Please you guys should consider the mental health of your wives before or while you cheat and sleep around with other women outside.
I know that the society we live in does not admonish cheating men or acknowledge that their behaviour is wrong so many married men take advantage of this and cheat on their wives without remorse or regret,
some of you will even show more love and affection to your side chics/girlfriend outside
Some of you will give money that you cannot spend on your wife to sidechic
married men will go above and beyond to please their sidechicks in the bedroom, some will even lick her vagina to orgasm but when it come to their wives they do the regular twenty seconds and roll over and sleep leaving her unfulfilled. Some even stop sleeping with their wives completely when they have sidechic.
Some call their sidechicks all manner of sweet pet names like honey, baby, sweetie pie etc meanwhile their wives at home are "mama Felix", "mama purity" etc.
Some even act so irritated whenever they are with their wives because they think sidechic is newer/fresher/better, so they talk to the wives like she is dirt, they treat their wives like crap and when the woman feels frustrated and withdraws because the husband no longer shoes love, they will use it as an excuse to abandon her completely and focus on sidechic.
Some men talk down on their wives to please sidechic, cal their wives all sorts of insulting names, like she is dirty, old, smelling, condemn material etc. Just to make side chic happy that they prefer her.

The downsides of men keeping sidechicks are so many, I don't know why society encourages it and expects women to just tolerate and tolerate until the man starts to suffer sexual problems in his very old age and can no longer sleep around then he will return to the neglected and depressed and mentally bleeped up wife and expect her to just welcome him with open arms just because society overlooks his infidelity.

I know many men cannot control themselves sexually and feel they have to sleep around but try your best to put your wives feelings and needs before the Ashawo outside.

Anything you know you wouldn't want your daughter to suffer in marriage, please don't do it to another person's daughter.

I read some women's forum on Facebook and other sites and the stories these women share about their cheating husbands are just devastating and heartbreaking.

Married men, If you must cheat, you people should pity your wives when you cheat and don't torment her, mentally abuse her in the process.
Women are human beings not animals or emotional punching bags.

As for the girls/women that knowingly sleep with men that are married for whatever reason, I wish you badlucks and setbacks in your life and everything you do because you are all pieces of shit.

Just pray for your husband.

Ladies should learn to walk away if they cannot manage with the promiscuity of their husband!

Marriage is not by force. Your happiness and mental health is worth more than the union. Even when you dont care about your mental health and happiness, you should care about your health. STD`s can send you back to God at a prime age!


Leave the dog and move-on!

Men have a very low respect for women because of maybe how nature, religion or tradition make it look like. As a man you expect your wife to forgive u or understand when you're caught cheating but heaven will fall when the table turn.
I don't have time for any both (men and women) to cheat but men need to respect their wives because they've the same feelings as they do. If you want to cheat you gats cheat with sense


Women also have their problems.. Las las everybody go dey okay..

CoronaVirusPro:
Ladies should learn to walk away if they cannot manage with the promiscuity of their husband!

Marriage is not by force. Your happiness and mental health is worth more than the union. Even when you dont care about your mental health and happiness, you should care about your health. STD`s can send you back to God at a prime age!


Leave the dog and move-on!

Easier said than done, there are many unfortunate consequences for married women that divorce cheating husband in nigeria, her fellow women and even men will stigmatize her and see her reasons for leaving as trivial and nonsensical. Majority of men in Nigeria cheat on their wives, the behavior is so widespread that women now take it as normal and assume every man cheats and "it rains everywhere".
Her female children will be stigmatized too because they will be seen as kids raised by a woman who couldn't keep her marriage,so they themselves will not make good wives.
Nobody cares to know how terrible the marriage was for the woman before she chose to walk away.
Marriage for majority of women in Nigeria is hell on earth because of their cheating husbands behaviour.

izonborn098:
Men have a very low respect for women because of maybe how nature, religion or tradition make it look like. As a man you expect your wife to forgive u or understand when you're caught cheating but heaven will fall when the table turn.
I don't have time for any both (men and women) to cheat but men need to respect their wives because they've the same feelings as they do. If you want to cheat you gats cheat with sense


Women also have their problems.. Las las everybody go dey okay..

@bold, that's what am saying.
But some men don't give a shit about their wives emotions or mental health. They cheat and treat her like crap in the process.
And expect her to stay and tolerate.
Very inhuman and evil behaviour, just because society overlooks it.

Some men can be very wicked sha, and they always pay for their wicked deeds eventually.

mariahAngel:
Some men can be very wicked sha,

Infact my dear so many of them, the ones that are kind are so few. It's very sad.
Everyday I see all manner of horror stories from married women at the hands of their cheating husbands online....

The same problem applicable to women, give women the same power today and see how they'll maltreat men like dogs e.g how lesbian treat each other and how they wicked the less...
It's nature and we've to deal with it because i don't see that changing today, tomorrow or next year...

Hallysugarcandy:


@bold, that's what am saying.
But some men don't give a shit about their wives emotions or mental health. They cheat and treat her like crap in the process.
And expect her to stay and tolerate.
Very inhuman and evil behaviour, just because society overlooks it.

Hallysugarcandy:


Easier said than done, there are many unfortunate consequences for married women that divorce cheating husband in nigeria, her fellow women and even men will stigmatize her and see her reasons for leaving as trivial and nonsensical. Majority of men in Nigeria cheat on their wives, the behavior is so widespread that women now take it as normal and assume every man cheats and "it rains everywhere".
Her female children will be stigmatized too because they will be seen as kids raised by a woman who couldn't keep her marriage,so they themselves will not make good wives.
Nobody cares to know how terrible the marriage was for the woman before she chose to walk away.
Marriage for majority of women in Nigeria is hell on earth because of their cheating husbands behaviour.

One just need to consider the risk of catching the life threatening disease the man catches from his sidekick and walking away becomes much easier.

izonborn098:
The problem applicable to women, give women the same power today and see how they'll maltreat men like dogs e.g how lesbian treat each other and how they wicked the less...
It's nature and we've to deal with it because i don't see that changing today, tomorrow or next year...

It's better to treat what is wrong as wrong and try to correct it, even if like you said women will do same but personally I don't think so because females are by nature more tender and kinder than men, even their physiological and hormonal makeup makes them softer.

Hallysugarcandy:


Infact my dear so many of them, the ones that are kind are so few. It's very sad.
Everyday I see all manner of horror stories from married women at the hands of their cheating husbands online....

They end up making their wives so bitter, and no man whose wife's heart is bitter towards prospers.
As a man, if your wife cannot pray for you, you're doomed.

The same problem everywhere both men and women cheat..

Hallysugarcandy:


Infact my dear so many of them, the ones that are kind are so few. It's very sad.
Everyday I see all manner of horror stories from married women at the hands of their cheating husbands online....

that's why the average woman is so afraid of dna..

mariahAngel:


They end up making their wives so bitter, and no man whose wife's heart is bitter towards prospers.
As a man, if your wife cannot pray for you, you're doomed.

Are you sure that's true and not just sentiment?
Have you seen it happen in real life like that?

You lied when you said women are more kind than me, men are more generous than women that's why it's very hard for women to raise each other like men do..

Hallysugarcandy:


It's better to treat what is wrong as wrong and try to correct it, even if like you said women will do same but personally I don't think so because females are by nature more tender and kinder than men, even their physiological and hormonal makeup makes them softer.

Hallysugarcandy:


Are you sure that's true and not just sentiment?
Have you seen it happen in real life like that?

My dear, it's true.
As long as the wives themselves are innocent.

izonborn098:
You lied when you said women are more kind than me, men are more generous than women that's why it's very hard for women to raise each other like men do..

Okay sir, if you say so.

mariahAngel:


My dear, it's true.
As long as the wives themselves are innocent.

Alright, that will be sweet justice to wicked husbands

I will appreciate if this topic is taken to front page
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Hallysugarcandy:


Alright, that will be sweet justice to wicked husbands

Oh! They always do get it eventually.

My only concern is what women in such situations can do. Especially for their mental health.
People will always say leave, but we all know that can't be enough.
What about the years she's invested wasted? Who can give her those back?

Hallysugarcandy:


It's better to treat what is wrong as wrong and try to correct it, even if like you said women will do same but personally I don't think so because females are by nature more tender and kinder than men, even their physiological and hormonal makeup makes them softer.

Have you ever heard about a man who maltreat his house help? But everyday, we see cases where women maltreat their house helps. Some Women are naturally mean.

shortIGBOman:


Have you ever heard about a man who maltreat his house help? But everyday, we see cases where women maltreat their house helps. Some Women are naturally mean.

Some men rape and molest househelps, even underage ones but please can we focus on the topic of cheating married men treating their wives anyhow, let's not derail thank you.

mariahAngel:


Oh! They always do get it eventually.

My only concern is what women in such situations can do. Especially for their mental health.
People will always say leave, but we all know that can't be enough.
What about the years she's invested wasted? Who can give her those back?

That's the problem, they don't want to waste years of investment and many don't want their kids to grow up in broken homes.

Hallysugarcandy:

Some men rape and molest househelps, even underage ones but please can we focus on the topic of cheating married men treating their wives anyhow, let's not derail thank you.

Women have done worst to house helps than that. Besides, these days married women cheat more than married men. Some of them dey do hook up sef

shortIGBOman:


Women have done worst to house helps than that. Besides, these days married women cheat more than married men. Some of them dey do hook up sef

Okay, but this topic is for married men that maltreat their wives because of sidechic, the fact that some women cheat does not mean I should ignore the problem my topic is addressing, you can start a topic about cheating married women if you like.

Hallysugarcandy:


It's better to treat what is wrong as wrong and try to correct it, even if like you said women will do same but personally[b] I don't think so because females are by nature more tender and kinder than men, even their physiological and hormonal makeup makes them softer[/b].

While I don't like to do comparison, the bold part of your statement is why many men have gone to the beyond very early. Most Nigerian women can appear to be kind and soft, but when their wicked side is activated are deadlier than all men combined. Women are very lovely creatures, and are very good at covering their true identity.

Curiouscity:


While I don't like to do comparison, the bold part of your statement is why many men have gone to the beyond very early. Most Nigerian women can appear to be kind and soft, but when their wicked side is activated are deadlier than all men combined. Women are very lovely creatures, and are very good at covering their true identity.

@bold, which one be true identity biko?
I don't agree with that statement sha but okay.

Where did you get this from?. Pls don't kill me with laugh, okay..

mariahAngel:


They end up making their wives so bitter, and no man whose wife's heart is bitter towards prospers.
As a man, if your wife cannot pray for you, you're doomed.

izonborn098:
Where did you get this from?. Pls don't kill me with laugh, okay..

Try it and see.

Hallysugarcandy:

@bold, which one be true identity biko?
I don't agree with that statement sha but okay.

Lol!

True identity? Every human has 3 types of identity.
1. True self - who s/he truly is
2. The one s/he thinks s/he is
3. The one s/he wants people to know or believe s/he is.

Most women spend all their time promoting #3.
You stated above that this is for cheating men who maltreat their wives, so let's keep it that way.

You're so funny

mariahAngel:

Try it and see.

maybe you think we're still in stone age..

Interesting topic



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