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Her phone is faulty

Stop checking then, check yourself more.

She may be going through the most challenging period of her life. Pray for her

Alot of Americans are in the prison, maybe shes in the prison at the moment

She doesn’t want to relate with you or going through a mental health crisis.Move on

Because she knows that na money make you dey call

SIXTEENTH:
No matter your schedule and work almost 24/hr if you're into someone whom you so desires believe me definitely you must create a little time to reached that someone

I think it's Nigeria where u have all the time.

Come here u go understand

Cooolme:
I have a stepsister living abroad, the daughter of my mom. She's been there since childhood, raised by her father, and has become independent.

Despite the physical distance, she has been supportive, particularly to my mom. Although she occasionally sends money to my mom, it's never quite enough for her.

I share a unique bond with her; we've always been close, even during her visit. The last time she sent me money was during my 100 level when things were tough. However, my focus shifted from financial help to maintaining a connection with her.

Recently, I noticed a change. Since July, she has been snubbing my messages, a puzzling behavior considering I don't seek financial assistance. I've made it a point to check on her regularly, something she mentioned our mom doesn't do. At my level now if she needs money I can even send for her but her recent attitude has totally changed my mind towards her. I'm contemplating blocking her and ending contact, as it seems that's what she wants.

It's a challenging situation, and I'm curious if anyone here has experienced anything similar.

when she is abroad, do you have time to pray for her regularly? It's not easy anywhere and challenges can happen to anyone anywhere in the world. Give her space and with time she will reply you. Always pray for her as well

She is not your step sister. She is your half sister. Your step sister has no blood connection with you.

Cooolme:
I have a stepsister living abroad, the daughter of my mom. She's been there since childhood, raised by her father, and has become independent.

Despite the physical distance, she has been supportive, particularly to my mom. Although she occasionally sends money to my mom, it's never quite enough for her.

I share a unique bond with her; we've always been close, even during her visit. The last time she sent me money was during my 100 level when things were tough. However, my focus shifted from financial help to maintaining a connection with her.

Recently, I noticed a change. Since July, she has been snubbing my messages, a puzzling behavior considering I don't seek financial assistance. I've made it a point to check on her regularly, something she mentioned our mom doesn't do. At my level now if she needs money I can even send for her but her recent attitude has totally changed my mind towards her. I'm contemplating blocking her and ending contact, as it seems that's what she wants.

It's a challenging situation, and I'm curious if anyone here has experienced anything similar.

Are you sure you aren't just reading meaning not intended? Also she might be going through stuff that she is unwilling to share but is causing her a lot of stress,be patient and still check in on her from time to time.

aktolly54:
when she is abroad, do you have time to pray for her regularly? It's not easy anywhere and challenges can happen to anyone anywhere in the world. Give her space and with time she will reply you. Always pray for her as well

pray pray...still na sins full everywhere.

[quote author=Cooolme post=127033616]I have a stepsister living abroad, the daughter of my mom. She's been there since childhood, raised by her father, and has become independent.

Despite the physical distance, she has been supportive, particularly to my mom. Although she occasionally sends money to my mom, it's never quite enough for her.

I share a unique bond with her; we've always been close, even during her visit. The last time she sent me money was during my 100 level when things were tough. However, my focus shifted from financial help to maintaining a connection with her.

Recently, I noticed a change. Since July, she has been snubbing my messages, a puzzling behavior considering I don't seek financial assistance. I've made it a point to check on her regularly, something she mentioned our mom doesn't do. At my level now if she needs money I can even send for her but her recent attitude has totally changed my mind towards her. I'm contemplating blocking her and ending contact, as it seems that's what she wants.

It's a challenging situation, and I'm curious if anyone here has experienced anything similar.[/quote


Hahaha haha.. our problems too much here and e nor easy for them there.. we pray for good times. Alot has happened this period even though we are keeping quiet. U seem genuine, don't give up on her if u love her. She is ur sister u know. She maybe going through something and confused but don't push her too much give her space but from time to time check up on her, she will turn up soon. I sense ur genuinty and that's rare. Stay blessed.

Cooolme:
I have a stepsister living abroad, the daughter of my mom. She's been there since childhood, raised by her father, and has become independent.

Despite the physical distance, she has been supportive, particularly to my mom. Although she occasionally sends money to my mom, it's never quite enough for her.

I share a unique bond with her; we've always been close, even during her visit. The last time she sent me money was during my 100 level when things were tough. However, my focus shifted from financial help to maintaining a connection with her.

Recently, I noticed a change. Since July, she has been snubbing my messages, a puzzling behavior considering I don't seek financial assistance. I've made it a point to check on her regularly, something she mentioned our mom doesn't do. At my level now if she needs money I can even send for her but her recent attitude has totally changed my mind towards her. I'm contemplating blocking her and ending contact, as it seems that's what she wants.

It's a challenging situation, and I'm curious if anyone here has experienced anything similar.

Don't be fast, you don't know what she is going through.

My twin brother is abroad... But we don't talk often.

E no easy abroad... Know that and have peace.

Where's your concern for her well-being? I doubt nairaland is the appropriate place to find out what is going on with your sister. Call once in a while to find out how she's doing not only when you need money.

DesChyko:
You probably don't know what's up with her. Just give her the space she needs. It's not easy for any of our young people that goes out there.

Many people fail to realise this point you raised.

Cooolme:
I have a stepsister living abroad, the daughter of my mom. She's been there since childhood, raised by her father, and has become independent.

Despite the physical distance, she has been supportive, particularly to my mom. Although she occasionally sends money to my mom, it's never quite enough for her.

I share a unique bond with her; we've always been close, even during her visit. The last time she sent me money was during my 100 level when things were tough. However, my focus shifted from financial help to maintaining a connection with her.

Recently, I noticed a change. Since July, she has been snubbing my messages, a puzzling behavior considering I don't seek financial assistance. I've made it a point to check on her regularly, something she mentioned our mom doesn't do. At my level now if she needs money I can even send for her but her recent attitude has totally changed my mind towards her. I'm contemplating blocking her and ending contact, as it seems that's what she wants.

It's a challenging situation, and I'm curious if anyone here has experienced anything similar.

Give her time..she is going through alot...once in a while, send her motivational messages

She fit don dey Panya dey wear orange jumpsuit

Cooolme:
I have a stepsister living abroad, the daughter of my mom. She's been there since childhood, raised by her father, and has become independent.

Despite the physical distance, she has been supportive, particularly to my mom. Although she occasionally sends money to my mom, it's never quite enough for her.

I share a unique bond with her; we've always been close, even during her visit. The last time she sent me money was during my 100 level when things were tough. However, my focus shifted from financial help to maintaining a connection with her.

Recently, I noticed a change. Since July, she has been snubbing my messages, a puzzling behavior considering I don't seek financial assistance. I've made it a point to check on her regularly, something she mentioned our mom doesn't do. At my level now if she needs money I can even send for her but her recent attitude has totally changed my mind towards her. I'm contemplating blocking her and ending contact, as it seems that's what she wants.

It's a challenging situation, and I'm curious if anyone here has experienced anything similar.

Let her be for now but if it bothers you delete her number and social media

Cooolme:
I have a stepsister living abroad, the daughter of my mom. She's been there since childhood, raised by her father, and has become independent.

Despite the physical distance, she has been supportive, particularly to my mom. Although she occasionally sends money to my mom, it's never quite enough for her.

I share a unique bond with her; we've always been close, even during her visit. The last time she sent me money was during my 100 level when things were tough. However, my focus shifted from financial help to maintaining a connection with her.

Recently, I noticed a change. Since July, she has been snubbing my messages, a puzzling behavior considering I don't seek financial assistance. I've made it a point to check on her regularly, something she mentioned our mom doesn't do. At my level now if she needs money I can even send for her but her recent attitude has totally changed my mind towards her. I'm contemplating blocking her and ending contact, as it seems that's what she wants.

It's a challenging situation, and I'm curious if anyone here has experienced anything similar.

First of all, are you sure she is okay health-wise ( Both physically and mentally) and all other wise? Do you have any other ways of checking on her or her activities to see if she has actually been active and well? If yes did you use those channels?


If the questions above are yes, then talk to your mum to be sure if she hasn't done anything that made her want to abandon everyone. If pray she tells you if there anything like that.

Finally, if you are tired of not being responded, you can just pause the communication but do not close the channels or links for her to reach you.

Cooolme:
I have a stepsister living abroad, the daughter of my mom. She's been there since childhood, raised by her father, and has become independent.

Despite the physical distance, she has been supportive, particularly to my mom. Although she occasionally sends money to my mom, it's never quite enough for her.

I share a unique bond with her; we've always been close, even during her visit. The last time she sent me money was during my 100 level when things were tough. However, my focus shifted from financial help to maintaining a connection with her.

Recently, I noticed a change. Since July, she has been snubbing my messages, a puzzling behavior considering I don't seek financial assistance. I've made it a point to check on her regularly, something she mentioned our mom doesn't do. At my level now if she needs money I can even send for her but her recent attitude has totally changed my mind towards her. I'm contemplating blocking her and ending contact, as it seems that's what she wants.

It's a challenging situation, and I'm curious if anyone here has experienced anything similar.

Una want use billing kill her naaa.
The gravest mistake is to bill your relatives residing abroad. Omo, Dem go fashi perhaps for life.

Cooolme:
I have a stepsister living abroad, the daughter of my mom. She's been there since childhood, raised by her father, and has become independent.

Despite the physical distance, she has been supportive, particularly to my mom. Although she occasionally sends money to my mom, it's never quite enough for her.

I share a unique bond with her; we've always been close, even during her visit. The last time she sent me money was during my 100 level when things were tough. However, my focus shifted from financial help to maintaining a connection with her.

Recently, I noticed a change. Since July, she has been snubbing my messages, a puzzling behavior considering I don't seek financial assistance. I've made it a point to check on her regularly, something she mentioned our mom doesn't do. At my level now if she needs money I can even send for her but her recent attitude has totally changed my mind towards her. I'm contemplating blocking her and ending contact, as it seems that's what she wants.

It's a challenging situation, and I'm curious if anyone here has experienced anything similar.

Do u understand she has a life there fat away frm u n might be coping wit something else.a hrt break or anything?let her be

She might be somehow busy in recent times.

Don't block her as u can't say what she is passing through.

id911:
She knows quite well your constant checking up on her is all about money or needing assistance even though u dey pretend. However, she might be going through some issues at the moment so stop the constant messages for now and let her breath. She'll certainly respond to you whenever she's ok to do so.

Seems you're not ohk, what concerns this post with billing?
Make una try dey read.

bdon123:
Do u understand she has a life there fat away frm u n might be coping wit something else.a hrt break or anything?let her be

That will make her ignore messages since August?
Seems you have your own problems too, go face them.

SIXTEENTH:
No matter your schedule and work almost 24/hr if you're into someone whom you so desires believe me definitely you must create a little time to reached that someone

This one wey i de see so much desire and pain.

You don fall in love with your step sis ni?

Don't mind me jareh.
Let her be.
Don't stress too much.
Face your work.
When she ready. She go communicate.
Make she no be your problem at all.

Otilo!

Cooolme:
Seems you're not ohk, what concerns this post with billing?
Make una try dey read.

It's like you're insane. If you didn't want contrary opinion, you shouldn't have brought it here.

U don finish am with billings, na joke i dey oOoo