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| Re: Age 25+..what Advice Would You Give Someone Age 18-24? by izubext007: 8:12pm On Dec 05, 2023 |
Go and learn work |
| Re: Age 25+..what Advice Would You Give Someone Age 18-24? by cooooooks(m): 8:14pm On Dec 05, 2023 |
1. Keep multiple relationships to the minimum. 2. Try to start your career early 3. Avoid heavy purchases for flex reasons. 4. Learn how to learn. 5. Speed is more important. Want to start a business, start quickly. |
| Re: Age 25+..what Advice Would You Give Someone Age 18-24? by Hsurdluxury: 8:21pm On Dec 05, 2023 |
1 -learn a skill,start earning money 2-avoid salary work,its a trap 3-try to avoid too much dependence on your parent 4-if you have high sexual urge,make money then marry early 5-avoid fornication,divert the energy to your work and you make more money |
| Re: Age 25+..what Advice Would You Give Someone Age 18-24? by nigeriansamurai(m): 8:22pm On Dec 05, 2023 |
Before you take advice from elders ESPECIALLY CAREER WISE, take a good look at the person. |
| Re: Age 25+..what Advice Would You Give Someone Age 18-24? by Satazaa: 8:26pm On Dec 05, 2023 |
BrightShine:brilliant bro 💯 |
| Re: Age 25+..what Advice Would You Give Someone Age 18-24? by Satazaa: 8:28pm On Dec 05, 2023 |
10thTenthMan:best advice by a mile, welldone sir |
| Re: Age 25+..what Advice Would You Give Someone Age 18-24? by Ayo8(m): 8:39pm On Dec 05, 2023 |
You have plenty time and energy, invest both in something lucrative (learn something and serve to gain experience) for your future. |
| Re: Age 25+..what Advice Would You Give Someone Age 18-24? by Ayo8(m): 8:42pm On Dec 05, 2023 |
Hsurdluxury:You can’t tell him to avoid salary jobs at his age… how will he gain experience?? He’s got to serve…Taking a salary job is part of life’s experience |
| Re: Age 25+..what Advice Would You Give Someone Age 18-24? by Hsurdluxury: 8:49pm On Dec 05, 2023 |
Ayo8:salary job is a trap bro and a sweet bait like 20yr old getting paid 200k monthly salary he will be too lazy to start his own business only few can get out of salary trap |
| Re: Age 25+..what Advice Would You Give Someone Age 18-24? by officialfestus(m): 8:49pm On Dec 05, 2023 |
Worthy contributions. |
| Re: Age 25+..what Advice Would You Give Someone Age 18-24? by Ayo8(m): 8:53pm On Dec 05, 2023 |
Hsurdluxury:Please give a practical example of how he’s expected to grow without service/taking a salaried job at any point in his chosen career… . |
| Re: Age 25+..what Advice Would You Give Someone Age 18-24? by Premiumbuy(m): 8:55pm On Dec 05, 2023*. Modified: 7:17am On Dec 06, 2023 |
englishmart:Premium Be Unto You |
| Re: Age 25+..what Advice Would You Give Someone Age 18-24? by Basicend: 9:49pm On Dec 05, 2023 |
MSN1:I agree with you 💯 on the bolded. |
| Re: Age 25+..what Advice Would You Give Someone Age 18-24? by Akano5(m): 9:58pm On Dec 05, 2023 |
StevConcepts:Can I land a good job with Microsoft Word, Excell and Power point sir, because it seems I will need to learn 1 or 2 digital skills which I would try my best to learn, although, I hadn't got a laptop as yet. |
| Re: Age 25+..what Advice Would You Give Someone Age 18-24? by Basicend: 10:00pm On Dec 05, 2023 |
EmmyMaestro:Absolutely true. . Practically true. |
| Re: Age 25+..what Advice Would You Give Someone Age 18-24? by bidex(m): 10:03pm On Dec 05, 2023 |
Getting rich is not the priority, rather develop yourself to achieve greatness. Social life is just a but distraction towards greatness. Look up to achievers for motivation not actors and actress, they live fake lives. |
| Re: Age 25+..what Advice Would You Give Someone Age 18-24? by kkins25(m): 10:14pm On Dec 05, 2023 |
Akano5:It's like asking, "can I land a job if I buy a hammer, nails, wood, and zinc?" |
| Re: Age 25+..what Advice Would You Give Someone Age 18-24? by piroski09(m): 10:15pm On Dec 05, 2023 |
Learn Forex trading as long as he or she has a browsing phone |
| Re: Age 25+..what Advice Would You Give Someone Age 18-24? by Akano5(m): 10:16pm On Dec 05, 2023 |
Thank you @all , for the abundance advices..... It seems all the advice is for me -- from spirituality to woman to money... Acquiring skills is the best way Every sentences up there is kinda pointing at me, though i'm 20, life has taught me a lot, but I thank God I didn't give up... And learning a skill a not as easy as people portrayed, one has to have access to food and equipment for easy and fast learning -- both factors are affecting people seriously... And I have interest in learning a digital skills but, I'm unable to get a Laptop and also unable to get an Android phone (from a poor familly background) -- how am I gonna cope with learning without having access to the two, I'm honestly tired and nobody wants to help. Well, as someone said -- Put God First |
| Re: Age 25+..what Advice Would You Give Someone Age 18-24? by Akano5(m): 10:20pm On Dec 05, 2023 |
kkins25:Thank you, I will focuse more on them.. |
| Re: Age 25+..what Advice Would You Give Someone Age 18-24? by Linkwire: 10:35pm On Dec 05, 2023 |
Relax , worry less about things you cannot control . Just keep improving in all aspects of your life even if it’s baby steps and everything will fall in place . When I reflect , I ask myself why I was so worried. The things I was worried about didn’t matter eventually. It’s the things I didn’t really regard that came through and now I am building on them. I know it’s hard not to worry but just try. It reduces disappointments and stress. Ultimately , Que Serra Serra. |
| Re: Age 25+..what Advice Would You Give Someone Age 18-24? by Abiflexy01(m): 10:53pm On Dec 05, 2023 |
Don’t ever put your hand in whatever will not add or give you peace e.g Yahoo yahoo. I can boost with my full chest that I am 20 to 50 times better than most of my mates that go into fraudulent activities. Hustle legit and God will bless100% |
| Re: Age 25+..what Advice Would You Give Someone Age 18-24? by Badadvisor: 11:39pm On Dec 05, 2023 |
deltateam:Majority of them cheat during those stages though |
| Re: Age 25+..what Advice Would You Give Someone Age 18-24? by Blitzking: 12:44am On Dec 06, 2023 |
Stephen2324:learn digital skills...driving...swimming....and one or 2 hand skills sewing, hair/wig making, interior deco, baking, chef...for guys learn one hard skill like plumbing, tile laying, photography, and then network , network, network.thats the key always be willing to take up responsibility where u have the ability to affect lives naso all these corrupt politicians take start na why the borehole trick still dey work till today.. |
| Re: Age 25+..what Advice Would You Give Someone Age 18-24? by Perfectman91: 1:26am On Dec 06, 2023 |
Psalmy2cute:Very correct, girls bring distraction |
| Re: Age 25+..what Advice Would You Give Someone Age 18-24? by chronique(m): 6:01am On Dec 06, 2023 |
deltateam:You are not old at 40 but that's when the reality of old age starts to dawn on you. That's when you start to watch certain things to prepare you for the real old age coming in front of you. I said that cos his write up seems to suggest he's feeling like a grown up that can now advise, not knowing there are still lots of hurdles and mistakes waiting to be made at 25+. |
| Re: Age 25+..what Advice Would You Give Someone Age 18-24? by Zagee: 6:32am On Dec 06, 2023 |
Be selfish with your time. Acquire and develop any skillset. By the time you hit 28 you'll be above your peers mentally and relatively physically. |
| Re: Age 25+..what Advice Would You Give Someone Age 18-24? by YourGFsnatcher: 7:09am On Dec 06, 2023 |
Stephen2324:Don't let social media teach you what life should be like. 90% information on social media have nothing to do with real life hence they are just contents so that you can make other people rich while you remain poor. You may say its just entertainment, that's how America started and today they have over 2000 genders legitly. Your subconscious mind is very powerful |
| Re: Age 25+..what Advice Would You Give Someone Age 18-24? by luvyaself95(m): 8:20am On Dec 06, 2023 |
MSN1:Okay your words your choice your life |
| Re: Age 25+..what Advice Would You Give Someone Age 18-24? by Lonestar124: 9:16am On Dec 06, 2023 |
Psalmy2cute:so you mean one at that age should not focus on his parent and siblings? |
| Re: Age 25+..what Advice Would You Give Someone Age 18-24? by pansophist(m): 9:59am On Dec 06, 2023 |
Be honorable. Seems like a cliche, but living an honorable life will simplify your life to an unimaginable extent, which makes life worth living. so how can you be honorable? It is simple. In any situation you find yourself, choose the path of honor. Are you in a position of power and have the ability to punish someone? then don't do it, only punish them if it is within the law, and not because of your vindictiveness. An example of the above is how a landlord who has a front shop gets angry when tenants buy stuff elsewhere. As revenge, they hike rental prices or torment the tenants in many ways. Lots of men will only help a woman as bait to sleep with her, that is a very dishonorable act. Help people, and don't exploit their weak state. Sometimes, you may be in a scenario where you can scam someone and they won't know. Don't do it, because you will always be answerable to your conscience, and even worse when they find out. When you live life in an upright, straightforward way, you greatly simplify your life. Manipulating the realities of life never ends up good, and if you don't know, it only goes to show the limitations in how you view the world. What you show you shall reap, it is very true. The world has evolved for millions of years, more than what human knowledge can comprehend. We do not know all the rules yet, and safeguarding yourself is by being honorable. When you are being honorable, the world will notice, and the world will open itself to you to move forward. Just as people give their best to good leadership (eg as Nigerians migrate to better places), good things in life will come to you if you live honorably. To be honorable, you have to develop yourself to be more internally focused, and less of this world. Materialistic people are not honorable, since their vanity triumphs above honor. Be honorable. It will take you far. |
| Re: Age 25+..what Advice Would You Give Someone Age 18-24? by pansophist(m): 10:06am On Dec 06, 2023*. Modified: 10:27am On Dec 06, 2023 |
Also, always speak the truth, or at least don't lie. There is a strategy I use, and it's that if I am caught between saying a bitter truth or lying, I just stay silent. Living a life of truth makes you honorable, and people will value your opinion more than the person who always says what they want to hear. Not lying is a form of self-acceptance. To accept yourself, you must give the world your unique self, and saying the truth is an expression of that. When you lie, you kill your unborn self. Like a tree bringing out poisonous fruits instead of a healthy one. Also, the truth is power. You can be a descendant of a slave, but with truth, you instantly become powerful. People in power will tremble at your words, and their wealth and position can do nothing to stop you. From MLK, Malcolm, Mandela, and Muhammad Ali, all these people rose from nothing just by telling the truth to power. And people hating you for saying the truth is their problem. Because the same people would want you to give them clean water to drink, and not lie that urine is clean |
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