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What immediately tells you that a person had a traumatic past?

labake1:
What immediately tells you that a person had a traumatic past?

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their reactions to certain things... people.... places....sounds.....smell......etc

There is this girl when I try touching her, or holding her hands perhaps touch her hair to remove a dirt, she gets jumpy , and later feel embarrased

labake1:
What immediately tells you that a person had a traumatic past?

When they ask strange questions out of the blues.

There's nothing as traumatic as being born in Nigeria.

iammo:
There is this girl when I try touching her, or holding her hands perhaps touch her hair to remove a dirt, she gets jumpy , and later feel embarrased

Oga she dosent like you and shes not feeling you.

Rayban25:
Oga she dosent like you and shes not feeling you.

That's not the case she likes me very much as she is my girlfriends cousin and like a mutual friend to me, platonic and not romantic


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iammo:
That's not the case she likes me very much as she is my girlfriends cousin and like a mutual friend to me, platonic and not romantic


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No matter how traumatized a lady is, if she truly likes you she will open up to you. Shes just not comfortable with you. And you already said your relationship is platonic so why trying to go the extra mile? She go soon cast you to your girlfriend

Quest to ‘blow.’

Rayban25:
No matter how traumatized a lady is, if she truly likes you she will open up to you. Shes just not comfortable with you. And you already said your relationship is platonic so why trying to go the extra mile? She go soon cast you to your girlfriend

Cast me for what?! At my age If I want to date I date if I want to fvck I carry Olosho, and if I want a female friend I have one

Na all this under 30s boys still dey reason all this cast whatever

The lady got molested at some point in her life by a respectable family member and since then she isn't same

This is someone if you raise your hands she feels you want to slap her


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iammo:
Cast me for what?! At my age If I want to date I date if I want to fvck I carry Olosho, and if I want a female friend I have one

Na all this under 30s boys still dey reason all this cast whatever

The lady got molested at some point in her life by a respectable family member and since then she isn't same

This is someone if you raise your hands she feels you want to slap her

Did we say you shouldn't do whatever?You're speaking long grammar. This is not about feeling macho.im talking about her cousin you're saying another thing.Let your girlfriend know that you're making moves at her cousin and see

With the way Rayban25 and iammo are going about this, I believe they must have had a traumatic past ...

Rayban25:
Did we say you shouldn't do whatever?You're speaking long grammar. This is not about feeling macho.im talking about her cousin you're saying another thing.Let your girlfriend know that you're making moves at her cousin and see

Are we talking about making moves or physical touch and being scared?!

What exactly do you think we are talking about

And both my Girlfriend and my cousin are in the same place whenever I engage her

Be like say some Nairalander just go dey look for stupid arguement up and down

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Fahvvy:
With the way Rayban25 and iammo are going about this, I believe they must have had a traumatic past ...

I tire oo I wonder wetin concern Rayban25 about me my girlfriend and her cousin

Topic is simply... Touch, truama and reaction

He dey cap nonsense

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iammo:
I tire oo I wonder wetin concern Rayban25 about me my girlfriend and cousin

Topic is simply... Touch, truama and reaction

He dey cap nonsense

Na lie you dey make some some sensual moves at her

Rayban25:
Na lie you dey make some some sensual moves at her

Oga rest

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Rayban25:
Oga she dosent like you and shes not feeling you.

Lol.. Take it easy nar

Rayban25:
Na lie you dey make some some sensual moves at her

E be like say you go like wahala o

They are often quiet and reserved.

Rayban25:
Na lie you dey make some some sensual moves at her

No mind the guy, u Dey go extra mile with your girlfriend cousin , u wan use scope bleep two of them , she no want am stop am

mariahAngel:
When they ask questions that seem strange.

But to them it's normal.

Zonefree:
There's nothing as traumatic as being born in Nigeria.

When someone is always talking ill about women. And always hateful, envious of successful people.

When they become over-secretive and insecure about alot of things
Those ones even deem it too much for them to tell u the minorest of things

Their general perception of everything and how they respond to it

When they're virgins and don't have boyfriend nor girlfriend

There are indicators. If you are interested in some tips on psychosocial support (PSS) Dm me

Once she is vile, mean and wicked, then she is likely a single mother or divorcee whose husband has moved on. No traumatic symptoms is bigger than what triggers the attitude seen in single mothers and divorcees. Nothing is worse than having a good man and then lose him to another vaginarian out of foolishness.

When every animal is a physical or spiritual threat to you.

Depends on the trauma.

If a person has been raped before, they get really uncomfortable with physical touch.

Zxcvbnmghtr:
When someone is always talking ill about women. And always hateful, envious of successful people.

He is bitter because a girl said she didn't like his igbo accent.

I just dished out one girl like that. She was boasting that she has had sex before. Behold, when I wanted to enter, she will close her legs and fridgeting as if I was touching her open wound. after many failed attempts. So I told her she is suffering from vaginismus. Which is as a result of post traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) she might have in her sxxual encounters. She denied that nothing like that existed.

So, I have to break up with her. After then She told that happened when she was in her 1st year in university. That a guy, her boyfriend friend wanted to rape her. Hmm, your boyfriend wanted to rape you, which made you to develop PTSD. Nawaoo, I told her you re too stingy. I can't date such your type,

galantjoe:
I just dished out one girl like that. She was boasting that she has had sex before. Behold, when I wanted to enter, she will close her legs and fridgeting as if I was touching her open wound. after many failed attempts. So I told her she is suffering from vaginismus. Which is as a result of post traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) she might have in her sxxual encounters. She denied that nothing like that existed.

So, I have to break up with her. After then She told that happened when she was in her 1st year in university. That a guy, her boyfriend friend wanted to rape her. Hmm, your boyfriend wanted to rape you, which made you to develop PTSD. Nawaoo, I told her you re too stingy. I can't date such your type,