tochez24:



If e pass 1k for transport my brother count me out o😂😂😂😂😂

Most times i Bleep for free sef, sex is the most free gift of life after oxygen.... Yet some men are paying for it😆

Girls wey you go like whine small with coordination and little little expenses, if she likes you she go just open yansh for you, and become your gist buddy😁

Girls wey easy like this, men dey comot 50k to Bleep? Nawa oh

Some men don't know how to woo a woman. I'm that kind of man. The relationships/friendships I have with ladies are strictly professional (academic or business). I find it extremely hard to woo/chkye a woman for romantic purposes. How I wan start? Where I wan start from? Besides, women have been rejecting me since I was in primary school!

What differentiates me from OP and the other lad who complained is that I've a good control of my finances; I have hobbies and a job which keeps me very busy. Else, I am all for engaging hook-up babes to cure konji. Women today tend to behave like men, which I don't like. Also, I don't even know how to love a woman. I really don't. So, OP isn't in the minority. We exists.

djon78:



Actually many married Men patronize olosho

Na the ones wey no dey secretive they catch

You no come add side chics
Those ones are uncountable

Since you know this, why condemn men who patronise prostitutes? It's not like marrying will make this OP stop the patronage. Reduce? Probably, but stop? No. The biggest patrons of hook-up babes are married men.

UnemployedGradu:
This is staged jare! Am learned and a graduate just that I haven't gotten a befitting job for my status. I gleaned through the chats and your utterances and I would incontrovertibly say that this is scripted! 50k for runs girls? See runs girls are 20k maximum for a night. Stop exaggerating with unalloyed gimmicks to gain public attention!

If you don't know something, please ask.

Visit Codedruns.com and see the prices stated YET men are paying.

xin5:

I have my own house, A good business what source of income are you talking about?

Your Source of Income is actually a PASSIVE one.

One that doesn't require you working.
The SOURCE makes the money, while you just do the spending.

And now, you're not spending wisely.
Why don't you develop interest in travels.?

Kobojunkie:
Stop lying to him!

Why are Nigerian like this? The man has given him a logical and sound advice and you saying he should stop lying to him?Wow! As a man of God, it takes spiritual eyes to see this. First,the man is possessed, secondly the reason for his inability to make life progress is this evil lifestyle, thirdly, he has not relationship with God .And because of this,he is spiritually blind to know the right thing and avoid evil of LovePeddler mongering. In addition to this, there are
unseen demons controlling his life affairs.Though, he may be rich and have the wherewithal to do all things but this power would not allow him to live right.In all, DELIVERANCE is all you need.Seek for a good Bible believing church and cling on Christ only and your life will be better.

xin5:

Pressure from mother to carry her grandchildren

I see.
You no even wan marry.

Na your mama wey you wan give pikin?
Oya naa.
Babymama things might be your next consideration.

xin5:

Nor talk am, premium own dey dey well

When you reach 70, you need to adopt a baby.
And please..
See the baby as your own kid,, and not a step-kid.

Don't be the person to introduce the kid to sex, even after he or she is fully grown.
(And don't even have any form of intimate affair too)

Nice2023:
U don't have a problem...every choice is a good choice as far u the doer,i don't see any problem in what u are doing.

Enjoy your life...after 50yrs birthday just take a proper assessment of ur life and ask yourself if u have progressed or regressed.

He has a house of his own.
So.. He will always give himself a good pass-mark.

xin5:
where are you based

Chaaiii..

Puss360:

At least I no beg you for money nah.. why are you pained

Pained for your own present and feature problem? SMH

Puss360:

So the whole writeup, u understand.... But last paragraph u no understand...
Oya wait.... When my rent expires we will talk business...

Just dey play

Give your life to Jesus and He will set you free

As far as it is vvomen you are piercing and not animals you will come out of it, unless those ones with chronic VD share some for you.

ericmor:


Pained for your own present and feature problem? SMH

Since it's my problem, then let me worry about it... So rest my dear...

Puss360:

U welcome

Let me gift you

Menclothing:

Let me gift you Dm on WhatsApps

Thanks... I'm doing fine ... Business is going well...
Thanks anyway

There is a solution, known for the past few decades:

At 47 you are still doing asihawo business with girls, at 47 your first kid should be in primary school!! By the time you get to 55yrs you'll understand the through meaning of getting married on time

KyleJason:


Dear Op,

If you're really interested to get married without stressing yourself to toast a babe, I can refer you to my sisters.

Send me a mail.

Link me to one of Ur sisters.... I want to settle down

xin5:
As a 47yr old I still patronise prostitutes which I don't see a problem with. I have No kid, no serious relationship. The problem is my mother complaining here and there for me to get married if I don't see my age.
My mother has complained to the extend she's embarrassed on my behalf even when I am well established.
I know I can't help myself, it's just an addiction I can't stop.
I find it so hard to chyke a girl, talk more calling every now and then.. having meaniless discussions and drama all the time.. pestering for sex something I can achieve with just a phone chat with my connect and they will send pictures of multiple variables I can pick from..30k shortime.

The longest relationship have ever had was in 2008 I think 7months.
Ever since I was young I focused on pay as you go and this has been eating my finances on a steady which I normally don't see as anything because I am doing quite well for myself.
But the pressure to have kids it's getting on me so bad that I wish I can just get a prostitute and impregnate her so that my mother can rest.

If you really care about people's family background and character traits you won't think of getting a prostitute pregnant.
The only thing I can see here is that you're addicted to that shit and you need to look for a way or go for deliverance to stop that shit you're doing. You're not getting any younger, even if you dont want to get married look for a girl that is responsible, and not as irresponsible as you and your prostitutes are then get her pregnant. And b4 you do that make sure you do proper check up, b4 you go give person daughter disease.

ecolime:
47 years and you still dey patronize Prostitutes?

Are you kidding?

Baba, na only you fit stop am oo. This one don pass psychologist power.

Hahahahahahahaha

Why 28 below

AfroBeatDiary:
I like the fact that you speak up, addiction is properly managed when exposed.

Since you're well established then try out marriage, pray, be born again as they say it, be in the midst of people who can reignite your conscience and fear of the Lord over immoral things then re-invent yourself. At 47, your first born should be out or close to finish from high school.

The begining of the change can be difficult but if you don't engage in the change process you might have a bigger regret with nothing to show with your life at age 55 when you're ought to be a grandpa and relaxing, think about how you wanna spend your old age.

Look for lady of like 28 below and let her know that you have a high libido, also stop using sxxx enhancër.

123papas:
Why 28 below

A woman at that age will most likely take relationship serious.

YoshihideSuga:


It depends on where OP is residing. If na anywhere near Lekki or Maitama, no girl will collect 20K for a night.

Dey play. If you dey alright them go wan knack you. Who no like better thing. That same bitch get who dey knack for free dey promise am ring 😆 🤣 😂

Jamie1000:



Dey play. If you dey alright them go wan knack you. Who no like better thing. That same bitch get who dey knack for free dey promise am ring 😆 🤣 😂

It's not free then. He pays via commitment aka "I want to marry you". The OP isn't interested in such. He just wants to knack and go.

achimendy:





If you really care about people's family background and character traits you won't think of getting a prostitute pregnant.
The only thing I can see here is that you're addicted to that shit and you need to look for a way or go for deliverance to stop that shit you're doing. You're not getting any younger, even if you dont want to get married look for a girl that is responsible, and not as irresponsible as you and your prostitutes are then get her pregnant. And b4 you do that make sure you do proper check up, b4 you go give person daughter disease.

For him to be thinking of impregnating a prostitute means sex without protection with the prostitute. Op is an addict and needs to work on himself.

YoshihideSuga:


It's not free then. He pays via commitment aka "I want to marry you". The OP isn't interested in such. He just wants to knack and go.

E dey funny when you see olosho dey get relationship issues... 😆 🤣 😂 😹 😆
Guy, if you nor get money.. That your serious babe nah low-key runs gal. Remove marriage talk, she go waka

Those pimps that supply you prostitutes can supply a woman that can bear one or two children for you.

juman:
Those pimps that supply you prostitutes can supply a woman that can bear one or two children for you.

So if the woman bears one or two children, how will she continue with her business as a mother?

This is it

vannessa7:


That you realise you have a problem is the reason why I'm replying you unlike the op. The first thing you need to do is to build up your self confidence and one sure thing that destroy self esteem is immorality or crime, the more you engage in it the more you violate yourself and low self esteem is the outcome, which means patronizing prostitute is against your being and it is contributing to your low self esteem.

There are many things you can do to develop your self confidence, one major route is to get God, begin to serve God genuinely and you will see a difference, read the word of God first thing in the morning daily and it will heal your soul and take away the desire for immoral sex from you, I have experienced it. You focus on reading the word of God daily either as a Christian or Muslim and worship God. If you prefer Christianity I will recommend RCCG, it's one of the churches where you are sure you will see God , I'm a Muslim though, after reverting to Islam after almost 20 years of being a Christian, check my story of convertion in my profile here on nairaland.

Anyway another route is to get self help books on building self esteem, get as many as possible then read them all.

Also check your life for any habit that can erode your self confidence. Anything that violates the law of God will give you low self esteem to an extent no matter how small. Do away with such habits because you need good self esteem to be able to talk to a good lady and to build a relationship with her that will lead to marriage.

About the place of worship, you need accountability and places of worship can offer you that if you belong to a particular place of worship where you come together for prayers and you build up friendship there with people who are even closer to God than you, you will look out for each other and they will encourage you to be closer to the things of God because of your interaction with them, you will also not be lonely anymore because several opportunity to interact with others will present themselves if you belong to a place of worship,

Also directly ask God to take away the desire to patronize prostitute from you and to give you self confidence, pray this prayer daily and you will surely get answers to your prayers.