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Re: How Do I Confront My Wife With This Kind Of Question by Biisola: 7:36am On Nov 21, 2023 |
I thought as much coming from someone like you. Namaster: 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Confront My Wife With This Kind Of Question by Biisola: 7:41am On Nov 21, 2023 |
For a marriage to be successful both parties needs to align as one only then will things move smoothly. The sister in-law of this said oga contributed to this problems this couples are currently dealing with. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Confront My Wife With This Kind Of Question by SporaD8: 7:45am On Nov 21, 2023 |
EEIA:This question you asked @bolded is a $1b question. From my little experience... *Most of these unadventurous, unexposed, SU ladies naturally believe they're doing you a huge favor marrying you! *Being a Nice/weak guy actually reinforce my first point - Since you aren't taking charge, they feel short-changed for stooping low to your level - the female subconscious mind is programmed to only dominate babies and kid-siblings; Unfortunately, weak/nice men fit in a the same bracket! *Coincidentally, these Naive ladies seeking advice from their exposed friends is just the last straw... they tend to take whatever advice, no matter how inimical to their own well-being/marriage, from such friends as the gospel of truth to be followed to the last letter! 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do I Confront My Wife With This Kind Of Question by Carcholce: 7:47am On Nov 21, 2023 |
Biisola: You are omitting the real problem. If the sister in law contributed to the problems, who gave the sister in law the leeway? 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Confront My Wife With This Kind Of Question by Biisola: 7:48am On Nov 21, 2023 |
Carcholce:The OP n his wife. |
Re: How Do I Confront My Wife With This Kind Of Question by MumEmdy(f): 7:53am On Nov 21, 2023 |
@OP does your sister in-law son look like his dad or mom? My sister's son and my son have a striking resemblance if not for d age difference you did mistake them to be twins. These two kid are a complete carbon copy of my dad their (grandad) even in character and behavior. Please check where d resemblance is coming before you start creating enemies here and there. 4 Likes |
Re: How Do I Confront My Wife With This Kind Of Question by WilsonBright935: 7:58am On Nov 21, 2023 |
MumEmdy: OP said his last child looks like his sister in law's husband 6 Likes |
Re: How Do I Confront My Wife With This Kind Of Question by Ulunne777(f): 8:31am On Nov 21, 2023 |
Oga,forget that cheating thought.You cheated and now suspecting your last child looks like his cousin because you think your wife was doing the same thing you werr doing. My 1st son and my sis 2nd son could pass for twins。 Same age,same names,same face. It is blood . HOW WAS I EVEN ABLE TO RRAD THIS EPISTLE 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Confront My Wife With This Kind Of Question by Gggjhhj: 8:36am On Nov 21, 2023 |
Op your writeup too long, gave up at some point |
Re: How Do I Confront My Wife With This Kind Of Question by Ulunne777(f): 8:37am On Nov 21, 2023 |
Carcholce: THE OP BECAUSR HOW DOES SHE KEEP RRAPPEARING AS THEIR ADVISOR. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Confront My Wife With This Kind Of Question by Foodqueen(f): 8:53am On Nov 21, 2023 |
Op, what kind of business are you into. Go for DNA test |
Re: How Do I Confront My Wife With This Kind Of Question by Kasdat5(m): 9:09am On Nov 21, 2023 |
Omo . |
Re: How Do I Confront My Wife With This Kind Of Question by UnproudLife: 9:20am On Nov 21, 2023 |
Carcholce:But sincerely I no too do hookup oo, haba. Had normal girls and hookup was 10% and mostly at earlier stages when I never blend. Well sha for about 6months I've stopped all that. Thanks to God |
Re: How Do I Confront My Wife With This Kind Of Question by Biisola: 9:22am On Nov 21, 2023 |
Wahala too much like diz. |
Re: How Do I Confront My Wife With This Kind Of Question by duduade: 9:24am On Nov 21, 2023 |
Just confusing Beat round the whole bush and ending up with Paternity question Go do a DNA test when you are ready to accept the results 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Confront My Wife With This Kind Of Question by Authoreety: 9:27am On Nov 21, 2023 |
EEIA: And you had to quote the entire post, guy u deserve to be sent to sambisa |
Re: How Do I Confront My Wife With This Kind Of Question by UnproudLife: 9:34am On Nov 21, 2023 |
Namaster:Ok sir/ma But did you read where I said she verbally pushed into that life? Literally saying she wouldn't care if I got someone else! With the less than a man talk down. Me being a Christian I do know faithfulness isn't promised outside Christ because at that time I wasn't even identifying with being Christian as am no hypocrite. |
Re: How Do I Confront My Wife With This Kind Of Question by UnproudLife: 9:41am On Nov 21, 2023 |
Dogalmighty17:The money isn't as much there again. But just enough to get by. Her sister's influence was as a result of her insubmissive nature because I was always telling her what was right. I'd say she is currently more well behaved but this is after we have lost so much because even when I beckoned on her to have us run a business to get right back up she said I wanted to use her head and that was over a year ago. Only managing to get by in meeting up with expenses. I can only say I have some properties, landed and and few things to my name now |
Re: How Do I Confront My Wife With This Kind Of Question by Bush2013: 9:47am On Nov 21, 2023 |
Chairman, please do dna in both of your child. |
Re: How Do I Confront My Wife With This Kind Of Question by UnproudLife: 9:50am On Nov 21, 2023 |
MumEmdy:For me to have pitched somewhere, it means I've done that. That child is very well said to look like her dad and I know she doesn't resemble her mum. They even say it that she looks like her dad's mum. How my own child take go jump within close range like that nai I wan know. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Confront My Wife With This Kind Of Question by MumEmdy(f): 9:50am On Nov 21, 2023 |
WilsonBright935: Read again, he said his second son look like his inlaw's last son. The two kids are cousin!! |
Re: How Do I Confront My Wife With This Kind Of Question by UnproudLife: 9:56am On Nov 21, 2023 |
Ulunne777:Why D child no pick from my mother in-law like her sister's son looks and why from her husband's side? Na so he hard to read and understand? Whatever anyone says doesn't matter, because I am not of the opinion that when one goes through toxic affairs you remain sane, something your partner caused with all literal manners, except God helps. Let's be realistic. Then didn't you read the part I talked about the child's conception which was when I was still faithful and well behaved. Who knows if it was part of the reasons she pushed me out 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Confront My Wife With This Kind Of Question by obinna58(m): 10:00am On Nov 21, 2023 |
You couldn’t tame her and you’re collecting wotowoto It’s good you tame your woman so she knows the importance of authority, it’ll put her in her place Religion makes people extreme Hippocratic, I’ll beat my chest and tell you she fvcked him, if it smells like sh!t then it definitely sh!t Bad women disgust me really bad, really really bad. 6 Likes |
Re: How Do I Confront My Wife With This Kind Of Question by UnproudLife: 10:01am On Nov 21, 2023 |
Ulunne777:Woman you're being silly and unnecessarily supportive of your gender. Did you for once get where I personally approved of my sis inlaw as advisor? That she advised during investment doesn't count because I am thoughtful and knew when I was getting good advice. I'm not silly to hate on someone because I just don't wanna hear from them when it's a good advice given that these people were living in their own houses in said area. |
Re: How Do I Confront My Wife With This Kind Of Question by Aaaaarghmed(m): 10:22am On Nov 21, 2023 |
U have the money,do a DNA |
Re: How Do I Confront My Wife With This Kind Of Question by WilsonBright935: 10:28am On Nov 21, 2023 |
MumEmdy: And the cousins look like their father... OP's sister in law's husband 🙄🙄🙄 |
Re: How Do I Confront My Wife With This Kind Of Question by liveyourlife007(m): 10:48am On Nov 21, 2023 |
"I was so far gone playing churchy All these years I never knew the age had turned around and ladies were now so much for sale" Eeya. This Bros is a nice guy. Now I understand why some Men treat their wives like animals. Cos that's exactly what they are. Animal's. The only Way to control a woman is by being cruel to them. If not they will take you for granted. But don't start by being wicked, at first play Mr Nice guy like this Op. Then after you must have gained control over her, financially, mentally, spiritually and sexually, you change to your true color. Just turn cold and heartless towards her and make her Life miserable. That's the mistake op made, he's too nice, showering the lady with endless Love and affection. They will manipulate you if you do these and turn you to a weakling. And their most deadly weapon is to control you through sex. But Op did one thing that gave me Joy, that's when he started having extramarital affairs outside. Women have their ways of bringing out the beast in you, and when they do, make their Life miserable. Don't ever say "Sorry" to a woman even if you're at fault, you can just buy her a gift to show remorse. That's all. 4 Likes |
Re: How Do I Confront My Wife With This Kind Of Question by marsup: 11:06am On Nov 21, 2023 |
A simple thing in some many words..... Since you have confessed your inadequacies to her, tell her to do same so you can start afresh. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Confront My Wife With This Kind Of Question by Eazie351(m): 11:26am On Nov 21, 2023 |
You have money. Run a DNA test 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Confront My Wife With This Kind Of Question by Free2Fly: 12:08pm On Nov 21, 2023 |
deewhydoski: You didn't have the time to finish his write up, but you had time to write 5 paragraphs for him?? Nawaoo 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Confront My Wife With This Kind Of Question by Gr8mind07(m): 12:26pm On Nov 21, 2023 |
Your sister in law is a bad influence on your wife and unfortunately you allowed it. At this point, you need to cordon her involvement in your home as fast as you can |
Re: How Do I Confront My Wife With This Kind Of Question by Atolu01: 12:40pm On Nov 21, 2023 |
liveyourlife007: Sicko. Don't start by being wicked indeed. |
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