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Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by yewit37486: 1:32pm On Nov 02, 2023
Raskimonojendor:




It's a CCTV. It's auto that follows movement or voices and have pan and tilt featured enabled. I have an home version of such system.

Mr Raskimono, why are you not dropping your usual troublesome comments today nah ?
Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by DRPAIT123(m): 1:35pm On Nov 02, 2023
The wacko killer has also been reported dead a few hours ago.

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Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by muzeze77: 1:36pm On Nov 02, 2023
I have been in the same situation, Lived in an apartment where the floors are made of cheap hardwood. Noise will nearly cause you to be insane . Most Nigerians live in houses built with cement and block so you will never encounter this. But its not pleasant
They must have driven the man insane but its not an excuse to kill. He had made complaint to them for almost a year
From the video you can see he was walking away to go back to his apartment before the husband with big chest came with scissors to intimidate him (Bad Idea). The husband who is an immigrant from Haiti does not know in the US big chest is nothing.

For those blaming the husband for turning his back. Thats one of the good decisions he made. If the gunman had shot him at the front with a scissors , the gunman can easily claim self defense and walk free. He will just say a giant with big scissors was trying to kill me

But the best decision in this scenario is to make peace with your neighbor, invite him in for beer, explain the situation and if you encounter an angry gun man. get on your knees and beg like a little girl

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Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by richie240: 1:36pm On Nov 02, 2023
quadraheem:
In addition, the suspect in this dirty drama will now be full of regret and the remaining of his life will never be the same again.
He will be confined and not be able to do whatever he wishes again in his life.
People need to make a choice between staying home with your family or spending the rest of your life behind bars if not sentenced to death.
If truly you know the consequence of an action is not going to be good, why carry out the action.?
May God continue to protect us from all evils.
Is not that easy bro.
Unlik in africa where conviction is a stain on ur dignity (at least in most part of Nigeria), over there, esp amongst the blacks, prison sentence is a 'badge of honour' as a 'OG' - an original gangster.

So that's why they are quick to draw d weapon at d slightest altercation

Just like in nigeria, some ppl blv if u don't do gra-gra/nsobu-sobu then u are a coward!
cool

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Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by Tymk: 1:40pm On Nov 02, 2023
Sirchiboy:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZUjUYaCxrds?si=DWeFIPBxC1p_ye3Q

It is better to be a coward and stay alive than to die trying to be a hero.
Violence won't take you anywhere.
Learn to be at peace with everyone even if you are right or wrong.
No need to drag with anyone.

It does not take anything from you.

Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/7897064/neighbor-shot-dead-nyc-dad#126737273
his useless wife caused it. she created the distance for it to happen
Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by MasterTeeUSA: 1:48pm On Nov 02, 2023
Three things that can get you killed in the US

- Issues with people (Road rage. Noise, calling police)
- Drugs and Money (Expensive shit screams money)
- Women (Don't fight over someone's gf)

Even my students will tell you they won't allow disrespect...we suspend hundreds every year due to fights ...thank God we have a metal detector. Every week we have fights inside the school. Police is stationed on the street..they still fight and get arrested. This is the America no one talks about.







Sirchiboy:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZUjUYaCxrds?si=DWeFIPBxC1p_ye3Q

It is better to be a coward and stay alive than to die trying to be a hero.
Violence won't take you anywhere.
Learn to be at peace with everyone even if you are right or wrong.
No need to drag with anyone.

It does not take anything from you.

Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/7897064/neighbor-shot-dead-nyc-dad#126737273

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Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by Emeskhalifa(m): 1:48pm On Nov 02, 2023
Sunnyhillsfarms:
He's been shot dead too

By police or who?
Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by richie240: 1:53pm On Nov 02, 2023
Sebi when den don use gun scatter that ur belligerent 'brave' head, ur wife/children will now become a widow/fatherless.

Sounds cool to me.
cool
2O17:
Well, cowards are the one who writes history.
Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by eepeepook: 1:55pm On Nov 02, 2023
It is better to be a coward and stay alive than to die trying to be a hero.
A coward dies a thousand deaths. A hero dies once. So many live in constant fear that they catch blood pressure issues or cardiac arrest. Not a way to experience life.

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Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by edunaragold(f): 1:59pm On Nov 02, 2023
SIXTEENTH:
A cowards will be sitting in house one day and points where heroes once lives and buried.
that's chinu achebe
Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by Baladalph: 2:00pm On Nov 02, 2023
Blacks killing blacks for reasons that can be handled with care.God forbid bad thing ooo

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Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by richie240: 2:01pm On Nov 02, 2023
jaxxy:
always stay strapped in the Newyork ghettos.

How can a man pull up a gun after the man confronting him was already leaving the situation?
He (the murderer) knew it will be a different story when he returns from his room.
The man was obviously going for his own gun too.
cool
Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by jaxxy(m): 2:05pm On Nov 02, 2023
richie240:

He (the murderer) knew it will be a different story when he returns from his room.
The man was obviously going for his gun too.
cool

very wild assumptions don't guarantee Leeway to commit murder. u must see or be sure of the threat this guy was retreating. even if he gets a gun which he wasn't how will it help when they both have guns?

he also killed the boy who was unarmed and only trying to get out of the way.
Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by Westman001: 2:05pm On Nov 02, 2023
oz4real83:
The victim made a big mistake, why will u back a man holding a gun? Immediately he saw the man pulling up his shirt, even if he wasn't going to bring out a gun, he should have closed him up immediately and grabbed him until he was sure it wasn't a gun the man was pulling up. shocked shocked. It once happened to me, I was walking on the way not knowing that armed robbers in a car were stalking me in broad daylight on a busy road with lots of people around shocked, somebody immediately came to my side and shouted if you move.... and was in the process of pulling up his gun under his shirt when I flung my hand and the pistol fell off his hand shocked. That gave me the opportunity to run away because I didn't know if the others in the car would come out with guns to assist him. That particular robber would have been caught that day in Benin city if the people standing and watching us had balls to come and assist me. shocked. Like I said before, the victim should have closed him up immediately he saw him about pulling up his shirt.

He did not see him pulling up his shirt or when he brought the gun out. The woman distracted him at that moment.
But he did see him point the gun at him, then turn his back heading back to his apartment. He probably underestimated the man thinking he wouldn't shoot or he wanted to go bring his own gun.
He should have stood tall at him the moment he saw him with the gun or better still go on his knees and beg like he's dead already.

You see death staring at you but your arrogant self ignored death.

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Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by Rybnyk(m): 2:32pm On Nov 02, 2023
Sirchiboy:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZUjUYaCxrds?si=DWeFIPBxC1p_ye3Q

It is better to be a coward and stay alive than to die trying to be a hero.
Violence won't take you anywhere.
Learn to be at peace with everyone even if you are right or wrong.
No need to drag with anyone.

It does not take anything from you.

Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/7897064/neighbor-shot-dead-nyc-dad#126737273
It's not even cowardice to stay away from someone who is armed. It's wisdom. Unless you're armed and you're ready to use your weapon. You and the armed individual are unmatched and there can only be one likely outcome... You getting shot. One can only approach an armed individual if he himself is armed, gun out,loaded and aimed to shoot or if you have John Wick's suit on or you're the flash or superman. If you don't have any of the above,just mind your business,duck and call the police jejely...

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Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by CedarHoldings: 2:42pm On Nov 02, 2023
quadraheem:
In addition, the suspect in this dirty drama will now be full of regret and the remaining of his life will never be the same again.
He will be confined and not be able to do whatever he wishes again in his life.
People need to make a choice between staying home with your family or spending the rest of your life behind bars if not sentenced to death.
If truly you know the consequence of an action is not going to be good, why carry out the action.?
May God continue to protect us from all evils.
he may not regret, some people are already died they are just look for someone to buried with them,they have come to conclusion they kill someone(especially the ones enjoying their lives)
Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by Jacks14: 2:43pm On Nov 02, 2023
Says coward, it takes hero to die and for coward to be alive
SIXTEENTH:
A cowards will be sitting in house one day and points where heroes once lives and buried.
Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by firearcher: 2:47pm On Nov 02, 2023
Sadly this would only be a major news if the shooter is white male or police officer and the victims are black. Then it wont be a case of gun violence but racism.

Seems gun violence among blacks is not a big deal. It happens regularly but mostly not in the news.

RIP to the dead. Pray lessons are learnt
Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by djon78(m): 2:52pm On Nov 02, 2023
quadraheem:
In addition, the suspect in this dirty drama will now be full of regret and the remaining of his life will never be the same again.
He will be confined and not be able to do whatever he wishes again in his life.
People need to make a choice between staying home with your family or spending the rest of your life behind bars if not sentenced to death.
If truly you know the consequence of an action is not going to be good, why carry out the action.?
May God continue to protect us from all evils.


The suspect is already Dead

NYPD killed him on Wednesday

He was a very stupid Man
A jobless Man that stopped working since 2017

He and the guy he killed will settle there matter in the land of the Dead
Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by Bodydiialect57: 2:55pm On Nov 02, 2023
Walk away from trouble if you can. It doesn't mean you are weak when you turn the other cheek.

They both were bothered with noises, now they are where they're are no noises again.
Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by TheSuperX(m): 3:03pm On Nov 02, 2023
America with terrorism, those white hypocrites won't see this, but if it was a Muslim they will clarify the Muslim a terrorist.
Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by TheSuperX(m): 3:04pm On Nov 02, 2023
DRPAIT123:
The wacko killer has also been reported dead a few hours ago.
Source?
Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by Omoawoke2(m): 3:06pm On Nov 02, 2023
tonididdy:


What would you've done different?
That dead man in his mind was praying for 10secs more just to get to the door and lock himself in.
If he had brought out a gun in the first place instead of a scissors am sure both men would have chickened out to a latter date.


In conclusion: America is not a place to have a quarell or rift with anyone not even a kid.
If you're wrong or right...just apologies, smile and Japa!
Otherwise your corpse fit first you return naija

Person point gun, na to kneel down, and surrender … raise your hands up

And you are right, america is no place to pick quarrels ooo
Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by SIXTEENTH(m): 3:07pm On Nov 02, 2023
Jacks14:
Says coward, it takes hero to die and for coward to be alive

Reminiscing lekki massacre 2020 as a case study, this time around read deeper
Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by richie240: 3:07pm On Nov 02, 2023
Patriotsleague:

And the guns are readily available...that momentary anger has taken a lot of lives and put so many behind bars, just because they were with guns, if they had no guns, they probably would have shouted or boxed it out, and move on when the adrenaline dissipate.
Cheap access to guns + drugs + gangster mentality = ease of murder

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Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by Cromagnon: 3:12pm On Nov 02, 2023
Starboytwo:
Pls Jakpa crew, kindly dont mention "security of life" blah blah when casting aspersion on Nigeria.

As it is, your neighbor will shoot you and your son when you jamming that loud Asake music or those early morning worship songs.

A gun man will ruthlessly gun you down when your shopping at a mall cuz he is angry.
Better than dying by the millions from one chance and police extortion
Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by Cromagnon: 3:13pm On Nov 02, 2023
Patriotsleague:

And the guns are readily available...that momentary anger has taken a lot of lives and put so many behind bars, just because they were with guns, if they had no guns, they probably would have shouted or boxed it out, and move on when the adrenaline dissipate.
not really. Very difficult to get in new York. That's why it's so easy for the few that have cos they have monopoly given by stupid govt
Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by richie240: 3:19pm On Nov 02, 2023
jaxxy:


very wild assumptions don't guarantee Leeway to commit murder. u must see or be sure of the threat this guy was retreating. even if he gets a gun which he wasn't how will it help when they both have guns?

he also killed the boy who was unarmed and only trying to get out of the way.
Both men were fools.
Even Baba God talk say "anger rests in d bossom of fools".

"I nor go gree - I nor go gree", na like this e dey end. Now both of them have made widows/semi-orphans of their women/children.
Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by richie240: 3:27pm On Nov 02, 2023
There's time for everything: a time to show bravery and a time to beat a retreat.
Only fools display nsobu-sobu all d time.
cool

Lasgidi90:

Woooooow, so according to you a cowardly life is better

Now that he has displayed his 'bravery' and received the consequences, sebi na u go feed hin family.
cool

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Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by richie240: 3:33pm On Nov 02, 2023
Which 'wife'? The one that escalated the matter with her running mouth?
Dhur!
princeFAD:
Probably [if he had listen to his wife[/b] when she tried to pull him away, his life and his son could have been saved.
She was equally guilty of aggravating the matter only to intervene (pull the shirt) when d matter had gotten to a head.
Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by Faposky95: 3:38pm On Nov 02, 2023
bid4rich:
Sometimes people don't realise that they have only one life to live, especially in US.

Many have been killed in the process of heated argument at gun point yet never learnt from those who had died in the process..

You have onli one life to live, avoid devil possessed with gun. Respect ya life

You only live that ONCE to once die another day..
Don't be a NAIJA man who looks and prays only for tomorrow.
Re: Lessons Learnt From The NYC Man Shot Dead By His Neighbour by tonididdy(m): 3:42pm On Nov 02, 2023
Omoawoke2:


Person point gun, na to kneel down, and surrender … raise your hands up

And you are right, america is no place to pick quarrels ooo

Yes oh it's a messed up place
...even you nor find trouble, one mad man go still carry gun come spray where you sitdon dey relax unprovoked

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