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A Single Mother by Oluwashina72: 11:05pm On Oct 18, 2023
I'm 28 she's single mother 25years. 6 years old child.. I need someone too and since no one is showing up, she seems serious so I'm thinking of going for her.. Won't I regret it in any way? The child stays with parent..
I'm been open to her that I'm still struggling and she accepts to be my partner even if na to manage till we get better...
Gurus in the house should help op look into this and advise please thanks

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Re: A Single Mother by Tayorshd87: 11:15pm On Oct 18, 2023
She is just looking for a place to keep her head at least u can feed her and cloth her with the little u have and that's why she said she will manage but like seriously na trap she will frustrate y0u ..

Now think of it how can a 25years old lady have 6years baby as a single mother πŸ€”

Meaning since 19years years she don dey bleep πŸ€”
My guy run for your life oo

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Re: A Single Mother by RealityKings: 11:24pm On Oct 18, 2023
I guess you are earning better than her. She has also seen you have some money on you and she can fleece you off your hard earned money with some wacky sex/pussy. Don't fall for it.

Look for a working class single lady. Or else you will realize you made a terrible decision choosing that single mother

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Re: A Single Mother by talented321: 11:26pm On Oct 18, 2023
When i visit home after 8years, all my class are now mothers with 4 to 2 children..
Even the little girls now have fallen breasts..
Manchi don really age, also the boys very tall with their girlfriends and looking good..
Op been a single mom is not a stigma, go for what is good for u. Single mom also make good wives and i have experienced alot.. But if the baby dad is alive then u have to becareful not to raise another man's kid

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Re: A Single Mother by SonofGod231: 11:33pm On Oct 18, 2023
Tayorshd87:
She is just looking for a place to keep her head at least u can feed her and cloth her with the little u have and that's why she said she will manage but like seriously na trap she will frustrate y0u ..

Now think of it how can a 25years old lady have 6years baby as a single mother πŸ€”

Meaning since 19years years she don dey bleep πŸ€”
My guy run for your life oo
Mumu...It means, she's young and still hot.
Stopping using your myopic and dwarfed brain all the time.
Op, don't miss a good woman because she's a single mum.

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Re: A Single Mother by Lee99: 11:35pm On Oct 18, 2023
Better run away now that you aren't in too deep

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Re: A Single Mother by izonborn098(m): 11:38pm On Oct 18, 2023
I don't like single moms sha, especially the ones the baby daddy is alive. Though there're so many good single moms out their but i'm not a fan..

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Re: A Single Mother by wrongnumber: 11:52pm On Oct 18, 2023
Oluwashina72:
I'm 28 she's single mother 25years. 6 years old child.. I need someone too and since no one is showing up, she seems serious so I'm thinking of going for her.. Won't I regret it in any way? The child stays with parent..
I'm been open to her that I'm still struggling and she accepts to be my partner even if na to manage till we get better...
Gurus in the house should help op look into this and advise please thanks
Single mums are good

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Re: A Single Mother by 1Sharon(f): 12:54am On Oct 19, 2023
If you get married to her, will the child continue to stay with her parents?

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Re: A Single Mother by Khd95(m): 3:14am On Oct 19, 2023
25 and a single mother of 6 year old child, have you asked what her story is and how she ended up a single mother?

I am not saying all single mothers are bad , but be careful my guy, most times it doesn’t end well, the baby daddy can show up anytime and irrespective of what you have committed to her and the relationship she can still switch sides because Wetin join her and the the baby together strong pass Wetin join una two

Single mothers are better than serial abortionists tho

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Re: A Single Mother by Chibuzoripob: 3:49am On Oct 19, 2023
cool There are some single mum that are better by far to all diz demons parading themselves in short bum around.

But,look well b4, u pour Ur akamu
Re: A Single Mother by 9japride(m): 4:47am On Oct 19, 2023
OP do what's best for you. Analyze the whole situation and make your decision. After all, none of these guys here in nairaland will stay with you. Though, they all have a valid point, but all cases are not the same. It's only you that knows the lady well and her story, so use your judgement to make your final decision.
In addition, inquire if the baby daddy is now married or not in contact with the lady. These are the real concerns of majority of the posters. But if she's giving you peace and happiness, then go ahead.

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Re: A Single Mother by sulakishop(m): 5:00am On Oct 19, 2023
Good luck bro but it's a no no for me. 25yrs with 6yr old kid got pregnant at 18yrs and probably have started long before that {maybe even 14/15yrs}. What if the spirit of aluta in her reawakens?
Read and understand the joy of meat in my signature.

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Re: A Single Mother by Reminderz: 5:13am On Oct 19, 2023
hmm 25 years old with a 6 years old kid? just make the wrong decision, and you'll remember the day you were born...

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Re: A Single Mother by okoroemeka(m): 5:22am On Oct 19, 2023
Oluwashina72:
I'm 28 she's single mother 25years. 6 years old child.. I need someone too and since no one is showing up, she seems serious so I'm thinking of going for her.. Won't I regret it in any way? The child stays with parent..
I'm been open to her that I'm still struggling and she accepts to be my partner even if na to manage till we get better...
Gurus in the house should help op look into this and advise please thanks
what I know is that the lady in question has seen the importance of having a man in her life and will not joke if given a chance to stay with one,go ahead and settle down with her,the journey of a thousand kilometers starts with a step

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Re: A Single Mother by Iambro(m): 5:50am On Oct 19, 2023
see grown up man saying she seems to be serious πŸ˜‚ what do you expect her to do before when she has a six year old kid πŸ˜‚πŸ’”
Bro stay away from single mothers
Package yourself well there are still pretty young women out there no rush yourself

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Re: A Single Mother by online4business: 5:57am On Oct 19, 2023
Scarcity mentality

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Re: A Single Mother by Jewessgratitud3: 6:47am On Oct 19, 2023
You're still struggling and you want to allow someone trap you into marriage with "we'll manage till it gets better" ? Haaa people no dey learn ooo..

Na this e go better land many families into abject poverty and continuous suffering till today and they don't know how or when they'll get out of it. I'm not discouraging you from getting married but do you have the wherewithal to go through and maintain a marriage life for now?

Why do you feel pressured to take a decision you're not financially ready for? Don't use your hand to bring untold hardship to yourself. If you know as you are right now, you can't feed more than two mouths comfortably, don't go into it cos na the same woman wey dey form "we go manage" go still show you how useless a man you are for not being able to cater for her and her children's needs.

She's forcing you to marry her not because she has any solid plans to assist but because she wants to escape that single motherhood status before it's too late and becomes difficult to find a man that will accept her as she may be having the fear that men hardly go for single mothers these days. So now wen she see one she one quickly attach. Fact is, she's not in her right senses now as all she just wants is escape. After marriage now her eyes go open to the struggle and she'll begin give you better heat.

Marriage no be child's play o. Before you enter, think right, left, center, up and down. Check your pocket, propects and account balance and be sure you can chest it for the first three years without shaking otherwise, you'll enter another high level of struggling if there are no solid structures in place now.

Consider the following expenses in double or triple measures.
Diapers
Feeding
Bills
Rent
School fees
Medicals
Are you ready to do this for three? Even if she's working, na your own share go big pass. Think on these things.

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Re: A Single Mother by osmosis101(m): 6:54am On Oct 19, 2023
_MANAGE_ underlined u mean MANAGE TOGEDA?. too deep

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Re: A Single Mother by Kobicove(m): 6:54am On Oct 19, 2023
Weigh your options well before you make the decision to commit

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Re: A Single Mother by dhiqson(m): 6:58am On Oct 19, 2023
It's as if what we preach here don't get enough audience cry
A grown ass made man is saying "people aren't forth coming"!!
A man desperate to be used
Scarcity mindset at the very peak
Prolly the sex they've had, has blocked his rationale mind
Like what's happening



I wish you well sir
God bless and give you your heart desire undecided

Cc Reminders

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Re: A Single Mother by Dyfynezz12(m): 7:02am On Oct 19, 2023
izonborn098:
I don't like single moms sha, especially the ones the baby daddy is alive. Though there're so many good single moms out their but i'm not a fan..
But u have a baby mama
Re: A Single Mother by Fahvvy: 7:16am On Oct 19, 2023
wrongnumber:

Single mums are good
Fallacy of hasty generalization undecided..

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Re: A Single Mother by PinkNature(m): 7:19am On Oct 19, 2023
dhiqson:
It's as if what we preach here don't get enough audience cry
A grown ass made man is saying "people aren't forth coming"!!
A man desperate to be used
Scarcity mindset at the very peak
Prolly the sex they've had, has blocked his rationale mind
Like what's happening



I wish you well sir
God bless and give you your heart desire undecided

Cc Reminderz

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Re: A Single Mother by rickleye: 7:31am On Oct 19, 2023
Oluwashina72:
I'm 28 she's single mother 25years. 6 years old child.. I need someone too and since no one is showing up, she seems serious so I'm thinking of going for her.. Won't I regret it in any way? The child stays with parent..
I'm been open to her that I'm still struggling and she accepts to be my partner even if na to manage till we get better...
Gurus in the house should help op look into this and advise please thanks


Regret what ?
Questions to ask is that is she going somewhere.
Is she working , is she learning trade to work .
Is the father in the picture ?
You don’t know the cards in place - I hope you have more kids but at the moment . You love her and all her mistakes.
There are millions of single parents who are making things work. So having a child is not a curse.
Does she make you happy and are you compatible ?

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Re: A Single Mother by advanceDNA: 7:31am On Oct 19, 2023
Oluwashina72:
I'm 28 she's single mother 25years. 6 years old child.. I need someone too and since no one is showing up, she seems serious so I'm thinking of going for her.. Won't I regret it in any way? The child stays with parent..
I'm been open to her that I'm still struggling and she accepts to be my partner even if na to manage till we get better...
Gurus in the house should help op look into this and advise please thanks

U are struggling....and u want to start with school fees, uniform, books and PTA meeting, and baby daddy issues......

....of all the single girls wey dey Nigeria??

Is she even working abi u are just a means to an end for her and her kid.??

Anyways...u go dey alright eventually....
.if u nor dey alright...na ur wahala be that

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Re: A Single Mother by DND069: 8:15am On Oct 19, 2023
Jewessgratitud3:
You're still struggling and you want to allow someone trap you into marriage with "we'll manage till it gets better" ? Haaa people no dey learn ooo..

Na this e go better land many families into abject poverty and continuous suffering till today and they don't know how or when they'll get out of it. I'm not discouraging you from getting married but do you have the wherewithal to go through and maintain a marriage life for now?

Why do you feel pressured to take a decision you're not financially ready for? Don't use your hand to bring untold hardship to yourself. If you know as you are right now, you can't feed more than two mouths comfortably, don't go into it cos na the same woman wey dey form "we go manage" go still show you how useless a man you are for not being able to cater for her and her children's needs.

She's forcing you to marry her not because she has any solid plans to assist but because she wants to escape that single motherhood status before it's too late and becomes difficult to find a man that will accept her as she may be having the fear that men hardly go for single mothers these days. So now wen she see one she one quickly attach. Fact is, she's not in her right senses now as all she just wants is escape. After marriage now her eyes go open to the struggle and she'll begin give you better heat.

Marriage no be child's play o. Before you enter, think right, left, center, up and down. Check your pocket, propects and account balance and be sure you can chest it for the first three years without shaking otherwise, you'll enter another high level of struggling if there are no solid structures in place now.

Consider the following expenses in double or triple measures.
Diapers
Feeding
Bills
Rent
Medicals
Are you ready to do this for three? Even if she's working, na your own share go big pass. Think on these things.

Apt! OP, if you love yourself and mental health, read this opinion.

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Re: A Single Mother by Sammy101111(m): 8:30am On Oct 19, 2023
You said you are struggle and you want to add more struggle to your life my friend go and make money

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Re: A Single Mother by Reminderz: 8:31am On Oct 19, 2023
dhiqson:
It's as if what we preach here don't get enough audience cry
A grown ass made man is saying "people aren't forth coming"!!
A man desperate to be used
Scarcity mindset at the very peak
Prolly the sex they've had, has blocked his rationale mind
Like what's happening



I wish you well sir
God bless and give you your heart desire undecided

Cc Reminders
some men can't be saved, even if you tell them from today till infinity, they will still prefer to experience it themselves the hard way... advising such men is a waste of time and energy... let the people who refuse to learn perish!

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Re: A Single Mother by UcheKingsley1: 9:20am On Oct 19, 2023
Oluwashina72:
I'm 28 she's single mother 25years. 6 years old child.. I need someone too and since no one is showing up, she seems serious so I'm thinking of going for her.. Won't I regret it in any way? The child stays with parent..
I'm been open to her that I'm still struggling and she accepts to be my partner even if na to manage till we get better...
Gurus in the house should help op look into this and advise please thanks

Inferiority complex dey worry you, nigga you need a tight free biitch.

Just fvck the biitch on a steady with no emotions.

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Re: A Single Mother by ebenezerdaniel(m): 10:36am On Oct 19, 2023
Am happily married to a single mother and I never regretted doing that.

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Re: A Single Mother by ojotobiloba1: 10:43am On Oct 19, 2023
Oluwashina72:
I'm 28 she's single mother 25years. 6 years old child.. I need someone too and since no one is showing up, she seems serious so I'm thinking of going for her.. Won't I regret it in any way? The child stays with parent..
I'm been open to her that I'm still struggling and she accepts to be my partner even if na to manage till we get better...
Gurus in the house should help op look into this and advise please thanks
Not trying to discourage you
Bur have you seen a competitive football match that starts from 1_0 before ( Excluding Aggregate and fans violence palava)

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