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HER HUSBAND DROPS ONLY 3k EVERYDAY FOR SHE AND HER TWO KIDS. PLEASE ADVISE HER by Jewessgratitud3: 8:53am On Sep 10, 2023 |
A woman has cried out that her husband drops only 3k for her and two kids and needs advice on what to do cos it doesn't seem to be enough in this present economy. In My opinion, the man should gather the money for a week and give it to her in bulk. That way it will be enough to buy stuff that will last them a week.[sup][/sup] 1 Like
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Re: HER HUSBAND DROPS ONLY 3k EVERYDAY FOR SHE AND HER TWO KIDS. PLEASE ADVISE HER by ahiboilandgas: 9:00am On Sep 10, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3:90k per month .please file for divorce sharply and hustle you own money so you will be give yourself 20k per hour. 27 Likes |
Re: HER HUSBAND DROPS ONLY 3k EVERYDAY FOR SHE AND HER TWO KIDS. PLEASE ADVISE HER by MatrixReloaded: 9:16am On Sep 10, 2023 |
ahiboilandgas:You are a foolish human being. Idk if you are using a figurative statement here but you see that 20k per hour means u want her to turn into oloshoshim. Stupid comment flying around this forum everyday. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: HER HUSBAND DROPS ONLY 3k EVERYDAY FOR SHE AND HER TWO KIDS. PLEASE ADVISE HER by Jewessgratitud3: 9:21am On Sep 10, 2023 |
ahiboilandgas: Instead of casting judgement, how about breaking it down for her on how to use the 3k wisely? Or you think 3k is big? Kindly give a breakdown of what 3k can afford for three people a day. Simple 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: HER HUSBAND DROPS ONLY 3k EVERYDAY FOR SHE AND HER TWO KIDS. PLEASE ADVISE HER by Jewessgratitud3: 9:22am On Sep 10, 2023 |
Re: HER HUSBAND DROPS ONLY 3k EVERYDAY FOR SHE AND HER TWO KIDS. PLEASE ADVISE HER by Phantom233: 9:23am On Sep 10, 2023 |
Level 6 workers at most federal government institutions are earning 50k monthly, minimum wage is 30k . If we all wait for government pay then only very few should be in marriage. Am sure the man is not earning above 100k. The wife should be happy. If she's wise, the calculation should not be based on daily 3k expense rather she should arrange with the husband and make bulk purchase of basic items say 50k at once then the balance 40k can be kept for support. Most importantly it's wrong for women to sit back and expect everything from their husbands. Even the presidents wife is contributing to her family's daily needs. 8 Likes |
Re: HER HUSBAND DROPS ONLY 3k EVERYDAY FOR SHE AND HER TWO KIDS. PLEASE ADVISE HER by NoahHadNoArk: 9:26am On Sep 10, 2023 |
ahiboilandgas: MatrixReloaded: 😂😂😂😂 |
Re: HER HUSBAND DROPS ONLY 3k EVERYDAY FOR SHE AND HER TWO KIDS. PLEASE ADVISE HER by Patented: 9:32am On Sep 10, 2023 |
She should also add what he earns monthly and whether there is food stuff at home other than the 3k he drops. People complaining tell stories skewed to favour the narrative they want to push. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: HER HUSBAND DROPS ONLY 3k EVERYDAY FOR SHE AND HER TWO KIDS. PLEASE ADVISE HER by YouandiAllofus: 9:34am On Sep 10, 2023 |
Truth is that, 3k daily is small when you take the current economic situation into cognisance. It's like 400 pre 2015! Comparison: 2015 - petrol of 400 divided by 97 per liter = 4.1... 2023 - Petrol of 3000 divided by 700 per liter = 4.2... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: HER HUSBAND DROPS ONLY 3k EVERYDAY FOR SHE AND HER TWO KIDS. PLEASE ADVISE HER by Jesslove(f): 9:58am On Sep 10, 2023 |
In a week, your husband gives you 21k , and in a month 90k for you and your 2 kids and you aren't grateful. Better pray for him to continue providing. 10 Likes |
Re: HER HUSBAND DROPS ONLY 3k EVERYDAY FOR SHE AND HER TWO KIDS. PLEASE ADVISE HER by garriAndsugar: 10:04am On Sep 10, 2023 |
I'm expecting the OP to top up the money since she cant manage 3k 3 Likes |
Re: HER HUSBAND DROPS ONLY 3k EVERYDAY FOR SHE AND HER TWO KIDS. PLEASE ADVISE HER by Jewessgratitud3: 11:32am On Sep 10, 2023 |
garriAndsugar: Why Op?, am I the one in the story? |
Re: HER HUSBAND DROPS ONLY 3k EVERYDAY FOR SHE AND HER TWO KIDS. PLEASE ADVISE HER by eventainment(m): 12:10pm On Sep 10, 2023 |
Lol 😆 3k daily is small but at the same time how many men earn more than 100k monthly. She is supposed to read the situation at home and seek employment. 1 Like |
Re: HER HUSBAND DROPS ONLY 3k EVERYDAY FOR SHE AND HER TWO KIDS. PLEASE ADVISE HER by Nobody: 12:11pm On Sep 10, 2023 |
Arrrrrrrh 90k every month? That's fair. Let's do this estimate; Two or three things are involved, the location, the times they eat, and the type of food they consume. Location: This money could be little, it depends on their location. In the North, if you are eating on this amount everyday, you will eat and eat eh, to an extent eh you won't want to eat again. food is cheap here ! Times they eat: this matters too. We have to consider how many times they eat. Some families eat twice a day while some eat thrice a day. 3k per day, I don't think it will be enough to fit in three square meal a day. Type of food : the type of food you eat is another thing to consider. Remember we don't eat rice alone we need other ingredients and spices to make the food nice and tasty. A cumulative 90k per month is a huge thing. But 3k per day looking at the above you will get your answer to that question. My advice to the woman is to talk to her husband if he can give her the 90k every month so that she can buy things in bulk. But bro 90k for food, people dey chop oo May we never be poor, Amen!! 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: HER HUSBAND DROPS ONLY 3k EVERYDAY FOR SHE AND HER TWO KIDS. PLEASE ADVISE HER by saintneo(m): 12:21pm On Sep 10, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3: If the money comes in bulk every month, they will live sufficiently. 90k and purchase lots of items, fill gas, etc. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: HER HUSBAND DROPS ONLY 3k EVERYDAY FOR SHE AND HER TWO KIDS. PLEASE ADVISE HER by Jewessgratitud3: 12:31pm On Sep 10, 2023 |
gaius01: Yes all these factors you mentioned are important and if considered will help one advise her accordingly. For someone with children, given the number of times children request food a day, it's not enough. So I think the woman has a good reason. I'm judging from the way my twin said her children come to her for food every now and then in a day. You can control hunger but not children. Before they disgrace you outside. |
Re: HER HUSBAND DROPS ONLY 3k EVERYDAY FOR SHE AND HER TWO KIDS. PLEASE ADVISE HER by Jewessgratitud3: 12:34pm On Sep 10, 2023 |
saintneo: Exactly what I suggested. Let him give her in bulk that way she'll shop for everything they'll be needing in a month and still have change for meat and fish in the course of the month. 4 Likes |
Re: HER HUSBAND DROPS ONLY 3k EVERYDAY FOR SHE AND HER TWO KIDS. PLEASE ADVISE HER by AlphaNugget(m): 2:07pm On Sep 10, 2023 |
These hoes are ungrateful, kings stay woke! 3 Likes 1 Share
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Re: HER HUSBAND DROPS ONLY 3k EVERYDAY FOR SHE AND HER TWO KIDS. PLEASE ADVISE HER by ExudeLoveToAll: 2:53pm On Sep 10, 2023 |
3k per day is approximately 100k per month, how much does she contribute ? If she does 1500k per day in a month it will amount to 45k making it a total of145k per month. People who don't contribute to family welfare find it very hard to decicer what the other party goes through to make sure food is on the table for the family.....They always feel like the other party isn't doing enough even when they are trying. 9 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: HER HUSBAND DROPS ONLY 3k EVERYDAY FOR SHE AND HER TWO KIDS. PLEASE ADVISE HER by ExudeLoveToAll: 2:58pm On Sep 10, 2023 |
MatrixReloaded: You don't start a statement with vulgar words. The guy simply meant that she should go ahead and see the other side of life if she thinks making money is easy as she portrays. That was just w figurative statement that has nothing to do with what you wrote up there You didn't understand his assertion but went ahead to abuse . 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: HER HUSBAND DROPS ONLY 3k EVERYDAY FOR SHE AND HER TWO KIDS. PLEASE ADVISE HER by Jozilinn: 2:59pm On Sep 10, 2023 |
The man is trying what of the one's that don't drop at all, the one that drops#500 and ask his wife to find what to add ontop 2 kids. Women are willing to help or support their husbands in this trying times but the way most men are doing I don't care but care about sex and money, leaving everything to the women to do... only God can help us because the more things increases the more some people's fatherhood vanishes. 3 Likes |
Re: HER HUSBAND DROPS ONLY 3k EVERYDAY FOR SHE AND HER TWO KIDS. PLEASE ADVISE HER by ExudeLoveToAll: 3:00pm On Sep 10, 2023 |
YouandiAllofus: It is but she isn't ready to sacrifice. It also isn't easy for the one making the money. She has to earn also in the family to make things better |
Re: HER HUSBAND DROPS ONLY 3k EVERYDAY FOR SHE AND HER TWO KIDS. PLEASE ADVISE HER by b3llo(m): 4:00pm On Sep 10, 2023 |
What does she want? |
Re: HER HUSBAND DROPS ONLY 3k EVERYDAY FOR SHE AND HER TWO KIDS. PLEASE ADVISE HER by Tallesty1(m): 4:54pm On Sep 10, 2023 |
N4.5k to N5K daily is enough for your family, your man already provides N3k so add the remaining N2k and stop disturbing us. |
Re: HER HUSBAND DROPS ONLY 3k EVERYDAY FOR SHE AND HER TWO KIDS. PLEASE ADVISE HER by Caaz: 5:36pm On Sep 10, 2023 |
What an ungrateful woman....if she's smart she can raise a good side business from that money. This is how entitled you become,when you think money falls from treetops. The man tried abeg... That's 90k per month. Someone should give that man a warm hug abeg. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: HER HUSBAND DROPS ONLY 3k EVERYDAY FOR SHE AND HER TWO KIDS. PLEASE ADVISE HER by Fahvvy: 7:37pm On Sep 10, 2023 |
If you check well now, that woman is jobless o .... SMH, people who don't work for shishi complain the most ... My only prayer is that, that man shouldn't take drastic actions against his wife, cause when a person feels unappreciated, even that seemingly small thing that they're doing will stop eventually ... 4 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: HER HUSBAND DROPS ONLY 3k EVERYDAY FOR SHE AND HER TWO KIDS. PLEASE ADVISE HER by Entanglement: 8:22pm On Sep 10, 2023 |
MatrixReloaded:ogaa! Una no sabi sacarsm Omo illiterate full this country ohh 1 Like |
Re: HER HUSBAND DROPS ONLY 3k EVERYDAY FOR SHE AND HER TWO KIDS. PLEASE ADVISE HER by MatrixReloaded: 8:38pm On Sep 10, 2023 |
Entanglement:Oya run and entangle with your illiterate parents |
Re: HER HUSBAND DROPS ONLY 3k EVERYDAY FOR SHE AND HER TWO KIDS. PLEASE ADVISE HER by Kobojunkie: 8:42pm On Sep 10, 2023 |
Phantom233:The 2 children should happily go hungry each day because their father who saw fit to birth them does not make enough to even feed them properly? |
Re: HER HUSBAND DROPS ONLY 3k EVERYDAY FOR SHE AND HER TWO KIDS. PLEASE ADVISE HER by Kobojunkie: 8:45pm On Sep 10, 2023 |
Patented:Why should she have to do that if her place in the marriage is as a homemaker and not as a provider? If she is to resort to taking on part of the husband's responsibility as the sole provider in the household, shouldn't it equally follow that the man shares in her responsibilities as a home maker? |
Re: HER HUSBAND DROPS ONLY 3k EVERYDAY FOR SHE AND HER TWO KIDS. PLEASE ADVISE HER by Kobojunkie: 8:46pm On Sep 10, 2023 |
eventainment:Good idea! Now if she seeks employment then it must also follow that the man equally shares in her former duties as a homemaker, right? With the economy as it is, traditional marriage settings ought to be thrown out the window completely for families to survive. |
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