abbey621:


Like I said earlier you should consider comedy....You're a perfect fit

ad hominem, (Latin: “against the man”) type of argument or attack that appeals to prejudice or feelings or irrelevantly impugns another person’s character instead of addressing the facts or claims made by the latter.

galileo180:

My brother is in Onitsha and he is the second in Hierarchy in their branch, if it's possible it wouldn't be a problem.

There has to be a way.

What's the arrangement for when he needs to go on leave?

What's the arrangement for when there's an emergency at his end and he simply can't be at work?

Your brother simply doesn't want to ask for his right. Maybe he likes to please other people at the detriment of self

galileo180:
Your honest and sincere opinions are highly needed on this.

My brother is about to get married on Sunday and just today, the girlfriend has been threatening to call off the marriage over a little issue. The issue being my brothers' refusal to travel back to our village with her since he needs to be at work on Tuesday, his reason being that there is no movement on Mondays and he is a Banker and needs to be present to open Vault on Tuesday.

Please in your sincere opinion, is my brother wrong and is it a good reason for the girl to threaten him with calling off the event.

Mods please help a brother, please push to front-page as it needs urgent attention.

Your brother is a SIMP, how dare she questions his authority? I advocate him been humble and at the same time firm. If he gives in to this then the woman will always do things to have her way in the future.

Hmmmm.
Technical issue how?

Tayorshd87:


YES U ARE 100% CORRECT I was also looking for a particular class until I have to choose below my class just to break d curse of my village people of not getting a wife at age 43 😂😆😂
My brother am now a father of two and am happy Abt that just that I didn't marry the kind of spec am willing to and it's giving me a technical issue till date 🙁☹️

👀👀Marital disaster loading.... Dude should embark forthwith on a DETOUR!💯
# A word is enough 💯

Geenosko:
Please let her cancel it since she wants to unreasonable.

Hi.

@moniker, is the original word ginosko?

Villa12:
that was the only girl he sent to school thinking she will marry him since she's below his class in all ramifications.

The others he has dated don't want him as a husband. I personally know one of the lady he dated. He has bad character which obviously all the girls cannot consider despite his financial security.

What exactly are his bad qualities ?

nairagenone:
A woman is threatening a man that she will cancel the marriage in 2023 and the man is begging ?
Definitely, your brother will wear the skirt through out the life of that marriage.

For the wife to be to threaten him shows she is not into the marriage and marrying him out of pity. He will suffer in that marriage just like the f.ools before him who have enterred into a marriage without exerting authority and respect.

The lady already sees him as a weak and spineless man, what pains me most is the lady may even have body counts in the double digits.

Men, learn from this story, if a woman cannot respect you just like Sarah did to Abraham, dont put yourself in such bondage.

Go to shiloh, countless single women looking fpr husbands, men learn this, you are the prize.

Stop making a fool of yourselves like the OPs brother.

God go bless you brother. Who is training all these suppose guys self. In every situation, a man must be in control of affairs even though agreement can be reached. What kind of guy will a lady be dictating to?

Skyview01:
The girlfriend want your brother to lose his job!

Where una they find these kind end-time girlfriend to marry?

As a man, your job and career is number one in your life at all times, If you fail at it, you will fail at every other area of your life.

Fact!

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Tayorshd87:


Am happy for u to get such a virtual lady because what social media has caused in this era is something that cannot be over emphasize with bunches of olosho and club girls 😢😭😭😢😭

Not that am not meeting my spec but date them that's when u Wil know why many of Dem are single 🤔..


But am still thinking of going for my true spec if I found one since have given birth already 🤔
Hope am not taking the wrong decision

Hahaha you funny calm down and love your wife the way she is, support her and built her to your spec

Jamie1000:
Your Brother's story isn't clear. His wedding is on Sunday, yet he plans to be at work on Tuesday. Who does that? There's something fishy... There's more to this than what you just wrote.

Yes, it seem the story, is incomplete

nairagenone:

In my opinion, the most important thing for a man is peace of mind.
No woman is perfect, so just highlight what is important to you and check if a lady ticks 70 percent, if she does then go for her.

For me, I was looking for -> fidelity, respect, good family orientation(especially her moms personality), godly and loves God , lastly she must not be olosho(very important).

On my journey searching, I saw plenty things because of my requirements I started going after SU looking babes, my brother, wetin my eye see shock me.
Even deeperlife babes some of them I slept with them same day they came to my house... I just dey shake my head.

Las las I met a lady who is SU, and she con be virgin and as I dey follow her talk she con get sense, theres always a level of risk but with this babe I was ready to risk it and since I made that decision I have never regretted it.

She doesnt have money and comes from a very humble background but to me thats a credit, cos many ladies in her shoes would have used that as an excuse to start doing hookup...

Enough of ranting and back to your question... I think you should consider marrying your baby mama, if you think you can't marry her then find a lady who you think has good morals and values, target the SU looking ladies => deeperlife, mfm, cac etc... But in all remember what the bible says, be wise as serpent but gentle as doves...

I wish you goodluck.

YOU CAN NEVER EVER KNOW ON THIS EARTH IS A GIRL IS OLOSHO OR NOT IF SHE'S NOT A VIRGIN.
To me, a girl with more than 2 BODYCOUNT is olosho.

Do you know that a girl can date a single guy for 5 years and in those 5 years, she would have been Fucƙed more than a thousand times and even done many abortions for the guy?
Now, imagine a girl that has just dated 2 guys, how many times she must have been Fucƙed and the possibilities of abortions.
That her mouth that you kiss, some other guy have released sperms in it multiple times.
AND FOR A GIRL THAT HAS MULTIPLE BODYCOUNT, IF YOU'RE KISSING HER AND GIVING HER HEAD, YOU HAVE LIKELY TASTED AND SWALLOWED OTHER GUYS' SPĒRMS THROUGH HER ..
The best girl any man can be with is a virgin.
If she's not a virgin, then:
SHE IS LESS
SHE IS A LEFTOVER OVER
SHE IS A USED PRODUCT
SHE WASN'T PROBABLY RAISED BY RESPONSIBLE PARENTS
SHE HAS LOW MORALS
SHE MIGHT NOT LIKELY MAKE A GOOD WIFE
THE TENDENCY THAT SHE'LL NOT BE LOYAL AND COMMITTED IN MARRIAGE IS ALSO VERY HIGH...

Villa12:
that was the only girl he sent to school thinking she will marry him since she's below his class in all ramifications.

The others he has dated don't want him as a husband. I personally know one of the lady he dated. He has bad character which obviously all the girls cannot consider despite his financial security.

where does he reside currently

PDPGuy:


But the risk of marrying down, as a man, is that her family and extended family may see you as their meal ticket, if care is not taken

Yes everything has its own risk, if you marry down, you learn to draw the line and put rules of engagement.
With time every one will adjust once you define your capacity and what you are willing to help her family with.

As a man, thats better than a woman threatening you with divorce or misbehaving

This is why some women are there sleeping with their bosses and colleagues cos they do not have respect for the man since they probably earn more than him or are always around people that do.

Its called choosing your battles, only the wise will understand.

With all sincerely a lady with that kind of command and authority will make a man miserable.

For her to be forcing him to travel without minding what happens to his job say a lot about her plans.

She may be luring to unknown gun men cos they are all from the east.


Op please, tell her you are no longer interested and watch how she will beg you.

galileo180:
Your honest and sincere opinions are highly needed on this.

My brother is about to get married on Sunday and just today, the girlfriend has been threatening to call off the marriage over a little issue. The issue being my brothers' refusal to travel back to our village with her since he needs to be at work on Tuesday, his reason being that there is no movement on Mondays and he is a Banker and needs to be present to open Vault on Tuesday.

Please in your sincere opinion, is my brother wrong and is it a good reason for the girl to threaten him with calling off the event.

Mods please help a brother, please push to front-page as it needs urgent attention.

Your brother needs physical deliverance... Na to beat sense into his head...I wonder how the marriage will be like... living in bondage

You want him to lose his job cos of marriage ceremony ? Is the girl’s family otedola ? Will they foot his bills if he is fired? Nigerians re just too funny.

galileo180:
Your honest and sincere opinions are highly needed on this.

My brother is about to get married on Sunday and just today, the girlfriend has been threatening to call off the marriage over a little issue. The issue being my brothers' refusal to travel back to our village with her since he needs to be at work on Tuesday, his reason being that there is no movement on Mondays and he is a Banker and needs to be present to open Vault on Tuesday.

Please in your sincere opinion, is my brother wrong and is it a good reason for the girl to threaten him with calling off the event.

Mods please help a brother, please push to front-page as it needs urgent attention.

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mariahAngel:
The question is, why is it so important to her that your brother travels with her, and she's not willing to reach a compromise?
Could it be because of something important that they must do together?

Also, are they (your brother and his fiancee) from the same town?

Tayorshd87:


YES U ARE 100% CORRECT I was also looking for a particular class until I have to choose below my class just to break d curse of my village people of not getting a wife at age 43 😂😆😂
My brother am now a father of two and am happy Abt that just that I didn't marry the kind of spec am willing to and it's giving me a technical issue till date 🙁☹️

I nearly fell off the chair in laughter! Technical issues?!

The fvk is that for heaven's sake

Hmmmmmm

henrimoto:
Where is your brother's current location ?

Can't your brother make arrangements to hand-over the vault keys to the bank management. ?

The lady is already doubting the marriage. In her mind, she is like, "is this what I will face in this marriage?" No Attention!

Was it just attention that got her attracted to him in the first place? The bank job and the financial security it brings is obviously the main attraction. The groom should protect it jealously because the way it attracted the first leech is the way it will attract more and more of them. If he dares looses it to simp-ing, it will be terrible.

galileo180:
Your honest and sincere opinions are highly needed on this.

My brother is about to get married on Sunday and just today, the girlfriend has been threatening to call off the marriage over a little issue. The issue being my brothers' refusal to travel back to our village with her since he needs to be at work on Tuesday, his reason being that there is no movement on Mondays and he is a Banker and needs to be present to open Vault on Tuesday.

Please in your sincere opinion, is my brother wrong and is it a good reason for the girl to threaten him with calling off the event.

Mods please help a brother, please push to front-page as it needs urgent attention.

Your brother can get someone else to open the vault, if the journey is an important one and for which they both need to be present, let your brother discuss with his team and take permission to travel except your brother has bad relationship with his team at work which should also be a bad signal for the girl. The bank understand that your brother has a life aside the banking work and marriage is one important part of that life.

PrimadonnaO:


Hi.

@moniker, is the original word ginosko?

Yep.

galileo180:
Your honest and sincere opinions are highly needed on this.

My brother is about to get married on Sunday and just today, the girlfriend has been threatening to call off the marriage over a little issue. The issue being my brothers' refusal to travel back to our village with her since he needs to be at work on Tuesday, his reason being that there is no movement on Mondays and he is a Banker and needs to be present to open Vault on Tuesday.

Please in your sincere opinion, is my brother wrong and is it a good reason for the girl to threaten him with calling off the event.

Mods please help a brother, please push to front-page as it needs urgent attention.

I laf because I imaging myself been threatened by woman in marriage, na she wan pay my groom price? nothing man no go hear! For this Nigeria and this one don see husband.

Some of us are looking at it from the angle that the woman is being unreasonable but another question one should ask is, the man the kind that is so much dedicated to his job to please others in the office at the detriment of his family?
I remember how I use to do my work at home almost every time to the extent that my brother law will say hmmmmmm meanwhile my immediate boss does his own work efficiently & effectively in the office while combining it with his family life in such a manner that he's always available to his wife. Note his wife was working in the bank & they're very close couple.

I could also remember while I was in school that one lady refused to marry one good guy who was doing fine financially because she said he's always with his books & doesn't give her attention whenever she visits. According to her she can't cope.
Maybe this lady is seeing that she will be neglected in the marriage.

This's not about so many women looking for husbands etc but the thing is getting the right one that will give you what marriage entails etc.
I know of so many marriages that the roof of their marriages are leaking & if care is not taken omo hmmmmmm

dominique:
Who gets married on saturday and goes off to work on Monday? He should have applied for leave around the time of the wedding so he can spend time with his wife as newlyweds

maybe he had already exhausted his leave balance prior to the wedding. I am a banker so i understand. His wife is not understanding, and then you also have inconsiderate bosses who wont give you compassionate time off in dire situations like this when you have exhausted your leave.


So to me, his wife and boss are inconsiderate.

njelrapheal:
where does he reside currently

Lagos

Lol....so no honeymoon holiday even if it's a day

Great0ne1:

What exactly are his bad qualities ?

he has anger issue. Outside that, he's a good man. He takes good care of his woman

Mohisah:
Some guys uses their wealth to entice women, that will only bring you fake love n dishonest ladies.

A responsible guy/man wld nvr woo a potential fiancée with money, just so dat she may love him purely. He may surprise her about his financial status when things gets set.

His unrealistic tastes for women is serving him the long wait. Nobody trains a lady anymore, unless she's living your home to sch n with a personal driver n nanny following her n caterimg for her.

I don't think it has anything to do with unrealistic taste for women. All the girls he has ever dated are way below his class. It was the girl who met and sent her to polytechnic, the girl still dump him for someone below his class. He has anger issue

galileo180:
Your honest and sincere opinions are highly needed on this.

My brother is about to get married on Sunday and just today, the girlfriend has been threatening to call off the marriage over a little issue. The issue being my brothers' refusal to travel back to our village with her since he needs to be at work on Tuesday, his reason being that there is no movement on Mondays and he is a Banker and needs to be present to open Vault on Tuesday.

Please in your sincere opinion, is my brother wrong and is it a good reason for the girl to threaten him with calling off the event.

Mods please help a brother, please push to front-page as it needs urgent attention.

Change the marriage date to when he will be available to travel to the village.

Marriage is all about making sacrifices, some making simple things complicated