iammo:


That's not the case she likes me very much as she is my girlfriends cousin and like a mutual friend to me, platonic and not romantic
.

I'm lost. Are you high? Did you not just write this below? Why would you be holding your girlfriend's cousin's hand? She's probably traumatized from men like you who think it is their right to touch them. I am stunned that you are typing this with seemingly a straight face. You seem to be the one not getting the message. If she is jumpy that is a hint to respect her space and body and stop touching her.

iammo:
There is this girl when I try touching her, or holding her hands perhaps touch her hair to remove a dirt, she gets jumpy , and later feel embarrased

Low self Esteem

Mosqy1205:
Low self Esteem

Turning many of them to introvert

Narcissistic behaviors are signs of childhood trauma

Two Spiritual Forces That Activate Greater Works.

Apostle Joshua Selman.

Listen And Remain Blessed.


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Zonefree:
There's nothing as traumatic as being born in Nigeria.

Being born a woman in Afghanistan?

iammo:


Cast me for what?! At my age If I want to date I date if I want to fvck I carry Olosho, and if I want a female friend I have one

Na all this under 30s boys still dey reason all this cast whatever

The lady got molested at some point in her life by a respectable family member and since then she isn't same

This is someone if you raise your hands she feels you want to slap her


.

you're valid

There reactions towards life in general

GodWrites:


Majority of them became introverted after a traumatic event.

That is true. But know that some people are Introverted by nature, not as a result of any Post traumatic event or incidence. Most introverts haven't even experience any traumatic incident before.

Fahvvy:
With the way Rayban25 and iammo are going about this, I believe they must have had a traumatic past ...

This one off me ooo🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

1. Fidgeting
2. Scars
3. Isolation
4.Anti social behavior
5. Untidiness
6. Addiction to drugs ( may or may not)

An easily irritable person

Zonefree:
There's nothing as traumatic as being born in Nigeria.

Titogbanski:
An easily irritable person

Not always true, some people are like that naturally, not really about their past.

pocohantas:


Definitely a traumatic past too.

True

Hassanmaye:

True

I used to be like that because one girl rejected My love now I understand live better.

Adewale1603:
That is true. But know that some people are Introverted by nature, not as a result of any Post traumatic event or incidence. Most introverts haven't even experience any traumatic incident before.

That's why I said majority, not all.

galantjoe:
I just dished out one girl like that. She was boasting that she has had sex before. Behold, when I wanted to enter, she will close her legs and fridgeting as if I was touching her open wound. after many failed attempts. So I told her she is suffering from vaginismus. Which is as a result of post traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) she might have in her sxxual encounters. She denied that nothing like that existed.

So, I have to break up with her. After then She told that happened when she was in her 1st year in university. That a guy, her boyfriend friend wanted to rape her. Hmm, your boyfriend wanted to rape you, which made you to develop PTSD. Nawaoo, I told her you re too stingy. I can't date such your type,

You just Dey talk nonsense

Rayban25:


No matter how traumatized a lady is, if she truly likes you she will open up to you. Shes just not comfortable with you. And you already said your relationship is platonic so why trying to go the extra mile? She go soon cast you to your girlfriend

he said she's a sister to his girlfriend. Abi you want make she tell am she's been raped before?

Rayban25:


Did we say you shouldn't do whatever?You're speaking long grammar. This is not about feeling macho.im talking about her cousin you're saying another thing.Let your girlfriend know that you're making moves at her cousin and see

Oga e don do.
You're over-assuming

labake1:
What immediately tells you that a person had a traumatic past?

Uncommon reaction to common actions

If I perceive the smell of crayfish.. It triggers the ooze of a smelly pu**sy

Opanka44:


I wonder why you should be touching and playing with her hair. As per what please? You're overstepping your boundaries Sir.

he said when he's trying to remove dirt...


Are u a dunce or something

galantjoe:
I just dished out one girl like that. She was boasting that she has had sex before. Behold, when I wanted to enter, she will close her legs and fridgeting as if I was touching her open wound. after many failed attempts. So I told her she is suffering from vaginismus. Which is as a result of post traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) she might have in her sxxual encounters. She denied that nothing like that existed. So, I have to break up with her. After then She told that happened when she was in her 1st year in university. That a guy, her boyfriend friend wanted to rape her. Hmm, your boyfriend wanted to rape you, which made you to develop PTSD. Nawaoo, I told her you re too stingy. I can't date such your type,

I will love to get your point clearly. Something similar is happening between me and my girlfriend. She actually told me she is a virgin that even though a guy once attempted to rape her but he couldn't penetrate so he let her go. She was willing to have sex with me but I couldn't penetrate too, I just wish to know better since you mentioned it. I don't understand the last part of your writing

nairamaniac:
what is your end game intention when you try to hold her hands or touch her?

For u to finally feel embarrassed, it means your mind wasn't clear.

Why would you want to touch her hair to remove dirt?

Can't u tell her the location of the dirth and allow her dust it off herself?



Is she handicap?

We don't understand



I later read that she's close to you and your gf.


All the same, there are better ways of communicating with someone you are not dating.

lol, seriously.


so I dey comot dirt for my niqqaz's head, I'm literally into him ..


jeez, I need to check myself.. I might be becoming faggotery ..


I'm going for deliverance service this Sunday , I need to cast out this demonic habit taking out dirt from a friend's hair / head ...

OnlyFiction:



I think it's the opposite.as "overtalking is more common among ladies

Overtalking with their fellow gender...yes! But they're always cautious with guys, even when overtalking, so they don't misyearn. Have you ever talked to a lady on key issues and she paused a while before responding? . Try it

Silentgroper:


lol, seriously.


so I dey comot dirt for my niqqaz's head, I'm literally into him ..


jeez, I need to check myself.. I might be becoming faggotery ..


I'm going for deliverance service this Sunday , I need to cast out this demonic habit taking out dirt from a friend's hair / head ...

D

Okay. You win.


Ur later post were more explanatory.


The babe needs to beore socialised and restall her confidence.

nairamaniac:


Okay. You win.


Ur later post were more explanatory.


The babe needs to beore socialised and restall her confidence.

I'm glad you my sarcasm and has now seen the light ..



tbh, your post was weird...

The lady is practically family to him.. she's a cousin to his gf ... taking out dirt from her doesn't mean anything.. even stroking her hair doesn't mean shiit ...

I do that to most of my female friends and I've got no romantic feelings towards them....

Zonefree:
There's nothing as traumatic as being born in Nigeria.

Hahaha!!!
My God o!

Fahvvy:
With the way Rayban25 and iammo are going about this, I believe they must have had a traumatic past ...

Lol...

emmyluizzz:
when the person tells you he/she is from Nigeria

Lol...