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Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by AK481(m): 11:55am On Nov 02, 2023
dont be distracted when you are in a fight .

women have sent a lot of men to their early grave .
Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by CorperKola: 11:55am On Nov 02, 2023
laivwire:


And so he should lunge at the attacker? What are you guys saying? Walking away was a way to diffuse the situation. Your best defence from a gunman is to create as much distance between you both as much as possible. Better yet, walks backwards, but turning his back shows he is no longer interested in the confrontation and that makes the crime more premeditated.

I hope you also read that the attacker went to the two prone bodies and fired off at least 2 more shots execution style.
That is why trying to disarm him would have been the best option
Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by mastermaestro(m): 11:55am On Nov 02, 2023
99thEnemy:


Another person will tell you that:
"It is better to be a Lion for a day than a sheep for all your life."

But also they say: "A living Dog is better than a dead Lion."

Two contradictory sayings.


Well, different strokes for different folks

Read the situation critically before taking up the relevant character. grin This life nor be black and white o. What is good for Monday morning may not be good for Monday evening. cheesy

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Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by WAPINATION: 11:55am On Nov 02, 2023
You gat jast one life to live…If you lucky then you might get two…..dbanj
Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by Germanjoe(m): 11:56am On Nov 02, 2023
I don't argue with someone with any kind of weapon,I find my escape route.
To be careful, no be say u dey fear.
Weapons no dey respect who create am.

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Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by udemzyudex(m): 11:56am On Nov 02, 2023
Lol.. Black lives matters indeed, dem no go protest this one cos na black man Vs black man.

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Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by tonididdy(m): 11:57am On Nov 02, 2023
Omoawoke2:
Very correct

Be turned his back on a man aiming gun at him, life's mot Hollywood where we form James bond

What would you've done different?
That dead man in his mind was praying for 10secs more just to get to the door and lock himself in.
If he had brought out a gun in the first place instead of a scissors am sure both men would have chickened out to a latter date.


In conclusion: America is not a place to have a quarell or rift with anyone not even a kid.
If you're wrong or right...just apologies, smile and Japa!
Otherwise your corpse fit first you return naija

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Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by Juju70(m): 11:57am On Nov 02, 2023
I dont hear racism now. Brothers killing brothers!!! Moda fkas

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Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by Angelfrost(m): 11:58am On Nov 02, 2023
hammerFC:



NONSENSE TALK!


DEATH BEFORE DISHONOR.


GUN OR NO GUN, U MUST REPRESENT FOR PASTERITY TO REMEMBER.

Na so!!! grin grin grin

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Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by Lasgidi90(m): 11:59am On Nov 02, 2023
StreetFight:


Three million heros were sacrificed to Ogun, Sango, Obatala, Aiyelala and Esu Odara between 1967 and 1970 when Mr. Bravery Col. Emeka Odumegwu Agbari-Ojukwu declared war against the Federal Republic and fled to Ivory Coast with the Naira he looted in Enugu and Port Harcourt CBN branches
Woooooow, so according to you a cowardly life is better
Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by Exceed15: 12:00pm On Nov 02, 2023
Avoid anything leading to heated argument. I always keep shut or walk away though not easy Sha but it Worth it .

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Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by Angelfrost(m): 12:01pm On Nov 02, 2023
Built2last:
You see short people without neck.

Avoid them

E get why.

Well... Research shows that a lot of them suffer from constant taunting and demoralizing bullying.

This is what makes them naturally prone to anger and violence, ESPECIALLY if they have to look up to the bully.
Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by laivwire(m): 12:02pm On Nov 02, 2023
Angelfrost:


Bro, he should have done any and everything to preserve his own life even if it means scrubbing the guy's floors.

The person holding the gun has the upper hand in any and every physical encounter.

Once gun enters the matter, your common sense of self-preservation should take precedence over your pride or ego.
and that's why I emphasized that it won't work. the shooter had shot at the fleeing boy and the two lying bodies. A situation where they were both defenceless and posed no threat to him. There was literally nothing they could have done but run from him. Kneeling or begging will even inflame the killer's anger.
Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by DonroxyII: 12:04pm On Nov 02, 2023
quadraheem:
In addition, the suspect in this dirty drama will now be full of regret and the remaining of his life will never be the same again.
He will be confined and not be able to do whatever he wishes again in his life.
People need to make a choice between staying home with your family or spending the rest of your life behind bars if not sentenced to death.
If truly you know the consequence of an action is not going to be good, why carry out the action.?
May God continue to protect us from all evils.
You are Simply "Godly" God bless your Soul !

But the Mantra is that Once You Pulled, Be ready to Use if not You are Dead!

Evil Abound, May God Help Us to Dominion Them, Amen!

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Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by Angelfrost(m): 12:04pm On Nov 02, 2023
laivwire:

and that's why I emphasized that it won't work. the shooter had shot at the fleeing boy and the two lying bodies. A situation where they were both defenceless and posed no threat to him. There was literally nothing they could have done but run from him. Kneeling or begging will even inflame the killer's anger.

Watch the video again... When the gun came out, what did the victim do?!! What was the first wrong thing he did?!!

He didn't even flee or try to flee... He casually and dismissively walked away with his back turned on the gunman.

Who does that?!! Answer: those who have no regard for the threats posed by others.

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Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by Ayjay44(m): 12:05pm On Nov 02, 2023
quadraheem:
In addition, the suspect in this dirty drama will now be full of regret and the remaining of his life will never be the same again.
He will be confined and not be able to do whatever he wishes again in his life.
People need to make a choice between staying home with your family or spending the rest of your life behind bars if not sentenced to death.
If truly you know the consequence of an action is not going to be good, why carry out the action.?
May God continue to protect us from all evils.
for financial gain? LOL
Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by optimusprime2(m): 12:05pm On Nov 02, 2023
SalamRushdie:
Why will you be living in Brooklyn, Chicago, Philly and even arguing with anyone , most people in these places are frustrated and ready to kill

Whenever I am in the US, I become a "Yes sir" man, I don't argue or publicly disagree with anyone be it the police, Walmart staff, homeless folk, in traffic... I no dey argue at allll.

If they tell me blue is pink, wetin consign me, I am always like; "Yes Sir!"

Everytime police stops me in a car, they always end up laughing because I drop my famous disclaimer of; "first of all I would like to state that I am a straight black man, and I am unarmed, the suspicious bump on my thigh is actually my g-unit at a relaxed state. I am ready to strip for further search and confirmation"

Me I no like wahala grin

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Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by Iko5000: 12:05pm On Nov 02, 2023
Its CCTV. Most Apartment blocks have CCTV in the general area . Also most Uk and US homes have door bells cameras that records video and sound very clearly .
Beraphiu:
I saw this online before seeing it here again, the question that comes to my mind is, who is the cameraman? because this is not CCTV footage and why was there no sound?

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Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by AfroBeatDiary: 12:06pm On Nov 02, 2023
richeeyo:
Ontop noise ooo, the shooter would be forever in a noisy place

My thought, he looks like a gorilla in his mugshot.
Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by DonroxyII: 12:06pm On Nov 02, 2023
WantsandMore:
Saner climes no sane again. Rip to the dead. No woman no cry.
It's Never a Sane Clime ... Na you ni dey respect your own world!

Where evil no dey no exist except "Heaven" Where God dey live!
Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by DonroxyII: 12:10pm On Nov 02, 2023
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
One lesson I've learnt about in this life is that--Ive got no time to argue with anyone any longer.....

If you think and believe you're right,then you're definitely right and it doesn't concern me..
Olohun, Peace of Mind is of Overriding Importance to a Sane Man.
Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by georgeakins: 12:13pm On Nov 02, 2023
olatade:
A valuable lesson: Do not argue with fools because you could lose your life. Walk away from fools and save your own life.

Both of them are fools
Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by DWJOBScom(m): 12:16pm On Nov 02, 2023
Sirchiboy:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZUjUYaCxrds?si=DWeFIPBxC1p_ye3Q

It is better to be a coward and stay alive than to die trying to be a hero.
Violence won't take you anywhere.
Learn to be at peace with everyone even if you are right or wrong.
No need to drag with anyone.

It does not take anything from you.

Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/7897064/neighbor-shot-dead-nyc-dad#126737273

A valid lesson
Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by DonroxyII: 12:18pm On Nov 02, 2023
justdream:
The wife is complicit in all these. Why pulling the husband by the shirt? She shudda allowed two grown men settle their scores. Dragging him by the shirt distorted his original reason of confrontation, and thereby enabled his poor judgment and assessment of the situation, becos that act infuriated him also.
grin grin Kai, Naijamen!
Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by Sleekfingers: 12:21pm On Nov 02, 2023
flyinnizam:
Texas and NYC


Which state Brooklyn dey? Since you mentioned NYC
Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by oz4real83(m): 12:22pm On Nov 02, 2023
hammerFC:



THE POLICE KILLED THATMAN BECAUSE HE HAD A GOOD CHANCE OF CLAIMING SELF DEFENCE.


ESPECIIALLY, IF ONLY HE KILLED THE MAN AND LEFT THE BOY, NO PROBLEM.


THEIR ANGER IS THE WAY HE SHOT THE BOY.


1 SHOT IS ENOUGH AT CLOSE RANGE.


GIVE HIM A CHANCE TO SURVIVE.


FINISH THE ONE THAT POINTED SCISSOR IN YOUR FACE.
if u were a lawyer, your clients will just keep losing shocked. The victim was already walking away and was shot at the back, how was the man's life in danger? You can only claim self-defense if you were in immediate danger if you didn't take the action you took, the video clearly showed everything shocked
Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by 99thEnemy(m): 12:22pm On Nov 02, 2023
mastermaestro:


Read the situation critically before taking up the relevant character. grin This life nor be black and white o. What is good for Monday morning may not be good for Monday evening. cheesy
In summary: "Don't start a fight you can't finish."

grin grin grin

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Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by ednut1(m): 12:23pm On Nov 02, 2023
Would rather be a coward and live o

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Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by FreeStuffsNG: 12:25pm On Nov 02, 2023
WantsandMore:
Saner climes no sane again. Rip to the dead. No woman no cry.
They have never been sane and the US itself never pretended it is so when their society GOP made laws that give rights to buy assort rifles to even people with poor mental health. It is only the low self-esteemed Nigerians with inferiority complex who coined that phrase 'sane society' in their complex. US has the highest level of mass shootings in the whole world and life is so cheap there!

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Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by georgeakins: 12:25pm On Nov 02, 2023
Fugazy2023:
One korope driver dent my car on Monday and started bragging on it, na so I just waka jeje dey go my way. Peace of mind is important to me

I don't support your action. Don't allow anyone that dent your car to go scot free. He must repair it, especially if he does not show remorse.
Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by folufx: 12:27pm On Nov 02, 2023
Suspect had another confrontation but with the police this time around and was shot three times on the chest. Police took it personal I think.
Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by planetx: 12:28pm On Nov 02, 2023
Beraphiu:
I saw this online before seeing it here again, the question that comes to my mind is, who is the cameraman? because this is not CCTV footage and why was there no sound?
Of course it's CCTV and CCTV doesn't normally have sound.

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