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I Keep Seeing Her In My Dreams... Please Help!!! by DSC7(op): 12:37pm On Nov 08, 2023
There is this lady i have known since 2005,yes she was the first girl i set my eyes on when i was admitted into that school,we were in same class then.....

I had feelings for her but couldn't express my feelings because we were classmates,...

As we entered SS2,one of my friend told me he loves her,i asked him to approach her,he did,she told me and asked if she should give him a chance,I said no problem,they started dating....

2010 we graduated,we lost contacts,i searched for her on social media till 2019 when i saw her on Facebook....I told her everything i felt for her back then but she keeps seeing it as if I'm catching cruise....

But the problem I'm facing now is that since 2010 that we last saw,i keep seeing her in my dreams,,,, there's no week that i don't dream of her...We share beautiful moments together except secxx....

Now I'm scared because it happens frequently these days....

Please what should i do?
Re: I Keep Seeing Her In My Dreams... Please Help!!! by Godada(m): 12:40pm On Nov 08, 2023
huh

You are still obsessed with this lady.


Better get another girl and go on with your life....
Re: I Keep Seeing Her In My Dreams... Please Help!!! by TheZeezle(m): 12:40pm On Nov 08, 2023
Kill yourself bro
Re: I Keep Seeing Her In My Dreams... Please Help!!! by ojun50(m): 12:47pm On Nov 08, 2023
You don’t have to do some thing just keep dreaming till she appears in real life
Re: I Keep Seeing Her In My Dreams... Please Help!!! by DSC7(op): 12:47pm On Nov 08, 2023
Godada:
huh

You are still obsessed with this lady.


Better get another girl and go on with your life....
I have one already,,,but she takes life too serious unlike this lady that we discuss almost everything about ourselves...

My present babe doesn't have the vibez i want,, I'm totally confused....
Re: I Keep Seeing Her In My Dreams... Please Help!!! by DSC7(op): 12:48pm On Nov 08, 2023
TheZeezle:
Kill yourself bro
How should i do it sir?
Re: I Keep Seeing Her In My Dreams... Please Help!!! by DSC7(op): 12:51pm On Nov 08, 2023
ojun50:
You don’t have to do some thing just keep dreaming till she appears in real life
Is there any possibility we could end up as life partners?
Re: I Keep Seeing Her In My Dreams... Please Help!!! by Ballzproblemm: 12:52pm On Nov 08, 2023
be like say tinubu government no dey reach you na why you get time to dey dream nonsense
Re: I Keep Seeing Her In My Dreams... Please Help!!! by Godada(m): 12:53pm On Nov 08, 2023
DSC7:
I have one already,,,but she takes life too serious unlike this lady that we discuss almost everything about ourselves...

My present babe doesn't have the vibez i want,, I'm totally confused....
Get another. Find someone who vibes like you. Don't settle for less. You owe yourself that much.

As for the elephant in the room: have you fixed your shyness?
Re: I Keep Seeing Her In My Dreams... Please Help!!! by DSC7(op): 12:55pm On Nov 08, 2023
Godada:
Get another. Find someone who vibes like you. Don't settle for less. You owe yourself that much.

As for the elephant in the room: have you fixed your shyness?
Shyness?How did you know about that?
Re: I Keep Seeing Her In My Dreams... Please Help!!! by Marynwachukwu21(f): 12:56pm On Nov 08, 2023
DSC7:
There is this lady i have known since 2005,yes she was the first girl i set my eyes on when i was admitted into that school,we were in same class then.....

I had feelings for her but couldn't express my feelings because we were classmates,...

As we entered SS2,one of my friend told me he loves her,i asked him to approach her,he did,she told me and asked if she should give him a chance,I said no problem,they started dating....

2010 we graduated,we lost contacts,i searched for her on social media till 2019 when i saw her on Facebook....I told her everything i felt for her back then but she keeps seeing it as if I'm catching cruise....

But the problem I'm facing now is that since 2010 that we last saw,i keep seeing her in my dreams,,,, there's no week that i don't dream of her...We share beautiful moments together except secxx....

Now I'm scared because it happens frequently these days....

Please what should i do?
You're shy to approach a girl,you better throw that shy ness away and be wise before some else takes what belongs to you.Be bold enough to say anything to her,but if she rejects you walk away and never regret it.
Re: I Keep Seeing Her In My Dreams... Please Help!!! by DSC7(op): 12:59pm On Nov 08, 2023
Marynwachukwu21:
You're shy to approach a girl,you better throw that shy ness away and be wise before some else takes what belongs to you.Be bold enough to say anything to her,but if she rejects you walk away and never regret it.
I wasn't shy to approach her...

I was only not comfortable because we were classmates then......

How do i stop dreaming of her or is she the right one??
Re: I Keep Seeing Her In My Dreams... Please Help!!! by Bornboy4: 1:05pm On Nov 08, 2023
There are better things to think about rather a lady who may come and break your heart and steal your money.

Oh boy! Wake up from your dream and be alive to your responsibility.
Re: I Keep Seeing Her In My Dreams... Please Help!!! by Godada(m): 1:07pm On Nov 08, 2023
DSC7:
Shyness?How did you know about that?
You had a girl you desired. You could not express and articulate your feelings for her. You let another guy take over. She even had the decency to ask for your blessing.

Guy, forget that girl.

Work on your social skills.

Then you would realise that she is not the girl of your dreams but just an ass that you didn't tap.

Trust me.
Re: I Keep Seeing Her In My Dreams... Please Help!!! by ojun50(m): 1:09pm On Nov 08, 2023
DSC7:
Is there any possibility we could end up as life partners?
CBN governor has answer to this
Re: I Keep Seeing Her In My Dreams... Please Help!!! by DSC7(op): 1:11pm On Nov 08, 2023
Godada:
You had a girl you desired. You could not express and articulate your feelings for her. You let another guy take over. She even had the decency to ask for your blessing.

Guy, forget that girl.

Work on your social skills.

Then you would realise that she is not the girl of your dreams but just an ass that you didn't tap.

Trust me.
Hmmmm...you have a point though ...

But is it normal dreaming of her often or it has some spiritual meaning too??
Re: I Keep Seeing Her In My Dreams... Please Help!!! by DSC7(op): 1:13pm On Nov 08, 2023
Bornboy4:
There are better things to think about rather a lady who may come and break your heart and steal your money.

Oh boy! Wake up from your dream and be alive to your responsibility.
So shouldn't we plan of getting married because we are scared of breakfast??
Re: I Keep Seeing Her In My Dreams... Please Help!!! by Marynwachukwu21(f): 1:29pm On Nov 08, 2023
DSC7:
I wasn't shy to approach her...

I was only not comfortable because we were classmates then......

How do i stop dreaming of her or is she the right one??
It doesn't mean whether you both are classmate or not but age matters
Re: I Keep Seeing Her In My Dreams... Please Help!!! by Godada(m): 1:33pm On Nov 08, 2023
DSC7:
Hmmmm...you have a point though ...

But is it normal dreaming of her often or it has some spiritual meaning too??
It's normal when you have kept thinking of her for a long time. But that's not a productive use of your time. As we speak it's likely she is collecting doggy right now.

She would surely have moved on so should you.

That you are obsessed with, will likely manifest in your dreams.

So you are free to dream on or activity do something about it
Re: I Keep Seeing Her In My Dreams... Please Help!!! by DSC7(op): 1:36pm On Nov 08, 2023
Marynwachukwu21:
It doesn't mean whether you both are classmate or not but age matters
...

We are both grown up now.....

Have you experienced same before??
Re: I Keep Seeing Her In My Dreams... Please Help!!! by DSC7(op): 1:39pm On Nov 08, 2023
Godada:
It's normal when you have kept thinking of her for a long time. But that's not a productive use of your time. As we speak it's likely she is collecting doggy right now.

She would surely have moved on so should you.

That you are obsessed with, will likely manifest in your dreams.

So you are free to dream on or activity do something about it
Omohhhhhh....

Be like na to delete everything about her be the way forward oooo...
Re: I Keep Seeing Her In My Dreams... Please Help!!! by DSC7(op): 1:42pm On Nov 08, 2023
Ballzproblemm:
be like say tinubu government no dey reach you na why you get time to dey dream nonsense
Nothing concern me with Tinubu government because i never campaigned for him neither do i have any business with government work ...
Re: I Keep Seeing Her In My Dreams... Please Help!!! by TheZeezle(m): 2:20pm On Nov 08, 2023
U dunno how to kill yourself since your not normal anymore.

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How should i do it sir?[/quote]
Re: I Keep Seeing Her In My Dreams... Please Help!!! by Nobody: 2:22pm On Nov 08, 2023
If stupid was a person
Re: I Keep Seeing Her In My Dreams... Please Help!!! by alterego17: 3:38pm On Nov 08, 2023
Godada:
You had a girl you desired. You could not express and articulate your feelings for her. You let another guy take over. She even had the decency to ask for your blessing.

Guy, forget that girl.

Work on your social skills.

Then you would realise that she is not the girl of your dreams but just an ass that you didn't tap.

Trust me.
He can still tap dat ass if he wants...
Re: I Keep Seeing Her In My Dreams... Please Help!!! by alterego17: 3:39pm On Nov 08, 2023
DSC7:
...

We are both grown up now.....

Have you experienced same before??
Bro invite her for weekend n flex her wella ...it's never too late brother
Re: I Keep Seeing Her In My Dreams... Please Help!!! by MrCork: 3:43pm On Nov 08, 2023
DSC7:
There is this lady i have known since 2005,yes she was the first girl i set my eyes on when i was admitted into that school,we were in same class then.....

I had feelings for her but couldn't express my feelings because we were classmates,...

As we entered SS2,one of my friend told me he loves her,i asked him to approach her,he did,she told me and asked if she should give him a chance,I said no problem,they started dating....

2010 we graduated,we lost contacts,i searched for her on social media till 2019 when i saw her on Facebook....I told her everything i felt for her back then but she keeps seeing it as if I'm catching cruise....

But the problem I'm facing now is that since 2010 that we last saw,i keep seeing her in my dreams,,,, there's no week that i don't dream of her...We share beautiful moments together except secxx....

Now I'm scared because it happens frequently these days....

Please what should i do?
Re: I Keep Seeing Her In My Dreams... Please Help!!! by Nobody: 5:15pm On Nov 08, 2023
2010 we graduated,we lost contacts,i searched for her on social media till 2019 when i saw her on Facebook....I told her everything i felt for her back then but she keeps seeing it as if I'm catching cruise....

The day a man starts keeping his feelings to himself is the day everyone starts taking him serious. No further comment.

Re: I Keep Seeing Her In My Dreams... Please Help!!! by Bliztzer: 5:31pm On Nov 08, 2023
DSC7:
There is this lady i have known since 2005,yes she was the first girl i set my eyes on when i was admitted into that school,we were in same class then.....

I had feelings for her but couldn't express my feelings because we were classmates,...

As we entered SS2,one of my friend told me he loves her,i asked him to approach her,he did,she told me and asked if she should give him a chance,I said no problem,they started dating....

2010 we graduated,we lost contacts,i searched for her on social media till 2019 when i saw her on Facebook....I told her everything i felt for her back then but she keeps seeing it as if I'm catching cruise....

But the problem I'm facing now is that since 2010 that we last saw,i keep seeing her in my dreams,,,, there's no week that i don't dream of her...We share beautiful moments together except secxx....

Now I'm scared because it happens frequently these days....

Please what should i do?
Search for her, make una settle unsettled pass business. May be she is also into you, who knows?
Re: I Keep Seeing Her In My Dreams... Please Help!!! by Marynwachukwu21(f): 8:26pm On Nov 08, 2023
DSC7:
...
We are both grown up now.....
Have you experienced same before??
NO
Re: I Keep Seeing Her In My Dreams... Please Help!!! by flokii: 11:36pm On Nov 08, 2023
The lady might have crossed to the other side..

It's very common to see loved ones in dreams after their demise.. our people will say, o tun di oju orun, oju ala.. odigba
Re: I Keep Seeing Her In My Dreams... Please Help!!! by MrCork: 11:39pm On Nov 08, 2023
DSC7:
There is this lady i have known since 2005,yes she was the first girl i set my eyes on when i was admitted into that school,we were in same class then.....

I had feelings for her but couldn't express my feelings because we were classmates,...

As we entered SS2,one of my friend told me he loves her,i asked him to approach her,he did,she told me and asked if she should give him a chance,I said no problem,they started dating....

2010 we graduated,we lost contacts,i searched for her on social media till 2019 when i saw her on Facebook....I told her everything i felt for her back then but she keeps seeing it as if I'm catching cruise....

But the problem I'm facing now is that since 2010 that we last saw,i keep seeing her in my dreams,,,, there's no week that i don't dream of her...We share beautiful moments together except secxx....

Now I'm scared because it happens frequently these days....

Please what should i do?
angry
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