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Re: Need Help: Degenerate Older Brother Traumatizing Parents by HardBishop: 2:17pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
Matrix137:U see when theres tough deliverance troubles, una go find MFM but go do Thanksgiving for orthodox church. I see hypocrisy 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Need Help: Degenerate Older Brother Traumatizing Parents by Hanndye: 2:17pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
Well that your brother is a hard nut to crack and a resident terror. Find out if he's on drugs or perhaps he has a mental disorder. |
Re: Need Help: Degenerate Older Brother Traumatizing Parents by illicit(m): 2:18pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
Eliminate him |
Re: Need Help: Degenerate Older Brother Traumatizing Parents by sirjoggy(m): 2:19pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
Hmmm |
Re: Need Help: Degenerate Older Brother Traumatizing Parents by greypencils: 2:20pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
Na God dey have mercy on first born sons. They are either very very sharp, responsible in which other siblings look up to OR the total opposite, sluggish, not willing to learn, slower than the rest of his siblings, grossly underperforming or just generally a trouble to the family. I rarely see just a regular first born son. |
Re: Need Help: Degenerate Older Brother Traumatizing Parents by Tzar(m): 2:21pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
Why can’t you report him to law enforcement and even pay the police to harass him back. Na craze dem dey take cure craze! At 40yrs, he cannot be changed again by pacifism, as his character is already set. You people are spoiling him too much! Consistently settle police or army to get him out of your father’s hair. If he is alone and outside the family , those that will calm him down are waiting for him. Na parents go chase troublesome pikin & not catch him, if you engage a stranger, that pikin go know say khaki no be leather! Some people were created to deal with people like this… involve them ASAP! Tetrisbiz: 1 Like |
Re: Need Help: Degenerate Older Brother Traumatizing Parents by louken(m): 2:23pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
He needs a psychiatrist. He's battling with some mental issues 2 Likes |
Re: Need Help: Degenerate Older Brother Traumatizing Parents by Hanndye: 2:25pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
RevDesm0ndJuju:Dey play. So na only Ibos have 'resident terrors'!? 1 Like |
Re: Need Help: Degenerate Older Brother Traumatizing Parents by Mindlog: 2:29pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
talented321: He is fundamentally not responsible, he detests the fact his siblings are doing better and even if his siblings sends him abroad, he will end up in prison there. 3 Likes |
Re: Need Help: Degenerate Older Brother Traumatizing Parents by GboyegaD(m): 2:30pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
How was he raised? Was he always given a preferential treatment and all his request granted? There is the need for a very deep thinking to identify the source of the problem. Once you identify it, use that as the stepping stone to finding the best way to manage the situation. 1 Like |
Re: Need Help: Degenerate Older Brother Traumatizing Parents by descarado: 2:31pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
You and your parents enabled him. Goodluck. |
Re: Need Help: Degenerate Older Brother Traumatizing Parents by sylve11: 2:33pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
omoredia: Sensible comment. @op, check this comment out. Most first born are like that. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Need Help: Degenerate Older Brother Traumatizing Parents by sylve11: 2:35pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
Re: Need Help: Degenerate Older Brother Traumatizing Parents by illicit(m): 2:36pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
Re: Need Help: Degenerate Older Brother Traumatizing Parents by AllBlack: 2:50pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
omoredia: and you are sure this is the truth because you are a member of their family |
Re: Need Help: Degenerate Older Brother Traumatizing Parents by oyebanji(m): 2:54pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
Arrange for community boys to touch him briefly and twice... |
Re: Need Help: Degenerate Older Brother Traumatizing Parents by Questionnaires(m): 2:54pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
talented321: @Op, Read This Very Clearly and Think Carefully Before Acting. This is Really A Loud Thought. Why Not Take Your Brother out of The Country instead of Using Police on Him ? He is Degenerate because He is Deeply Sour and Considers Himself as A Failure When His Younger Ones Are Doing Great and Maybe Abroad. He Degenerate Brother Obviously thinks of "Travelling Out of The Country as A Great Achievement". If it takes you to talk to him to take him abroad, you'll see that you'll be able to buy time to make him start behaving righteous again with Family Members. Let Him know it will just take about 3 to 6 months for his Visa and Necessary Things to be done. He will be calm psychologically. And He would start to behave well. Then, You All Find A Way To Advance Him To A Country of His Choice. Things will Change for Him because He Would Be on A Better Frame of Mind in A Saber Environment. |
Re: Need Help: Degenerate Older Brother Traumatizing Parents by flokii: 3:00pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
@OP That brother of yours is a drug addict.. na so dem be, complete menace to their family and society. This is why we condemn drug trafficking and drug abuse in the strongest of terms cos it brings immeasurable pains and trauma to family members of those who take them.. na where Igbo people dey derive joy pass be that. |
Re: Need Help: Degenerate Older Brother Traumatizing Parents by UnfairLife7(m): 3:02pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
Mindlog:I beg to disagree. There are tons of first son whose younger siblings are doing pretty fine and they didn't constitute nuisance. |
Re: Need Help: Degenerate Older Brother Traumatizing Parents by Gajagojo: 3:04pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
sylve11: Maybe in your community in mine the opposite is the case All the first borns are leaders Nigerians sometimes reason like subhuman Very illogical and superstitious. In your entire life since the day you were born have you followed the lives of 10000 first borns up till age 40? Compared to the billions of first borns in the world? When you engage your brain you would realise how stupid you sound . But then using the brain is a habit and most people don't have that habit 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Need Help: Degenerate Older Brother Traumatizing Parents by laivwire(m): 3:05pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
Like someone said, if you involve the police, he will be released and he can do something worse that may lead to death of a family member or outsider. Involve the village and let him be warned that the next time it is reported he laid hands on his parents, he will be beaten to pulp by the village youths and eventually banished from the community never to return. You can also toe the path of a restraining order claiming he's a threat to life. If he is ever spotted near your parents house, he should be arrested and detained. Enough is enough. 2 Likes |
Re: Need Help: Degenerate Older Brother Traumatizing Parents by goody234: 3:10pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
You guys have been encouraging this behaviour for a long time ...he now feels entitled!! you better deal with it before it gets out of hand i would lock him in a police cell for a day or two as a reality check ...stop encouraging his nonsense |
Re: Need Help: Degenerate Older Brother Traumatizing Parents by josite: 3:15pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
U also need help if you the undegenerated brother do not know after reading this you should start prayer and fasting. |
Re: Need Help: Degenerate Older Brother Traumatizing Parents by Oyerinde16(m): 3:15pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
My dear... police like this kind of case... get the nearest police station, call the door and explain... send something for mobilisation... when police pick him up eh... they will just touch him small, he will never disturb ur parents again... One of my babe elder brother come de misbehave inside her house for estate... around 2am, she called me to hear how her brother was shouting and disturbing the peace of the whole area, telling her to give him money... when I drove down the guy was holding cutlass standing by her room door, As early as 6am I carry estate police come, they refused us carrying him with car, after couple of hot slaps, they locked him up for two days then walked him to the gate and told him never ever come back to the estate... they told him if he comes back and they see him or her is reported he should take whatever he see... till this day, over 1 yr he never come back to the estate. .. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Need Help: Degenerate Older Brother Traumatizing Parents by Strategichomes: 3:17pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
Kubwa12B:interested in this 1 Like |
Re: Need Help: Degenerate Older Brother Traumatizing Parents by PlayerMeji: 3:18pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
Jejely, rent an apartment for your parents and leave him in the village. He will surely take care of himself! Tetrisbiz: |
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