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Men need some love too

I'll do it for him only if I'm financially comfortable and we're married.

And I also don't expect him to buy me an expensive gift when we're still dating... Flowers, his attention, affection and date nights are just fine until we take things to the next level.

The lady I’m currently dating bought me a fendi sneakers worth more than 400k. I’m still in disbelief. I go to my wardrobe everyday to check the shoe to be sure it’s not a dream.

Samantha124:
I'll do it for him only if I'm financially comfortable and we're married.

And I also don't expect him to buy me an expensive gift when we're still dating... Flowers, his attention, affection and date nights are just fine until we take things to the next level.

If you can’t do it now, you can’t automatically start it in marriage.

What's the use of buying a girlfriend or a boyfriend a very expensive gift only for the relationship to fail?


And when we get married, do we get married for love or for expensive gifts?

Carcholce:
If you can’t do it now, you can’t automatically start it in marriage.

Samantha124:
What's the use of buying a girlfriend or a boyfriend a very expensive gift only for the relationship to fail?


And when we get married, do we get married for love or for expensive gifts?

The thing is, whether we buy gifts or not, what will fail will fail. People spend 20 years in marriage and it still fails. My response to your post was only saying, don’t hold it back if you see something you like to get your man and you have the financial capability to do it.

As to your second question. I can’t answer why people get married.

His money

I won't even collect.... cos you'll never hear the end of it

they can't

Lol. Na him money she take buy am oh

I can do it and even more for a man who completes me and values me as much as I value him. Remember, every sane relationship should be 50:50. My take!

Naija girls will rather die than doing this, they only want to take without giving.

visionair2023:
Lol. Na him money she take buy am oh

You have clearly only encountered very broke females in your life. I am sorry

If a Nigerian woman buys a bed for you na bad dreams you go dey dream steady. Imagine if na car no be accident go kill you

Jennyclay and co walk out of thread..

visionair2023:
Lol. Na him money she take buy am oh

But she try na,some of them no go fit bring 1kobo from the money wey the guy be give them buy something tangible for him.

Of course.

But, he must have invested ×50 of the worth of that car on me first to get the dividends. You can't expect me to gift you a luxury car when you can only offer me a bicycle.

Don't expect to reap where you didn't sow.

Gender equality

Believe social media at your own peril

Ladies from well brought up and well mannered houses can do so.

But you see those ones that say "if he is not living in a two bedroom flat and doesn't have 1 million in his account and if he can't buy me iphone 13 upwards i can't date him". They can't try it. Them der very very very very broke. Broke in pocket and mindset.

This is impossible as far as 9ja girls are concern.

Is just a skit

Samantha124:
What's the use of buying a girlfriend or a boyfriend a very expensive gift only for the relationship to fail?


And when we get married, do we get married for love or for expensive gifts?

Gifting is an act of appreciation. Whether the marriage or relationship ends has nothing to do with appreciation.

What will end , will end but appreciation will forever lingers.

some girls can bt not the average girl

Samantha124:
I'll do it for him only if I'm financially comfortable and we're married.

And I also don't expect him to buy me an expensive gift when we're still dating... Flowers, his attention, affection and date nights are just fine until we take things to the next level.

Apt.




Wittyness

Samantha124:
I'll do it for him only if I'm financially comfortable and we're married.

And I also don't expect him to buy me an expensive gift when we're still dating... Flowers, his attention, affection and date nights are just fine until we take things to the next level.

It is typically a lady's way. What men do for love with eyes closed, women attach a lot of conditions and clauses. Men ought to stop being SIMPle for this gender.

No. That's too much of a gift. He'll turn around to say you emasculated him.

Alright, let's hear form them.

Don't be deceived, she used the guy's Money to buy that car for him to make it as if it's a gift purchased with her money, whereas na the guy money she take buy am.

No Nigerian girl can do this for you, except of course your mother and sisters!

Samantha124:
What's the use of buying a girlfriend or a boyfriend a very expensive gift only for the relationship to fail?


And when we get married, do we get married for love or for expensive gifts?

Very wise comments coming from you. Applaudable.