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how old are you with brains of toddler? His parent mosquitoes? Foolish comment from a goat

He just told him the truth, in short you acted more childish than he did. It is worst than that even. If the first son got married and never had a son before he died and later the wife got her self pregnant and bear a son that son takes every thing, he is the first son. unfortunately that is the truth

Legally:

In law, does being a first child give you access to the properties in the absence of a will?

Consult the law/constitution.


Personally :


But I believe what's going to happen is for your day to get back all the spent on renovation after these properties are valued before any splitting/sharing.

Peter532:
Hello all,
My dad immediate elder brother who went to south africa in the 90s is back to drag their parents property claiming to be the first son.

This is someone who after he travelled only came back once and never bothered about the affair's of the family.

Their father my grandfather died 2005 he was no where to be found. my grand mother died 2018 still nothing from him.

No contributions whatever even while their parents was still alive.

He cut all sort of communications with them and now he's back to lay claim on the properties.

The family is angry but some of the elders in the extended family are getting on is side claiming he's still the senior he was never disowned but they can't say it out though.

It's obvious he came back with almost nothing and felt laying claims on their parent property is the back up plan

No will was written and some of the old buildings has been reconstructed from the scratch by my father and yet someone is laying claim on it.

I will like to know how this will go because my father is ready to fight this with his last strength and we the children are firmly behind him

Do you know if the dude was in jail? .

IconicR:
No will was written and that means your father has no case

He wasn't disowned either, so the elders are right.

You father should negotiate and share the properties. Nothing to gain in killing yourself over something you can acquire on your own if you do the needful

Is he not a child of the property owner?

Give his his due! And ur father can be compensated for the upkeep,.

Truth of the matter, the property is not your dad's solely. It would be made more sense if your dad had spent money building his own house and not that owned by his father. There are other siblings that have claim to your grandfather's property.
Even you can only inherit the share of your fathers part of you grandfather's property
Way forward. Likely those properties will be sold and everyone get an equal share. The cost of expenses ie renovations you dad spent on the place will be in covered with the fact he lived there, after all if the place was rented out, the building would have made money to renovate.
Never spend personal money on family house unless it is a dash or agreed to by all parties.

Peter532:
Hello all,
My dad immediate elder brother who went to south africa in the 90s is back to drag their parents property claiming to be the first son.

This is someone who after he travelled only came back once and never bothered about the affair's of the family.

Their father my grandfather died 2005 he was no where to be found. my grand mother died 2018 still nothing from him.

No contributions whatever even while their parents was still alive.

He cut all sort of communications with them and now he's back to lay claim on the properties.

The family is angry but some of the elders in the extended family are getting on is side claiming he's still the senior he was never disowned but they can't say it out though.

It's obvious he came back with almost nothing and felt laying claims on their parent property is the back up plan

No will was written and some of the old buildings has been reconstructed from the scratch by my father and yet someone is laying claim on it.

I will like to know how this will go because my father is ready to fight this with his last strength and we the children are firmly behind him

So because he never showed up when his parents died means he has no right over his parents property….


Do not rob him off his right, his absence has nothing to do with the property, just has your parents have rights over the property, he has full right over it as well, he won’t have the right if the owner has will but since there’s no will, he has rights over the property…

The property should be sold and all liabilities due from your uncle(especially as it concerns their parents burial) should be deducted before giving him his share

Peter532:
Hello all,
My dad immediate elder brother who went to south africa in the 90s is back to drag their parents property claiming to be the first son.

This is someone who after he travelled only came back once and never bothered about the affair's of the family.

Their father my grandfather died 2005 he was no where to be found. my grand mother died 2018 still nothing from him.

No contributions whatever even while their parents was still alive.

He cut all sort of communications with them and now he's back to lay claim on the properties.

The family is angry but some of the elders in the extended family are getting on is side claiming he's still the senior he was never disowned but they can't say it out though.

It's obvious he came back with almost nothing and felt laying claims on their parent property is the back up plan

No will was written and some of the old buildings has been reconstructed from the scratch by my father and yet someone is laying claim on it.

I will like to know how this will go because my father is ready to fight this with his last strength and we the children are firmly behind him

#justice for property

Since you didn't mention your tribe, it becomes a bit difficult to attempt a proper analysis.
However an elder brother is an elder brother.
Your dad should calm down and engage his brother in dialogue.
Being ready to fight isn't the way to go.

Or maybe whatever he was doing all these years wasn't legit.

I mean a person can't be in a foreign country for more than 30 years and come back empty handed if whatever he was doing there was legit.

Kobicove:
He was probably loafing around

Make una sofri dey fight for property o.


There is no will stating that the property belongs to your father, so there is no fight to begin with. He is the first son, so traditionally the property belongs to him.

Peter532:
Hello all,
My dad immediate elder brother who went to south africa in the 90s is back to drag their parents property claiming to be the first son.

This is someone who after he travelled only came back once and never bothered about the affair's of the family.

Their father my grandfather died 2005 he was no where to be found. my grand mother died 2018 still nothing from him.

No contributions whatever even while their parents was still alive.

He cut all sort of communications with them and now he's back to lay claim on the properties.

The family is angry but some of the elders in the extended family are getting on is side claiming he's still the senior he was never disowned but they can't say it out though.

It's obvious he came back with almost nothing and felt laying claims on their parent property is the back up plan

No will was written and some of the old buildings has been reconstructed from the scratch by my father and yet someone is laying claim on it.

I will like to know how this will go because my father is ready to fight this with his last strength and we the children are firmly behind him

Ibo people sef


That your useless uncle was probably in prison all these years sef

He cut all sort of communications with them and now he's back to lay claim on the properties.

Person wey been dey prison


Lol

Exodus15v11:
If your father has documents as proof that he reconstructed them, then they are his. Your obviously-broke Uncle is no different from a thief trying to reap where he didn't sow.

But they jointly own the land because it belongs to their father.

jamesversion:
But he is still the first son na.

No offence, but your father should have properties of his own. Tradition is on the side of your uncle.

If you like carry my old rusty car go mechanic and turn it brand new, it remains mine.

.it Is What It is,,,,, Common Sense

jamesversion:
But he is still the first son na.

No offence, but your father should have properties of his own. Tradition is on the side of your uncle.

If you like carry my old rusty car go mechanic and turn it brand new, it remains mine.

.it Is What It is,,,,, Common Sense.

This is nicely put.

What about your father's juju to keep him there finally fade off and he's back to claim his right?

Peter532:
Hello all,
My dad immediate elder brother who went to south africa in the 90s is back to drag their parents property claiming to be the first son.

This is someone who after he travelled only came back once and never bothered about the affair's of the family.

Their father my grandfather died 2005 he was no where to be found. my grand mother died 2018 still nothing from him.

No contributions whatever even while their parents was still alive.

He cut all sort of communications with them and now he's back to lay claim on the properties.

The family is angry but some of the elders in the extended family are getting on is side claiming he's still the senior he was never disowned but they can't say it out though.

It's obvious he came back with almost nothing and felt laying claims on their parent property is the back up plan

No will was written and some of the old buildings has been reconstructed from the scratch by my father and yet someone is laying claim on it.

I will like to know how this will go because my father is ready to fight this with his last strength and we the children are firmly behind him

Peter532:
Hello all,
My dad immediate elder brother who went to south africa in the 90s is back to drag their parents property claiming to be the first son.

This is someone who after he travelled only came back once and never bothered about the affair's of the family.

Their father my grandfather died 2005 he was no where to be found. my grand mother died 2018 still nothing from him.

No contributions whatever even while their parents was still alive.

He cut all sort of communications with them and now he's back to lay claim on the properties.

The family is angry but some of the elders in the extended family are getting on is side claiming he's still the senior he was never disowned but they can't say it out though.

It's obvious he came back with almost nothing and felt laying claims on their parent property is the back up plan

No will was written and some of the old buildings has been reconstructed from the scratch by my father and yet someone is laying claim on it.

I will like to know how this will go because my father is ready to fight this with his last strength and we the children are firmly behind him

If you are of Igbo persuasion, the family house belongs to the South African returnee. End of case

Klass99:
A very useless first son who provided no value whatsoever. Why should such a person inherit or lay claim to any properties, solely on the basis of being a first son?

We have some very messed up traditions that cause more harm than good, which need to be thrown away. Is it not men who created these traditions? Can the same men not undo them, if they really wish to?

Unlike you I mean every offence when I say (not to you specifically) that the useless first son should have stayed gone and never returned or reappeared to claim property.

What is wrong with some children sef? Are your hands broken or is your brain malfunctioning to a point where you cannot build or acquire properties of your own, without looking to grab what your parents had?

One man is useless while the other man sits unlawfully on the 'useless' man's property. Are they not on the same boat?

As long as there was no will, the man has a right to his father's properties. The family should come together and give him his share.

Klass99:
If I were your father I will simply undo every renovation work done on properties he is laying claim to and let him have them, after I have returned said properties to their former state and status. I hate nonsense and stupidity sha.

The argument may be that he lived there or benefited from commercial use of the place which should cover for the cost of renovations.

You and your father most be very greedy

Give the man his part of the

tunwumi:
This is nicely put.

What about your father's juju to keep him there finally fade off and he's back to claim his right?

ForChrist1:
One man is useless while the other man sits unlawfully on the 'useless' man's property. Are they not on the same boat?

As long as there was no will, the man has a right to his father's properties. The family should come together and give him his share.

ChiefJusticeFuc:
He cut all sort of communications with them and now he's back to lay claim on the properties.

Person wey been dey prison


Lol

The guys commenting on this 3rd page are crazy!!!

You guys are hilarious and maybe not far from the truth.

Peter532:
Hello all,
My dad immediate elder brother who went to south africa in the 90s is back to drag their parents property claiming to be the first son.

This is someone who after he travelled only came back once and never bothered about the affair's of the family.

Their father my grandfather died 2005 he was no where to be found. my grand mother died 2018 still nothing from him.

No contributions whatever even while their parents was still alive.

He cut all sort of communications with them and now he's back to lay claim on the properties.

The family is angry but some of the elders in the extended family are getting on is side claiming he's still the senior he was never disowned but they can't say it out though.

It's obvious he came back with almost nothing and felt laying claims on their parent property is the back up plan

No will was written and some of the old buildings has been reconstructed from the scratch by my father and yet someone is laying claim on it.

I will like to know how this will go because my father is ready to fight this with his last strength and we the children are firmly behind him

Your a good son.your father be proud of you.As you are fighting for what is not yours Buy a COFFIN,not just yours but all involved,your father elder brother is not dead and you wishing him dead,NWOKE OKPARA IS OKPARA.if there is no will,make a way,before u refurbish a family house as I did ,my broda did is a personal input not general.

WORST lease the house your father make his claims on expenses not on house and it deducted gradually but if you guys stubborn u follow the Stubborn fly enter grave.
If you don travel outside Naija you go understand,you think any sane man can stay outside home 37yrs, some one was in prison 36 years for drugs cooling and you fighting his right boy RIP IN ADVANCE.
That house all he got.

jamesversion:
But he is still the first son na.

No offence, but your father should have properties of his own. Tradition is on the side of your uncle.

If you like carry my old rusty car go mechanic and turn it brand new, it remains mine.

Truth always bitter, I don laff tire 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

tunwumi:
This is nicely put.

What about your father's juju to keep him there finally fade off and he's back to claim his right?

😂😂😂


Another angle

This could be true too tho

Peter532:
My father has properties of his own. thank you.

Then you and your father are greedy lots. There's love in sharing, since your father have his own why drag what rightfully belongs to first son?

Tradition is Tradition!

Samantha124:
It seems like they spent his money and dumped him when he went broke...

Now he's fighting over his father's property when he should be having property of his own.

He was busy following Samantha124 and other SA girls.
In Samantha124 voice"Baby, send me money"
"Baby, lets go to shoprite"
"Baby, let's take the 🐱 to the vet clinic "
"Baby, Follow me to my Pap smear session "😂

Now, he's back to Nigeria with no Rands in his pocket just because of Samantha124😂
Fear Samantha124

IconicR:
No will was written and that means your father has no case

He wasn't disowned either, so the elders are right.

You get sence man this is to say when ever you have such a case like this please try and build your own property instead . that man should vacate the house because the landlord is back no body ask him to matain property that he do not have

Peter532

If your uncle wants a house, give him two. Problem solved.

You're chasing the wind if you drag things with him.

He has come back a failure and probably shame. He needs some empathy.

God will bless you far more than whatever you lose.

Winters23:
Then you and your father are greedy lots. There's love in sharing, since your father have his own why drag what rightfully belongs to first son?

Tradition is Tradition!

Shikina no case submission by the junior brother of Adam