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This is not a hospital na... Go see your doctor sir.
Although personally, my ex used to shout a lot when we first knacked , subsequently she'll be like "don't go all in please...". But months down the line she de collect everything, no pains , no complaints on size or going all in. So I believe the tooto can adjust but speak to her and go see your doctor.

Even if you're just 3 inches, conditions like PCOS and endometriosis can cause excruciating pain during sex.

frozen70:
Take it easy
A man's life is evolved around women

Na you dey make am look difficult

Evolved around women?

Lol

Xristars:
This might be a case of vaginismus, I saw a video on it on Aporoko doctor YouTube, it’s actually psychological. Your wife will adjust with proper counseling. Please research on this

All these didn’t work. These are wat doctors will tell you but never works. It’s due to change in body chemistry. Sometimes infection, hormonal imbalance and stress. Doctor told i and my wife all these but didn’t work. I have dropped the solution above.

Feed her with plenty tiger nuts

She has adenomyosis or endometriosis.

May be I will get proper advice for you if I can see a picture of your thing. Some things are killer behind the scene.

Ayodeoba:
Hello Nairaland, pls I seek for your opinions about this isssue affecting our marriage life.
We re young couple, we just got married.
My wife had always been shouting of pain whenever we re having sex, I believe sex is meant to be enjoyed btw two party.
Any one with remedies or medication to use. Kindly help

Please tell her to see an experienced female gynaecologist. There's something called vaginismus or something like that. She'll learn about it and get treated medically or psychologically. You should try to go with her for some advice too. Solve your problems together and build a solid bond for the future.
Happy married life.

toneawe:
All these didn’t work. These are wat doctors will tell you but never works. It’s due to change in body chemistry. Sometimes infection, hormonal imbalance and stress. Doctor told i and my wife all these but didn’t work. I have dropped the solution above.

Well, I know two ladies who had their problems resolved through counselling and a bit of medical support.

How much is she into you?
Show interest in her plans,..listen to her.
Assure/show her commitment, protection,good hygiene,dress well, financial stability(no matter how small but must be steady..)
Learn to kiss(with clean mouth,..visit ur dentist)
These and many more will melt down her resolves and will get her into you.
ABOVE all, indulge in 'pre-intimacy', find out what she really enjoys/wants in bed

Take her to see a doctor incase of any medical reasons.

Some ladies don't really like penetration sex but oral, fingerings etc. Both they allow men to penetrate them just to make the man happy..

So maybe u have to change to non- penetrative sex

Lastly, also take her to a sex therapist not a pastor oo..

Nazgul:
Try to put her in the mood first, by kissing her, sucking her breasts, stimulating her clitoris... etc. If you keep mounting her whenever you have an erection, she'll keep complaining of pains cos she would still be very dry and not in the mood.

This is the only thing the lazy Nigeria youths know, una mate in a developed country dey progress in science and technology, but na for Toto and penis una smartness dey

Chei! Sex wey sweet pass anything in this world, na him one person no dey enjoy. Which kind body she get. I prefer sex to food. If you meet correct girl wey sabi fok well well, sex is the sweetest and best thing in life

You can't be so sure of that anyway

sentix:
She is probably circumcised
They can also affect her sex drive

Ayodeoba:
Hello Nairaland, pls I seek for your opinions about this isssue affecting our marriage life.
We re young couple, we just got married.
My wife had always been shouting of pain whenever we re having sex, I believe sex is meant to be enjoyed btw two party.
Any one with remedies or medication to use. Kindly help

seek medical advice, she's probably suffering from the effect of female genital mutilation

Was she a virgin when you guys got married if yes that mean she is just getting used to the act but if no that means it is from your own part not your wife's part. And also before you go down with her it is advisable to play with every part of her body just to stimulate her Womanhood so that she will not feel the pain and also try to see a therapy (sex or marriage) with all this I believe your sex life of both you and your wife will be restored again.....

The girl dey pretend... Na olos**

Everyone is responsible for their own cumming. This is the law in 2023.

Use lubricant and come and thank me later. . Enough lubricant ooo

Ayodeoba:
Hello Nairaland, pls I seek for your opinions about this isssue affecting our marriage life.
We re young couple, we just got married.
My wife had always been shouting of pain whenever we re having sex, I believe sex is meant to be enjoyed btw two party.
Any one with remedies or medication to use. Kindly help

Is your wife circumcised?

See your doctor, I think it's infection.

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If the pain is inside, seek medical help but if the pain is at the entrance, maybe she might not be wet enough. When a woman is not wet and you aren't using a lubricant, she get serious bruises in a way that she can't do a second round or even have sex after few days. Those bruises take almost a week to heal. Either you use a lubricant, or saliva (alot of people use this ) or get her to eat coconut and dates like 3hrs before the act (this will make her wet well and put her in the mood too). Good luck

Do not listen to that idot asking you of body count, he is out there to destroy your marriage, i am sure he is single ,

Focus on the advice others are giving you, if you like stupidly go and ask your wife I want to know your body count, that is the beggining of your problem in life.


uote author=Ayodeoba post=126549638]i met her not too long after she dis virgin[/quote]

Didn't you have sex with her before marriage? You should have sought for advice then. See your doctor.

Nwodosis:
A woman can comfortably adjust to accommodate any size of penis. No matter the size of the penis enlargement, it can't be bigger than a baby's head to cause her pains.

The baby's head does not enter from outside, it comes from inside, so it's easier to fall out with push, pain and gravity. It's not same with what's going inside.

Nazgul:
Try to put her in the mood first, by kissing her, sucking her breasts, stimulating her clitoris... etc. If you keep mounting her whenever you have an erection, she'll keep complaining of pains cos she would still be very dry and not in the mood.

Professor this economy self no de make most women Hot again boss blv me.

BoboNogoDie:
Maybe she has untreated or mistreated sexually transmitted infections... Some infections can create permanent wound or blockades around the vagìna if untreated, thereby causing pains during intercourse...

Have you or her treated any STDs before?
Did you meet her as a virgin?
Do you know her true BODYCOUNT?

I think the OP should check this - especially the STD bit

Take her for vaginal tests, untreated infections can cause such, especially yeast infection.

Try an check that your wife... Hope she's not having an affair outside

Zxcvbnmghtr:
A baby's head comes from the inside to the outside and not from the outside to the inside. You guys always make this faulty analogy to justify the falsehood about our love for big pen!s which is a bunch of lies. Big pen!s is PAIN. That's the honest truth. Pen!s should not be too big or too small and fore play should not be less than 37 minutes.

Please what do you mean by a baby's head comes from the inside to the outside? Going by your argument, we can say the vagina isn't elastic as proclaimed.

badoh:
Oga, you go kill yourself ooo. Once you're 45years upward, try and limit the number of times you have sex, e get why?

Entirely false. Sex is biological and should continue till one dies.