Nicepoker:
Change your moniker to total calamity

You dey calm down at all? Lolz

Are you sure you are not the stranger you are talking about when the other guys call?


Use your tongue to count your teeth.

OZIOGU1:
Spear tyre is never useful until the main tyre is bad, reflect on this Nigga

Deep bro. Deep

Since you haven't straffed I have no advice, I think from her perspective you are just a friend, the F**king officially makes her your gf, but for now u r just there

Tozocalamity:
How should u react as a man and retain your dignity without appearing to be insecure when the woman u are courting suddenly began to answer lengty calls at nite . (Between 9pm to 12am), That ech time u try to speak with her on the fone she is one the call with a stranger . Its very becoming anoying to wait befor u can speak with your woman. I have asked her who the hell is she alwas speaking to, that im sure thats a man. She didnt deny. Acording to what she said. "That the guy is trying to woo her but that he is wasting his time" that she told him NO but that he wont back out but she seems to be enjoying the conversation. This is a woman that i decided am nt going to sleep with until after mariage. I dont want sum1 else to decieve her and taste it cos an nt going to accept her if that happens and i get to knw .

Mumu OP

A pussy one real niggar somewhere is hammering hard like mad.

AdamuKD:
Mumu

Your girl or our girl?

Wetin everybody they manage for street you want come convert am to your own. It's not going to work na

Sonnobax15:
. Some of una comments for here dey give me chronic ulcer sometimes....

Just imagine wetin this native fowl type . I pray make this kind banny come your way,so that you go learn in an APC way.

If na me by now I for don use my common sense leave that banny long ago.
Perhaps na you be native fowl
Make una dy there make pant dy wear una.
Nonsense and ingredients

Why are you being serious with a girl who just wanna have fun? Sadly most Nigerian men do not know how to play the romance game.

Another stupid bro on Nairaland
I just finished with one last week that claimed he's girl stole his stuff to test him
Eyin werey gbogbo 😂
Now this one is saying this is the person I don't want to sleep with
what a mumu!

Tozocalamity:
I dont want to act in an irrational manner becos i haved maried her yet. otherwise i knw what to do . But i stil need your matured opinion on the matter.

thats the main guy. You are just a side piece

Tozocalamity:
bro there it is out of respect and fear of God that i am nt indulging her with premarital . Not like sumtin is wrong with me. but unfortunately the whole thing wants to backfire.

is the feeling mutual?

Tozocalamity:
How should u react as a man and retain your dignity without appearing to be insecure when the woman u are courting suddenly began to answer lengty calls at nite . (Between 9pm to 12am), That ech time u try to speak with her on the fone she is one the call with a stranger . Its very becoming anoying to wait befor u can speak with your woman. I have asked her who the hell is she alwas speaking to, that im sure thats a man. She didnt deny. Acording to what she said. "That the guy is trying to woo her but that he is wasting his time" that she told him NO but that he wont back out but she seems to be enjoying the conversation. This is a woman that i decided am nt going to sleep with until after mariage. I dont want sum1 else to decieve her and taste it cos an nt going to accept her if that happens and i get to knw .

I feel like arresting you...

She is not interested, but they are talking 🤣🤣🤣

It obvious she is cheating, Just Move on bro

jesmond3945:
is the feeling mutual?

bro to a largd extent. It is.

From the many opinion i have gotten from you alI, i realise that i have been very soft with her. Pampering her mch, (like a typical simp.) mainly becos i knw her history. Lyf havnt been fair to her. But she is a strong lady otherwise she should be dealing with depresion.

Her mum who raised her singlehandedly died when she was just 10. So she started staying with her grandmum. Until she came of age . Nw she is 25years old. Her dad is absent in her lyf til date. No siblings no parents. Hustling to make ends meet. So i belive she is fragile and dats why am handling her that way but. But the outcome is nt so good and its begining to show.

Read this. It should help.

https://jojonaija.com/how-to-know-if-a-girl-is-into-hookup/


10 Ways To Know If Your Girl Is Into Hookup

U mumu o,dem no born any woman well to try this stunt with me.i strict dieee

Tozocalamity:
bro to a largd extent. It is.

i mean does she want to keep her body for you till marriage just like you want to?

jesmond3945:
i mean does she want to keep her body for you till marriage just like you want to?

yes. dat was the agreement.

Na una de make small girls de look down on guys as foooolls

Tozocalamity:
Her mum who raised her singlehandedly died when she was just 10. So she started staying with her grandmum. Until she came of age . Nw she is 25years old. Her dad is absent in her lyf til date. No siblings no parents. Hustling to make ends meet. So i belive she is fragile and dats why am handling her that way but. But the outcome is nt so good and its begining to show.

So in other words, you’re her messiah? Her savior? Better get some sense.

Tozocalamity:
How should u react as a man and retain your dignity without appearing to be insecure when the woman u are courting suddenly began to answer lengty calls at nite . (Between 9pm to 12am), That ech time u try to speak with her on the fone she is one the call with a stranger . Its very becoming anoying to wait befor u can speak with your woman. I have asked her who the hell is she alwas speaking to, that im sure thats a man. She didnt deny. Acording to what she said. "That the guy is trying to woo her but that he is wasting his time" that she told him NO but that he wont back out but she seems to be enjoying the conversation. This is a woman that i decided am nt going to sleep with until after mariage. I dont want sum1 else to decieve her and taste it cos an nt going to accept her if that happens and i get to knw .

Reading your post get me angry.


You're not MATURED AND CULTURED.

You’re a supporting striker
You’re not good enough to be a main striker

So since you’re foolish enough to keep sitting on the bench instead of going to another club continue sitting

TGIF! The weekend is around the corner. Enjoy yourself and don’t forget to reach out to us @Teewhyhomes for your next Real Estate investment.

Tozocalamity:
bro there it is out of respect and fear of God that i am nt indulging her with premarital . Not like sumtin is wrong with me. but unfortunately the whole thing wants to backfire.

it has already backfired.
Let me tell u,once a girl has been disvirgined,her body count will Continue to go up she can't stay without sex.
I av been with enough women to know this so it's either u provide her with the sex or she gets it else where it's ur choice. but don't think 4 a second that if u 're not giving her the sex that some else isn't

Tozocalamity:
Her mum who raised her singlehandedly died when she was just 10. So she started staying with her grandmum. Until she came of age . Nw she is 25years old. Her dad is absent in her lyf til date. No siblings no parents. Hustling to make ends meet. So i belive she is fragile and dats why am handling her that way but. But the outcome is nt so good and its begining to show.

Leave this woman alone, you’re not equipped to handle her. You think someone that strong is looking for a weak man?

It’s not about sex or anything like that, it’s about self respect and personal boundaries which you lack!

This woman will send you to an early grave if she finally SETTLES for you. Look for your equal and the bone of your bones, don’t chase something beyond you.

The other guy is doing it for the culture, bruv. This wan that u dont want to defile the bed, is she in line with it? Make e no be sey u dey save the bed wey another person dey defile utmost desolation. Whoever ask for sense will get it sha.. try ask so u can get and move on with your life. No be wife u get so, na iyawo awon boys.

Tozocalamity:
How should u react as a man and retain your dignity without appearing to be insecure when the woman u are courting suddenly began to answer lengty calls at nite . (Between 9pm to 12am), That ech time u try to speak with her on the fone she is one the call with a stranger . Its very becoming anoying to wait befor u can speak with your woman. I have asked her who the hell is she alwas speaking to, that im sure thats a man. She didnt deny. Acording to what she said. "That the guy is trying to woo her but that he is wasting his time" that she told him NO but that he wont back out but she seems to be enjoying the conversation. This is a woman that i decided am nt going to sleep with until after mariage. I dont want sum1 else to decieve her and taste it cos an nt going to accept her if that happens and i get to knw .