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matm:
It's very difficult for a govt school teacher both male and female on govt pay roll with pensionable posts to act sexually with a student .They are seasoned and have general code of conduct.
Its mainly some youth corpers and private school teachers that try such shameful rubbish.

abbey621:
I'll tell you how you cope......When you think about the prison sentence and the damage to your reputation, that should be incentive enough......Of course since you live in a zoo country, the law is very slow to catch up or care but if na sane country, you would eventually meet your waterloo either via the law or a parent with 9mm aiming for the middle of your head!

Quality20:
I don't think its right for male teachers either at public or private schools to be sleeping with female students entrusted to them, its actually very bad and highly shameful.

This grooming of students to sex workers not teaching or tutoring anymore. This type of bad evil practices mostly happen at all those low paying mushroom schools. Those female students spoilt by randy teachers mostly turn out to be morally bankrupt who then feel that they can always use their private parts to seek favours.

They in turn prowl on others teachers and lecturers at tertiary institutions. I can still remember how an ss 1 girl at a school I once taught without any prompting offered herself if I'm gonna give her good marks at a school CA test. Then it just came to my mind, that a randy spoilt teacher may have been spoiling her.

Well, what could I have done? I simply ignored her. Later, in the course of the year, I discovered one of the teachers sleeping with her. A teacher who went for the NYSC had just returned and this sexually corrupt student was in our staff room for only God knows what? Before u could say jack , this shameless teacher who had just returned from service was saying "I have changed".

I was really surprised, because I really didn't hear her say anything to require such response from the teacher. Then it downed on me that she must have used some non-verbal way to communicate with him.

How could one really hold someone to account for things that were done in secret and in a closet ? Those female non verbal communication skills don't hold water legally.

Anyway, proprietors and principals of schools must keep a close watch over their subjects, and know what's going on around their school and students.

matm:
It's very difficult for a govt school teacher both male and female on govt pay roll with pensionable posts to act sexually with a student .They are seasoned and have general code of conduct.
Its mainly some youth corpers and private school teachers that try such shameful rubbish.

Oluwatobiloba07:
You talk like an empty barrel you're, I'm a Corper, I teach chemistry and I know what I'm saying

God have help me that I have never and will never do such things because I have sisters. Everyone should just ask for God's grace whenever the situation arises

A sixteen year old girl asking, uncle are you not going to hotel for your birthday. I just laughed and called her to staff room and talk sense to her.

She opened up that she can't help the matter especially seeing someone she likes.

Assuming you are with knowledge, you won't say all this rubbish above.

Imagine a parents sending her daughter to you, just to give you food and the parents is aware of the rubbish the daughter is putting on to a single man house

Let me just stop here. Next time don't talk with your height because you're short of knowledge and understanding

Talk with sense and reality of life

Oluwatobiloba07:
How do you cope when female students are the one begging for it

Uncle I want to know your house
Some even go ahead and write love letters

It takes God grace to overcome challenges like this.. it's not easy especially when you're single.

Men are moved by what they see

Vinnie2000:
OP, Blame Parents and the Society for corrupting our Young Girls.

You will see 12, 13 years old Girls wearing Bumshot and shaking their YANCH all over the place.

Don't their parents see these Things?

crossbreedwears:
Does that mean a man can't control himself or what is your excuse?

Babathanks:
Is a lie. I went to government secondary school. Many male teachers sleep with female students during my time. But during my nysc. We corpers never did that. Most of us are very discipline. We use to advice all of them and educate about there hormones reactivity towards sex.

Gadafii:
Some of this eve girls are already sleeping with someone their ancestors age

Don’t just blame teachers alone, parents, society and even these wayward children have fault in this


Go outside around Lagos or some cities in Nigeria and see how these young girls go about wearing tight and oversized round necks without bra, na teacher teach them that one too

This girls have become bold and shameless over night

Gone are the days when woman wear shimi under their clothes, where their body parts are covered

Tight used to be an underwear, but these girls now wear it out like major clothes, so blame them too

illicit:
Some of the students sleep with men outside

Why focus on teachers alone?

Just say it's not good for anyone to sleep with underage girls

When I joined a British school's staff, at the seminar, they said that we teachers should not patronise bars or hotels because our students and their parents might see us and that we are models

I asked the admin guy lecturing us, what about the parents, don't some of them patronise bars? Don't some of them drink and smoke at home?

A teacher is also human.

Anyway, since then I drink at home.

But when I was a corper I have met my students at night parties, am I suppose to leave because of them? Or send them home?

Which home?
The same home where the parents are and knows that their children are not in bed?

I am an adult, they are the children, but not my children...

A teacher's job is not a death sentence, abeg let us breath...


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Quality20:
I don't think its right for male teachers either at public or private schools to be sleeping with female students entrusted to them, its actually very bad and highly shameful.

This grooming of students to sex workers not teaching or tutoring anymore. This type of bad evil practices mostly happen at all those low paying mushroom schools. Those female students spoilt by randy teachers mostly turn out to be morally bankrupt who then feel that they can always use their private parts to seek favours.

They in turn prowl on others teachers and lecturers at tertiary institutions. I can still remember how an ss 1 girl at a school I once taught without any prompting offered herself if I'm gonna give her good marks at a school CA test. Then it just came to my mind, that a randy spoilt teacher may have been spoiling her.

Well, what could I have done? I simply ignored her. Later, in the course of the year, I discovered one of the teachers sleeping with her. A teacher who went for the NYSC had just returned and this sexually corrupt student was in our staff room for only God knows what? Before u could say jack , this shameless teacher who had just returned from service was saying "I have changed".

I was really surprised, because I really didn't hear her say anything to require such response from the teacher. Then it downed on me that she must have used some non-verbal way to communicate with him.

How could one really hold someone to account for things that were done in secret and in a closet ? Those female non verbal communication skills don't hold water legally.

Anyway, proprietors and principals of schools must keep a close watch over their subjects, and know what's going on around their school and students.

Vinnie2000:
Don't mind him.😒

He thinks to control PREEK na by Age?.😕

The Govt sch close to my Area, one Married teacher wanted to Fcvk an SS1 girl.😌

But Dude was BURSTED and the Community Youths laid him on the Floor and used Poline to Wipe him Wella. 🤨😢😢

Vinnie2000:
A well TRAINED Girl will not wear Skimpy clothes exposing her Tommy and Ass cheeks.😏😏

Neither will she seduce any Adult male and will outrightly REJECT any amorous advance from a Randy Nigga. 😕😕.

So, I maintain that Parents should be Blamed. 🙁🙁

Monaboo:
When I was a Teacher, my students will search for me on Facebook and initiate a chat session with me.

There was a time an SS3 girl chatted me up and called me my first name.

Not Uncle o or Sir. My first name. She chatted me up as if she was chatting her friend.

And I dont even teach her class cos I teach science students. She is an Art student.

The thing shock me mehn...

I later discovered she had a crush on me.

I even had to get used to daily compliments from students. "Uncle you are fine"..."Uncle we like you"...

It's not easy to be Tall, Dark and Handsome in a school with teenagers who are still testing their hormones and sexuality.

You have to be disciplined.

So yeah....at times, these girls throw themselves at the teachers.

In all, the teachers who sleep with students are to be jailed for life with hard labour cos that is so wrong.

MSN1:
Lol.
I doubt if u undastand comprehension@ all.
U just insulted ur ignorance go back and read who i quoted and y i quoted.

Truly, we have a lot of uneducated illetrates who don't take their time to read and undastand.

illicit:
Some of the students sleep with men outside

Why focus on teachers alone?

Just say it's not good for anyone to sleep with underage girls

When I joined a British school's staff, at the seminar, they said that we teachers should not patronise bars or hotels because our students and their parents might see us and that we are models

I asked the admin guy lecturing us, what about the parents, don't some of them patronise bars? Don't some of them drink and smoke at home?

A teacher is also human.

Anyway, since then I drink at home.

But when I was a corper I have met my students at night parties, am I suppose to leave because of them? Or send them home?

Which home?
The same home where the parents are and knows that their children are not in bed?

I am an adult, they are the children, but not my children...

A teacher's job is not a death sentence, abeg let us breath...


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abbey621:
Again you're daft! You're a corper arguing with someone that served almost 15 years ago, you see say you're mental? Which kind temptation you wan face wey we never faced before? Some of us live in a civilized country and the first thing they teach you about underaged victims is that the law will always expect the adult to be the voice of reason! Your excuses are just lame and foolish, temptation, what she's wearing blah blah blah.....Don't worry you'll soon be dropping the soap in the slammer, continue!

Quality20:
why shouldn't I complain? Don't u know that students are entrusted to the teachers and are like parents to those pupils? If anyone must spoil students ,teachers re supposed to be the last to do that.

GentuLion:
Now I get your point!

You mean teachers can actually sleep with their students but they should make sure they're the last on the queue

dangervu:
its crazy how a lot of you support this impunity! what comes to my mind when this student makes move's is first my reputation and my freedom, they can be temping , but working in a public school is another crazy experience ,female teachers are always on the look out for male teachers closeness just to indict you ... one 15 years old girl once confided in me pleading she wants me to dis virgin her...i recommended her to a female counsellor , that scared her away from me....from that day she kept calling me mummy boys ,a 15years old girl to 36years old at that time,she had a click of friends who always laugh when i get into the class...It takes the grace of God and discipline ....

illicit:
Some of the students sleep with men outside

Why focus on teachers alone?

Just say it's not good for anyone to sleep with underage girls

When I joined a British school's staff, at the seminar, they said that we teachers should not patronise bars or hotels because our students and their parents might see us and that we are models

I asked the admin guy lecturing us, what about the parents, don't some of them patronise bars? Don't some of them drink and smoke at home?

A teacher is also human.

Anyway, since then I drink at home.

But when I was a corper I have met my students at night parties, am I suppose to leave because of them? Or send them home?

Which home?
The same home where the parents are and knows that their children are not in bed?

I am an adult, they are the children, but not my children...

A teacher's job is not a death sentence, abeg let us breath...


🙄

4KNGOATS:
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Bros why are u so pained? Afterall those girls are not complaining,their mangoes are ripe let us pluck it for them . they're also looking for ripe banana let's give it to them

jeromestarks:
Guys guys guys!
Why are you guys fuming as if the sky is about to split open?
It's just sex na. A child having sex does not mean she is a criminal or a cultist. She didn't hurt anyone.

Please let's focus on why Peter Obi is pained by anything FG does and leave girls having sex alone.

It's just sex. Nothing more.