So there is this friend I have that is a 30 year old virgin that has been looking for a girl for 4 years and has not been successful. He grew up in the coventry and has never even dated a girl. You talk to him about women and he asks like he is 7! I tried playing match maker and put him on a date with one of my good friends. He said he won't date her because,"her family is ugly". What the hell? He is waiting for some "Ol' fine gal" to come around but it is sad because he has NO experience with women and I don't think many would give him the time of day. My 14 year old brother could get a girl before he can. I have never seen anything like it in my life. He can't even PRETEND to have even a little experience

What should I do for my friend? How should I help him? Because it is getting kind of annoying and I don't know what to do anymore with him

which "coventry" did he grow up in that didnt have women?

Altar boys are among the heaviest players on the planet.

@ poster pray for him,
with God all things are possible

very funny! well if u re available then give him the break he needs. but think about it he be playing u. am a man i kno hw difficult it is 2 tell a lady u ve neva gotten some. it is either of u is bin economical wit d truth.

    . . .personally I have reservations about ending up with such a guy! 

He must be a grumpy old young man. . .

ievbuomw:

So there is this friend I have that is a 30 year old virgin that has been looking for a girl for 4 years and has not been successful. He grew up in the coventry and has never even dated a girl. You talk to him about women and he asks like he is 7! I tried playing match maker and put him on a date with one of my good friends. He said he won't date her because,"her family is ugly". What the hell? He is waiting for some "Ol' fine gal" to come around but it is sad because he has NO experience with women and I don't think many would give him the time of day. My 14 year old brother could get a girl before he can. I have never seen anything like it in my life. He can't even PRETEND to have even a little experience

What should I do for my friend? How should I help him? Because it is getting kind of annoying and I don't know what to do anymore with him

Leave the guy alone.When he is 40 n lonely he will get serious!!

He won't change untill he starts having sex.

i dey laugh cos i am shocked this is hilarious story of the century

@thoniaslim, u r beautiful.

He should wait in the lord for 20 more years

Whats the big deal. If you never saw a football in your life you ll feel clumsy the first time you play. So you guys just chillout for the poor dude I beg Una.

I know you nairaland guys have got skills and swagger when it comes to hitting it off. But not every man has played football before and you might be sh coked to realise this fact. Just as you are shocked to know that the guy is a virgin at 30 with no dating experience.

Guy you must understand that the you are in for a real teaching job. You have to teach the guy o with plenty of examples. You have to approach girls and chat with them and let him watch from closeby. I no talk say toast them o! Just teach him how to get comfortable around chics and from there a romantic relationship can kick off. Otherwise he is on his own o!
I wasn't there when he remained a virgin for life. In which there is nothing wrong in that any way.

@poster: tell ur friend to go out more often, meet pple n relate(both guys n girls), it could be difficult @ first but if he is serious, there be results with time, it's up to him, however, if he is desperate about s** ashies r his best option 4 a start, which i dont advise, he has a choice

@op
there is no better person to teach him how to relate with a girl but you since you are a girl.

Oxone:

@op
there is no better person to teach him how to relate with a girl but you since you are a girl.

I have tried. I am married. I am just trying to help a friend. If I was single though, I would not have given him a chance honestly

dabriggs:

Whats the big deal. If you never saw a football in your life you ll feel clumsy the first time you play. So you guys just chillout for the poor dude I beg Una.

I know you nairaland guys have got skills and swagger when it comes to hitting it off. But not every man has played football before and you might be sh coked to realise this fact. Just as you are shocked to know that the guy is a virgin at 30 with no dating experience.

Guy you must understand that the you are in for a real teaching job. You have to teach the guy o with plenty of examples. You have to approach girls and chat with them and let him watch from closeby. I no talk say toast them o! Just teach him how to get comfortable around chics and from there a romantic relationship can kick off. Otherwise he is on his own o!
I wasn't there when he remained a virgin for life. In which there is nothing wrong in that any way.

Teaching a 30 year old man to be be confortable around women is not the easiest thing to do. He needs to practice but he acts like he's scared or something.

AEjiro:

very funny! well if u re available then give him the break he needs. but think about it he be playing u. am a man i kno hw difficult it is 2 tell a lady u ve neva gotten some. it is either of u is bin economical wit d truth.

Oh he's not playing. He is too unexperienced to be playing

emmm, take him to strip clubs, maybe when they shake some yansh meat in his face, he will wake up!

tpiah:

which "coventry" did he grow up in that didnt have women?

Altar boys are among the heaviest players on the planet.

T, any confession to make or you have anything to declare? i promise nothing will be taken against you.

Op abegg get heart open leg 4 am..... I'd b surprised hw experienced his inexperience is!! ;P