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Cowbell521:
All this stress because of dustbin gender. Na the iiidiot wey marry weytin e supposed 4ck and dump I blame

Marrying a woman is inviting problems into your life. Men be wise

I understand where you are coming from as you grew up seeing your father being an iiidiot wey marry your mama whey e supposed 4ck and dump but she carry belle pin am for head and 9 months later, a bedlamite was born!

Cowbell521:
All this stress because of dustbin gender. Na the iiidiot wey marry weytin e supposed 4ck and dump I blame

Marrying a woman is inviting problems into your life. Men be wise

Take it easy
A man's life is evolved around women

Na you dey make am look difficult

Mr randy Orton

Nazgul:
Try to put her in the mood first, by kissing her, sucking her breasts, stimulating her clitoris... etc. If you keep mounting her whenever you have an erection, she'll keep complaining of pains cos she would still be very dry and not in the mood.

Can I help you out? ,Bring her 2 weeks training

How do we help you? You want Nairalanders to commit adultery.

Come on shift abeg.

Ayodeoba:
Hello Nairaland, pls I seek for your opinions about this isssue affecting our marriage life.
We re young couple, we just got married.
My wife had always been shouting of pain whenever we re having sex, I believe sex is meant to be enjoyed btw two party.
Any one with remedies or medication to use. Kindly help

It's either she is too tight or your size is too big for her. All I can say is that you should use lots of lubrication when you're having sex, that should help her cope better. Go to a pharmacy and ask for lubricants like durex etc, or you can just buy baby oil if you're too shy.

Bro this where communication comes into play. Visit to a gynecologist is now

Might be as a result of female circumcision.

Give her headies and thank me later

Come to an agreement with her that u guys need to be having sex, that if she doesn't how will she bear kids.

Or u guys can come to an agreement to be just husband and wife for love while I can give u a girls contact that will be settling the sexual part of the marriage.

BoboNogoDie:
Maybe she has untreated or mistreated sexually transmitted infections... Some infections can create permanent wound or blockades of the vagìna thereby causing pains during intercourse...

Did you meat her as a virgin?
Do you know her true BODYCOUNT?

Meating her as a virgin is not really important but fishing out her true body count is

Get one that does

Ayodeoba:
Hello Nairaland, pls I seek for your opinions about this isssue affecting our marriage life.
We re young couple, we just got married.
My wife had always been shouting of pain whenever we re having sex, I believe sex is meant to be enjoyed btw two party.
Any one with remedies or medication to use. Kindly help

Didn't u had sex before getting married ?
Then this should have been solved before now

Nwodosis:
No matter the size of the penis enlargement, it can't be bigger than a baby's head to cause her pains.

A baby's head comes from the inside to the outside and not from the outside to the inside. You guys always make this faulty analogy to justify the falsehood about our love for big pen!s which is a bunch of lies. Big pen!s is PAIN. That's the honest truth. Pen!s should not be too big or too small and fore play should not be less than 37 minutes.

Nazgul:
Try to put her in the mood first, by kissing her, sucking her breasts, stimulating her clitoris... etc. If you keep mounting her whenever you have an erection, she'll keep complaining of pains cos she would still be very dry and not in the mood.

Shut up today na Sunday óò u dey teach person how to duck him legal wife 😂

Jesus is coming for u 🤣

Is your wife oduduwpigs republic?

She's circumcised!

Ayodeoba:
i met her not too long after she dis virgin

if didn't meet her a virgin then take her to a female doctor for check up and advise. or use lubricants.

There has to be an explanation.

Ayodeoba:
Hello Nairaland, pls I seek for your opinions about this isssue affecting our marriage life.
We re young couple, we just got married.
My wife had always been shouting of pain whenever we re having sex, I believe sex is meant to be enjoyed btw two party.
Any one with remedies or medication to use. Kindly help

She's enjoying it more with someone else...don't let her decieve u

We day the same boat but I gat a second wife, now na she day rush me with knacks

From experience, I think she might have cyst. Take her to see a doctor. Sex isn't supposed to be that painful except there is an underlying medical issues.

Ayodeoba:
Hello Nairaland, pls I seek for your opinions about this isssue affecting our marriage life.
We re young couple, we just got married.
My wife had always been shouting of pain whenever we re having sex, I believe sex is meant to be enjoyed btw two party.
Any one with remedies or medication to use. Kindly help

lol
1. You never mentioned if she enjoyed sex prior to marriage. So I’ll assume she did .
2. If she’s complaining of pain then it’s likely two things
A . Vagina tear - if she’s not properly lubricated and you penetrate it will hurt. This can be resolved by both of you using cocoa butter or going to chemist and getting lubricant.

Also avoid jamming your rod start , where are you rushing to .? …..start with a slow rhythm and then faster. Also let her know in advance that you’d be expecting some action so she can prepare herself mentally for later.

B . If she’s complaining all the time - you have what I call “ the marriage effect “ issue which affects most couples.

You are not doing something right my friend. You should spend a lot of time with pre-intimacy to release the natural fluid of your wife. Focus on pleasing your wife. I could go almost 40 minutes on pre-intimacy alone and now my wife wakes me up in the middle of the night for sex.
She used to complain about pain in the past but not anymore. After 18 years of Marriage, I am even trying to run away from sex as my wife is constantly demanding now. 5 times in the past 4 days and I am sapped out. lol.

Take your time to turn her on . It is a skill, learn it

Ayodeoba:
i met her not too long after she dis virgin

do u give her head

Ayodeoba:
Hello Nairaland, pls I seek for your opinions about this isssue affecting our marriage life.
We re young couple, we just got married.
My wife had always been shouting of pain whenever we re having sex, I believe sex is meant to be enjoyed btw two party.
Any one with remedies or medication to use. Kindly help

easy man, dont just penetrate at once, play along brfore penetrating

Was she enjoying it before the marriage, or you guys didn't date.

Try to be more romantic during sex, and take it slow

Nothing man no go see for Nairaland

Take her to a doc then. There are so many things that can cause it

Ayodeoba:
Hello Nairaland, pls I seek for your opinions about this isssue affecting our marriage life.
We re young couple, we just got married.
My wife had always been shouting of pain whenever we re having sex, I believe sex is meant to be enjoyed btw two party.
Any one with remedies or medication to use. Kindly help

Which kind yeye pain. My brother use your gbola penetrate that woman wella explore all the angles. There is an old saying that if she doesnt cry in pains then you are not doing a good job..

She might have medical conditions,I once experience that with my wife.Visit a medical expert.