There's no country sweet as Nigeria. Once Nigeria begins to work like these countries we crave for, you'll wish we revert back to old Nigeria.

One big lesson to learn when you travel abroad is cut communications with everyone for at least 5yrs. Find your feet in your new country and save a lot of money too. After the 5yrs or more, come back home and make amends by throwing some cash around. Take the time and start whatever project you want to start and then hand it over to a known contractor. Your family can only be supervising the project. Travel back and lock up again but this time, keep an open channel to only your immediate family members. Do this and you won't cry like this vaginarian.

There' are still some good friends around.

Don't engage family to build house for you and ensure you engage friends who have their own house to help you build.

Otherwise, save and buy a house and renovate to your own taste.

Cromagnon:

99% of Nigerians cannot boat of 500k oga

You even went too far sef 50k bro

Confirm

Cromagnon:

99% of Nigerians cannot boat of 500k oga

Cromagnon:

99% of Nigerians cannot boat of 500k oga

Kilode

This is super exaggerated

99% of Nigerians cannot boast of 500k means that there would be nobody buying cars. So who are those owing those cars on the road.
Average house rents goes from 300k to 2mm
Who are those paying those house rents?
Who are those going to private universities?

This is super exaggerated

So sorry. Bro possibly used the money for personal runs.

Cromagnon:

99% of Nigerians cannot boat of 500k oga
You think 30 million is easy?
How much you get for account

you dey mind am

Hmmmm na wa oooo. The matter tire person

Na wa o...

Some families sha.

I feel bad for her.

Nothing like being abroad legitimately...you'll enjoy yourself and see your progress....1+1=2...meaning if you do right, you get right...unlike places where no matter what, the system is rigged to fail.

Especially if you're a professional who knows his onions.

Does it mean there is not a single trustworthy person in her entire family?

tensazangetsu20:


She would have been better off never leaving Nigeria. After 20 years and all she can boast of is 30 million naira. Hmmmm and no papers and I am very sure her children also have no papers. She has jeopardised their future opportunities too as they are also likely to be banned from all of western civilisation.

All your years of existence how much can you boast of? Majority of you guys are hypocrites, at least she's lived a more balance life where factors like nosie pollution, bad roads, lack of power, potential to get killed by all the mentioned factors and other factors such as highway armed gangs, herdsmen, police, cultist, ritualism won't cut her life short. You sit down in your down dirt bag shit state and talk down on someone who's life improved way way beyond yours.

U suppose regret say u get family wey no get sense.

save ur money with a reputable trust or financial manager or direct into ur account. ur 30m for don double not with useless family members.

Nonexisting1:
One big lesson to learn when you travel abroad is cut communications with everyone for at least 5yrs. Find your feet in your new country and save a lot of money too. After the 5yrs or more, come back home and make amends by throwing some cash around. Take the time and start whatever project you want to start and then hand it over to a known contractor. Your family can only be supervising the project. Travel back and lock up again but this time, keep an open channel to only your immediate family members. Do this and you won't cry like this vaginarian.

Bro, you said it all here. nothing more and nothing less.

Blackdisciple:


You even went too far sef 50k bro

Na so poverty take hold you reach?

ecolime:

You will be shocked.

Those you left at home go build Duplex, buy SUVs (All cash.. Not Mortgage or autoloan) and yet still dey collect black taxes from you wey dey Europe.

Dem fit no get 20m in account but their networth pass Uncle Europe own and dem go still dey reap you.

Of you are abroad, NEVER send money to any family member to help you oversee any project. Most Nigerians are dishonest.

most Nigerians are poor sir. Those families are Nigerians not Togolese

Zooposki:


Not everyone is like your mom or sisters. Stop the projection.

Bazooka!

Why!

Cromagnon:

99% of Nigerians cannot boat of 500k oga
You think 30 million is easy?
How much you get for account

Lol. That's what I would normally say too.

But money dey abroad cowries. I wouldn't say more.

Someone i am seeing in the mirror now is on 9 figures currently. Took exactly 9 years to get there.

A friend in the USA got there in just 6 years+

I wanted to buy a laptop and HP was refusing my IP address that's why he showed me his account balance.

Well. Abroad dey suck money. But 20 years... except she no dey legal ( she implied so) she shoulda made more

Family sha

socialmediaman:
People are built on survival mentality in Nigeria especially if you grew up poor (90% of Nigerians). Cultural practices and religious misinterpretations also encourage lack of accountability and integrity

This is the truth that is bittered.

At 18yrs, she had 4 sugar daddies ❌❌❌

She spent 20yrs in Europe, doing Mouth Gig ❌❌❌

Women 😂😂😂

ednut1:

https://www.vanguardngr.com/2021/10/just-in-99-4-of-bank-accounts-contain-less-than-n500000-ndic/amp/
No evidence she would have been better off. The family she left behind chop her money because they are broke too. If you check well no body in that family has 20m in their account.

There are tons of people who don't hold 500k cash but have assets worth more than 200M.

It's a sad situation.

20yrs - N30million

That's: N1.5million savings annually, N125k monthly ($125 dollars monthly).

Some useless Nigerians think say when you reach airport, them go just tell you say, see key to house and car, follow us go back make we open account so that we go dey drop money for you.


Sometimes people wey dun japa dey send the wrong signal. Dem go dey suffer, but them go dey form oga for person wey dey Nigeria. People for Nigeria dey call you, dey use yes sir/ yes ma, dey wynd your brain, you go come dey spread. You go come dey tell yourself say see me o, wey dem dey treat anyhow for the japa country, person dey call me dey call me sir and ma. You go come dey form imaginary boss.


Another thing wey Nigeria dey do to japaree, be say, una dey make dem go into thieving. Them dey catch some, some dem still dey observe them - to be caught later. Money launderers, 419s, fake business owners, etc


Nigerians abroad, focus on your future, even if e take you 30years or more. How you go dey kill yourself for people wey no know your pain and very little gain. Focus on your future, if you fit sacrifice, do your best. All that, make I go build for my village, this and that, no dey rain again. If them do land law, dem no get choice than to do land law, That house wey you build go clear, or if tribal conflict happen, that building go burn. In a future wey dem go build millions of affordable luxury apts, same design, easily to dismantle and rebuild in a day or a week max. So, build a business, force the SE gov to do something of the future, in regards to housing.


In summary, japa is not heaven. you go fresh because you go dey more enlightened to the infrastructures of civilization. Any wealthy country go make you fresh because of the basic infrastructure. Nigerians wey dun suffer tire, dey change when dem reach that side. Any poor person fit turn their sink and water go come. Light dey; But na those japaree, dey do the hardwork and collect the minimum pay.
Japaree go cun dey find out say your 1k a month, or 2k or even 10k, get enough bills wey follow come, if you default you go loose something. If you no pay your bills, you go loose accomodation. If you loose all, cun go homeless shelter, you no fit comot - come back how you like. Once money dun begin come your account again, you no go qualify for shelter accomodation again. There are many scenarios, nobody fit work 24hrs for one week. If dem code say na wetin you dey do, them fo fire you. Them no want make you cun die for their own side when you leave your other job. etc.

na ignorance kill her. is she aware there are apps she can use to send money from europe into a nigerian account. no third party needed

socialmediaman:
People are built on survival mentality in Nigeria especially if you grew up poor (90% of Nigerians). Cultural practices and religious misinterpretations also encourage lack of accountability and integrity

No truer words have been said, you realize the major reason majority of Nigerians are living in penury and come from poor families is sheer lack of discipline, accountability and very poor life choices. They did not spend the money because they are wicked but because they've perfected the art of making poor choices and self sabotage, people will easily blow 100k on owambe and pepper soup than take the pain to think about multiplying that money... drink peppersouo now, pray for another 100k when it's time for children's school fees.. easy choices = hard life.

Europe is not the problem. Your family member is.

You stayed in a country illegally n was still able to save 30 million over 2 decades. That's better than a larger number of working Nigerians living in Nigeria.

Take serious action against the thief of a brother n thank God for the opportunity being in Europe gave you

seanwilliam:
I don learn tey tey.
I no Dey join or entrust money with friends or family . I can only give or borrow what I’m willing to let go if worst comes shove.

IF PUSH COMES TO SHOVE

This is so painful.

May God give her the fortitude to bear the pain. Amen. 🙏🏽

By the way, not all family members or relatives are bad or cannot be trusted.

ednut1:

https://www.vanguardngr.com/2021/10/just-in-99-4-of-bank-accounts-contain-less-than-n500000-ndic/amp/
No evidence she would have been better off. The family she left behind chop her money because they are broke too. If you check well no body in that family has 20m in their account.

Cromagnon:

99% of Nigerians cannot boat of 500k oga

How many Nigerians do you think have even N5 Million in their Accounts?

She should have helped 2 of her Siblings to Europe it would have reduced the Family Pressure on her tremendously
.3 of them would have been
sharing the family issues

Cromagnon:

99% of Nigerians cannot boat of 500k oga

Maybe the guy is a politician enjoying balabulous money different from Nigeria's real situation.