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Puss360:
Noo my dear... Price don go up ooo...
Person dey charge 50k...

Puss360:
Lol... So far so good there's nothing wrong with the OP...
The first step to treating someone is if the person is willing to agree that he/she is Ill....
The OP Neva gree say him wan solution..
Coz as e dey so, he still pays an exorbitant amount of money to hook-ups... And he really enjoys the sex...
Let your Mama rest...
The fact is dat, you aren't ready to Rest...
Well, life they say is once...
You live Only once....
Do what gives you joy...


Chai, so some men fit pay 80k per night....

And some people go come online say olosho no be work...
Well, make my house rent expire first and I no see money pay..

xin5:
As a 47yr old I still patronise prostitutes which I don't see a problem with. I have No kid, no serious relationship. The problem is my mother complaining here and there for me to get married if I don't see my age.
My mother has complained to the extend she's embarrassed on my behalf even when I am well established.
I know I can't help myself, it's just an addiction I can't stop.
I find it so hard to chyke a girl, talk more calling every now and then.. having meaniless discussions and drama all the time.. pestering for sex something I can achieve with just a phone chat with my connect and they will send pictures of multiple variables I can pick from..30k shortime.

The longest relationship have ever had was in 2008 I think 7months.
Ever since I was young I focused on pay as you go and this has been eating my finances on a steady which I normally don't see as anything because I am doing quite well for myself.
But the pressure to have kids it's getting on me so bad that I wish I can just get a prostitute and impregnate her so that my mother can rest.

tonicyril:
Kemi why are u always like this today??

Bombolistic:
Just cut off you gbola.. Thats permanent solution bro.

djon78:
Power no be every babe bad for naija

E still get plenty babes wey never Sabi anything

But player like you no go fit understand
Because you are used to okpo women

vannessa7:
That you realise you have a problem is the reason why I'm replying you unlike the op. The first thing you need to do is to build up your self confidence and one sure thing that destroy self esteem is immorality or crime, the more you engage in it the more you violate yourself and low self esteem is the outcome, which means patronizing prostitute is against your being and it is contributing to your low self esteem.

There are many things you can do to develop your self confidence, one major route is to get God, begin to serve God genuinely and you will see a difference, read the word of God first thing in the morning daily and it will heal your soul and take away the desire for immoral sex from you, I have experienced it. You focus on reading the word of God daily either as a Christian or Muslim and worship God. If you prefer Christianity I will recommend RCCG, it's one of the churches where you are sure you will see God , I'm a Muslim though, after reverting to Islam after almost 20 years of being a Christian, check my story of convertion in my profile here on nairaland.

Anyway another route is to get self help books on building self esteem, get as many as possible then read them all.

Also check your life for any habit that can erode your self confidence. Anything that violates the law of God will give you low self esteem to an extent no matter how small. Do away with such habits because you need good self esteem to be able to talk to a good lady and to build a relationship with her that will lead to marriage.

About the place of worship, you need accountability and places of worship can offer you that if you belong to a particular place of worship where you come together for prayers and you build up friendship there with people who are even closer to God than you, you will look out for each other and they will encourage you to be closer to the things of God because of your interaction with them, you will also not be lonely anymore because several opportunity to interact with others will present themselves if you belong to a place of worship,

Also directly ask God to take away the desire to patronize prostitute from you and to give you self confidence, pray this prayer daily and you will surely get answers to your prayers.

mariahAngel:
Na yeye dey worry you! 🤣🤣

My instincts dey tell me say you no be female sef.

Menclothing:
Good to hear

slimjohn2k5:
You will soon meet an angel that will change you.
Do away with your current friends and make friends with responsible people.

Ashawo pussy not dey wet.

ayomilore:
Op I don't know your religion but you need deliverance asap, those power that held you captive to prostitute might be the one preventing you from getting married. Like someone earlier said you are the only one that can stop it if you are ready, deliverance, fasting and prayer is the solution.

God will deliver you

xin5:
Nor talk am, premium own dey dey well

slimjohn2k5:
You will soon meet an angel that will change you.
Do away with your current friends and make friends with responsible people.

Ashawo pussy not dey wet.

Kobojunkie:
At 47, he not only needs a good job but a side project or gig as well. Many of his mates are out there trying to solve real life problems while his focus seems to be entirely only solving the twitching of the extra meat between his legs.

xin5:
As a 47yr old I still patronise prostitutes which I don't see a problem with. I have No kid, no serious relationship. The problem is my mother complaining here and there for me to get married if I don't see my age.
My mother has complained to the extend she's embarrassed on my behalf even when I am well established.
I know I can't help myself, it's just an addiction I can't stop.
I find it so hard to chyke a girl, talk more calling every now and then.. having meaniless discussions and drama all the time.. pestering for sex something I can achieve with just a phone chat with my connect and they will send pictures of multiple variables I can pick from..30k shortime.

The longest relationship have ever had was in 2008 I think 7months.
Ever since I was young I focused on pay as you go and this has been eating my finances on a steady which I normally don't see as anything because I am doing quite well for myself.
But the pressure to have kids it's getting on me so bad that I wish I can just get a prostitute and impregnate her so that my mother can rest.

xin5:
As a 47yr old I still patronise prostitutes which I don't see a problem with. I have No kid, no serious relationship. The problem is my mother complaining here and there for me to get married if I don't see my age.
My mother has complained to the extend she's embarrassed on my behalf even when I am well established.
I know I can't help myself, it's just an addiction I can't stop.
I find it so hard to chyke a girl, talk more calling every now and then.. having meaniless discussions and drama all the time.. pestering for sex something I can achieve with just a phone chat with my connect and they will send pictures of multiple variables I can pick from..30k shortime.

The longest relationship have ever had was in 2008 I think 7months.
Ever since I was young I focused on pay as you go and this has been eating my finances on a steady which I normally don't see as anything because I am doing quite well for myself.
But the pressure to have kids it's getting on me so bad that I wish I can just get a prostitute and impregnate her so that my mother can rest.

Angelfrost:
All I see is a man lacking life goals, ambitions, and direction.


If those were in your life, you won't spend such time and money chasing women of easy virtues.

Angelfrost:
All I see is a man lacking life goals, ambitions, and direction.


If those were in your life, you won't spend such time and money chasing women of easy virtues.

Dennisochampa:
Broz, all of us get one challenge or the other.
My prayer is that may God come through for you and help you realize the harm you're doing to yourself before it's too late.
Find one babe wen get sense.... Marry her so that you go get free liscence to run am even if na every minute of every day...
Again, may God heal you... Amen

xin5:
As a 47yr old I still patronise prostitutes which I don't see a problem with. I have No kid, no serious relationship. The problem is my mother complaining here and there for me to get married if I don't see my age.
My mother has complained to the extend she's embarrassed on my behalf even when I am well established.
I know I can't help myself, it's just an addiction I can't stop.
I find it so hard to chyke a girl, talk more calling every now and then.. having meaniless discussions and drama all the time.. pestering for sex something I can achieve with just a phone chat with my connect and they will send pictures of multiple variables I can pick from..30k shortime.

The longest relationship have ever had was in 2008 I think 7months.
Ever since I was young I focused on pay as you go and this has been eating my finances on a steady which I normally don't see as anything because I am doing quite well for myself.
But the pressure to have kids it's getting on me so bad that I wish I can just get a prostitute and impregnate her so that my mother can rest.

poweredcom:
Bro almost all nigerian girls of today are prostitutes , so sad it will be hard to get dem to keep as house wife oo cos this generation is gone to the dogs , notin wrong is pating as u go directly with ashewo , i k ow u dont want these trikish gals to eat u and run away without giving you the nookie

Why not travel to uganda or botswana and find a wife there ..as for dis nigeria forget it

You may even end up with a damage girl who have been banged around or a retired okpo

jackmrandy:
what did I just read? a 47 years old man not married, still looking for hook up to do short time with. If you are married now it would been a different case, but offortunately you are not. things dey happen oh.

poweredcom:
Bro almost all nigerian girls of today are prostitutes , so sad it will be hard to get dem to keep as house wife oo cos this generation is gone to the dogs , notin wrong is pating as u go directly with ashewo , i k ow u dont want these trikish gals to eat u and run away without giving you the nookie

Why not travel to uganda or botswana and find a wife there ..as for dis nigeria forget it

You may even end up with a damage girl who have been banged around or a retired okpo

Jamie1000:
Bro. Go get a life.You're most likely too fat and old . That's why they are billing you high. Normal level is 20 full night. Tall pretty ass. Short ones 10k. 😆 🤣 😂 😹 😆 🤣 😂 😹 😆 🤣 😂

torqque7:
47 years old man saying all this?the heigh of irresponsibility..after going through your profile I have to say bro you need prayers..I and not even 40but men I no dey reason like you,how does a full grown man seat and be anticipating his family inheritance,using his last cash that he budgeted for olosho then used it to gamble and lost it and then starts calling his friends to bail him out?like wtf? No wonder none of your friends bailed you out because you are are a manchild. Omo people dey o damn.

AlphaHakimi:
Some comments are hypocritical.

At 47 and you are unmarried, there is absolutely nothing wrong in patronizing sex workers. Just keep an open mind and hear me out.

If we are all sincere to ourselves, the major aim why a woman gets married is just to have someone take care of her and to elevate her societal standards(married woman). The major aim why men get married is to have a home( Home cooked meals and orderliness) and to have a sex partner. Every other thing is just a bonus to that marriage.

OP, Women will criticize you because you are actually one of the men they cannot manipulate in terms of relationship because their greatest weapon which is sex is something you get whenever you want it.

As humans, well all enjoy most of the things we consider bad. If you are truthful to yourself you will know I'm saying the truth. We all like sex, we like clubbing, we like smoking, we like orges, we like naked parties. We are only scared because we don't want to go to hell. Remove religion and indoctrination and you will know I'm saying the truth.

Shalom.

Babsoul:
One of his major problems is complex issue, no man I mean man at the age of 47 will pay as high as 50k for hook up girl, except the lady in question is far better than you.

You do spend someone's salary a week just for sxx that's free everywhere, that explains the fact that you are not responsible.

If your story is true, you are the definition of a fullllll