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Why Do Husbands Pay Full Price For What Bfs Got For Free?? by BigBashiru(op): 4:43pm On Sep 13, 2023
Never made sense to me....Why do husbands pay full price, bride price, expensive introductions, travelling hundreds of kilometers to see parents....for someone that was never truly theirs?? That boyfriends had for free without any of those processes?

I think marriages should just be mostly a celebration of God....
Re: Why Do Husbands Pay Full Price For What Bfs Got For Free?? by Nobody: 4:47pm On Sep 13, 2023
You had other people's wife for free so don't be pained, it's a cycle.

Only decent men deserves decent women
Re: Why Do Husbands Pay Full Price For What Bfs Got For Free?? by drake2(m): 4:55pm On Sep 13, 2023
BigBashiru:
Never made sense to me....Why do husbands pay full price, bride price, expensive introductions, travelling hundreds of kilometers to see parents....for someone that was never truly theirs?? That boyfriends had for free without any of those processes?

I think marriages should just be mostly a celebration of God....
Wow! Great probe!
Re: Why Do Husbands Pay Full Price For What Bfs Got For Free?? by Naijatask: 5:10pm On Sep 13, 2023
IconicR:
You had other people's wife for free so don't be pained, it's a cycle.

Only decent men deserves decent women
You just don't assume that everyone is a LovePeddler ma'am.

There are still chaste men and women around smiley
Re: Why Do Husbands Pay Full Price For What Bfs Got For Free?? by Gee64: 5:22pm On Sep 13, 2023
👏👏👏I'm clapping for you for being smart for once.
It's the Law of Karma. You must reap what you sowed.

After fvcking other men's would-be wives, you want to marry a virgin?
Na lie! You must marry a lady whose kpekus has been seriously bashed and battered too. An eye for an eye.

No decent man or woman in Nigeria. They are either retired oloshos or womanizers.
We are all guilty of flirtation.
It serves us right.....let the vicious circle continue!
IconicR:
You had other people's wife for free so don't be pained, it's a cycle.

Only decent men deserves decent women
Re: Why Do Husbands Pay Full Price For What Bfs Got For Free?? by Fahvvy: 6:37pm On Sep 13, 2023
Na the man loose guard na undecided...

You know she's a h.oe and yet you're still putting your head undecided...

I've said it before and I'll say it again, "The only females that are worth all this stress are well cultured virgin females, finish!" Every other female is ABSOLUTELY NOT WORTH IT AT ALLLLLLLL undecided...
Re: Why Do Husbands Pay Full Price For What Bfs Got For Free?? by Fahvvy: 6:40pm On Sep 13, 2023
IconicR:
You had other people's wife for free so don't be pained, it's a cycle.

Only decent men deserves decent women


It's funny how when it comes to the subject of Chasity, females are quick to use the "good for the goose, good for the gardner" line undecided...

But once it's the subject of responsibilities, they suddenly go dumb undecided...
Re: Why Do Husbands Pay Full Price For What Bfs Got For Free?? by Nobody: 6:42pm On Sep 13, 2023
Fahvvy:
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It's funny how when it comes to the subject of Chasity, females are quick to use the "good for the goose, good for the gardner" line undecided...

But once it's the subject of responsibilities, they suddenly go dumb undecided...
I'm pro chastity as I don't have problems with that but an Oloko giveaway can not be self entitled to wanting a chaste woman having taste several women and sexually reckless.
Re: Why Do Husbands Pay Full Price For What Bfs Got For Free?? by Nobody: 7:01pm On Sep 13, 2023
Which is why I don't give a fucck about marriage. I can't use my money and bring in snake into my home. Imagine spending over one million to marry someone with overused pussy who will repay you with nothing but wickedness and betrayal. I repeat, marriage in the South is for weak men and the evidence is there. Only Northern men should marry because many of them are not simps and their vaginarians are not as terrible as the vaginarians down South.

Re: Why Do Husbands Pay Full Price For What Bfs Got For Free?? by Fahvvy: 7:20pm On Sep 13, 2023
IconicR:
I'm pro chastity as I don't have problems with that but an Oloko giveaway can not be self entitled to wanting a chaste woman having taste several women and sexually reckless.
Entitled?

So how about women who say they want a rich men even when their name is "poverty", aren't they entitled? undecided...

Or women who can't even afford renting a room legitimately on their own, but yet are clamoring for a man who has a mansion, aren't they entitled? undecided...

You see the way you avoided the subject of responsibilities ba, how typical grin...

Like I said, when it comes to the subject of responsibility y'all females go dumb grin...

And ohhh...
The good for the goose, good for the gardner, should go both ways don't you think? grin...
Re: Why Do Husbands Pay Full Price For What Bfs Got For Free?? by Nyascobar1414: 1:07am On Sep 14, 2023
Only weak men marry embarassed

Re: Why Do Husbands Pay Full Price For What Bfs Got For Free?? by dontrulee: 1:13am On Sep 14, 2023
IconicR:
You had other people's wife for free so don't be pained, it's a cycle.

Only decent men deserves decent women
Unfortunately, it doesn't work that way Dear
Re: Why Do Husbands Pay Full Price For What Bfs Got For Free?? by dontrulee: 1:15am On Sep 14, 2023
Marriage is not worth it at all.
It's very disadvantageous to the Man
Re: Why Do Husbands Pay Full Price For What Bfs Got For Free?? by Nobody: 6:13am On Sep 14, 2023
dontrulee:
Unfortunately, it doesn't work that way Dear
How does it work
Re: Why Do Husbands Pay Full Price For What Bfs Got For Free?? by Goodlady(f): 6:18am On Sep 14, 2023
BigBashiru:
Never made sense to me....Why do husbands pay full price, bride price, expensive introductions, travelling hundreds of kilometers to see parents....for someone that was never truly theirs?? That boyfriends had for free without any of those processes?

I think marriages should just be mostly a celebration of God....
A sample of a man with low IQ.
Re: Why Do Husbands Pay Full Price For What Bfs Got For Free?? by SporaD8:
Fahvvy:
Entitled?

So how about women who say they want a rich men even when their name is "poverty", aren't they entitled? undecided...

Or women who can't even afford renting a room legitimately on their own, but yet are clamoring for a man who has a mansion, aren't they entitled? undecided...

You see the way you avoided the subject of responsibilities ba, how typical grin...

Like I said, when it comes to the subject of responsibility y'all females go dumb grin...

And ohhh...
The good for the goose, good for the gardner, should go both ways don't you think? grin...
To follow up on her logic as regard to Op, it should be - Oloko giveaway should marry olosho cheerful giver FREE OF CHARGE! : None entitlement is given nor taken!
On the on hand - Chaste Men should marry Virgins with all the PRIZES/PARCELS attached, that way both parties have struck an even bargain : No Entitlement; No shortchange!
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Re: Why Do Husbands Pay Full Price For What Bfs Got For Free?? by Fahvvy: 8:06am On Sep 14, 2023
SporaD8:
To follow up on her logic as regard to Op, it should be - Oloko giveaway should marry olosho cheerful giver FREE OF CHARGE! : None entitlement is given nor taken!
On the on hand - Chaste Men should marry Virgins with all the pride/price attached, that way both parties have struck an even bargain : No Entitlement; No shortchange!
This would only be valid if broke women genuinely accept to be with broke men not go about like headless chicken looking for rich men to leach from undecided...
Re: Why Do Husbands Pay Full Price For What Bfs Got For Free?? by Badmashii(m): 8:13am On Sep 14, 2023
Nonexisting1:
Which is why I don't give a fucck about marriage. I can't use my money and bring in snake into my home. Imagine spending over one million to marry someone with overused pussy who will repay you with nothing but wickedness and betrayal. I repeat, marriage in the South is for weak men and the evidence is there. Only Northern men should marry because many of them are not simps and their vaginarians are not as terrible as the vaginarians down South.
Broderly,you be correct manchi. Our girls up here in North are far better than those in south.

But either way,on top vagina people matter you still need to be careful mek you no loose guard.
Re: Why Do Husbands Pay Full Price For What Bfs Got For Free?? by YoungLionken(m): 8:17am On Sep 14, 2023
cheesy

You don't understand, there's more to a woman than just paying money. Most cases, the exes do the better part of the job in straightening the gurl, teaching them what they know..

Most times, those ex boyfriends succeed in training these girls to snap out of their childishness and be mature both in reasoning, words and action. That is, some ladies you see as wife materials now where once mannerless and childish, until they met the guy who conquered, disciplined and placed them where they truly belong. However, it didn't work for them but working for you. That's why, most of the brides miss and love their exes till date..
You as the husband (to be) wouldn't have considered such a lady for marriage, if you had met them in their early/childish stage. Believe me...
Re: Why Do Husbands Pay Full Price For What Bfs Got For Free?? by dontrulee: 9:33am On Sep 14, 2023
IconicR:
How does it work
Life is a variety and any combination is possible.
Decent + decent
Indecent+ decent
Indecent+ indecent.

If you want to be ahead and safe, know what you want and you're game grin grin
Re: Why Do Husbands Pay Full Price For What Bfs Got For Free?? by Nobody: 9:52am On Sep 14, 2023
dontrulee:
Life is a variety and any combination is possible.
Decent + decent
Indecent+ decent
Indecent+ indecent.

If you want to be ahead and safe, know what you want and you're game grin grin
You sef
I'm just looking at you with side eyes
Re: Why Do Husbands Pay Full Price For What Bfs Got For Free?? by dontrulee: 9:54am On Sep 14, 2023
IconicR:
You sef
I'm just looking at you with side eyes
Amma decent guy and you know that already.
Just not ready to settle down yet. Marriage is a dungeon grin grin
Re: Why Do Husbands Pay Full Price For What Bfs Got For Free?? by kunleiky(m): 10:21am On Sep 14, 2023
dontrulee:
Life is a variety and any combination is possible.
Decent + decent
Indecent+ decent
Indecent+ indecent.

If you want to be ahead and safe, know what you want and you're game grin grin
Lol
@Dontrulee, I replied your mail already.
Shoot please. I will attend to it
Re: Why Do Husbands Pay Full Price For What Bfs Got For Free?? by dontrulee: 10:28am On Sep 14, 2023
kunleiky:
Lol
@Dontrulee, I replied your mail already.
Shoot please. I will attend to it
Thank you Man, God bless 🙏
Re: Why Do Husbands Pay Full Price For What Bfs Got For Free?? by kunleiky(m): 10:32am On Sep 14, 2023
dontrulee:
Thank you Man, God bless 🙏
You're welcome
Re: Why Do Husbands Pay Full Price For What Bfs Got For Free?? by Nobody: 10:38am On Sep 14, 2023
dontrulee:
Amma decent guy and you know that already.
Just not ready to settle down yet. Marriage is a dungeon grin grin
Marriage is sweet
You just allow your past experience with women to overwhelm you
Re: Why Do Husbands Pay Full Price For What Bfs Got For Free?? by stacyadams: 11:13am On Sep 14, 2023
Nonexisting1:
Which is why I don't give a fucck about marriage. I can't use my money and bring in snake into my home. Imagine spending over one million to marry someone with overused pussy who will repay you with nothing but wickedness and betrayal. I repeat, marriage in the South is for weak men and the evidence is there. Only Northern men should marry because many of them are not simps and their vaginarians are not as terrible as the vaginarians down South.
That is why I have been telling evening newspapers to come and pay my groom price and marry..me.. I kannot use my money and marry vandalized ttoto grin
Re: Why Do Husbands Pay Full Price For What Bfs Got For Free?? by stacyadams: 11:16am On Sep 14, 2023
Badmashii:
Broderly,you be correct manchi. Our girls up here in North are far better than those in south.

But either way,on top vagina people matter you still need to be careful mek you no loose guard.
The great philosopher mosdii. once said"Nigerian girls are useless,all of them"

Whether north ,south or born in Yankee....just that some are more useless than the others grin
Re: Why Do Husbands Pay Full Price For What Bfs Got For Free?? by drake2(m): 11:37am On Sep 14, 2023
stacyadams:
That is why I have been telling evening newspapers to come and pay my groom price and marry..me.. I kannot use my money and marry vandalized ttoto grin
Lol!

I just tried to imagine what vandalization of emh.. emh.. would entail and the vandalized products are; And I just got a terrible headache.

Whyhuh
Re: Why Do Husbands Pay Full Price For What Bfs Got For Free?? by stacyadams: 11:52am On Sep 14, 2023
drake2:
Lol!

I just tried to imagine what vandalization of emh.. emh.. would entail and the vandalized products are; And I just got a terrible headache.

Whyhuh
Hahahaha
Re: Why Do Husbands Pay Full Price For What Bfs Got For Free?? by Purvan(m): 1:06pm On Sep 14, 2023
The only thing an agbadorian knows about a woman is kpekus .


Women are more than sex


A woman can uplift your life and your career

I've been a eye witness to woman that have helped my life

That year for uni way I no get shi shi even I get skill but I no day see jobs
na this girl refer me to her papa with all the pleadings , her papa with the connect go refer me to him friend way be top dawg for one tech company laikdait

Na so I begin intern for this large corp with this girl's help


She go come my house clean, cook gladly with her money , stock my fridge with items come day buy me presents every now and then , I go be like say I no be husband material again

Last last we had to break up because she was leaving to Sweden for her master's degree , but sha we still keep in touch through WhatsApp

No day take woman as intimacy gadget

Good women day

Re: Why Do Husbands Pay Full Price For What Bfs Got For Free?? by Blitzking: 2:19pm On Sep 14, 2023
Good observation..previous relationship messes up ladies they end up being jealous...paranoid...some loose being assertive..some develop unfemine traits..and some start being so called feminist for men it makes them players and they stop seeing the vaginaaaa as something special..and they start seeing that most women are the same if u look closely.. it simply messes ppl up but more for women
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