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Cooolme:
Nobody knows me personally here so I feel it's a safe space to share problems..lol

SIXTEENTH:
No matter your schedule and work almost 24/hr if you're into someone whom you so desires believe me definitely you must create a little time to reached that someone

achimendy:
The guy should focus on his life and leave the poor girl alone.


Who know if he has being pesting her with begging.

Cooolme:
I have a stepsister living abroad, the daughter of my mom. She's been there since childhood, raised by her father, and has become independent.

Despite the physical distance, she has been supportive, particularly to my mom. Although she occasionally sends money to my mom, it's never quite enough for her.

I share a unique bond with her; we've always been close, even during her visit. The last time she sent me money was during my 100 level when things were tough. However, my focus shifted from financial help to maintaining a connection with her.

Recently, I noticed a change. Since July, she has been snubbing my messages, a puzzling behavior considering I don't seek financial assistance. I've made it a point to check on her regularly, something she mentioned our mom doesn't do. At my level now if she needs money I can even send for her but her recent attitude has totally changed my mind towards her. I'm contemplating blocking her and ending contact, as it seems that's what she wants.

It's a challenging situation, and I'm curious if anyone here has experienced anything similar.

hahn:
"Gratitude is a burden. Revenge gives pleasure"

Appletek:
Your mama na mumu. Foolish beggar. Na so una use begging pursue am.

achimendy:
The guy should focus on his life and leave the poor girl alone.


Who know if he has being pesting her with begging.

id911:
She knows quite well your constant checking up on her is all about money or needing assistance even though u dey pretend. However, she might be going through some issues at the moment so stop the constant messages for now and let her breath. She'll certainly respond to you whenever she's ok to do so.

SeriouslySense:
Revenge for not answering messages

I hope you will be in that same situation where you have to answer messages you cannot answer.

Common, are you that pikinish.

Not everyone has energy to be answering many messages, i remember when there was no phones, there was more peace, now you have to answer phone messages faa

And do you know how many other tasks, somone has to focus on, without needing distractions.

hahn:
You misunderstood me.

The woman has been helping the op and his mom and now she has gone quiet.

The op has now forgotten when she was kind and nice and is even saying "I can now afford to send her money".

I was referring to the op.

He is now so quick to want to pay back her disrespect without considering that she might her own challenges and life to live while conveniently not putting her past good deeds into consideration

Cooolme:
I have a stepsister living abroad, the daughter of my mom. She's been there since childhood, raised by her father, and has become independent.

Despite the physical distance, she has been supportive, particularly to my mom. Although she occasionally sends money to my mom, it's never quite enough for her.

I share a unique bond with her; we've always been close, even during her visit. The last time she sent me money was during my 100 level when things were tough. However, my focus shifted from financial help to maintaining a connection with her.

Recently, I noticed a change. Since July, she has been snubbing my messages, a puzzling behavior considering I don't seek financial assistance. I've made it a point to check on her regularly, something she mentioned our mom doesn't do. At my level now if she needs money I can even send for her but her recent attitude has totally changed my mind towards her. I'm contemplating blocking her and ending contact, as it seems that's what she wants.

It's a challenging situation, and I'm curious if anyone here has experienced anything similar.

Cooolme:
I have a stepsister living abroad, the daughter of my mom. She's been there since childhood, raised by her father, and has become independent.

Despite the physical distance, she has been supportive, particularly to my mom. Although she occasionally sends money to my mom, it's never quite enough for her.

I share a unique bond with her; we've always been close, even during her visit. The last time she sent me money was during my 100 level when things were tough. However, my focus shifted from financial help to maintaining a connection with her.

Recently, I noticed a change. Since July, she has been snubbing my messages, a puzzling behavior considering I don't seek financial assistance. I've made it a point to check on her regularly, something she mentioned our mom doesn't do. At my level now if she needs money I can even send for her but her recent attitude has totally changed my mind towards her. I'm contemplating blocking her and ending contact, as it seems that's what she wants.

It's a challenging situation, and I'm curious if anyone here has experienced anything similar.

Cooolme:
I have a stepsister living abroad, the daughter of my mom. She's been there since childhood, raised by her father, and has become independent.

Despite the physical distance, she has been supportive, particularly to my mom. Although she occasionally sends money to my mom, it's never quite enough for her.

I share a unique bond with her; we've always been close, even during her visit. The last time she sent me money was during my 100 level when things were tough. However, my focus shifted from financial help to maintaining a connection with her.

Recently, I noticed a change. Since July, she has been snubbing my messages, a puzzling behavior considering I don't seek financial assistance. I've made it a point to check on her regularly, something she mentioned our mom doesn't do. At my level now if she needs money I can even send for her but her recent attitude has totally changed my mind towards her. I'm contemplating blocking her and ending contact, as it seems that's what she wants.

It's a challenging situation, and I'm curious if anyone here has experienced anything similar.

kunle75:
I will tell you for a fact,that things are sometimes very tough and overwhelming here in America.
After many years I Visited Naija for the first time in June 2023 ,and return to base same month. I went back straight to my academic program which is full time, Imagine leaving home 6.30am and start school 7am till 2.30pm then drove straight to work and closed by 11pm ,then got home 11.40pm,eat and start fixing my assignments, then sleep for only 2hrs if possible?
When will I have time to read my messages and return them.bills are waiting for me everywhere, my tuition is over $4k for each semester plus other bills,like rent,insurance, medical, credit card,feeding, gas,phone,etc.

Please pray for her ooo

Cooolme:
I understand you and I'm working on that tbh, I'm not annoying in anyway please. Speaking to someone once a week isn't annoying lol.

kunle75:
I will tell you for a fact,that things are sometimes very tough and overwhelming here in America.
After many years I Visited Naija for the first time in June 2023 ,and return to base same month. I went back straight to my academic program which is full time, Imagine leaving home 6.30am and start school 7am till 2.30pm then drove straight to work and closed by 11pm ,then got home 11.40pm,eat and start fixing my assignments, then sleep for only 2hrs if possible?
When will I have time to read my messages and return them.bills are waiting for me everywhere, my tuition is over $4k for each semester plus other bills,like rent,insurance, medical, credit card,feeding, gas,phone,etc.

Please pray for her ooo

sukkot:
ask your mum for her address in the uk. join ebay uk. buy pound card or ebay credit. order flowers and chocolate and a bottle of wine on ebay and send to her address. you can do all this from naija

best advice.

Cooolme:
I totally understand your point Sir, as I myself may be relocating to the US next year.
Catch is she's in Europe and she is done with school there since like 3 years ago. We communicate on a norms like once a week, I don't see how that's a problem. Can you snub your sibling who's not even demanding for like 3 months?

1TrippleCee:
Sir Kay, i dont want your life

kunle75:
That's ok,that's the life I chose.

Raskimonojendor:
It is well. You should try to reach her. She may be going through a lot.

SIXTEENTH:
No matter your schedule and work almost 24/hr if you're into someone whom you so desires believe me definitely you must create a little time to reached that someone

1TrippleCee:
Remember to enjoy life while you fight tru life. See you in Yankee soon.

kunle75:
Am enjoying myself bro no dulling, I had visited few places in Europe during summer for holiday and am grateful to God for those.
See you soon and be safe.