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Iβm So Confused Right Now. Please Come In And Help Me!!! / Am So Confused Right Now, Need Serious Advice. / Am Confused Right Now (2) (3) (4)
Re: I Am Confused Right Now by omejeb: 2:36pm On Oct 20, 2023 |
Mhizzard:I will do that..thanks a lot |
Re: I Am Confused Right Now by omejeb: 2:50pm On Oct 20, 2023 |
mariahAngel: Nah that be the next level now |
Re: I Am Confused Right Now by omejeb: 2:53pm On Oct 20, 2023 |
Gentlesoul2021: I feel so much relieved already..thank God I brought up this matter here...May God bless you bro |
Re: I Am Confused Right Now by omejeb: 2:59pm On Oct 20, 2023 |
advanceDNA: That's why I dey very confused...because she have had financial issues before but never disturbed me and we still talk and communicate well..mehn!!! I really feel relieved from getting advice here |
Re: I Am Confused Right Now by omejeb: 3:00pm On Oct 20, 2023 |
Mhizzard: But why is she not talking to me again or being caring like before πππ |
Re: I Am Confused Right Now by izonborn098(m): 3:03pm On Oct 20, 2023 |
There's problem in ur relationship with her, the best thing now is to respect urself, worry less, shits happen and you have to accept your fate.. Give her time while looking for other options.. omejeb: 1 Like |
Re: I Am Confused Right Now by Mhizzard(m): 3:06pm On Oct 20, 2023 |
[quote author=omejeb post=126517361] But why is she not talking to me again or being caring like before |
Re: I Am Confused Right Now by OSDD(m): 3:06pm On Oct 20, 2023 |
You're broke and you want her to keep chatting with you Or give you attention?? Send her 50k and see how all that will change |
Re: I Am Confused Right Now by omejeb: 3:12pm On Oct 20, 2023 |
OSDD: But before dating I told her clearly I am still in school and have no work yet..shoe openly told me its not a problem as long as I remain loyal and faithful to her |
Re: I Am Confused Right Now by OSDD(m): 3:15pm On Oct 20, 2023 |
omejeb: That's what my ex said to me too. Unlike yours, things got better along the line, but like every love story, as money no dey come again, she told me she wanted to go and hustleπ€£π€£π€£π€£π€£. Back to your issue, ignore her and count her as a loss, the fact that she doesn't want to talk to you shows she's not willing to allow you stay in her bubble. The party is over! Leave! |
Re: I Am Confused Right Now by Sucre6: 3:22pm On Oct 20, 2023 |
Bro u messed up big time, first of all you are too available for her and you are crowding her and invading her space, give her space and now that the said she needed space, give her space, don't call, text, chat or even reply to her chat. Move on , she's fvcking another d!ck, and that d!ck is giving her money, now u can't give her money and if you are not good with your bed game, u loose both side, she won't think twice before dumping your sorry ass Finally, if u love anything, let it go and if it comes back done treat her any special, treat her the way u treat your regular female friends, and watch her crack Baba just go hustle, leave her alone. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Confused Right Now by omejeb: 3:29pm On Oct 20, 2023 |
OSDD: Damn!!!! I still find it difficult to believe she is acting this way to me now |
Re: I Am Confused Right Now by omejeb: 3:32pm On Oct 20, 2023 |
Sucre6: The sex was the major thing that made her feel insecure..i was like a porn star to her..though she isn't a sex type because I would demand for more rounds while she would keep running away from the bed..i thought good sex could make her stay..but opps!!! now I am beginning to think women can never be satisfied in both ways πππ |
Re: I Am Confused Right Now by omejeb: 4:03pm On Oct 20, 2023 |
The worst part is everything keeps reminding me of her..once I see a lady with her kind of body( big butts and big breast I would start missing her.. abeg how do I move on? How do I cope??what techniques should I aply in order to move on very fast ? |
Re: I Am Confused Right Now by Newdawn30: 4:12pm On Oct 20, 2023 |
From the chat, it's clear what the issue is, The day you can't meet their needs, they stop loving you. She is looking for a rich guy now. Take it or leave it. As a man you need to be stable first before thinking of relationship if not... The disrespect you will see ehn, no be here o and she go still leave. A chapter in Ubunja's miseducation comes to mind, he writes about that silly fight she initials for no reason, is normally her way of cheating on you without feeling guilty ( she might not be cheating but the Nigerian in me tells me she is) Don't contact her for now, move on with your life, make new female friends to take your mind off her. When she is done she might come back on her own. Make money my guy then, you can even marry a younger and more beautiful girl. You are the price 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Am Confused Right Now by Warlord2014(m): 4:17pm On Oct 20, 2023 |
omejeb:Since you don't want to listen to her advice on moving one, oya go and fail because of one yeye skpekus . Nonsense boi. Focus and forget about that shit of lady. Why do you want to mess up your dream? The only one that can love you perfectly is yourself... Allowing such a thing to disturb you shows high sense of irresponsibility from your side . |
Re: I Am Confused Right Now by Sucre6: 4:17pm On Oct 20, 2023 |
omejeb: If u ever call that girl again, nah there u go see real see finish, let her go 1 Like |
Re: I Am Confused Right Now by FRANCISTOWN: 4:20pm On Oct 20, 2023 |
omejeb:I was wondering whether anyone will tell you if they were doing bad things behind you 1 Like |
Re: I Am Confused Right Now by omejeb: 4:39pm On Oct 20, 2023 |
Newdawn30: Matured word bro...kudos for your advice and I am going with what you said..thanks a lot 1 Like |
Re: I Am Confused Right Now by omejeb: 4:41pm On Oct 20, 2023 |
[quote author=Warlord2014 post=126518845] Since you don't want to listen to her advice on moving one, oya go and fail because of one yeye skpekus . Nonsense boi. Focus and forget about that shit of lady. Why do you want to mess up your dream? The only one that can love you perfectly is yourself... Allowing such a thing to disturb you shows high sense of irresponsibility from your side .[/quote ] this is a real fact..and I am doing everything possible to let her go...that was why I consulted Nairaland for help |
Re: I Am Confused Right Now by omejeb: 4:43pm On Oct 20, 2023 |
Sucre6: I am never gonna call her or text her again...anyways she is on the loosing side...cuz she is already of age and desperate for marriage..i really thank God for letting me out π€π€ |
Re: I Am Confused Right Now by omejeb: 4:45pm On Oct 20, 2023 |
DestinedForGrea: Thank you so much my brother..i will do exactly as you have said I am going to ghost her full time |
Re: I Am Confused Right Now by UcheKingsley1: 5:06pm On Oct 20, 2023 |
omejeb: Nigga, girls hate boys that act desperate (simpy). Bruh focus on your life, studies and other bitches for now, be happy on your own first, have other options, she will be the one to check you act. Someone one is feeding her and she is still weighing her bitchy options and confused now. Nigga focus, have other options and never act desperate. |
Re: I Am Confused Right Now by Nwaokunkpara: 6:40pm On Oct 20, 2023 |
Someone somewhere is singing marriage to her ears πππππ |
Re: I Am Confused Right Now by DyingFetus: 7:33pm On Oct 20, 2023 |
Download Grindr and thank me later |
Re: I Am Confused Right Now by tochez24(m): 8:53pm On Oct 20, 2023 |
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Re: I Am Confused Right Now by Newdawn30: 10:27pm On Oct 20, 2023 |
You're welcome omejeb: |
Re: I Am Confused Right Now by Ilekokonit: 10:30pm On Oct 20, 2023 |
omejeb: She doesn't want to break your heart by telling you pointedly that ITS OVER. if you keep PESTERING HER, she will be forced to tell you that you guys are not compatible or something else that will make it CLEAR TO YOU. Just move on, concentrate on your final year exams, look for a hobby or something engaging that will take your mind off her. If you are like me who does not memorize any ones phone number (including mine) , I would say just delete her number from your phone, avoid social media and when she eventually gets disappointed by the other guy she is obviously seeing or when she needs you for something and calls you, because you have deleted her number, you will pick her call and ask her "who is this" and then she will get the message that you have moved on too. |
Re: I Am Confused Right Now by Ilekokonit: 11:49pm On Oct 20, 2023 |
omejeb: Maybe she thinks you are a financial liability. As a man, never collect money from your woman. She will see you finish in the end. |
Re: I Am Confused Right Now by Brandiebird: 12:15am On Oct 21, 2023 |
Sheβs 28 years old and probably wants to settle down and get married. Youβre a 30 year old student who canβt give her what she needs. Release her with love and allow her to find her husband. You need to focus on your plans and move on otherwise you guys will be right back here in a few weeks or months because you are not compatible. Sheβs not evil and youβre not evil for needing different things. Break up with her and move on with no hard feelings so that you both can attract what you need. |
Re: I Am Confused Right Now by babzlim(m): 2:23am On Oct 21, 2023 |
Bro she doesn't have anything to say neither is anything wrong with her, the simple truth is when a woman puts up such attitude it means she found someone else and my advice is cut all contact with her, make her feel less important and move on to something more important and productive, even if she calls or chat you take time before responding better still don't even respond only then you will be valued. the moment you keep calling and texting then you are heading for Doom trust me she will show you the other side of HELL FIRE. |
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