Samantha124:
I'll do it for him only if I'm financially comfortable and we're married.

And I also don't expect him to buy me an expensive gift when we're still dating... Flowers, his attention, affection and date nights are just fine until we take things to the next level.

Would you reject if your bf buys you an expensive gift?

You must really think Nairalanders are kindergartners.

Attention seeker! 😒

Patrickker:

It is typically a lady's way. What men do for love with eyes closed, women attach a lot of conditions and clauses. Men ought to stop being SIMPle for this gender.

Only GOD can love you unconditionally. Everyone who loved(s) you did/do so with certain conditions and clauses. And no, men do not love for just "love's" sake. Speak for yourself. The world is fast becoming very machiavellian. Blame wokeism. Love is lost.

Dexy4yah:
Men need some love too

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If it is not "For Instagram" promotion and clout-chase.

I feel sorry for this boy.

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Even if the marriage fails after 20 years, they would've been husband and wife, not boyfriend and girlfriend.

I will not buy a very expensive gift for a boyfriend and I also do not want him to buy me any expensive gifts when we're just boyfriend and girlfriend... I even told my fiance the same thing.

It's best he uses the money to take me on a baecation so that we can make good memories together and it doesn't have to be abroad because SA already has a lot of beautiful sites to go to for a beacation.

Carcholce:



The thing is, whether we buy gifts or not, what will fail will fail. People spend 20 years in marriage and it still fails. My response to your post was only saying, don’t hold it back if you see something you like to get your man and you have the financial capability to do it.

As to your second question. I can’t answer why people get married.

Carcholce:


If you can’t do it now, you can’t automatically start it in marriage.

Why the fvck do you want a woman to buy such an expensive for a man when they're only dating?

Even Timaya took his gift back from Empress. Nonsense.

obembet:
No be for person wey get boyfriend
Am still single and serious searching, I can't hide it anymore

U won't see.

No man wants to settle for an over used damaged expired evening newspaper parading herself as feminist. Go and meet the drug lord to Marry you. 🤡

Okay.

omooba969:


Would you reject if your bf buys you an expensive gift?

You must really think Nairalanders are kindergartners.

Attention seeker! 😒

Samantha124:
I'll do it for him only if I'm financially comfortable and we're married.

And I also don't expect him to buy me an expensive gift when we're still dating... Flowers, his attention, affection and date nights are just fine until we take things to the next level.

Unfortunately I can't give you more than one like for that comment, because I would have love to give you a thousand and one.

1Sharon:


Why the fvck do you want a woman to buy such an expensive for a man when they're only dating?

Even Timaya took his gift back from Empress. Nonsense.

But you are not timaya.

Carcholce:


If you can’t do it now, you can’t automatically start it in marriage.

How buy you a drink


You get am

Pls have always been seen ur comments always sounding responsible.can i get ur number if u dont mind pls

Ladies have been doing this since Mango Park but the story always ends with the boy friend or husband still cheating on her.

1Sharon:


Why the fvck do you want a woman to buy such an expensive for a man when they're only dating?

Even Timaya took his gift back from Empress. Nonsense.

And they claim "only men" can love without conditions and clauses attached. I'm yet to meet such man/men.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Of course.

But, he must have invested ×50 of the worth of that car on me first to get the dividends. You can't expect me to gift you a luxury car when you can only offer me a bicycle.

Don't expect to reap where you didn't sow.

Damaged over used broke evening newspaper sef dey talk

🤡

This is a thread for extremely rich classy working women, not for broke newspapers like you wey never food chop

Samantha124:
Even if the marriage fails after 20 years, they would've been husband and wife, not boyfriend and girlfriend.

I will not buy a very expensive gift for a boyfriend and I also do not want him to buy me any expensive gifts when we're just boyfriend and girlfriend... I even told my fiance the same thing.

It's best he uses the money to take me on a baecation so that we can make good memories together and it doesn't have to be abroad because SA already has a lot of beautiful sites to go to for a beacation.

What is the difference between baecation and buying gifts? Isn’t the same money we are talking about here? I was expecting you won’t collect a dime from him until marriage.

AishaDant:
I can do it and even more for a man who completes me and values me as much as I value him. Remember, every sane relationship should be 50:50. My take!

That is a Pinocchio relationship that is an image of a true one.

Carcholce:
The lady I’m currently dating bought me a fendi sneakers worth 400k. I’m still in disbelief. I go to my wardrobe everyday to check the shoe to be sure it’s not a dream.

she took it from her other rich boyfriend trust me

GO0DHardDick:


Damaged over used broke evening newspaper sef dey talk

🤡

This is a thread for extremely rich classy working women, not for broke newspapers like you wey never food chop

Wailer's FC. You may cry on.

How you people call other people "broke" when you haven't assessed them or know them personally is something that miffs me till this moment. Sucks.

Samantha124:
What's the use of buying a girlfriend or a boyfriend a very expensive gift only for the relationship to fail?


And when we get married, do we get married for love or for expensive gifts?

If you can't get your boyfriend an expensive gifts now, is it now in marriage you would do it?

You must really be a 🤡

porthouse7:
she took it from her other rich boyfriend trust me

Okay, I trust you.

If I be the man, I go make sure I have my own car as well ooo. Because women....

UyaiIncomparabl:


Waller's FC. You may cry on.

This still doesn't change the fact that you're a poor broke 🤡.

If Rich classy working women dey talk, you too wey never see food chop go dey talk? U must really be a 🤡

Samantha124:
I'll do it for him only if I'm financially comfortable and we're married.

And I also don't expect him to buy me an expensive gift when we're still dating... Flowers, his attention, affection and date nights are just fine until we take things to the next level.

Alright then.. Lets get to the next level already...

But it doesn't have to be a very expensive gift.

palsenator:


Gifting is an act of appreciation. Whether the marriage or relationship ends has nothing to do with appreciation.

What will end , will end but appreciation will forever lingers.

Carcholce:


But you are not timaya.

I'm not Empress either. I will never buy such a gift for a man I'm just dating.

And before you start, I don't expect such a gift in return either.

Your entitlement is concerning.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Waller's FC. You may cry on.

How you people call other people "broke" when you haven't assessed them or know them personally is something that miffs me till this moment. Sucks.

You must be a 🤡

Why should he invest in you? Are you ok? So you mean you're goods and commodities he should invest on to resell? Are you trying to tell us you're an olosho who sells her body for the highest bidder to "invest" in?

Poor broke girls always make the loudest noise

Samantha124:
I'll do it for him only if I'm financially comfortable and we're married.

And I also don't expect him to buy me an expensive gift when we're still dating... Flowers, his attention, affection and date nights are just fine until we take things to the next level.

oh only wen u are married? But a guy can do much more even wen he is not married to u. Guys na die we dey oooo

Olosho mentality

Samantha124:
What's the use of buying a girlfriend or a boyfriend a very expensive gift only for the relationship to fail?


And when we get married, do we get married for love or for expensive gifts?

UyaiIncomparabl:


And they claim "only men" can love without conditions and clauses attached. I'm yet to meet such man/men.

Lol nonsense. Timaya wouldn't be with her if he wasn't attracted to her.

Carcholce:
The lady I’m currently dating bought me a fendi sneakers worth more than 400k. I’m still in disbelief. I go to my wardrobe everyday to check the shoe to be sure it’s not a dream.

Hehehehehe... E dey muzz u shey? ... Rare chics like dat are my spec..

Baba go come take the car go dey carry babes up an down.
Happened to my female cousin years ago.
My Aunty (her Mom) bought her a beautiful new car to use in the university. She took the car and gave her then bf who then used it to pick up babes that were previously ignoring him.
I don’t need to tell you my cousin was heartbroken.

This is a taboo in Nigeria

Bring, bring, bring is the tune.