reasons? by clintwine(m): 8:32pm On Sep 07, 2023
Interesting facts on tithing

Numbers 18:21 (NIV):

"I give to the Levites all the tithes in Israel as their inheritance in return for the work they do while serving at the tent of meeting."

Deuteronomy 14:22-23 (NIV):

"Be sure to set aside a tenth of all that your fields produce each year. Eat the tithe of your grain, new wine, and olive oil, and the firstborn of your herds and flocks in the presence of the Lord your God at the place he will choose as a dwelling for his Name, so that you may learn to revere the Lord your God always."

Deuteronomy 14
27And you shall not neglect the Levite who is within your towns, for he has no portion or inheritance with you.

There is a reason the 10% was meant for the Levites (because he has no portion or inheritance with you) It's up to you to research why they do not have an inheritance and how this ties to why they receive this 10%, then you have to ask yourself if your pastors are truly levites literally or symbolically.

Deuteronomy 14
28 “At the end of every three years you shall bring out all the tithe of your produce in the same year and lay it up within your towns. 29And the Levite, because he has no portion or inheritance with you, and the sojourner, the fatherless, and the widow, who are within your towns, shall come and eat and be filled, that the Lord your God may bless you in all the work of your hands that you do.

Deuteronomy 26:12 (ESV)
“When you have finished paying all the tithe of your produce in the third year, which is the year of tithing, giving it to the Levite, the sojourner, the fatherless, and the widow, so that they may eat within your towns and be filled

Have you seen any parish/church practising the above as stated in the bible ??

Unfortunately for a lot of us Christians, we are locked into this perception that our spiritual Daddy's cannot be wrong, forgetting that even our birth Daddy's make mistakes all the time.

In churches, usually, only the below verses are quoted

Malachi 3:8-10 (NIV):

"Will a mere mortal rob God? Yet you rob me. But you ask, 'How are we robbing you?' In tithes and offerings. You are under a curse—your whole nation—because you are robbing me. Bring the whole tithe into the storehouse, that there may be food in my house. Test me in this,' says the Lord Almighty, 'and see if I will not throw open the floodgates of heaven and pour out so much blessing that there will not be room enough to store it.'"

My personal submission is that you would rob God if you were not paying your tithe in the Old testament as it was mandated as an inheritance for the Levites, but in the new testament it is no more a mandate.

As for me, I pay my tithes because I key into the Old Testament covenant on it and because it helps to run the House of God. Once a working Pastor sees this as his cashcow, then the purpose is defeated, I will just pay mine into a different church that actually uses it to maintain the house of God and does a lot of charitable stuffs for the community
Re: Can One Split His/her Tithe For Personal Reasons? by homebase: 9:05pm On Sep 07, 2023
clintwine:
Interesting facts on tithing

Numbers 18:21 (NIV):

"I give to the Levites all the tithes in Israel as their inheritance in return for the work they do while serving at the tent of meeting."

Deuteronomy 14:22-23 (NIV):

"Be sure to set aside a tenth of all that your fields produce each year. Eat the tithe of your grain, new wine, and olive oil, and the firstborn of your herds and flocks in the presence of the Lord your God at the place he will choose as a dwelling for his Name, so that you may learn to revere the Lord your God always."

Deuteronomy 14
27And you shall not neglect the Levite who is within your towns, for he has no portion or inheritance with you.

There is a reason the 10% was meant for the Levites (because he has no portion or inheritance with you) It's up to you to research why they do not have an inheritance and how this ties to why they receive this 10%, then you have to ask yourself if your pastors are truly levites literally or symbolically.

Deuteronomy 14
28 “At the end of every three years you shall bring out all the tithe of your produce in the same year and lay it up within your towns. 29And the Levite, because he has no portion or inheritance with you, and the sojourner, the fatherless, and the widow, who are within your towns, shall come and eat and be filled, that the Lord your God may bless you in all the work of your hands that you do.

Deuteronomy 26:12 (ESV)
“When you have finished paying all the tithe of your produce in the third year, which is the year of tithing, giving it to the Levite, the sojourner, the fatherless, and the widow, so that they may eat within your towns and be filled

Have you seen any parish/church practising the above as stated in the bible ??

Unfortunately for a lot of us Christians, we are locked into this perception that our spiritual Daddy's cannot be wrong, forgetting that even our birth Daddy's make mistakes all the time.

In churches, usually, only the below verses are quoted

Malachi 3:8-10 (NIV):

"Will a mere mortal rob God? Yet you rob me. But you ask, 'How are we robbing you?' In tithes and offerings. You are under a curse—your whole nation—because you are robbing me. Bring the whole tithe into the storehouse, that there may be food in my house. Test me in this,' says the Lord Almighty, 'and see if I will not throw open the floodgates of heaven and pour out so much blessing that there will not be room enough to store it.'"

My personal submission is that you would rob God if you were not paying your tithe in the Old testament as it was mandated as an inheritance for the Levites, but in the new testament it is no more a mandate.

As for me, I pay my tithes because I key into the Old Testament covenant on it and because it helps to run the House of God. Once a working Pastor sees this as his cashcow, then the purpose is defeated, I will just pay mine into a different church that actually uses it to maintain the house of God and does a lot of charitable stuffs for the community
The bolded is one of the reasons I am paying tithe
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