If hes your realest niggar then I'll advice you let him come over, seeing your girlfriend's family doesn't mean you are automatically married. She will still be visiting and it's good her place ain't far from yours.

The only issue here is because you stay in a one room apartment, if not, your friend should be the one to come squat wit you. You are not yet married to the girl, she isn't supposed to pack and come stay with you. It's not making sense. She can come stay for days or weeks but not staying permanently since u guyz are not yet married.

Single apartment? No nah.

How's ds even debatable If roles were reversed, ur fiancee would allow her friend over you. Ds is ur best friend man. Help your friend. Are u planning to live with ur fiancee in a single room apartment?

Don't allow your best friend...no matter what has happen in the past, let it go o..who childhood help..he is a man now n should find other alternative abode.
You and your female friend don pass boyfriend n now it's near marriage n she needs her privacy and space to blend n plan her home with you..no carry best friend near body to avoid temptation oo else na you go still come nairaland to see our advice if your best friend knack am!
Be warned!

Thank God for that your friend because he's divinely sent to come and stop the bombastic fornication you've been doing with somebody's daughter
Ashawo oshi
I hate to see two unmarried people having sex, it used to pain me very well nonsense

Omor dis unknown person funny oo.

Honestfrend:
Hello guys!!

Please I need ur candid advice on this issue.. Am dating this lady and we re planning to go see her parent next month. So she always come to my place although her place is not far from mine..

No my best friend from childhood who lives in far from me want 2 come and be staying with me, since my place is close to his work place, although he will just be staying few days every week.
I try 2 make him understand that I have a woman in the house and we preparing for marriage.. But this his not going down well with my friend he said since am yet to marry her he should be allow to come stay with me. He started say things like he has left me at home with his girlfriend before which was in the past. My girl is not in support of him coming to stay with me due 2 privacy because it just a single apartment.

Please I don't want 2 have issues with my fiancee or my best friend.. I need an advice on how to convince either one of them.. Because I have no issue with my guy coming 2 stay but still as a man preparing 2 settle down I need some privacy..

Am so confuse I don't know what 2 do..

Tnks

You want to please him and displeased yourself? Well done ooo

Honestfrend:
Hello guys!!

Please I need ur candid advice on this issue.. Am dating this lady and we re planning to go see her parent next month. So she always come to my place although her place is not far from mine..

No my best friend from childhood who lives in far from me want 2 come and be staying with me, since my place is close to his work place, although he will just be staying few days every week.
I try 2 make him understand that I have a woman in the house and we preparing for marriage.. But this his not going down well with my friend he said since am yet to marry her he should be allow to come stay with me. He started say things like he has left me at home with his girlfriend before which was in the past. My girl is not in support of him coming to stay with me due 2 privacy because it just a single apartment.

Please I don't want 2 have issues with my fiancee or my best friend.. I need an advice on how to convince either one of them.. Because I have no issue with my guy coming 2 stay but still as a man preparing 2 settle down I need some privacy..

Am so confuse I don't know what 2 do..

Tnks

never allow your friend to stay with ur woman


Your girlfriend should stay somewhere else

Whatever you do for your fellow man is a debt repayable no matter how long it takes.

Women want to alienate you from the people who actually have your best interest at heart.

Women call you mummy's boy because you are close to your mum.
Women make you feel like you are not man enough if you are close to your dad, brothers or sisters or even friends. They do this because they hate COMPETING for your ATTENTION. They want you all to themselves.

Once alienated, they find it easy to destroy you. You can easily break a single broom but you cannot easily break a bunch.

Funny thing is that she will begin to respect you the more if she knows that you don't always say yes to her demand.

Shalom

OyeofIkoTuN:
If the guy has done it for you before...na there wahala dey ooo

Don't forget..she has her own house. Go and stay there, conscience go prick the dude..he will leave olorun..

Thank me later

I need the phone number of that lady on that pic.
I want to discuss something with her,very urgent

Your narration was that he will not be staying regularly. So u and ur babe meet (for intimacy) when he's gone.
Learn to keep the both for u know not which will benefit u in future.
Some friends worth sticking out beck for.

Shush it

You are also having sex with somebody's daughter yeye

Baba, y u let dis mata pain u lyk dis na?

Microwhy:
Yeye people.. cohabiting is a sin and not permissible in any religion.
Instead of Christians to fight for jannah, they'll be busy competing with Islam.
Its a religious war indeed. Coming publicly to glorify fornication is not strange or new to Christiandom.

Mumu people

Show me where its been said that cohabiting is a sin. Let's assume you are a Christian. Show me where the bible stated that cohabiting is a sin. If you can prove it with a chapter or verse in the bible. I owe you 10k

tell your friend no. you need to start getting used to protecting your future wife.

HopeNeverDies:
Well, Looking from both Angles , coupled with the fact that it's a Single apartment... I absolutely would say u tell Your best friend NO...

But you see these days, these girls aren't meant to be trusted, Bro Code ( U shouldn't chop ur guy's eye because of these Girls... At the end of the day, things might not work out as you've think between u and ur gurl... And Las las, nah ur guy go remain for u )

But with what you've stated Sir, I'd suggest u let your guy understand... Coz he would be staying with u for days not just for a single day... 💔


An elder sister once told me, if ur ready to settle down with someone u love, Don't take heed to friends and Family coz if things goes south, ur gurl might be the only one for u..

Your elder sister is a clown

daneni1:


Show me where its been said that cohabiting is a sin. Let's assume you are a Christian. Show me where the bible stated that cohabiting is a sin. If you can prove it with a chapter or verse in the bible. I owe you 10k

Hope you know sleeping with an underage is not a sin in the Bible too.
So stay foolis. H

You better stand your ground, your friend should look for someone else as you cannot offer such help at this time, them no dey leave man and woman for house o make I just warn you..if he wants to get angry it’s fine, he will get over it, focus on your new family you are about to make

LOL. Kids plenty for this forum. Marry your unrealistic friend.

Thank God for that your friend because he's divinely sent to come and stop the bombastic fornication you've been doing with somebody's daughter

Ashawo oshi
I hate to see two unmarried people having sex, it used to pain me very well nonsense

This is sooo me.

Lord knows I hate adultery and fornication with every aspect of my being.

I just don't understand how people could strip naked and go down with people they are not married to.

I've shed hot tears more than once upon realising pious people I used to respect were covert adulterers/fornicators.

Na so my heart go dey beat like say the world done end.

God!!

She’s your fiancée not your wife. Marry her so you can sweep him out of your house. He’s right for the meantime.

Bro, I'll say anything you have to remit your childhood friend, including money as well. Please do that to avoid misunderstanding with your friend. As am talking to you like this I can't accept any man to stay with me while with my wife or my girlfriend. Women needed privacy the most and which your friend knows pretty well. Good luck in your marriage 👍

Honestfrend:
Hello guys!!

Please I need ur candid advice on this issue.. Am dating this lady and we re planning to go see her parent next month. So she always come to my place although her place is not far from mine..

No my best friend from childhood who lives in far from me want 2 come and be staying with me, since my place is close to his work place, although he will just be staying few days every week.
I try 2 make him understand that I have a woman in the house and we preparing for marriage.. But this his not going down well with my friend he said since am yet to marry her he should be allow to come stay with me. He started say things like he has left me at home with his girlfriend before which was in the past. My girl is not in support of him coming to stay with me due 2 privacy because it just a single apartment.

Please I don't want 2 have issues with my fiancee or my best friend.. I need an advice on how to convince either one of them.. Because I have no issue with my guy coming 2 stay but still as a man preparing 2 settle down I need some privacy..

Am so confuse I don't know what 2 do..

Tnks

Op, Don't kick your loyal childhood friend out because of a girl that she is yet to be ur wife. Infact, this your post suggests that you have been fornicating with your fiancée or you intend to fornicate as times goes on.If I am in your shoe, let your nigga stays with you since it's a matter of time and let your fiancee understand that she should endure for the next few weeks . Anything other than might be so harsh on your guy. Love and light and Happy Married life soon.

Shush it

You are also having sex with somebody's daughter yeye

Why can't you be a little sensible, he having sex with someone's daughter is the lady your sister or your relationship?

November24:


Hope you know sleeping with an underage is not a sin in the Bible too.
So stay foolis. H

I believe you can express yourself without degrading too low by being abusive.

November24:


Your elder sister is a clown

Ur Junior Sister , elder sister is a bigger clown...

Y'all just open mouth and say nonsense online.. wtf are u? 😕

If your gf lives alone; why not spend those days your guy will be around in your gf house alone with your gf. You'll then move back in when your friend has travelled and vis a vis.

Honestfrend:
Hello guys!!

Please I need ur candid advice on this issue.. Am dating this lady and we re planning to go see her parent next month. So she always come to my place although her place is not far from mine..

No my best friend from childhood who lives in far from me want 2 come and be staying with me, since my place is close to his work place, although he will just be staying few days every week.
I try 2 make him understand that I have a woman in the house and we preparing for marriage.. But this his not going down well with my friend he said since am yet to marry her he should be allow to come stay with me. He started say things like he has left me at home with his girlfriend before which was in the past. My girl is not in support of him coming to stay with me due 2 privacy because it just a single apartment.

Please I don't want 2 have issues with my fiancee or my best friend.. I need an advice on how to convince either one of them.. Because I have no issue with my guy coming 2 stay but still as a man preparing 2 settle down I need some privacy..

Am so confuse I don't know what 2 do..

Tnks

You're part of our problem in this country. You're preparing for marriage inside a single "apartment"!!!🌚🌚🌚🌚🌚🌚🌚🌚

It's not a good idea. The early part of marriage is the best time to bond well with minimal interference. Your friend should be reasonable enough to find a better solution.

OBTOREPA:

I need the phone number of that lady on that pic.
I want to discuss something with her,very urgent

Ole

What is this person posting here sef... Your childhood friend who housed you in the past is seeking you do the same to him and you're thinking twice cos of your so called fiance that has her own place ( that isn't even far from where you stay). Bro, no even reason am sef, make him come stay ASAP like now now now ..

Now you're giving reasons of privacy. Now, you and I know that the privacy is sex. Now my question is " when you squatted with that your guy, does he not have a girlfriend"?

Brother, if u wanna have a sex romp with her ( cos I know that's the plan of you two) u can always go to her place and return back home to your nigga. She could just visit and go

Finally, anyone that wants to criticize the opinion I just typed, please choose your words carefully. Cos I go use constructive mannerless words on u wey u sef no go like. Make I no use vex wey dey my body say country no good and Man united come dey do anyhow follow u for nairaland.