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Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by Emma1Oj(m): 2:00pm On Oct 09, 2023

Blackfire:
Someone is banging your wife

That is the truth

u jus talk am GBAM, u didn't even care of heart pain.

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Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by Gentlesoul2021(m): 2:02pm On Oct 09, 2023

maasoap:

This is mistake many ladies make everyday that makes them lose relationship full of potential. You want to marry someone one day but anytime he asks you questions, you keep asking the person "have I married you yet"? That's the trust which will make your relationship survive that you're throwing out the window.

You see some girls don't even know what they want. My guy gf stays with him, all bills on him and yet she still call her ex to the point she can excuse herself late in the evening to go buy maggi just to get the chance to call her ex... Ex that left her and even damage her emotionally.

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Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by Sunmolar(m): 2:04pm On Oct 09, 2023

concho:
A friend she sees everyday at work ?
A junior colleague for that matter

We have instincts, mine told me something was wrong .

That's how they play the game. Thinking men wouldn't found out....

Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by fkj950ax(m): 2:04pm On Oct 09, 2023

A relationship is not slavery.

If you both cannot agree on something as irrelevant and mundane as this, then you shouldn’t be in a relationship.

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Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by chymeze: 2:05pm On Oct 09, 2023

theophorus:
Are you guys married?
If Yes, then you guys need to go for counseling or you ignore her, until she comes to her senses or get into trouble which she must not bring home.

If No, then both of una no serious at all and you may be the Maga paying her house bills for Sex.

Counselling on top of clear infidelity? Are you seriously okay? What is there to counsel or ignore once infidelity is involved? It's divorce straight or else he'd find himself six feet below one day. There are certain issues you don't bargain or give a second chance especially when it involves a woman. Infidelity from a woman is a very dangerous thing to ignore or let go of trust me

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Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by ayuba070(m): 2:05pm On Oct 09, 2023

GiftedHands47:

She only went to visit a male friend
Or she went to did another thing that couldn't be said to you

I'll track lost or stolen devices or phones at a fee
Atrial will definitely convince you

Payment after work?

Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by Sunmolar(m): 2:06pm On Oct 09, 2023

concho:
She cheated before

They don't really think they're cheating, until you legalize the union.

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Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by Harrynight(m): 2:07pm On Oct 09, 2023

She will stay outside on returning

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Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by tochez24(m): 2:12pm On Oct 09, 2023

concho:
My partner has a day off today, so she dressed up this morning and said she was going to see a female colleague at work

I was not comfortable with it and asked her not to go since they see everyday at work

She didn't say a word to me but kept on dressing up.

She just left to the said friend’s house.

Is it really right? What would you do in my shoe??

Simps usually pay with their LIVES♂️

Did you see how mohbad ended his life

With women it always end the same way, the same pattern and the same result😊😊😊

Oga i hope you're warming up? After taking back a cheat.... Get ready to pay!! I'm outta this simping thread⚠️

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Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by LoveJesus87(m): 2:14pm On Oct 09, 2023

izonborn098:
You're a fool for accepting a cheat back.. She don't have ur time mumu

no mind am. God even gave him the grace to catch her cheating so he can know d kinda person he is dealing with, he remain there..

So many guys never had that grace...dey never caught her cheating while dating...even in marriage now they are yet to discover and this one still dey behave like person wey no get sense...

See the stupid question he is asking sef...mehn stupidity is really annoying

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Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by phemmyfour: 2:17pm On Oct 09, 2023

concho:
My partner has a day off today, so she dressed up this morning and said she was going to see a female colleague at work

I was not comfortable with it and asked her not to go since they see everyday at work

She didn't say a word to me but kept on dressing up.

She just left to the said friend’s house.

Is it really right? What would you do in my shoe??

How old are you?
You must be a kid in marriage. You don't even have good excuse to prevent her from going out.

Respect is reciprocal in every relationship. Marriage isn't a master-slave relationship, free her

Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by Bakin3(m): 2:17pm On Oct 09, 2023

concho:

Thought I would, someday

Simp.

Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by bonnyhope: 2:19pm On Oct 09, 2023

concho:
My partner has a day off today, so she dressed up this morning and said she was going to see a female colleague at work

I was not comfortable with it and asked her not to go since they see everyday at work

She didn't say a word to me but kept on dressing up.

She just left to the said friend’s house.

Is it really right? What would you do in my shoe??

No respect for you

I would end it if I were you

If woman cannot offer respect to her man, what else can she offer

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Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by Point2017(m): 2:19pm On Oct 09, 2023

Hathor5:

I don`t know the nature of her work but at work I don`t get to gist with my colleagues/friends a lot because at work we work. If we want to spend some good time togther, talk and laugh, we meet after work or on a free day.

If you don`t trust her, then you guys have much bigger issues than what has happened today.

Like you rightly said; "at work we work". So if she's off today and she goes to see a colleague at work who is not off, they won't be free together. Certainly one is distracting the other.

Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by wallarwallar(m): 2:21pm On Oct 09, 2023

concho:
She cheated before

Cheated before u 4give her and she does not listen to you and do what she likes. U better look for a new girlfriend cos she's still cheating on u and she will keep cheating may be dere is something she just like abt u dat is making her not to dump you for now.. Den dey Bleep her as I dey type now bro take heart and move on

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Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by fyneboi79(m): 2:21pm On Oct 09, 2023

concho:
My partner has a day off today, so she dressed up this morning and said she was going to see a female colleague at work

I was not comfortable with it and asked her not to go since they see everyday at work

She didn't say a word to me but kept on dressing up.

She just left to the said friend’s house.

Is it really right? What would you do in my shoe??

shes gone to see a man..shes cheating on you and does not respect you, bro drop her like she's hot!!

Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by Akalia(m): 2:28pm On Oct 09, 2023

Hathor5:

I don`t know the nature of her work but at work I don`t get to gist with my colleagues/friends a lot because at work we work. If we want to spend some good time togther, talk and laugh, we meet after work or on a free day.

If you don`t trust her, then you guys have much bigger issues than what has happened today.

You are not making sense at all. Only thing obviou is that you made a woeful attempt at putting up a subtle defence for OP's wife whose action presents a likely cheating situation.

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Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by vikkogg: 2:31pm On Oct 09, 2023

But the colleague that is on duty will have the chance to gist with someone off duty?

Dey play.

@OP, watch your back.

Hathor5:

I don`t know the nature of her work but at work I don`t get to gist with my colleagues/friends a lot because at work we work. If we want to spend some good time togther, talk and laugh, we meet after work or on a free day.

If you don`t trust her, then you guys have much bigger issues than what has happened today.

Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by chiefolododo(m): 2:35pm On Oct 09, 2023

Hathor5:

I understand. But if you can`t trust her again, then what`s the point?

keep trusting her, let her keep cheating

Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by Hassan88(m): 2:49pm On Oct 09, 2023

Unrealistic unthinkable how embarrassing!!!!

So disrespectful!

Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by haybee2018(m): 2:59pm On Oct 09, 2023

you go dey trust woman?...dey play.... grin

...she go kollect!

Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by Dancebreaker: 3:03pm On Oct 09, 2023

concho:
My partner has a day off today, so she dressed up this morning and said she was going to see a female colleague at work

I was not comfortable with it and asked her not to go since they see everyday at work

She didn't say a word to me but kept on dressing up.

She just left to the said friend’s house.

Is it really right? What would you do in my shoe??

Never ever trust any woman. I repeat: Never ever trust any woman. No matter how serious minded or innocent she appears to be.

Some of us learnt our lessons the hard way. Don't be like us.

They bank on men's trust to mess about.

Take it or leave.

She has no respect for you. Unless she houses and feeds you. A female colleague more important than you is not the reason she went out. It's a ruse.

God bless the very few good women out there.

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Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by SuccessfulRichi: 3:06pm On Oct 09, 2023

She's obviously cheating on you and she knows that you can't do a Bleep. I just dumped my own withdraw all the energy cuz I lost trust from her the very first day I got her chatting with her ex boyfriend she lied she had blocked everywhere. And she had a bad past. Omo dump her and move on. Girls full my contacts if you want one. Pm me

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Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by TheGift: 3:14pm On Oct 09, 2023

1x2x3:

You sound a bit naive.

First, as an adult. If your partner tells you what doesn't add up, you should be able to figure out it doesn't add up.

You mentioned about being an adult who could go anywhere before she met the OP. So if she's goes to strippers club at 1am before she met him, she can still continue because she's an adult? As married person, there are habits you have to change once you are married.

Well maybe I am naive about this specific situation. That is why I am asking the poster questions to enlighten me further.

There is nothing i said that implies he can’t figure out things that don’t add up for himself. But how is telling her not to go out going change anything. Just as with subordinates colleagues in the workplace you don’t get your partner to flow with you by Bossing but by leading and influencing , by communicating.

Finally, as per your last point I think that it is the person who married someone that goes to the strip club regularly that is being naive, if they think to the person will just change overnight because they said so. That is the definition of naivety.

Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by LaRosa01: 3:15pm On Oct 09, 2023

my brother both you and I know where she done Waka go,and my advice for you is to inform her family now because begining of the end has started,once a woman takes anybodies instruction above yours,know you are in trouble.

concho:
My partner has a day off today, so she dressed up this morning and said she was going to see a female colleague at work

I was not comfortable with it and asked her not to go since they see everyday at work

She didn't say a word to me but kept on dressing up.

She just left to the said friend’s house.

Is it really right? What would you do in my shoe??

Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by DrDunamis(m): 3:26pm On Oct 09, 2023

concho:
My partner has a day off today, so she dressed up this morning and said she was going to see a female colleague at work

I was not comfortable with it and asked her not to go since they see everyday at work

She didn't say a word to me but kept on dressing up.

She just left to the said friend’s house.

Is it really right? What would you do in my shoe??

Go and talk to her and leave this space...

Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by Aparche(f): 3:27pm On Oct 09, 2023

izonborn098:
You're a fool for accepting a cheat back.. She don't have ur time mumu

What is wrong with you? Can't you comment and make your point without the insult/name calling?

It seems Nairaland is now full of emotionally immature people that don't understand that it's possible to express a divergent view without the insult.

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Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by okoroemeka(m): 3:32pm On Oct 09, 2023

concho:
My partner has a day off today, so she dressed up this morning and said she was going to see a female colleague at work

I was not comfortable with it and asked her not to go since they see everyday at work

She didn't say a word to me but kept on dressing up.

She just left to the said friend’s house.

Is it really right? What would you do in my shoe??

first I will never stop a woman from going out it exposed you as a weakling in the eyes of the woman and she will go out anyway to dare you,u don't have any right to stop an adult from going were he or she wishes ,stop causing yourself unecessary hbp with insecure thoughts,if a woman wants to cheat do you think you can stop her?that she went out shows she knows what you are thinking and she is angry,don't even try to raise the issue when she comes back to aviod world war

Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by Rhozabeth(m): 3:34pm On Oct 09, 2023

Hathor5:

I don`t know the nature of her work but at work I don`t get to gist with my colleagues/friends a lot because at work we work. If we want to spend some good time togther, talk and laugh, we meet after work or on a free day.

If you don`t trust her, then you guys have much bigger issues than what has happened today.

Why are women like this? A colleague u see everyday at work and u could not discuss important matter with is it a day she is not at work and the other person is on duty that u will have the space and time to discuss thise matters? This doesn't add up pls!

Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by semyman: 3:36pm On Oct 09, 2023

concho:
My partner has a day off today, so she dressed up this morning and said she was going to see a female colleague at work

I was not comfortable with it and asked her not to go since they see everyday at work

She didn't say a word to me but kept on dressing up.
She has left you long ago.

She just left to the said friend’s house.

Is it really right? What would you do in my shoe??

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