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Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by bennybuhari: 2:10pm On Dec 13, 2023 |
Sharrap. Only a few percentage |
Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by BigBashiru: 2:11pm On Dec 13, 2023 |
sukkot: The reason women leave men after they go abroad is because marriage is not necessary abroad....the woman is given money by government, the police are responsive, what do you need marriage for?? 6 Likes |
Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by HeatSeeker(m): 2:11pm On Dec 13, 2023 |
finallybusy: Why don't you come up with something intellectually engaging so that we can all contribute? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by Kobojunkiee: 2:11pm On Dec 13, 2023 |
planetx:Was patriarchy also built on similar reasons -- the paying of taxes and indoctrination of children in the directionthe powers that be want? Because it seems it also was. 1 Like |
Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by sukkot: 2:13pm On Dec 13, 2023 |
UnknownT:hehe with time they get to find out that there is no husband abroad. men are not breaking their doors down. so yeah some later regret the decision 7 Likes |
Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by richie240: 2:14pm On Dec 13, 2023 |
If u don't want any woman to serve you hot breakfast, ensure you marry her in her early teens, 15 years max, before peer pressure and social media colonizes her mentality. You can then train and mould her to your liking. Any 'western' education she wan learn will be at home via home-schooling. Once a woman has 'seen life', the probability of her giving you tremendous headache is almost one, except she's one that has a core traditional and God-fearing upbringing. Though I'm not a muslim, but on this early marriage thingy, I'm with them a 100%. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by FireUpNow(m): 2:15pm On Dec 13, 2023 |
Women get puffed up with little power and opportunity. Especially African women. 6 Likes |
Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by Sanchez01: 2:15pm On Dec 13, 2023 |
sukkot: Who empties the trash in your home, your wife? So it emasculates a man if he cooks for his wife? They will soon leave you too with this weak male mindset. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by appini: 2:16pm On Dec 13, 2023 |
Kobojunkiee: The lady later served him a very brutal breakfast. |
Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by nedekid: 2:18pm On Dec 13, 2023 |
Bottomline, as a man, always make sure you have and earn more money than your spouse. No matter how good the lady is, over time problems will come. Japa wise, we know lots of folks that have lived in naija, in different places abroad with no problem, why, oga na boss, buy or rents house for his family, sorts out all the finances, gives kids, madam allowance to run things etc. Provides wella, omo problem no dey de. It is those ones that japa, that are heavily managing, madam then has to go find work, even go back to school, then starts bringing in more money than their hubby that have problems. Before you know, that man looses all respect in her eyes. So called "better" men start cruising her. Omo that one is destined to be doomed. No matter how well a woman is doing, the hubby must retain his respect by showing himself as a man. My younger paddy moved his wife through masters level to UK with the kids, bought a house on modgage, they are living well, he is in naija working, visits every 2 months, no problem. Money de. See, when we were younger, my wife was going to work by public transport. My late dad told me that was not proper, asking if in all my life, I ever saw him let my mama do so. Say na either I make sure I drop and pick her form work or get her a vehicle. So I had to drop and pick her until she got a car. Man must present himself as man either in naija or worst sef, in japa. 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by Kobojunkiee: 2:18pm On Dec 13, 2023 |
appini:ROFLMAO 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 So he refused to change? Na wa oo! Well, him papa represent am very well. |
Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by sukkot: 2:19pm On Dec 13, 2023 |
Sanchez01:na maid now lol. pay them well though. i do not support slavery. pay your maid 100k per month so she is happy and not frowning 1 Like |
Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by Crafteck1: 2:20pm On Dec 13, 2023 |
Laughing at people trying to make sense of actions of women. Even masculine lesbians cant make sense of it, be wise..., dont let a cool moment push you to make decisions that you will suffer in years to come.... No join the Had i known gang 7 Likes |
Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by richie240: 2:20pm On Dec 13, 2023 |
Bros, sorry to say, but u nor get am. He's speaking from experience; and let's even assume u aren't married neither been to jandon before, all d ones we dey read for social media nko? You see 'bleeders' u still dey ask where devil dey. Ok o. Sanchez01: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by appini: 2:21pm On Dec 13, 2023 |
Kobojunkiee: When woman loses the small or big respect for you in a marriage, na by God's grace to reposition her for her level. |
Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by DKM123: 2:22pm On Dec 13, 2023 |
ednut1: You are intelligent and wise. This Idiats screaming Alfa malu upandan assume they know how women think but they are unbelievably clueless and stewpid as fcuuuk! Your government is k!lling you and you are here docile and laid-back like a wet pussy but once you hear woman, you begin to roar afamale. The Whyte man wey dey wash the dishes and cook for his family and isn't saying cooking for his family reduces him, naim dey rule the so called Nigerian afamalus in every aspect.... 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by letout: 2:22pm On Dec 13, 2023 |
revolt: I didn’t want to reply you, it’s quite clear you assume washing plates and cooking makes you less of a man. It’s a pity. How do you give what you don’t have? 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by HeatSeeker(m): 2:23pm On Dec 13, 2023 |
sukkot: This is a serious load of bullshit 2 Likes |
Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by Mentholated: 2:24pm On Dec 13, 2023 |
BigBashiru: Marriage is an outdated tradition abroad. Totally unnecessary. Humans naturally get tired of one another but cling on each other for survival. Once you exit survival mode, you will naturally want to have more freedom to explore life. Once you are in a non- judgemental society, the rest is history. 7 Likes |
Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by Kobojunkiee: 2:26pm On Dec 13, 2023 |
Mentholated:Yet every week, wedding halls are packed, registries are booked? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by sukkot: 2:27pm On Dec 13, 2023 |
HeatSeeker:oh its legit |
Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by BRATISLAVA: 2:27pm On Dec 13, 2023 |
LMAO 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by Theunbothered: 2:32pm On Dec 13, 2023 |
letout: Give women any measure of unearned power or leverage and they abuse it. We have seen this happen time and time again. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by Theunbothered: 2:33pm On Dec 13, 2023 |
Farrason: Only a fool will believe this. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by gabicon: 2:33pm On Dec 13, 2023 |
sukkot: People marry for the wrong reasons, a society is a system of normalised average, the normalised average in different geographical locations differ. The problem is many people change geographical location but don't change normalised average. Many marriages are not strong enough for relocation. In Nigeria a woman who leaves her husband or commits adultery is shamed, in other climes it doesn't work like that, so the woman in Nigeria might be faithful for the reason of avoiding shame, but the minute you take away the shame she is at liberty to do as she pleases. Relocation has to be properly planned, it's not just Nigeria don tire me, many people are going to loose their children which is a bigger epidemic. 8 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by uthompson2001: 2:37pm On Dec 13, 2023 |
People truly write rubbish online.Please do not believe all you read online. I live abroad and the biggest reason women leave men is because of: 1. Men still want to be cheating the same way as back home. 2. Men dont want to help out at home cause they still feel like alpha but they forget there is no house help. 3. The most common, is men leave women to pay all the bills at home as they are too proud to do small jobs before the big jobs cone. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by okito: 2:37pm On Dec 13, 2023 |
Wrong caption - should be "some women" A lot of women stick by their husbands cos they also know that good spouses are difficult to find abroad. It's not only women who leave, a lot of men leave their wives after japaing so, it's both ways. However there are still a lot of happy marriages abroad. Mine is one...a classic example, and I know very many others! 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by VirginFinder: 2:40pm On Dec 13, 2023 |
ednut1: Trash! Once a woman senses you are weak and vulnerable, she will bully you to submission. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by AngelicBeing: 2:44pm On Dec 13, 2023 |
Trolling sukkot at it again but I agree with your post 1 Like 1 Share
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Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by Farrason: 2:47pm On Dec 13, 2023 |
revolt: This is the method of dangling the carrot in front of the donkey as you ride it. The day it breaks free... You can't imagine what she will take from you. Ask same billionaires, they will tell you the film. Divorce and pay-off is not as easy as you think. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by richie240: 2:48pm On Dec 13, 2023 |
Theunbothered:That's why the Great master asked them to "submit to" their husband. He didn't even say "love thy husband'', he said ''submit", bcus he knew it's a very difficult thing for them to do. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by Cromagnon: 2:49pm On Dec 13, 2023 |
ednut1:define good man Abi paying her bills and get parents bills is bad now? |
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