IconicR:
You had other people's wife for free so don't be pained, it's a cycle.

Only decent men deserves decent women

What a dumb thing to type

BigBashiru:
Never made sense to me....Why do husbands pay full price, bride price, expensive introductions, travelling hundreds of kilometers to see parents....for someone that was never truly theirs?? That boyfriends had for free without any of those processes?

I think marriages should just be mostly a celebration of God....

We "Rented" the bicycle and we paid "rent" price. You are buying the "bicycle for rent" dont get it for the price of new. Das all

Fahvvy:
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It's funny how when it comes to the subject of Chasity, females are quick to use the "good for the goose, good for the gardner" line ...

But once it's the subject of responsibilities, they suddenly go dumb ...

Right? It's like their skirts dont have pockets no more

dontrulee:
Marriage is not worth it at all.
It's very disadvantageous to the Man

Kai, Imagine from Men Who are the Pillars of the Society...

Which one is not advantageous?

DonroxyII:
Kai, Imagine from Men Who are the Pillars of the Society...

Which one is not advantageous?

There are good ones around but make we no lie, majority of marriages are just wash.

dontrulee:


There are good ones around but make we no lie, majority of marriages are just wash.

That's Because Majority of Men are Wash in My Own View .... Once a Manager Lose Control of His Captain, You Will Lose Control of Your Team Definitely....

A Man's Duty to Me is to Find all The Plays In the Book & Off The Book to Ensure His "Home" Works .... But Na ...

Fvck is Cheap Nowadays, We all wanna fvck Aside & Still blame same women we re fvcking for the Consequences of Our Actions ....

YoungLionken:


You don't understand, there's more to a woman than just paying money. Most cases, the exes do the better part of the job in straightening the gurl, teaching them what they know..

Most times, those ex boyfriends succeed in training these girls to snap out of their childishness and be mature both in reasoning, words and action. That is, some ladies you see as wife materials now where once mannerless and childish, until they met the guy who conquered, disciplined and placed them where they truly belong. However, it didn't work for them but working for you. That's why, most of the brides miss and love their exes till date..
You as the husband (to be) wouldn't have considered such a lady for marriage, if you had met them in their early/childish stage. Believe me...

Training them by slacking their vaginas abi?

DonroxyII:
That's Because Majority of Men are Wash in My Own View .... Once a Manager Lose Control of His Captain, You Will Lose Control of Your Team Definitely....

A Man's Duty to Me is to Find all The Plays In the Book & Off The Book to Ensure His "Home" Works .... But Na ...

Fvck is Cheap Nowadays, We all wanna fvck Aside & Still blame same women we re fvcking for the Consequences of Our Actions ....

You're right, marriage is hardwork

BigBashiru:
Never made sense to me....Why do husbands pay full price, bride price, expensive introductions, travelling hundreds of kilometers to see parents....for someone that was never truly theirs?? That boyfriends had for free without any of those processes?

I think marriages should just be mostly a celebration of God....

This opinion is just nonsense and shitty. Yet another man with misogynistic opinion about women and women's sexuality.

BigBashiru:
Never made sense to me....Why do husbands pay full price, bride price, expensive introductions, travelling hundreds of kilometers to see parents....for someone that was never truly theirs?? That boyfriends had for free without any of those processes?

I think marriages should just be mostly a celebration of God....

Because they get to have it for a lifetime.

YoungLionken:


You don't understand, there's more to a woman than just paying money. Most cases, the exes do the better part of the job in straightening the gurl, teaching them what they know..

Most times, those ex boyfriends succeed in training these girls to snap out of their childishness and be mature both in reasoning, words and action. That is, some ladies you see as wife materials now where once mannerless and childish, until they met the guy who conquered, disciplined and placed them where they truly belong. However, it didn't work for them but working for you. That's why, most of the brides miss and love their exes till date..
You as the husband (to be) wouldn't have considered such a lady for marriage, if you had met them in their early/childish stage. Believe me...

And how to suck dick properly

dontrulee:


You're right, marriage is hardwork

Smart-Hardwork ....
You have wife & your Children Depending on Your Manliness to Sire them to Success ....

You must be Smart to get them there ... To make them fall in Line ..!

I have touched on this in my post where I debunked the "make money and women will come" scam.

https://www.nairaland.com/7465815/make-money-women-come

Merry100:

Because they get to have it for a lifetime.

But it's a significantly depreciated asset. Im better off just having a series of girlfriends....

aisha1314:


This opinion is just nonsense and shitty. Yet another man with misogynistic opinion about women and women's sexuality.

Lol at your allegations.

All I'm saying is these days it's better to have both girlfriends and wives....girls express their sexuality in both scenarios...

aisha1314:


This opinion is just nonsense and shitty. Yet another man with misogynistic opinion about women and women's sexuality.

A woman is free to sleep around if that's what she wants.....but she can't later expect a man (husband) to bear her financial expenses for a lifetime and shouldnt expect the husband to focus on only her....that's all I'm saying.....

Kipaji:
I have touched on this in my post where I debunked the "make money and women will come" scam.

https://www.nairaland.com/7465815/make-money-women-come

Il read and comment but here's a quick summary of some points I want you to know based on my experience speaking to soooo many babes:

1. Not every woman even likes the idea of marriage.
2. Husband is largely a religious construct that has outlived its usefulness....Today most women at a young age have no regard for their future Husband because there's no real need for a Husband except maybe money....everyother thing can be gotten from a boyfriend....
3. Many women look at how much demand/interest they are getting from guys, and then from that postpone the age at which they want to get married.....I met a girl at 20 who was getting lots of interest...based on the level of interest she was getting she said she would get married around 26....when she starts to decline....in between obviously she would hv flings....
4. Many young 18-24 girls receive so much overwhelming attention....if it was you will you settle down even when you are receiving so much attention... be honest....
5. Some girls noticing how in demand they are start dating multiple guys to maximize the sexual pleasure....

Hence a man desirous of a younger female should be comfortable with the idea of flings.

Kipaji:
I have touched on this in my post where I debunked the "make money and women will come" scam.

https://www.nairaland.com/7465815/make-money-women-come

Also from deductive and empirical reasoning, marriage is not women's preferred type of relationship....if it were, they will be rushing it at younger ages....which is why I said marriage is a religious construct and I would even argue it has outlived its usefulness in its traditional form....some young girls I've met as early as 19 hv questioned the point of marriage and for rational reasons....when a woman has moni that becomes another strong reason for them not to get married.

BigBashiru:


Il read and comment but here's a quick summary of some points I want you to know based on my experience speaking to soooo many babes:

1. Not every woman even likes the idea of marriage.
2. Husband is largely a religious construct that has outlived its usefulness....Today most women at a young age have no regard for their future Husband because there's no real need for a Husband except maybe money....everyother thing can be gotten from a boyfriend....
3. Many women look at how much demand/interest they are getting from guys, and then from that postpone the age at which they want to get married.....I met a girl at 20 who was getting lots of interest...based on the level of interest she was getting she said she would get married around 26....when she starts to decline....in between obviously she would hv flings....
4. Many young 18-24 girls receive so much overwhelming attention....if it was you will you settle down even when you are receiving so much attention... be honest....
5. Some girls noticing how in demand they are start dating multiple guys to maximize the sexual pleasure....

Hence a man desirous of a younger female should be comfortable with the idea of flings.

I believe that most women don't want marriages. They just like the (emotional and financial) security it provides and the social benefits. When you truly want something in life, you strive for it.
Now, how many women do you see doing their very best to become the best wife they can be? How many of them, through their actions and behavior, try to make themselves marriageable? How many of them preserve themselves so that they can be a pride for their future man? How many of them crave to be under a man's leadership?

BigBashiru:


Also from deductive and empirical reasoning, marriage is not women's preferred type of relationship....if it were, they will be rushing it at younger ages....which is why I said marriage is a religious construct and I would even argue it has outlived its usefulness in its traditional form....some young girls I've met as early as 19 hv questioned the point of marriage and for rational reasons....when a woman has moni that becomes another strong reason for them not to get married.

And what will this society become as men and women are moving away from marriage?

And what about the kids? Marriage is probably the best environment for kids to grow up in, ceteris paribus. A lot of kids growing up in unstable household is damaging for the society.

Kipaji:


And what will this society become as men and women are moving away from marriage?

And what about the kids? Marriage is probably the best environment for kids to grow up in, ceteris paribus. A lot of kids growing up in unstable household is damaging for the society.

I don't think ppl who grow up without both parents damages them...that's tantamount to saying a child whose father or mother dies will be damaged cos of that....

BigBashiru:


I don't think ppl who grow up without both parents damages them...that's tantamount to saying a child whose father or mother dies will be damaged cos of that....

I don't think that, either. I am saying in the general case. I know people who grew up without both parents and developed better that those who did.

BigBashiru:


But it's a significantly depreciated asset. Im better off just having a series of girlfriends....

Why refer to women as assets? You fit the role of a current asset.

If you decide to become a community dick and hire a series of women as your girlfriends, until they retire to become other men's wives, they will consider you an appreciated asset because you are simply a current asset to them. Current assets are cash and other assets that are expected to be converted to cash within a year.

IconicR:
I'm pro chastity as I don't have problems with that but an Oloko giveaway can not be self entitled to wanting a chaste woman having taste several women and sexually reckless.

Address the question, don't you know to answer questions correctly? I'm paraphrasing, 'Why are women dumb when it is responsibilities but go Gaga when chastity is talked about'