Lolachef:
Because 90percent of Nigerians that have families abroad are full of entitlement spirit.

My sister is not Nigerian neither my Mom.

SIXTEENTH:


No matter your schedule and work almost 24/hr if you're into someone whom you so desires believe me definitely you must create a little time to reached that someone

I concur with you bro, whenever someone tell you he/she is busy, just know you're not valuable to them

SIXTEENTH:


No matter your schedule and work almost 24/hr if you're into someone whom you so desires believe me definitely you must create a little time to reached that someone

Una go just dey talk rubbish everywhere

Cooolme:

I just complained about her snubbing my messages, don't know how you people turned it to me begging her for money.
I'm not even abroad yet and I can say I receive worse Billings. It's all around not just limited to y'all abroad. I don't know who else may be billing her but as for my fam, they prefer billing me instead and I most times deliver if I have.

I am 100% sure you have many people in your contact that haven't communicated with you for months. If there's no anterior motive to your wanting to be in touch with her, then why are you so pained that she's snubbing you, blocking her and utmost bringing her matter to a social media platform.

Let her be, live your life as if she doesn't exist and stop worrying about someone making a life for herself not communicating with you.

Cooolme:
I have a stepsister living abroad, the daughter of my mom. She's been there since childhood, raised by her father, and has become independent.

Despite the physical distance, she has been supportive, particularly to my mom. Although she occasionally sends money to my mom, it's never quite enough for her.

I share a unique bond with her; we've always been close, even during her visit. The last time she sent me money was during my 100 level when things were tough. However, my focus shifted from financial help to maintaining a connection with her.

Recently, I noticed a change. Since July, she has been snubbing my messages, a puzzling behavior considering I don't seek financial assistance. I've made it a point to check on her regularly, something she mentioned our mom doesn't do. At my level now if she needs money I can even send for her but her recent attitude has totally changed my mind towards her. I'm contemplating blocking her and ending contact, as it seems that's what she wants.

It's a challenging situation, and I'm curious if anyone here has experienced anything similar.

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How far your car.
Hope you are still enjoying it

obayemi204:


I am 100% sure you have many people in your contact that haven't communicated with you for months. If there's no anterior motive to your wanting to be in touch with her, then why are you so pained that she's snubbing you, blocking her and utmost bringing her matter to a social media platform.

Let her be, live your life as if she doesn't exist and stop worrying about someone making a life for herself not communicating with you.

Lol you're very funny, what interior motive?
how does this even correlate?
Some of you are really damaged and probably have never been loved at home 😂, don't blame you.
So I should not be pained my Sister is snubbing me? My paddy I discuss important issues of my life with? Someone that advises and encourages me like mad?
This is the last reply I'll give you sir, it's obvious you don't have anyone important to you in your life, sorry.

Sirchiboy:
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How far your car.
Hope you are still enjoying it

Yeah bro it's over a year now and it's still going smooth, one of the best decision I made last year.
Thanks for your concern tho.

I totally understand you. Some people on nairaland are very dumb. This is someone's sister and they want to still form alpha male. On top your own blood.
Anyway the needful is for you to detach, it's the cold truth. But speak to your mum first and see what she knows/thinks about it first.

Cooolme:

I've not experienced such before tbh, I grew up being loved and very bad at this detachment game y'all claim to have (learning tho) but someone you Video call, talk with for hours just stop communicating with you totally when you know you did nothing wrong, it's weird now. In this case it's not a friend or partner rather a very close relative you have a strong bond with.
I have time on my hands though, it's my grumble not yours.

Why would she reply when you wan use billing kee her….

Cooolme:
I have a stepsister living abroad, the daughter of my mom. She's been there since childhood, raised by her father, and has become independent.

Despite the physical distance, she has been supportive, particularly to my mom. Although she occasionally sends money to my mom, it's never quite enough for her.

I share a unique bond with her; we've always been close, even during her visit. The last time she sent me money was during my 100 level when things were tough. However, my focus shifted from financial help to maintaining a connection with her.

Recently, I noticed a change. Since July, she has been snubbing my messages, a puzzling behavior considering I don't seek financial assistance. I've made it a point to check on her regularly, something she mentioned our mom doesn't do. At my level now if she needs money I can even send for her but her recent attitude has totally changed my mind towards her. I'm contemplating blocking her and ending contact, as it seems that's what she wants.

It's a challenging situation, and I'm curious if anyone here has experienced anything similar.

one black man dn use juju carry am

Cooolme:
I have a stepsister living abroad, the daughter of my mom. She's been there since childhood, raised by her father, and has become independent.

Despite the physical distance, she has been supportive, particularly to my mom. Although she occasionally sends money to my mom, it's never quite enough for her.

I share a unique bond with her; we've always been close, even during her visit. The last time she sent me money was during my 100 level when things were tough. However, my focus shifted from financial help to maintaining a connection with her.

Recently, I noticed a change. Since July, she has been snubbing my messages, a puzzling behavior considering I don't seek financial assistance. I've made it a point to check on her regularly, something she mentioned our mom doesn't do. At my level now if she needs money I can even send for her but her recent attitude has totally changed my mind towards her. I'm contemplating blocking her and ending contact, as it seems that's what she wants.

It's a challenging situation, and I'm curious if anyone here has experienced anything similar.

Sister you are not alone on this, I have a step brother that behaves that way too

It's not about billing at all and only God knows why such behaviour. Don't block her just ignore her too

Do not let anyone toy with your mental stability, I repeat it ignore her n don't be bitter about her.

SIXTEENTH:


No matter your schedule and work almost 24/hr if you're into someone whom you so desires believe me definitely you must create a little time to reached that someone

Lol abeg them dey dey into step brother....lol

She’s busy

She may be going through some difficult times that she won't open up to you. Abroad can be difficult because you are on your own when issues come. A change of job , housing issues , relationship issues , serving punishment for an offence etc can make her snub you for some time. These issues are easier in Nigeria but can make you look mad abroad. Give her time . Rather than asking her just any message , send her a message saying you are concerned about how she is generally and you hope all is well with her .

Cooolme:
I have a stepsister living abroad, the daughter of my mom. She's been there since childhood, raised by her father, and has become independent.

Despite the physical distance, she has been supportive, particularly to my mom. Although she occasionally sends money to my mom, it's never quite enough for her.

I share a unique bond with her; we've always been close, even during her visit. The last time she sent me money was during my 100 level when things were tough. However, my focus shifted from financial help to maintaining a connection with her.

Recently, I noticed a change. Since July, she has been snubbing my messages, a puzzling behavior considering I don't seek financial assistance. I've made it a point to check on her regularly, something she mentioned our mom doesn't do. At my level now if she needs money I can even send for her but her recent attitude has totally changed my mind towards her. I'm contemplating blocking her and ending contact, as it seems that's what she wants.

It's a challenging situation, and I'm curious if anyone here has experienced anything similar.

If this is true, then do not worry yourself.

They listen to story of depressed people that they themselves become depressed easily over there. Give her time.

I was thinking you do bill her and that's why she's avoiding you. Since that's not the case, leave her alone.

AlphaGrace:


I concur with you bro, whenever someone tell you he/she is busy, just know you're not valuable to them

So maybe you should WORK on making yourself valuable
Being valuable is not an entitlement or right


Make yourself useful
Add value to yourself

There is no shortage of friends for a useful person

When you become an adult you realise no one loves you for you not even your mother
You must be useful for something

Life is transactional
You give and you get

I

Solofresh2:
Boss Man Sukkot I hail oo

my Chief Solofresh2 werrin dey appin Salute

Cooolme:

Yeah bro it's over a year now and it's still going smooth, one of the best decision I made last year.
Thanks for your concern tho.

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Can you put me through the online business making you money.

You dey choke her bro let her breath!!!

She's your sister, not your provider. Be creative and make your own money.

Jsj454:
She's your sister, not your provider. Be creative and make your own money.

Unlike you, I'm not wretched looking for who to Bill.

Good morning coolme
How are you and have a good Sunday service today in church..

I also have a cousin abroad too, we talk when we want to even for a week or a whole month, we might not even say a word cus na guy. What if her dad might be part of the reason for her not reaching u back cus no matter the work, people respond to messages when they share a bond. Just let her be for now and engage yourself with work and try to settle down if you haven't done so maybe before you can even remember her self, you fit be the one way go dey keep her waiting for your reply..

sukkot:
my Chief Solofresh2 werrin dey appin Salute

Oga Mi I dey oo
We are grateful for life
How your side na

Solofresh2:
Oga Mi I dey oo
We are grateful for life
How your side na

bros we dey push am small small lol

Pls ignore most of us.poverty mentality can humble men o! I use to think this way untill God lifted me mentally and other wise.we tend to generalize very wrongly as if everyone is a leetch or parasite.

Cooolme:

Broooo, like people here broke shaming me because of this post like they know me in real life. You've just detailed everything.
Thanks.

What if she's in prison

Your love for her is selfish and you know it. You are only thinking about connection tomorro..U won't even think of what she may be going through or involving.

goldmatrix:
Your love for her is selfish and you know it. You are only thinking about connection tomorro..U won't even think of what she may be going through or involving.

Big Man like you, you'll be thinking like a fool.

Cooolme:

You're such an idiot, I shouldn't have replied you at first. Broke ass fool.

Look at this 20-year old fool from a wretched family. God punish you. It seems you want die young, you worthless beggar. Your beggarly mother and her equally wretched children have used begging to make her run. All of una dey senseless for una family.

Then let her be..She might be going through some personal issues.

Cooolme:

My sister is not Nigerian neither my Mom.

Gajagojo:

So maybe you should WORK on making yourself valuable
Being valuable is not an entitlement or right


Make yourself useful
Add value to yourself

There is no shortage of friends for a useful person

When you become an adult you realise no one loves you for you not even your mother
You must be useful for something

Life is transactional
You give and you get

Hey dude, when next you want to quote someone, kindly learn to comprehend whatever you're about to comment on, reason been I wasn't the one who brought up the topics, I only affirm the other guy narrative.

Adiós