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1. You said virginity doesn't determine a good partner. Alright, the two years relationship with her if you remove sex, did she have a generally good character or attitude during those times?
2. You doubt that she is a virgin because she is masturbator? Therefore you are helping her masturbate without the risks of sex like STDs, Pregnancy etc. A virgin can still mean someone who hasn't had penetrative sex with another person, not cucumber nor Love Machine kind of penetration
3. The only issue I see here is that she is not reciprocating the fingering and pussy licking you give her with a hand job and mouth gig of her own respectively, You can discuss the unfairness of the non-reciprocation of these two actions with her
4. The girl is 28 years, maybe you should focus on how to pay her bride price than adding to her body count, she isn't getting any younger.
5. My conclusion is the girl is more careful about her sexual health than a lot of girls out there. When you are thinking of having sex with her, does your mind go to CONDOMS or at least are you ready to take RESPONSIBILITY when the consequences of sex like pregnancy happens?

Macnnoli4:
1. You said virginity doesn't determine a good partner. Alright, the two years relationship with her if you remove sex, did she have a generally good character or attitude during those times?
2. You doubt that she is a virgin because she is masturbator? Therefore you are helping her masturbate without the risks of sex like STDs, Pregnancy etc. A virgin can still mean someone who hasn't have penetrative sex with another person, not cucumber or Love Machine.
3. The only issue I see here is that she is not reciprocating the fingering and pussy licking you give her with a hand job and mouth gig of her own respectively, You can discuss the unfairness of the non-reciprocation of these two actions with her
4. The girl is 28 years, maybe you should focus on how to pay her bride price than adding to her body count, she isn't getting any younger.
5. My conclusion is the girl is more careful about her sexual health than a lot of girls out there. When you are thinking of having sex with her, does your mind go to CONDOMS or at least are you ready to take RESPONSIBILITY when the consequences of sex like pregnancy happens?

I told her dat if I discover she's a virgin, I will not penetrate or ever ask her for sex again. But she doesn't want to allow me check for myself. Her attitude doesn't show that she's a virgin. She cheats and I have caught her multiple times. She lies and tries to be smart when she's not. I feel I'm been played here.

Opanka44:
I told her dat if I discover she's a virgin, I will not penetrate or ever ask her for sex again. But she doesn't want to allow me check for myself. Her attitude doesn't show that she's a virgin. She cheats and I have caught her multiple times. She lies and tries to be smart when she's not. I feel I'm been played here.

😂😂😂.your case need strong juju to solve

Reminderz:
you Sabi the game wella... he has turned the pussy whipped simp into a girlfriend... she just dey use the guy masturbate herself... I don't how you guys even do, she's suppose to be the one giving you MouthAction not the other way round... you're indirectly submitting to her... choke her with Mouth Gig, let her gag.. not you going down on her, never... it signifies submission and she won't respect you... pvssy is meant to be fvcked not sucked... I doubt if she's really a virgin, she's just manipulating you with the sex, na person like you dem dey friendzone for marriage.. you don't even know what you want or let me say you can't even say what you want...

lmao, if virginity doesn't say anything about character, does being a hoe justifies that... this is the lie you guys keep telling yourself when you want to blind yourself with illusions of pleasure... when you guys get burnt, y'll turn to nairaland crying for help... your eyes go soon clear...

Lol shey na after you don spend finish for wedding pepperezi you go con discover say she nor be virgin? You go cry tire... anyways stay away from fornication

you are an idiot

Opanka44:
Hi Guys,
I've been so confused and worried lately. I have never met a Virgin girl in my life and I am not praying to meet any either. Been a virgin does not translate to being a good wife or girlfriend.
My girlfriend of 28yrs says she is a Virgin. But I'm finding it very difficult to believe it. Because,
She always wants me to be using my fingers on her clitoris without allowing me to use my dick to penetrate her. At times I wonder if she's a chronic masturbator. If I refuse using my fingers, she'd be angry at me. Why should I be using my fingers when I have a Dick?
Secondly, she always wants me to give her a Mouth Gig. I suck her pussy.
Thirdly, after sucking, she tells me to mount her while she closes her legs. While I mount her, she will tighten her legs and ask me to rub my pennis on her pussy. She will never open/spread her legs for me to penetrate.
I'm really fed up because it is becoming childish to be doing all these nonsense on bed. At the end of the whole thing, I see myself at the receiving end cos I begin to feel pains in my scrotum since I'm always unable to release. What she does is just to lie down like a log of wood. She doesn't reciprocate. I am not her first, second, third or fourth Guy so I can't understand why she claims to be a virgin. I have told her countless times that if she allows me to penetrate and I discover she's a Virgin like she claims, I'll respectably stop asking for sex until after our marriage but she doesn't want to grant me access. I feel I'm been played and manipulated here. I'm not a player and have never double dated. I am a man and can't continue like this anymore.

If I ever get to find out that she's not a virgin, I swear she's gone. I'll so mess her up for all the punishment she has meted out to me in almost two years of our relationship

The day you will discover she’s not a virgin I am %95 sure she will tell you she was raped .

Hahahahahhahaah

Opanka44 .. change your moniker to Owanka23... Because at this point, all you do is wãnk yourself off.

Jesus!! See as a daughter of Eve dey play a full grown man, who thinks he still has a gf!!!

When we tell you to embrace the redpill, you will abuse us, ain't it obvious that you are the simp in this wankaship? The girl is the leader, you dey follow mumurishly, kowtowing to her and sucking her pussy and you get nothing in return.

You will learn, just wait for a little while

U be fool... Comot here

Opanka44:
I told her dat if I discover she's a virgin, I will not penetrate or ever ask her for sex again. But she doesn't want to allow me check for myself. Her attitude doesn't show that she's a virgin. She cheats and I have caught her multiple times. She lies and tries to be smart when she's not. I feel I'm been played here.

Opanka44:
Hi Guys,
I've been so confused and worried lately. I have never met a Virgin girl in my life and I am not praying to meet any either. Been a virgin does not translate to being a good wife or girlfriend.
My girlfriend of 28yrs says she is a Virgin. But I'm finding it very difficult to believe it. Because,
She always wants me to be using my fingers on her clitoris without allowing me to use my dick to penetrate her. At times I wonder if she's a chronic masturbator. If I refuse using my fingers, she'd be angry at me. Why should I be using my fingers when I have a Dick?
Secondly, she always wants me to give her a Mouth Gig. I suck her pussy.
Thirdly, after sucking, she tells me to mount her while she closes her legs. While I mount her, she will tighten her legs and ask me to rub my pennis on her pussy. She will never open/spread her legs for me to penetrate.
I'm really fed up because it is becoming childish to be doing all these nonsense on bed. At the end of the whole thing, I see myself at the receiving end cos I begin to feel pains in my scrotum since I'm always unable to release. What she does is just to lie down like a log of wood. She doesn't reciprocate. I am not her first, second, third or fourth Guy so I can't understand why she claims to be a virgin. I have told her countless times that if she allows me to penetrate and I discover she's a Virgin like she claims, I'll respectably stop asking for sex until after our marriage but she doesn't want to grant me access. I feel I'm been played and manipulated here. I'm not a player and have never double dated. I am a man and can't continue like this anymore.

If I ever get to find out that she's not a virgin, I swear she's gone. I'll so mess her up for all the punishment she has meted out to me in almost two years of our relationship

You have gradually been reduced to a simp. It’s up to you to continue.

No let blue balls kill you.


Come out straight and clear her.

Just tell her she can’t always be at the enjoyment end. That if you wants to continually keep herself, that you are not against it but forget about anything sex. Be it pre-intimacy or mouth action. She will agree with you.


Next time you are Hot, self-service your senses back. You will be the first to make the sexual move. When you does, tell her to stop straight up.


After 1week. You go turn Makanaki