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What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by concho(op): 11:22am On Oct 09, 2023

My partner has a day off today, so she dressed up this morning and said she was going to see a female colleague at work

I was not comfortable with it and asked her not to go since they see everyday at work

She didn't say a word to me but kept on dressing up.

She just left to the said friend’s house.

Is it really right? What would you do in my shoe??

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Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by Hathor5(f): 11:25am On Oct 09, 2023

Why would you feel umcomfortable with her seeing a friend?

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Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by concho(op): 11:28am On Oct 09, 2023

Hathor5:
Why would you feel umcomfortable with her seeing a friend?

A friend she sees everyday at work ?
A junior colleague for that matter

We have instincts, mine told me something was wrong .

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Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by Hathor5(f): 11:32am On Oct 09, 2023

concho:
A friend she sees everyday at work ?
A junior colleague for that matter

We have instincts, mine told me something was wrong .

I don`t know the nature of her work but at work I don`t get to gist with my colleagues/friends a lot because at work we work. wink

If we want to spend some good time togther, talk and laugh, we meet after work or on a free day.

If you don`t trust her, then you guys have much bigger issues than what has happened today.

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Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by LikeAking: 11:35am On Oct 09, 2023

concho:
My partner has a day off today, so she dressed up this morning and said she was going to see a female colleague at work

I was not comfortable with it and asked her not to go since they see everyday at work

She didn't say a word to me but kept on dressing up.

She just left to the said friend’s house.

Is it really right? What would you do in my shoe??

Dump her..

Don’t waste ya time on one woman..

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Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by LikeAking: 11:36am On Oct 09, 2023

concho:
A friend she sees everyday at work ?
A junior colleague for that matter

We have instincts, mine told me something was wrong .

Why didn’t u trail her?

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Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by concho(op): 11:38am On Oct 09, 2023

LikeAking:
Why didn’t u trail her?

trail ??

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Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by nifemi25(m): 11:41am On Oct 09, 2023

Are you suspecting she is cheating on you ?

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Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by concho(op): 11:42am On Oct 09, 2023

nifemi25:
Are you suspecting she is cheating on you ?

She cheated before

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Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by Hathor5(f): 11:45am On Oct 09, 2023

concho:
She cheated before

Then why are you still with her?

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Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by concho(op): 11:47am On Oct 09, 2023

Hathor5:
Then why are you still with her?

“Forgiveness” 🤩

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Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by Hathor5(f): 11:48am On Oct 09, 2023

concho:
“Forgiveness” 🤩

I understand. But if you can`t trust her again, then what`s the point?

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Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by concho(op): 11:51am On Oct 09, 2023

Hathor5:
I understand. But if you can`t trust her again, then what`s the point?

Thought I would, someday

Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by izonborn098(m): 11:51am On Oct 09, 2023

You're a fool for accepting a cheat back.. She don't have ur time mumu

concho:
She cheated before

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Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by Blessday: 12:41pm On Oct 09, 2023

concho:
My partner has a day off today, so she dressed up this morning and said she was going to see a female colleague at work

I was not comfortable with it and asked her not to go since they see everyday at work

She didn't say a word to me but kept on dressing up.

She just left to the said friend’s house.

Is it really right? What would you do in my shoe??

she was obviously lying

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Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by LegallyBlunt: 12:42pm On Oct 09, 2023

Living with a cheat provides free mental torture every day. You'll never be sure of their movement, especially if they're going somewhere for hours. You'll always think they're moaning somewhere.

Bro, if you can't deal with the emotional and psychological part of it, jejely breakup with her. It's that simple.

Also, you're not married to her. So you've got no right dictating some of her movements. Notice I said some.

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Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by akisos: 12:43pm On Oct 09, 2023

You and your partner obviously have underlying issues. It's obvious you're no longer in control of your marriage. Happy simping

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Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by Jestin: 12:43pm On Oct 09, 2023

She will just move out from there. I keep telling some folks, what you are experiencing during courtships is exactly what you will endure in your marriage

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Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by Blackfire(m): 12:43pm On Oct 09, 2023

Someone is banging your wife

That is the truth

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Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by advanceDNA: 12:44pm On Oct 09, 2023*

concho:
Thought I would, someday

Couples never return to same trust level once cheating rocks their boat.... The PTSD is for life

The victim of infidelity will always be in pain and doubt.... The Cheater will always have higher leverage and feel they are untouchable no matter what they do..."shebi my partner forgave me before...he can't do without me"

To remain with a partner that has cheated on u before....u just have to be calm and stvpid because u were stvpid to take them back in the first place

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Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by sojayy(m): 12:44pm On Oct 09, 2023

Let her go n stay there forever

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Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by thatsleepboy1: 12:45pm On Oct 09, 2023

I'm partner less for now. When she comes around, I'll know what to do.

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Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by olawaley12(m): 12:45pm On Oct 09, 2023

Once the trust is broken let it go abeg

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Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by Boldideas: 12:45pm On Oct 09, 2023

concho:
My partner has a day off today, so she dressed up this morning and said she was going to see a female colleague at work

I was not comfortable with it and asked her not to go since they see everyday at work

She didn't say a word to me but kept on dressing up.

She just left to the said friend’s house.

Is it really right? What would you do in my shoe??

The question shows that she knows you're not man enough. Send her away!!!

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Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by socialmediaman: 12:45pm On Oct 09, 2023

Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by royalfly(m): 12:46pm On Oct 09, 2023

concho:
My partner has a day off today, so she dressed up this morning and said she was going to see a female colleague at work

I was not comfortable with it and asked her not to go since they see everyday at work

She didn't say a word to me but kept on dressing up.

She just left to the said friend’s house.

Is it really right? What would you do in my shoe??

Big red flag o.. later they would tell u that u assumed the child at home was urs and never told u the child was urs. Look closely o. Am not saying brake up but closely so u learn if there is any lesson from here

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Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by HateBigots: 12:47pm On Oct 09, 2023

... If you want to command something, get a dog.

She is a human not a property; let her live.

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Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by theophorus(m): 12:47pm On Oct 09, 2023

Are you guys married?
If Yes, then you guys need to go for counseling or you ignore her, until she comes to her senses or get into trouble which she must not bring home.

If No, then both of una no serious at all and you may be the Maga paying her house bills for Sex.

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Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by Kingpele(m): 12:48pm On Oct 09, 2023

Hahaha Hahaha Hahaha na see finish be that ...well she's doing the right thing. She should pack out of your house because both of u are corrupting yourselves with your immoral activities..however maybe u don't have money because unfortunately ladies of this days respect guys with money ..u can't control a Nigerian lady if u are broke ...she couldn't even comeup with a better lie ...how can someone go back to see a friend in the same office she goes every day while off duty...that lie no make sense at all... but again if u are really broke unfortunately u can't do anything about it

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Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by maasoap(m): 12:48pm On Oct 09, 2023

concho:
My partner has a day off today, so she dressed up this morning and said she was going to see a female colleague at work

I was not comfortable with it and asked her not to go since they see everyday at work

She didn't say a word to me but kept on dressing up.

She just left to the said friend’s house.

Is it really right? What would you do in my shoe??

Well, there is 95% possibility she's heading somewhere else.

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