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Many people just be yapping and condemning the woman without having any information or close knowledge of the man in the topic.

Wos wobi, Baba is as exactly as described. Based on up close information from one of his concubines who happens to be a family, the woman knows well what she is talking about.

And the way Baba is said to be is exactly how a certain wealthy man I know behaves. It must only be their face and voice, only one to be revered, no one must question their authority. If you ever get in there black book, it simply takes God's grace for your life to be spared.

Nobody can convince me that this woman is wrong and talking out of hate. She only voiced out because of her offsprings and because she feels that at this point, if Baba cant useless her life all this past years then he cant now.

What arrant nonesense

madam taiwo if you are truly the one that writes all these about your ex husband in retaliation for what he did and said about you.u are a very bad wife.

meum:
I might not be on the same side with Baba on some issues but the question I ask is this: Ma, Why you put mouth for matter wey no concern you? Shebi you dump Baba? Which one come be your own for him matter? Abi you don Dey miss Baba? 😂😂😂

With respect Ma, you shouldn’t have apologize on his behalf since you are not his wife anymore. Nobody would have blamed you.

Nawa o, she apologized on behalf of her children she bore for him, didn't you read the post, how many people on here lack comprehension because it's like almost every body is asking why she apologized, when you have children for someone you are linked for life, your children will be affected physically and spiritually by whatever the man does, but now she has apologize it will be on record so that her children does not suffer for the sin of their father. Obasanjo will not live forever you know.

whippersnapper:
if a whole obasanjo could be served breakfast. who i be

Lol🤣🤣🤣, even me I'm shocked, that's the power of a woman, what a General in the Army cannot do.

franchasofficia:
Normally, Yoruba men are not known for taking good care of their wife once they become rich and powerful. A typical Yoruba man isn't wired to take good care of his wife and kids, only few who have mixed with other tribes and races behave better.



Obasanjo is an accomplished man but maritally, he didn't do well, maybe because of the Yoruba male gene factor in him.


If you doubt me, check all the rich and influential Yoruba men you know, all of them have dysfunctional marriage, the younger Yoruba guys should try hard and address this. And it gets worst when a rich Yoruba man marries a Yoruba woman.


Rich Yoruba men tend to behave better when married to none Yoruba women.


You can call me names, I only speak the truth based on available facts


Obasanjo
Tinubu
MKO Abiola
Fela
Femi Fani Kayode
Ooni of Ife
Tonto Dike's ex hubby
Davido's father
That loud mouthed Owo king
So many of them

Are you saying they did not treat their women right because they married other women because I don't understand what MKO Abiola, Fela, ooni of Ife, Davidos father is doing on that list, there is no man alive who don't do multiple women once they are rich, it's either they marry them outrightly or have many side chicks, the white do serial monogamy, they can marry five wives in their life times one at a time but it's still the same issue of multiple women, the only exception is perhaps the Pastors because they preach against it and all eyes on them.
Then what has Tinubu done to be in your list, he respects his wife and treats her right even though he is a Muslim. Stop generalizing based on your narrow experience, the only Yoruba men that don't treat women right are the illiterate ones and not even all of them, most educated Yoruba guys do right by their women in the capacity expected of them either christian or Muslim and that's why igbo women are rushing them, remove your biase lens

TOPCRUISE:
So she was OBJ's baby mama back then. And she is now running mouth. She is not even ashamed. Now wonder the Baby mama institution in Nigeria are getting crazier generation by generation.

She was his wife, stop your pettiness, nobody is buying your veiled tribalism.

hotseat:
Some Nigerians won't cease to amaze me!



Instead of objectively addressing issues raised by the woman, they rain abuses on her.




Talk of leaving the substance to chase shadows.



That's the easy way for shallow minds.

Because she is a Yoruba woman, if her name had read something like Ngozi or Chinyere this thread would have been full of praises and support for her, you know igbos are always more online because of trading, buying and selling whereby you sit down in the shop and sell whereas other tribes lean more towards services and skill whereby your hand is either on the computer like in office work or tool of your work like in mechanic or eyes on customer in cases of health workers, teachers etc, it's the same on every thread here on nairaland, when it's about Yoruba you see abuses and insults, you will notice it too in mohbad topics, once is not an igbo person they rubbish it, that's how they are.

vannessa7:
Are you saying they did not treat their women right because they married other women because I don't understand what MKO Abiola, Fela, ooni of Ife, Davidos father is doing on that list, there is no man alive who don't do multiple women once they are rich, it's either they marry them outrightly or have many side chicks, the white do serial monogamy, they can marry five wives in their life times one at a time but it's still the same issue of multiple women, the only exception is perhaps the Pastors because they preach against it and all eyes on them.
Then what has Tinubu done to be in your list, he respects his wife and treats her right even though he is a Muslim. Stop generalizing based on your narrow experience, the only Yoruba men that don't treat women right are the illiterate ones and not even all of them, most educated Yoruba guys do right by their women in the capacity expected of them either christian or Muslim and that's why igbo women are rushing them, remove your biase lens

So you are not aware that Bola Tinubu had a first wife who lived and died a quiet life because Tinubu didn't want to be associated with her? She lived in a small Bungalow at Abraham Adesanya Ajah Lagos. Died and buried quietly.


So you aren't aware of Ooni of Ife's serial ill treatment of his wives that makes them always run away?


You are asking me what Fela did? MKO too?


My dear, I speak from real life experience.


Most rich Yoruba men don't treat their wives well.


Tinubu is acting cool with Remi because Remi have once threatened to expose his secrets and bring him down if he dare accept to marry one lady he once impregnated some time ago which made Remi to tell him that a certain close Tinubu's ally who was to succeed Fashola must not become the Governor because it was through him Tinubu met the lady. That lady was settled and she lives a quiet life away in the US.



Yes every successful man struggles with promiscuity but its a different thing treating your wife/wives and kids well while enjoying your promiscuous life and maltreating your wife/wives and kids while frolicking with numerous women.



Maybe its a cultural thing in Yoruba land, which makes Yoruba women more industrious and independent than any other tribe's women in Nigeria.


I am Igbo but I can boldly tell you that Yoruba women are more industrious and independent than Igbo women. Igbo women love to depend on their husband while Yoruba women love to depend on their career and effort.



Igbo men are more industrious and caring to their family than Yoruba men, while Yoruba women are more industrious than the Yoruba men.


This debate has been done on a popular Radio Station in Lagos and peopled called in from various areas, mostly women, both Yoruba, Igbo, Urhobo, Ijaw, Hausa, etc women and majority agreed that Igbo men are the best in Nigeria when it comes to taking care of their wife and kids.


You can choose to argue with me but the reality remains the same

franchasofficia:
So you are not aware that Bola Tinubu had a first wife who lived and died a quiet life because Tinubu didn't want to be associated with her? She lived in a small Bungalow at Abraham Adesanya Ajah Lagos. Died and buried quietly.


So you aren't aware of Ooni of Ife's serial ill treatment of his wives that makes them always run away?


You are asking me what Fela did? MKO too?


My dear, I speak from real life experience.


Most rich Yoruba men don't treat their wives well.


Tinubu is acting cool with Remi because Remi have once threatened to expose his secrets and bring him down if he dare accept to marry one lady he once impregnated some time ago which made Remi to tell him that a certain close Tinubu's ally who was to succeed Fashola must not become the Governor because it was through him Tinubu met the lady. That lady was settled and she lives a quiet life away in the US.



Yes every successful man struggles with promiscuity but its a different thing treating your wife/wives and kids well while enjoying your promiscuous life and maltreating your wife/wives and kids while frolicking with numerous women.



Maybe its a cultural thing in Yoruba land, which makes Yoruba women more industrious and independent than any other tribe's women in Nigeria.


I am Igbo but I can boldly tell you that Yoruba women are more industrious and independent than Igbo women. Igbo women love to depend on their husband while Yoruba women love to depend on their career and effort.



Igbo men are more industrious and caring to their family than Yoruba men, while Yoruba women are more industrious than the Yoruba men.



You can choose to argue with me but the reality remains the same

Any sane woman will not see polygamy or womanizing as a problem if you are ready to marry a billionaire or a powerful man, it is sheer delusion to think other women will leave that man alone for you, even if the man is as gentle as a dove other women will go to any length to get him and if the wife pro e stubborn they might kill her, being provided for adequately and getting some attention should be enough for such women. Tinubu has really impressed me because he is a Muslim and has a right to marry more than one, I'm sure he did not kill his first wife and there is no way you are right about Remi threatening to expose him if he marries a second wife because you are not in their bedroom and I know nobody can tie Tinubu down like that, they are just very compatible she being gentle while Tinubu is very loud. As for Ooni of Ife, his first wife on the throne was found to be promiscuous with a colourful past not befitting for a first class king in Yoruba land, that olori Naomi is very stupid to think of marrying a Ooni of Ife and expect to be the only wife, do you know how many people will be dashing him their daughters, most of those wives of the previous Ooni were gifted to him, you know you are a committed Christian you went to marry a king and not just any king, a great Yoruba king, she must be dreaming, crying foul when she was the stupid one, so annoying child even 2face, sunny Ade, Davido etc couldn't escape multitude of women because of their wealth, if you marry such men just console yourself with the money and your children and if your husband suddenly become a billionaire or powerful get ready, just pray to still have a place in his life because otilo, other women must come, I know some women that do juju because of this but their husbands still have other women outside, the side chick also have juju maybe more powerful than your own, dey play.

As per the hardwork of Yoruba women, I can tell you as a Yoruba woman that it stems from the fact that men and women are viewed almost equally in Yoruba culture, we don't think women are inferior to men as obtained in almost all culture in the world, we only believe we should obey and respect our husbands but we are not disadvantaged, when the women liberation movement started it was a strange thing to us because we don't need to be liberated since we are not in bondage. A university professor of philosophy explained this to me and when I thought of it I know it's true because girls are raised up in Yoruba land to be hard working and be a provider, we see our mothers pulling their weight at home, no dolling up a girl child to marry the richest suitor like hausas do or other tribe. Our men even see women as mothers generally and codedly fear and respect us in Yoruba land. It's true

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Kingosytex:
This is the funniest thing I've read this year
An accomplished military general who has made a name that generations won't forget is angry that a woman who probably came into the marriage with only her Echolac box dumped him.
Mama Taiwo should join Sabinus and co in skit making, she is very funny.
OBJ can marry a fresh virgin of like 17 years now. In fact, he can charter a trailer load of them .
The future is indeed feMAIL.

This your comment make me laugh no be small o. You made good points.

Sorry woman.. we can all feel your pain..but nobody can buy all your lies..

If OBJ 100 young and fresh ladies today..they will rush to him.. not to talk of you, old hag with rotten p*uzzy..

Haba!
Madam you are a liar..

Haba!

vannessa7:
Nawa o, she apologized on behalf of her children she bore for him, didn't you read the post, how many people on here lack comprehension because it's like almost every body is asking why she apologized, when you have children for someone you are linked for life, your children will be affected physically and spiritually by whatever the man does, but now she has apologize it will be on record so that her children does not suffer for the sin of their father. Obasanjo will not live forever you know.

Forget all that. Don’t allow a woman use Children to play on your emotions. If you be a man be a man!

She didn’t need to say all these if she did it for her children. How will the world look at her children now based on all those things she said about Baba?

I don’t lack comprehension skills rather I lack the ability to allow a woman manipulate me. Read her response again & you will see a lot of things she hasn’t let go of yet. I don’t have anything against her though. Baba isn’t a saint neither is anyone else.

vannessa7:
Nawa o, she apologized on behalf of her children she bore for him, didn't you read the post, how many people on here lack comprehension because it's like almost every body is asking why she apologized, when you have children for someone you are linked for life, your children will be affected physically and spiritually by whatever the man does, but now she has apologize it will be on record so that her children does not suffer for the sin of their father. Obasanjo will not live forever you know.

What concern the children with the issue at hand. She didn't do any apology because of the children, she did it because of political gain. Read between the lines how she was mentioning Obi and Tinubu. She did it because she wants a pound of flesh she wants to extract from baba and that really shows in her vituperation of disparaging a man she claimed she bore two children for. No reasonable woman would wash her family's dirty linen in the public, that I know.

vannessa7:
Any sane woman will not see polygamy or womanizing as a problem if you are ready to marry a billionaire or a powerful man, it is sheer delusion to think other women will leave that man alone for you, even if the man is as gentle as a dove other women will go to any length to get him and if the wife pro e stubborn they might kill her, being provided for adequately and getting some attention should be enough for such women. Tinubu has really impressed me because he is a Muslim and has a right to marry more than one, I'm sure he did not kill his first wife and there is no way you are right about Remi threatening to expose him if he marries a second wife because you are not in their bedroom and I know nobody can tie Tinubu down like that, they are just very compatible she being gentle while Tinubu is very loud. As for Ooni of Ife, his first wife on the throne was found to be promiscuous with a colourful past not befitting for a first class king in Yoruba land, that olori Naomi is very stupid to think of marrying a Ooni of Ife and expect to be the only wife, do you know how many people will be dashing him their daughters, most of those wives of the previous Ooni were gifted to him, you know you are a committed Christian you went to marry a king and not just any king, a great Yoruba king, she must be dreaming, crying foul when she was the stupid one, so annoying child even 2face, sunny Ade, Davido etc couldn't escape multitude of women because of their wealth, if you marry such men just console yourself with the money and your children and if your husband suddenly become a billionaire or powerful get ready, just pray to still have a place in his life because otilo, other women must come, I know some women that do juju because of this but their husbands still have other women outside, the side chick also have juju maybe more powerful than your own, dey play.

As per the hardwork of Yoruba women, I can tell you as a Yoruba woman that it stems from the fact that men and women are viewed almost equally in Yoruba culture, we don't think women are inferior to men as obtained in almost all culture in the world, we only believe we should obey and respect our husbands but we are not disadvantaged, when the women liberation movement started it was a strange thing to us because we don't need to be liberated since we are not in bondage. A university professor of philosophy explained this to me and when I thought of it I know it's true because girls are raised up in Yoruba land to be hard working and be a provider, we see our mothers pulling their weight at home, no dolling up a girl child to marry the richest suitor like hausas do or other tribe. Our men even see women as mothers generally and codedly fear and respect us in Yoruba land. It's true

Hi Vanessa, you made very great points but I still stand on my initial opinion that most rich Yoruba men don't usually treat their wives well compared to some other tribes.



I speak based on real life experience and facts available to me.


I am an upcoming billionaire who is already successful and have lots of successful men from different tribes and races. When some Yoruba friends hear some of the things I do for my wife, they always get kind of pissed off to the extent some question "what does your wife do with her income then?" but it is a cultural thing in Igbo land to take care of your wife to even her undies no matter how much she herself earns, its something of pride to us Igbo men. Yes there are some lost Igbo men who have abandoned their culture and heritage but when you meet a real traditional Igbo man raised by true Igbo parents with Igbo values, he treats his wife like a Queen whether he is rich or poor. An Igbo man can be wearing slippers and short while his wife and kids drive Range Rover.


I do agree with your point about rich men and promiscuity. even at my small level i am struggling with it, so u are right but its never a reason not to take care of your wife and kids.


You won't understand my point sha, but I know what I am saying.



Like in Igbo land, we have some cultures I abhor, like the culture that forbids a girl child from inheriting her late father's properties in their ancestral community. Another one is the popular 'Osu caste system' which we are still trying hard to abolish. So its not as if I am trying to castigate Yoruba tribe, but every tribe have some of their weakness and some negative cultural practices their young generation must strive to let go

IfnobeGod20:
What concern the children with the issue at hand. She didn't do any apology because of the children, she did it because of political gain. Read between the lines how she was mentioning Obi and Tinubu. She did it because she wants a pound of flesh she wants to extract from baba and that really shows in her vituperation of disparaging a man she claimed she bore two children for. No reasonable woman would wash her family's dirty linen in the public, that I know.

You obviously are not a Yoruba person, because any Yoruba person will understand children mean everything and a Yoruba mother will beg the devil and swim seven ocean to make sure harm does not come to her children now or in the future, note that she apologized the first time but she got angry because of Obasanjos response and that's why she started ranting this time around. It is perfectly understandable that a mother will beg on behalf of the father of her children in order to protect her children from transferred aggression from the father's enemy.

It is said hell hath no fury like a woman scorned but it is appropriate to say hell hath no fury like an ex – President scorned and now your ego is brutally scorned and deeply hurt because l left you and you are now humiliating yourself not me.

Fatality!

OBJ should drop his pen for 2 months. The woman finished him here.


Nawa for OBJ family sha.

vannessa7:
You obviously are not a Yoruba person, because any Yoruba person will understand children mean everything and a Yoruba mother will beg the devil and swim seven ocean to make sure harm does not come to her children now or in the future, note that she apologized the first time but she got angry because of Obasanjos response and that's why she started ranting this time around. It is perfectly understandable that a mother will beg on behalf of the father of her children in order to protect her children from transferred aggression from the father's enemy.

She did the right thing.

BALLOSKI:
She did the right thing.

Case, keep kwayet!

sapoyoro:
What about Tinubu, he is a good man right?

Wetin bring tinubu inside this matter.
But since you have brought this here yes, he is the man obj will never be.
Pray to have someone like tinubu in your life

vannessa7:
You obviously are not a Yoruba person, because any Yoruba person will understand children mean everything and a Yoruba mother will beg the devil and swim seven ocean to make sure harm does not come to her children now or in the future, note that she apologized the first time but she got angry because of Obasanjos response and that's why she started ranting this time around. It is perfectly understandable that a mother will beg on behalf of the father of her children in order to protect her children from transferred aggression from the father's enemy.

Sorry I can confirm to you that I am more Yoruba and omoluabi than you because I don't hide under one finger because it is dangerous.
No Yoruba woman that respect the dignity of her husband will do anything without first consult her husband before doing it, no matter closely the issue to her. Remember in her first epistle, she claimed, OBJ is her husband. You cannot claim someone is your husband and not first seek his understanding on matter of such value. Why it turns out that they've left themselves for years.
Now, the question is, was she the only wife OBJ has or gave birth to OBJ? Why are the other wives not doing same, even the one they are living the same roof? Miss. Martin is just being mischievous and looking for pound of flesh to draw from baba and nothing more.

Wasky101:
Wetin bring tinubu inside this matter.
But since you have brought this here yes, he is the man obj will never be.
Pray to have someone like tinubu in your life

Please did you read the news at all? Miss Martin has already put Obi and Tinubu into the matter. You can go back and reread again.
Meanwhile, you should have said, Tinubu can never lace the shoes of OBJ. A well respected man globally. Tinubu will only dream of becoming half of what OBj had attained in Nigeria and global face. Almost ten years cumulatively as head of states and president no be moi moi at all.
God I pray not to have someone like Tinubu in my lineage with no known family background and wealth without enterprise and everything about him shrouded in secrecy. Please who is Tinubu's brother, sister, family house, source of his wealth? The only billionaire with no business trace to him on the CAC record. Please prove me wrong.

Elcuba:
Case, keep kwayet!

Ashawo man!

BALLOSKI:
Ashawo man!

Msteeew!
You don hammer bah!

Elcuba:
Msteeew!
You don hammer bah!

You want me to declare asset?

You sef don hammer bah...

Wasky101:
Wetin bring tinubu inside this matter.
But since you have brought this here yes, he is the man obj will never be.
Pray to have someone like tinubu in your life

I don’t want a tinubu in my life.
And no matter how tinubu tries he will never get close to ObJ. A truly great man not a thug and a crook.

BALLOSKI:
You want me to declare asset?

You sef don hammer bah...

Hmmmm..
You owe me. Make I drop account?

Elcuba:
Hmmmm..
You owe me. Make I drop account?

I don't owe you shishi.


Make I drop my account? Country hard.

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Akwamkpuruamu:
This woman is seeking for undue relevance and chasing unnecessary clout

article1:
Your entire generation is mugu, including your wretched father who could not train to respect other people's opinions. Miserable idiot!

Your stupid father who is a clown during yuletide seasons couldn't teach you that people's opinions could be retractable... Baskard