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Rizzputin:
So whenever such a situation presents itself, she'll either make a conscious decision to act funny or not.
And if she continues, you know what to do.

You need a change of heart.
All these analyses jus to keep destroying your self and others?
Please repent and ask for God's mercy.
Just know that you have not started living until you start living for Christ.
There's more to life that getting laid.

Bintabisiriyu2:
Bros go and make money make woman matter no kill you

I can see how much you've made already. Lol....

Money or no money OP made some valid point, even the wives of the rich and wealthy are being fvcked by men without money, It didn't start today, it has been and will continue to be.

Even with money as a man you are not loved unconditionally by your wife. Ask yourself why? Money can only do what money can do. The money is the condition.

OP oya, allow Bintabisiriyu2 to make all the money in the world 🌎. Make sure to be richer than everybody in you family first. Then your village.

Bintabisiriyu2:
Bros go and make money make woman matter no kill you

do u kw if he mks money from writing? So bc u read an article here makes him jobless..the way u guys think is shameful.

Rizzputin:
Recently I stumbled on a nairalander's unfortunate post. It's similar to most stories you read on social media these days

According to him, he met a girl and fell in love with her. She was the typical gf material…The best part? She was a virgin. What more could he ask for

To top it off, she promised him her virginity. Possibly, when she's ready or better when they're married

Until 2 weeks later she got fùcked by a guy she had barely known for 2 weeks. Of course, he went on an emotional rant of how wicked women are. And how insensitive she was.

Can you guess her reason for giving another guy her "precious" virginity? "It just happened!"

Everybody and his mother has heard this phrase from women when they talk about some crazy sex she engaged in recently.

That trip to her bestie's house where she got pounded? She didn't plan to, you see.

She wasn't meaning for it to happen. Had she known, she wouldn't have gone there or allowed it… but it just happened!

Or how about when she went to deliver her wedding iv card to her ex only to fùck him? Well, that just happened too

Things "just happening" are a common occurrence for most women. Most women seem to be just floating along on the currents of life, when somehow they bump into a man and his long John Thomas falls inside her. Totally by mistake.

Except is it really a mistake?

Every experienced seducer knows the answer to that. It's not. To the naive man, he'll probably brush it off as an honest mistake

You see, women make things happen or put themselves in a position where things are most likely "just to happen."

That's why I advocate you become a hookup material. When you act that way you are more likely to "make it happen", fùck her and avoid being played.

---Why do things seem to "just happen" with women?

It's simple. She says that so she can shift the blame.

Or better still, find a way to justify her actions. Much better to say "it just happened: than to admit she willingly went to fùck someone.

That's why a big part of being a hook up material is being smooth, subtle… and inspiring her to lust after you.

Because when she lusts after you, she'll be an active participant in the seduction. She'll create opportunities and follow you to places where things can most likely "just happen"


---How to "make things happen" as a man

A smooth, sweet seduction is subtle. It leads a girl through some steps right into your arms.

And it's done in such a way she feels allowed to.

Becoming a hook up material is at the core of seduction. You use Lust Oriented Topics to gently nudge her into situations that things might just happen.

Of course, she can't help it because of how aroused she is. You don't want her to see you as bf or husband material because the pressure to be perfect is on her.

Rather you want to act like a hook up material. Make the right moves. Invite her to the right places and stimulate the necessary emotions in her.

Another benefit of being a hook up material that makes things happen is that she sees you as a guy that just gets it.

It's like you're part of the secret society of womanese. So she's less likely to play those games with you


---What should you do when "things keep happening" with your girlfriend


This applies to guys that are dating or have intentions to. If that's you, pay close attention.

Let's say your girl keeps giving out her number to guys. Or going to clubs with her female friends. Or wearing very skimpy clothes.

And when you ask why, she tells you it's just happened. Cuz she didn't plan for it.

How would you handle it?

Here's a tip:


● Call her out on the bs in a calm way. Show her how her actions make room for these things to happen.

Because believe it or not, she knows what she's doing. When you do this, it makes it even more obvious to her conscious mind the role she plays and the fact that you don't like it

So whenever such a situation presents itself, she'll either make a conscious decision to act funny or not.

And if she continues, you know what to do.

Preach!! Asides the initial rant, you hit the right spots

Although we’re guilty as well, ours is “I can explain” 🫠


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All this epistle because of women ! Lol u better go & & make some money. Rubbish.

Rizzputin:
Recently I stumbled on a nairalander's unfortunate post. It's similar to most stories you read on social media these days

According to him, he met a girl and fell in love with her. She was the typical gf material…The best part? She was a virgin. What more could he ask for

To top it off, she promised him her virginity. Possibly, when she's ready or better when they're married

Until 2 weeks later she got fùcked by a guy she had barely known for 2 weeks. Of course, he went on an emotional rant of how wicked women are. And how insensitive she was.

Can you guess her reason for giving another guy her "precious" virginity? "It just happened!"

Everybody and his mother has heard this phrase from women when they talk about some crazy sex she engaged in recently.

That trip to her bestie's house where she got pounded? She didn't plan to, you see.

She wasn't meaning for it to happen. Had she known, she wouldn't have gone there or allowed it… but it just happened!

Or how about when she went to deliver her wedding iv card to her ex only to fùck him? Well, that just happened too

Things "just happening" are a common occurrence for most women. Most women seem to be just floating along on the currents of life, when somehow they bump into a man and his long John Thomas falls inside her. Totally by mistake.

Except is it really a mistake?

Every experienced seducer knows the answer to that. It's not. To the naive man, he'll probably brush it off as an honest mistake

You see, women make things happen or put themselves in a position where things are most likely "just to happen."

That's why I advocate you become a hookup material. When you act that way you are more likely to "make it happen", fùck her and avoid being played.

---Why do things seem to "just happen" with women?

It's simple. She says that so she can shift the blame.

Or better still, find a way to justify her actions. Much better to say "it just happened: than to admit she willingly went to fùck someone.

That's why a big part of being a hook up material is being smooth, subtle… and inspiring her to lust after you.

Because when she lusts after you, she'll be an active participant in the seduction. She'll create opportunities and follow you to places where things can most likely "just happen"


---How to "make things happen" as a man

A smooth, sweet seduction is subtle. It leads a girl through some steps right into your arms.

And it's done in such a way she feels allowed to.

Becoming a hook up material is at the core of seduction. You use Lust Oriented Topics to gently nudge her into situations that things might just happen.

Of course, she can't help it because of how aroused she is. You don't want her to see you as bf or husband material because the pressure to be perfect is on her.

Rather you want to act like a hook up material. Make the right moves. Invite her to the right places and stimulate the necessary emotions in her.

Another benefit of being a hook up material that makes things happen is that she sees you as a guy that just gets it.

It's like you're part of the secret society of womanese. So she's less likely to play those games with you


---What should you do when "things keep happening" with your girlfriend


This applies to guys that are dating or have intentions to. If that's you, pay close attention.

Let's say your girl keeps giving out her number to guys. Or going to clubs with her female friends. Or wearing very skimpy clothes.

And when you ask why, she tells you it's just happened. Cuz she didn't plan for it.

How would you handle it?

Here's a tip:


● Call her out on the bs in a calm way. Show her how her actions make room for these things to happen.

Because believe it or not, she knows what she's doing. When you do this, it makes it even more obvious to her conscious mind the role she plays and the fact that you don't like it

So whenever such a situation presents itself, she'll either make a conscious decision to act funny or not.

And if she continues, you know what to do.

No mind am jawe

See epistle ontop these vaginarians wey no matter q😒😏🙄

Bintabisiriyu2:
Bros go and make money make woman matter no kill you

Of all the issues we have as black people, women is your main issue
True true black men have very low IQ compared to their white counterparts

I actually learned from this writeup. For success to "just happen", you need to put yourself in a position where you're likely to succeed.

Rizzputin:
Recently I stumbled on a nairalander's unfortunate post. It's similar to most stories you read on social media these days

According to him, he met a girl and fell in love with her. She was the typical gf material…The best part? She was a virgin. What more could he ask for

To top it off, she promised him her virginity. Possibly, when she's ready or better when they're married

Until 2 weeks later she got fùcked by a guy she had barely known for 2 weeks. Of course, he went on an emotional rant of how wicked women are. And how insensitive she was.

Can you guess her reason for giving another guy her "precious" virginity? "It just happened!"

Everybody and his mother has heard this phrase from women when they talk about some crazy sex she engaged in recently.

That trip to her bestie's house where she got pounded? She didn't plan to, you see.

She wasn't meaning for it to happen. Had she known, she wouldn't have gone there or allowed it… but it just happened!

Or how about when she went to deliver her wedding iv card to her ex only to fùck him? Well, that just happened too

Things "just happening" are a common occurrence for most women. Most women seem to be just floating along on the currents of life, when somehow they bump into a man and his long John Thomas falls inside her. Totally by mistake.

Except is it really a mistake?

Every experienced seducer knows the answer to that. It's not. To the naive man, he'll probably brush it off as an honest mistake

You see, women make things happen or put themselves in a position where things are most likely "just to happen."

That's why I advocate you become a hookup material. When you act that way you are more likely to "make it happen", fùck her and avoid being played.

---Why do things seem to "just happen" with women?

It's simple. She says that so she can shift the blame.

Or better still, find a way to justify her actions. Much better to say "it just happened: than to admit she willingly went to fùck someone.

That's why a big part of being a hook up material is being smooth, subtle… and inspiring her to lust after you.

Because when she lusts after you, she'll be an active participant in the seduction. She'll create opportunities and follow you to places where things can most likely "just happen"


---How to "make things happen" as a man

A smooth, sweet seduction is subtle. It leads a girl through some steps right into your arms.

And it's done in such a way she feels allowed to.

Becoming a hook up material is at the core of seduction. You use Lust Oriented Topics to gently nudge her into situations that things might just happen.

Of course, she can't help it because of how aroused she is. You don't want her to see you as bf or husband material because the pressure to be perfect is on her.

Rather you want to act like a hook up material. Make the right moves. Invite her to the right places and stimulate the necessary emotions in her.

Another benefit of being a hook up material that makes things happen is that she sees you as a guy that just gets it.

It's like you're part of the secret society of womanese. So she's less likely to play those games with you


---What should you do when "things keep happening" with your girlfriend


This applies to guys that are dating or have intentions to. If that's you, pay close attention.

Let's say your girl keeps giving out her number to guys. Or going to clubs with her female friends. Or wearing very skimpy clothes.

And when you ask why, she tells you it's just happened. Cuz she didn't plan for it.

How would you handle it?

Here's a tip:


● Call her out on the bs in a calm way. Show her how her actions make room for these things to happen.

Because believe it or not, she knows what she's doing. When you do this, it makes it even more obvious to her conscious mind the role she plays and the fact that you don't like it

So whenever such a situation presents itself, she'll either make a conscious decision to act funny or not.

And if she continues, you know what to do.

purples25:
In other words, what you are trying to say is that every cheating incident where the woman was in the wrong place at the wrong time, was deliberately orchestrated by her. You are saying that women always know sex is going to happen, and by this your theory, that should also mean that rape is non existent, because the women knew what would happen when they stepped in unsafe spaces.

This means that it is only her fault. The man involved didn't prey on her, she was not the victim of a predatory man's scheme or seduction, she always knows and leads the man on. Right?

I hope you have the same energy when the case is for men who cheat. Because in men's case, funny enough, it's always the woman that 'seduced, charmed and forced them'. Such explanations are accepted in men's cases, but women are suddenly very wise if they are the guilty ones.

The best thing is just to warn our young girls. Some things are rigged against men on the society, some things are rigged against women. In women's case, every bad or wrong sexual encounter is deliberately created by her, it's her fault, according to society. Men will always turn around to blame the woman, even one's so called lover. So girls/women have to be very careful, and not trust any men claiming their private space is safe. This really sucks, honestly. This method of blame reeks of cowardice and ego, and toxic masculinity.

what you typed is out of context...Summary: You as a lady you are getting married this Saturday, you are still chatting with ur ex and you also invited him to your wedding. You know ur ex is a sharp shooter, he persuaded you to let him see you for the last time, then you give in and said ok I will come give you the IV but I won't stay more than 5 mins..
Sister why do you keep contact with your ex in the first place if you don't have ulterior motives, why do you want ur ex at your wedding, lastly why did you went to visit ur ex few days to your wedding... I'm talking from experience most ladies still want their ex after marriage...But I don't do married women.

rapheal5:
what you typed is out of context...Summary: You as a lady you are getting married this Saturday, you are still chatting with ur ex and you also invited him to your wedding. You know ur ex is a sharp shooter, he persuaded you to let him see you for the last time, then you give in and said ok I will come give you the IV but I won't stay more than 5 mins..
Sister why do you keep contact with your ex in the first place if you don't have ulterior motives, why do you want ur ex at your wedding, lastly why did you went to visit ur ex few days to your wedding... I'm talking from experience most ladies still want their ex after marriage...But I don't do married women.

That wasn't the example OP used. Going by his examples and explanation, I deduced that he means that women don't make mistakes when it comes to sex, and every cheating act was premeditated. That is highly unrealistic and unreasonable. Not every woman plans ahead of time to cheat. Cheating is a decision all right, but not everyone plans for it or expects it in their heart. If men can stumble or be the victim of a scheming woman, the same logic can be applied to women.

purples25:
That wasn't the example OP used. Going by his examples and explanation, I deduced that he means that women don't make mistakes when it comes to sex, and every cheating act was premeditated. That is highly unrealistic and unreasonable. Not every woman plans ahead of time to cheat. Cheating is a decision all right, but not everyone plans for it or expects it in their heart. If men can stumble or be the victim of a scheming woman, the same logic can be applied to women.

it's well, but don't smell what you won't eat...

rapheal5:
it's well, but don't smell what you won't eat...

That's a solid fact, but let's not say every cheating act is premeditated.

Yes, we should flee from what we won't eat.

purples25:
That's a solid fact, but let's not say every cheating act is premeditated.

Yes, we should flee from what we won't eat.

You would need a strong defence for this. 😳

Rizzputin:
Not really. Even if they're not fully conscious of it.

They have it at the back of the mind that on some level things might happen. They may act naive but trust me if she really NEVER had an idea it won't happen, there's zero chance it will

It's Called Plausible deniability

Positioning oneself be able to deny knowledge of or take responsibility for actions one actually encouraged to Happen.

That is why the man must alway be the one to More things to the next stage. if not it stalls....

omooba969:
You would need a strong defence for this. 😳

Oh, i don't mean the act itself. I mentioned that actual cheating is a choice. Maybe you didn't notice.

However the acts leading to the cheating are not always deliberate. It's not every time that a girl sets out to a certain location with the aim of cheating firmly planted in her mind.

She might have gone out with a different intent, then she was faced with the opportunity to cheat, then took it.

But not that she woke up that morning and said "Today I'm heading out to this person's house and I might cheat on my partner with him."

purples25:
Oh, i don't mean the act itself. I mentioned that actual cheating is a choice. Maybe you didn't notice.

However the acts leading to the cheating are not always deliberate. It's not every time that a girl sets out to a certain location with the aim of cheating firmly planted in her mind.

She might have gone out with a different intent, then she was faced with the opportunity to cheat, then took it.

But not that she woke up that morning and said "Today I'm heading out to this person's house and I might cheat on my partner with him."

That's it there , bcoz she was presented with an opportunity, then she had a decision to make, she had a choice to make as there would be a 'thinking through'. Therefore, a case of premeditated action can be admitted.

U gerrit?

Hezmatosky:
Women no just follow us come this world. Their thinking and reasoning is just zero

Depending on the kind of girl you're hanging out with..

Fatbam005:
Rice is now 2k per kongo. Anyway, it just happened.

LMAO! 🤣🤣🤣

omooba969:
That's it there , bcoz she was presented with an opportunity, then she had a decision to make, she had a choice to make as there would be a 'thinking through'. Therefore, a case of premeditated action can be admitted.

U gerrit?

That's true, but that's not the part I am referring to. OP implied that even before getting to that stage, all women know what is going to happen. That all women know that they would be presented with a temptation and a choice. And I disagree, not all women go out knowing they would be faced with temptation, a choice or even an assault. That's not possible.

Is every cheating act premeditated right when a woman enters another man's house or area? No.

easzypeaszy:
do u kw if he mks money from writing? So bc u read an article here makes him jobless..the way u guys think is shameful.

Shut your gutter mouth,

Crafteck1:
You assume he is broke?

Obviously

Bintabisiriyu2:
Shut your gutter mouth,

animal.. Ur mama go lose u dis year.. Abi ur papa no go see tomao ni.. Ewo oloriburuku oloshi yi sha

For it just to happen, you have to be very attractive such that you tickle her fancy

Rizzputin:
Recently I stumbled on a nairalander's unfortunate post. It's similar to most stories you read on social media these days

According to him, he met a girl and fell in love with her. She was the typical gf material…The best part? She was a virgin. What more could he ask for

To top it off, she promised him her virginity. Possibly, when she's ready or better when they're married

Until 2 weeks later she got fùcked by a guy she had barely known for 2 weeks. Of course, he went on an emotional rant of how wicked women are. And how insensitive she was.

Can you guess her reason for giving another guy her "precious" virginity? "It just happened!"

Everybody and his mother has heard this phrase from women when they talk about some crazy sex she engaged in recently.

That trip to her bestie's house where she got pounded? She didn't plan to, you see.

She wasn't meaning for it to happen. Had she known, she wouldn't have gone there or allowed it… but it just happened!

Or how about when she went to deliver her wedding iv card to her ex only to fùck him? Well, that just happened too

Things "just happening" are a common occurrence for most women. Most women seem to be just floating along on the currents of life, when somehow they bump into a man and his long John Thomas falls inside her. Totally by mistake.

Except is it really a mistake?

Every experienced seducer knows the answer to that. It's not. To the naive man, he'll probably brush it off as an honest mistake

You see, women make things happen or put themselves in a position where things are most likely "just to happen."

That's why I advocate you become a hookup material. When you act that way you are more likely to "make it happen", fùck her and avoid being played.

---Why do things seem to "just happen" with women?

It's simple. She says that so she can shift the blame.

Or better still, find a way to justify her actions. Much better to say "it just happened: than to admit she willingly went to fùck someone.

That's why a big part of being a hook up material is being smooth, subtle… and inspiring her to lust after you.

Because when she lusts after you, she'll be an active participant in the seduction. She'll create opportunities and follow you to places where things can most likely "just happen"


---How to "make things happen" as a man

A smooth, sweet seduction is subtle. It leads a girl through some steps right into your arms.

And it's done in such a way she feels allowed to.

Becoming a hook up material is at the core of seduction. You use Lust Oriented Topics to gently nudge her into situations that things might just happen.

Of course, she can't help it because of how aroused she is. You don't want her to see you as bf or husband material because the pressure to be perfect is on her.

Rather you want to act like a hook up material. Make the right moves. Invite her to the right places and stimulate the necessary emotions in her.

Another benefit of being a hook up material that makes things happen is that she sees you as a guy that just gets it.

It's like you're part of the secret society of womanese. So she's less likely to play those games with you


---What should you do when "things keep happening" with your girlfriend


This applies to guys that are dating or have intentions to. If that's you, pay close attention.

Let's say your girl keeps giving out her number to guys. Or going to clubs with her female friends. Or wearing very skimpy clothes.

And when you ask why, she tells you it's just happened. Cuz she didn't plan for it.

How would you handle it?

Here's a tip:


● Call her out on the bs in a calm way. Show her how her actions make room for these things to happen.

Because believe it or not, she knows what she's doing. When you do this, it makes it even more obvious to her conscious mind the role she plays and the fact that you don't like it

So whenever such a situation presents itself, she'll either make a conscious decision to act funny or not.

And if she continues, you know what to do.

Na una dey carry woman matter for head sef. Nawawo