Rubbish. You can’t understand a human being like you. You guys bother a lot

Rizzputin:
Recently I stumbled on a nairalander's unfortunate post. It's similar to most stories you read on social media these days

According to him, he met a girl and fell in love with her. She was the typical gf material…The best part? She was a virgin. What more could he ask for

To top it off, she promised him her virginity. Possibly, when she's ready or better when they're married

Until 2 weeks later she got fùcked by a guy she had barely known for 2 weeks. Of course, he went on an emotional rant of how wicked women are. And how insensitive she was.

Can you guess her reason for giving another guy her "precious" virginity? "It just happened!"

Everybody and his mother has heard this phrase from women when they talk about some crazy sex she engaged in recently.

That trip to her bestie's house where she got pounded? She didn't plan to, you see.

She wasn't meaning for it to happen. Had she known, she wouldn't have gone there or allowed it… but it just happened!

Or how about when she went to deliver her wedding iv card to her ex only to fùck him? Well, that just happened too

Things "just happening" are a common occurrence for most women. Most women seem to be just floating along on the currents of life, when somehow they bump into a man and his long John Thomas falls inside her. Totally by mistake.

Except is it really a mistake?

Every experienced seducer knows the answer to that. It's not. To the naive man, he'll probably brush it off as an honest mistake

You see, women make things happen or put themselves in a position where things are most likely "just to happen."

That's why I advocate you become a hookup material. When you act that way you are more likely to "make it happen", fùck her and avoid being played.

---Why do things seem to "just happen" with women?

It's simple. She says that so she can shift the blame.

Or better still, find a way to justify her actions. Much better to say "it just happened: than to admit she willingly went to fùck someone.

That's why a big part of being a hook up material is being smooth, subtle… and inspiring her to lust after you.

Because when she lusts after you, she'll be an active participant in the seduction. She'll create opportunities and follow you to places where things can most likely "just happen"


---How to "make things happen" as a man

A smooth, sweet seduction is subtle. It leads a girl through some steps right into your arms.

And it's done in such a way she feels allowed to.

Becoming a hook up material is at the core of seduction. You use Lust Oriented Topics to gently nudge her into situations that things might just happen.

Of course, she can't help it because of how aroused she is. You don't want her to see you as bf or husband material because the pressure to be perfect is on her.

Rather you want to act like a hook up material. Make the right moves. Invite her to the right places and stimulate the necessary emotions in her.

Another benefit of being a hook up material that makes things happen is that she sees you as a guy that just gets it.

It's like you're part of the secret society of womanese. So she's less likely to play those games with you


---What should you do when "things keep happening" with your girlfriend


This applies to guys that are dating or have intentions to. If that's you, pay close attention.

Let's say your girl keeps giving out her number to guys. Or going to clubs with her female friends. Or wearing very skimpy clothes.

And when you ask why, she tells you it's just happened. Cuz she didn't plan for it.

How would you handle it?

Here's a tip:


● Call her out on the bs in a calm way. Show her how her actions make room for these things to happen.

Because believe it or not, she knows what she's doing. When you do this, it makes it even more obvious to her conscious mind the role she plays and the fact that you don't like it

So whenever such a situation presents itself, she'll either make a conscious decision to act funny or not.

And if she continues, you know what to do.

I have learnt not to give a Bleep about all this stuff. They will just cause u endless headache if u find out what ur girlfriends are doing in secret.

2024 no ring, 90% of the time no fidelity. The 10% of women are now liberated to shag and add body counts like men do.
Always important these days to ask a girl if she wants an open or monogamy type of friendship.
I admit my percentages are not accurate. 😁

"It just happened" abi. Just they saying Jesus Christ said "It is finished".
No wahala. It will keep just happening until we see who go tire. Wount be me shaa

Hmmm

U are not married or engaged to girl probably months old relationship but u are worried about this or that? U better focus on ur life.

Do u want to marry her?

What really just happened? Like your sense was in Gaza and your body in Egypt.

Ode just happened. Na SIMPs dey fall for that line.

And when you ask why, she tells you it's just happened. Cuz she didn't plan for it.

DUMP HER

Rizzputin:
Recently I stumbled on a nairalander's unfortunate post. It's similar to most stories you read on social media these days

According to him, he met a girl and fell in love with her. She was the typical gf material…The best part? She was a virgin. What more could he ask for

To top it off, she promised him her virginity. Possibly, when she's ready or better when they're married

Until 2 weeks later she got fùcked by a guy she had barely known for 2 weeks. Of course, he went on an emotional rant of how wicked women are. And how insensitive she was.

Can you guess her reason for giving another guy her "precious" virginity? "It just happened!"

Everybody and his mother has heard this phrase from women when they talk about some crazy sex she engaged in recently.

That trip to her bestie's house where she got pounded? She didn't plan to, you see.

She wasn't meaning for it to happen. Had she known, she wouldn't have gone there or allowed it… but it just happened!

Or how about when she went to deliver her wedding iv card to her ex only to fùck him? Well, that just happened too

Things "just happening" are a common occurrence for most women. Most women seem to be just floating along on the currents of life, when somehow they bump into a man and his long John Thomas falls inside her. Totally by mistake.

Except is it really a mistake?

Every experienced seducer knows the answer to that. It's not. To the naive man, he'll probably brush it off as an honest mistake

You see, women make things happen or put themselves in a position where things are most likely "just to happen."

That's why I advocate you become a hookup material. When you act that way you are more likely to "make it happen", fùck her and avoid being played.

---Why do things seem to "just happen" with women?

It's simple. She says that so she can shift the blame.

Or better still, find a way to justify her actions. Much better to say "it just happened: than to admit she willingly went to fùck someone.

That's why a big part of being a hook up material is being smooth, subtle… and inspiring her to lust after you.

Because when she lusts after you, she'll be an active participant in the seduction. She'll create opportunities and follow you to places where things can most likely "just happen"


---How to "make things happen" as a man

A smooth, sweet seduction is subtle. It leads a girl through some steps right into your arms.

And it's done in such a way she feels allowed to.

Becoming a hook up material is at the core of seduction. You use Lust Oriented Topics to gently nudge her into situations that things might just happen.

Of course, she can't help it because of how aroused she is. You don't want her to see you as bf or husband material because the pressure to be perfect is on her.

Rather you want to act like a hook up material. Make the right moves. Invite her to the right places and stimulate the necessary emotions in her.

Another benefit of being a hook up material that makes things happen is that she sees you as a guy that just gets it.

It's like you're part of the secret society of womanese. So she's less likely to play those games with you


---What should you do when "things keep happening" with your girlfriend


This applies to guys that are dating or have intentions to. If that's you, pay close attention.

Let's say your girl keeps giving out her number to guys. Or going to clubs with her female friends. Or wearing very skimpy clothes.

And when you ask why, she tells you it's just happened. Cuz she didn't plan for it.

How would you handle it?

Here's a tip:


● Call her out on the bs in a calm way. Show her how her actions make room for these things to happen.

Because believe it or not, she knows what she's doing. When you do this, it makes it even more obvious to her conscious mind the role she plays and the fact that you don't like it

So whenever such a situation presents itself, she'll either make a conscious decision to act funny or not.

And if she continues, you know what to do.

Stop taking women too seriously. Focus on your career.

purples25:
In other words, what you are trying to say is that every cheating incident where the woman was in the wrong place at the wrong time, was deliberately orchestrated by her. You are saying that women always know sex is going to happen, and by this your theory, that should also mean that rape is non existent, because the women knew what would happen when they stepped in unsafe spaces.

This means that it is only her fault. The man involved didn't prey on her, she was not the victim of a predatory man's scheme or seduction, she always knows and leads the man on. Right?

I hope you have the same energy when the case is for men who cheat. Because in men's case, funny enough, it's always the woman that 'seduced, charmed and forced them'. Such explanations are accepted in men's cases, but women are suddenly very wise if they are the guilty ones.

The best thing is just to warn our young girls. Some things are rigged against men on the society, some things are rigged against women. In women's case, every bad or wrong sexual encounter is deliberately created by her, it's her fault, according to society. Men will always turn around to blame the woman, even one's so called lover. So girls/women have to be very careful, and not trust any men claiming their private space is safe. This really sucks, honestly. This method of blame reeks of cowardice and ego, and toxic masculinity.

Women control sex

eazzzy1:
Sometimes it really just happened. Sometimes a woman will sleep with a guy she had no premonition of sleeping with. Maybe she just wanted to be friends or she just needed a place to visit because she was bored or she’s keeping him for something she gains from him.

The problem is women think they are in control, but they aren’t. The survival of the bushmeat would always be dependent on the skills of the hunter. Everything they do to avoid it from happening can be countered.

You come with a friend, we have a friend waiting to take her out, your friend wouldn’t even want to return.

Your undies is ugly, we will pull the jeans and the undies together. We don’t have to see how ugly it is.

you didn’t shave, you get a pass this one time lol.

We meet at an open place, 20 mins into the meeting you will be the one asking if we live close by.

Big lie from an inexperienced male,we women make you feel we didn't wish for it to happen but we actually had it all planned it,if you are able to bed a women they are two things involved she wanted you to smash or you raped her and inside that rape, she'll still allow up to 70%

Bintabisiriyu2:
Bros go and make money make woman matter no kill you

So people way done make money nor dey talk about women, you see how local Nigerians thinking is

When I got to the virgin part, I stopped reading this post with seriousness...
Most of these kids hunting for virgins will keep meeting the same fate. ALWAYS.
Get a WOMAN instead, and you would be sure of what you have. You can predict her.
Get that virgin, and you keeping keeping awake at night thinking that someone else would take that virginity.
And they often do.
Who has time for such vanities?
Maybe kids.

tuzle:
I have learnt not to give a Bleep about all this stuff. They will just cause u endless headache if u find out what ur girlfriends are doing in secret.

BIG FACTS... As a matter of facts,women cheat more than guys.. Na when girl dey with you,na your turn..The moment she leave your place,na another person turn..
If you want to find out,hack her wasap..you will be shocked..

its funny sha but its true, also guys should understand that ladies too think the same way like the guys. Believe it whenever a guy walks up to a girl and start introducing himself n getting friendly the girl knows in her mind that this guy want sex, same thing the guy is thinking too.

At least them get phrase, men dey get but them dey cheat pass

Hassanmaye:

Women control sex

Okay let's play that game. Men control access to their money.

So let's not hear of manipulative gold diggers again.

50:50. Equal.

Mind you some men you jazz or Africa science, otumukpo, lo ogun, Selina or magani.

Bintabisiriyu2:
Bros go and make money make woman matter no kill you

You assume he is broke?

ItisWell22:


You made a strong point here.

We keep thinking we are in charge, only to get to the end and realize the guy we thought was being played, was actually the player; all along… 😰😫

you've got a diick

Pointless thread is pointless.

Bintabisiriyu2:
Bros go and make money make woman matter no kill you

🤣😂😂😂

The guy no FEAR WOMEN enough, nah why, make e try dey FEAR WOMEN more when next he is going into a relationship.

Rizzputin:
Recently I stumbled on a nairalander's unfortunate post. It's similar to most stories you read on social media these days

According to him, he met a girl and fell in love with her. She was the typical gf material…The best part? She was a virgin. What more could he ask for

To top it off, she promised him her virginity. Possibly, when she's ready or better when they're married

Until 2 weeks later she got fùcked by a guy she had barely known for 2 weeks. Of course, he went on an emotional rant of how wicked women are. And how insensitive she was.

Can you guess her reason for giving another guy her "precious" virginity? "It just happened!"

Everybody and his mother has heard this phrase from women when they talk about some crazy sex she engaged in recently.

That trip to her bestie's house where she got pounded? She didn't plan to, you see.

She wasn't meaning for it to happen. Had she known, she wouldn't have gone there or allowed it… but it just happened!

Or how about when she went to deliver her wedding iv card to her ex only to fùck him? Well, that just happened too

Things "just happening" are a common occurrence for most women. Most women seem to be just floating along on the currents of life, when somehow they bump into a man and his long John Thomas falls inside her. Totally by mistake.

Except is it really a mistake?

Every experienced seducer knows the answer to that. It's not. To the naive man, he'll probably brush it off as an honest mistake

You see, women make things happen or put themselves in a position where things are most likely "just to happen."

That's why I advocate you become a hookup material. When you act that way you are more likely to "make it happen", fùck her and avoid being played.

---Why do things seem to "just happen" with women?

It's simple. She says that so she can shift the blame.

Or better still, find a way to justify her actions. Much better to say "it just happened: than to admit she willingly went to fùck someone.

That's why a big part of being a hook up material is being smooth, subtle… and inspiring her to lust after you.

Because when she lusts after you, she'll be an active participant in the seduction. She'll create opportunities and follow you to places where things can most likely "just happen"


---How to "make things happen" as a man

A smooth, sweet seduction is subtle. It leads a girl through some steps right into your arms.

And it's done in such a way she feels allowed to.

Becoming a hook up material is at the core of seduction. You use Lust Oriented Topics to gently nudge her into situations that things might just happen.

Of course, she can't help it because of how aroused she is. You don't want her to see you as bf or husband material because the pressure to be perfect is on her.

Rather you want to act like a hook up material. Make the right moves. Invite her to the right places and stimulate the necessary emotions in her.

Another benefit of being a hook up material that makes things happen is that she sees you as a guy that just gets it.

It's like you're part of the secret society of womanese. So she's less likely to play those games with you


---What should you do when "things keep happening" with your girlfriend


This applies to guys that are dating or have intentions to. If that's you, pay close attention.

Let's say your girl keeps giving out her number to guys. Or going to clubs with her female friends. Or wearing very skimpy clothes.

And when you ask why, she tells you it's just happened. Cuz she didn't plan for it.

How would you handle it?

Here's a tip:


● Call her out on the bs in a calm way. Show her how her actions make room for these things to happen.

Because believe it or not, she knows what she's doing. When you do this, it makes it even more obvious to her conscious mind the role she plays and the fact that you don't like it

So whenever such a situation presents itself, she'll either make a conscious decision to act funny or not.

And if she continues, you know what to do.

So the long and short of this whole thing is:
“BREAK UP WITH HER”.!!

Hmmm

purples25:


Okay let's play that game. Men control access to their money.

So let's not hear of manipulative gold diggers again.

50:50. Equal.

I agree 200%

Expectation is the mother of disappointment.

It is what it is.

Bintabisiriyu2:
Bros go and make money make woman matter no kill you

You will make money, then to will marry and see what this guy was trying to tell you

It may just happened even when visiting a fatherxmas on Xmas day.

BadBradley:
you've got a diick

If you say so, so be it. ✌️

Good morning…