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Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by Gerrard59(m): 9:00am On Dec 14, 2023
sukkot:
you can't jail a corrupt politician in the west because he would be killed in China first for being corrupt. The reason the west do that to Nigerian leaders is because they know they are all demons and a demon would not lock up another demon for doing demonic activities. You can't get justice in an establishment controlled by demons. They are all friends and eat and steal and laugh together. So the world knows this and so the UK feels it has a bit of moral obligation as the coloniser to lock up these men who will never receive judgement in Nigeria. But like I said, China has very strong institutions and they take care of their corrupt men very effectively. They will give you a sword and tell you to kill yourself if you are caught being corrupt. You have to fall on your own sword or meet a deadlier fate.

But yeah we need very strong institutions in Nigeria. Institutions that are more powerful than men

I am curious: does it mean the developed world no get their own demons? How come they fight theirs, but we cannot fight ours? How come their demons enable their societies prosper and function, but ours no dey gree. Na so our own wicked reach?

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Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by EvangelistChuks(m): 9:08am On Dec 14, 2023
YelloweWest:


Why do men expect women to have fear of God when they don't??
the fear of God my sister is not gender sensitive.The scriptures said that THEY THAT DO THIS SHALL LIVE BY IT-[Lev.18:5;Rom.10:5]. God bless you.
Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by sukkot: 9:17am On Dec 14, 2023
Gerrard59:


I am curious: does it mean the developed world no get their own demons? How come they fight theirs, but we cannot fight ours? How come their demons enable their societies prosper and function, but ours no dey gree. Na so our own wicked reach?
its a very brilliant question but the answer to the question ? You have to be very spiritual to accept it or else you will think its rubbish. Well here is the answer

There are demonic and angelic portals all over the world through which demons and angels can access our three dimensional world to influence people and get people to do their bidding. So every where on this planet has these portals. But you see ? The whole world can't be a shit show all at once, it doesn't work like that. It can't work like that. At any point in time of history there has to be a beacon of light for the whole world to see and follow and so a shield is put up against all the demonic portals in that beacon of light territory. So the demons cannot tamper with their leaders and their people. So the white man and his territory has been that beacon of hope for the past 600 years after the European Renaissance. All the demonic portals in his territory are neutralised . So there is order and no corruption and everybody working together for the common good
Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by vickydevoka(m): 9:20am On Dec 14, 2023
1Sharon:


Are your friends good looking to begin with? undecided Maybe the beautiful ones didn’t want them
Very good looking.
I'm not good looking. Are you good looking inside out 😂
Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by Exceed15: 9:45am On Dec 14, 2023
luminouz:
See the lives of Nigerian women. Small freedom they turn King Kong for husband.


This is why the redpill is vital for men. Vet, vet and vet her and let her greenlight your ass before you tie the knot so you don't become a poverty alleviation program for a woman.

Many married men in the UK are crying as we speak. I have counseled 7 whose wives turned viragoes because they have started earning money and so they can party and come home late and husband must not talk. One woman threatened to report her husband because she came home late and her husband complained. The next morning, his son looked mournfully at him and said 'Daddy, mummy doesn't love you. I overheard her and her friends discussing how you will suffer'. He almost bought himself a gun to shoot her till I counseled him. This was a woman he trained through nursing school after marrying her.

Is it a wonder why the cases of men killing their women abroad is on the rise? Nope. Infact I expect it to keep rising given the 2020-2023 Japan rush many couples undertook.

N.B: Why is it that when a man makes money, the next thing society wants is for him to get married. Almost everyone in his life will egg him on to have a wife and be 'responsible' but when a woman has money, she believes she doesn't need a man and starts behaving like a Bantu witch to her husband and society goes 'you are an independent woman who needs no man'. What's with money, status and a little bit of freedom that make these naija women lose it? Na poverty mindset or myopic mentality?

N.B: One dude in Scotland,UK committed suicide just two weeks ago. His lawfully wedded wife was caught shagging his friend. He, as the dependant, was working three shifts to support the wife's education, despite knowing she cheats. The last straw was two weeks ago when she served him divorce papers. They entered the UK in April.

Should I still continue? Cases boku for my hand. Men, lemme say it again. Swallow the redpill, ingest it, love it,kiss it, caress it, fuq it and LIVE IT. The day you stop being an Alpha and lose your frame, is the day you die. You already started life two goals down as a man. No one gives a shit about you till you make it. Infact, there is nothing you are loved for if not your usefulness. To make it and still fall into the hands of a leech as a wife/gf is a double-triple-combo suffering I won't wish on any man.

STAY PILLED OR DIE!!!



Gbam!
Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by Exceed15: 9:46am On Dec 14, 2023
Dexy4yah:
Don't marry who will take you early to the grave

Even if married one you can still run for your life.

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Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by BrazilianOG(m): 9:53am On Dec 14, 2023
1Sharon:


Are you trying to make excuses for murder?
Am not in support of murder but you females always capitalize on every opportunity
Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by Blackdisciple(m): 9:56am On Dec 14, 2023
It's simple many nigerian women are like rottweilers on chains waiting for that little opportunity to cut off chain and devour any passerby.

If you really want to know your wife and who she really is just travel abroad with her and watch ...
Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by chris81964(m): 12:53pm On Dec 14, 2023
Men future proof yourselves. Save and save and save. Invest in income generating ventures. Not your brother or cousins business.
Unless you are Dangote level rich, you will become redundant once your income level drops.
Give up something today to safeguard your tomorrow.
Save and save. 20% of everything you earn every month. Put it away.

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Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by Adgraced: 1:47pm On Dec 14, 2023
Because in abroad both man and woman are empowered..financially especially. So a lot of crap that women stomach in Nigeria in the name of marriage cannot be tolerated abroad! If you her rubbish in abroad you will receive rubbish too..finito.

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Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by EmperorCaesar(m): 1:59pm On Dec 14, 2023
Timetravel88:


I can tell you are the king of Simps by the tone of your comment. Have you wondered why over 70% of western black women are either single mothers or baby mamas? They can’t retain a man after the man has attained them, as their mind wanders over the thought of leaving him because they believe they can do better out there.
This has nothing to do with Nigerian men (although some are wimps and simps too and contribute to the exacerbation of the situation). There is an indoctrination machine in western societies designed to continuously emasculate the man by giving more authority to the woman. The end goal here is the destruction of the family unit which is the building block of any modern day society, once this is achieved, total control of the population will be next because a weak man can’t fight back and a woman is an easier tool for domination because she’s now married to the government and is subservient to who pays her bills, she’ll so happily abide to the bidding.
Any Nigerian family that moves abroad with their guards down will be infected by this too.


Bro, U sounded so smart

U are the Nostradamus of our time

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Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by EmperorCaesar(m): 2:20pm On Dec 14, 2023
planetx:
According to the late great Aaron Russo, feminism and women's lib was created in the West by the Rockefellers one of the 13 illuminati families for two reasons, and both have nothing to do with caring for women
1 To get women into the workforce so as to tax them, because basically 50% of the population wasn't being taxed before feminism.
2 To be able to indoctrinate the children from a very early age in what direction the powers that be want them to move, because with the mother busy chasing money and careers, the children are left without proper guidance and the state steps in.


Omo, where do u guys come from? Earth or Saturn

U and the other guy Timetravel know alot

coincedentally,your names are associated with the space
Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by letout: 3:35pm On Dec 14, 2023
socialjustice93:


Can you be more elaborate on 'men using the society to control their wives' please?

The society/ culture in Nigeria gives men more authority than women, in fact it has encouraged men to disregard marital vows and what’s conforms to a healthy relationship. The man assumes the role of a ‘god ’ and the woman a worshiper. The man starts off by professing his love and providing while the woman can’t pursue a career but raise kids, because the man labours too hard most times more than the woman old age comes faster. Because the woman has always been around the kids, the kids tend to show more love to the woman. Even more when a man berates his wife or physically assaults her or rapes her he isn’t scrolled or the law doesn’t really have a standing in Nigeria, these are a few points why women from Nigeria when they arrive in a less masculine culture they show their husbands shege.

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Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by letout: 3:40pm On Dec 14, 2023
Theunbothered:


Give women any measure of unearned power or leverage and they abuse it. We have seen this happen time and time again.

You think women want to be men? Take all the responsibility? Do you really know what the various responsibilities are for a man? Look up responsibilities of a leader in any field then you’ll understand that providing money, food and shelter is just 10% of the responsibilities men carry. Women know the weight on the man is much and they don’t want it. They’ll gladly follow you if you’re a good leader. Sincerely being a man in the old world and modern world is one of the hardest shoes to ever fill.
Please note I’m referring to a God fearing Man and Woman not anyone in between or outside Christ
Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by sukkot: 3:44pm On Dec 14, 2023
planetx:
According to the late great Aaron Russo, feminism and women's lib was created in the West by the Rockefellers one of the 13 illuminati families for two reasons, and both have nothing to do with caring for women
1 To get women into the workforce so as to tax them, because basically 50% of the population wasn't being taxed before feminism.
2 To be able to indoctrinate the children from a very early age in what direction the powers that be want them to move, because with the mother busy chasing money and careers, the children are left without proper guidance and the state steps in.
are you familiar with pansophist ?
Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by socialjustice93: 3:57pm On Dec 14, 2023
letout:


The society/ culture in Nigeria gives men more authority than women, in fact it has encouraged men to disregard marital vows and what’s conforms to a healthy relationship. The man assumes the role of a ‘god ’ and the woman a worshiper. The man starts off by professing his love and providing while the woman can’t pursue a career but raise kids, because the man labours too hard most times more than the woman old age comes faster. Because the woman has always been around the kids, the kids tend to show more love to the woman. Even more when a man berates his wife or physically assaults her or rapes her he isn’t scrolled or the law doesn’t really have a standing in Nigeria, these are a few points why women from Nigeria when they arrive in a less masculine culture they show their husbands shege.

Got it, thanks.
Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by planetx: 4:32pm On Dec 14, 2023
sukkot:
are you familiar with pansophist ?
No sir but ready to learn.
Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by sukkot: 4:39pm On Dec 14, 2023
planetx:
No sir but ready to learn.
oh my chief he is a fellow illuminati like yourself on here. always dropping wisdom. check him out.
Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by hammed71(m): 7:47pm On Dec 14, 2023
sukkot:
its a very brilliant question but the answer to the question ? You have to be very spiritual to accept it or else you will think its rubbish. Well here is the answer

There are demonic and angelic portals all over the world through which demons and angels can access our three dimensional world to influence people and get people to do their bidding. So every where on this planet has these portals. But you see ? The whole world can't be a shit show all at once, it doesn't work like that. It can't work like that. At any point in time of history there has to be a beacon of light for the whole world to see and follow and so a shield is put up against all the demonic portals in that beacon of light territory. So the demons cannot tamper with their leaders and their people. So the white man and his territory has been that beacon of hope for the past 600 years after the European Renaissance. All the demonic portals in his territory are neutralised . So there is order and no corruption and everybody working together for the common good
so you're telling me that the situation in Africa is due to this?
Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by sukkot: 8:05pm On Dec 14, 2023
hammed71:
so you're telling me that the situation in Africa is due to this?
yes Sir
Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by pansophist(m): 10:41pm On Dec 14, 2023
sukkot talk true, no be a norm na. Women turning against their men are actually the minority, not the norm.

In all the foreign couples I know, only three broke down after relocation, and out of those three, the men self get their own problem.

if a man is good to a woman, play his part as a man by actions, and a woman sees him as an asset than a liability, marriage breakup hardly happens.

The marriage breakdown are usually centered around those that are dating women they met online, meanwhile, there is no love, just a horney man, and a desperate actress wanting to port.

And for that, i blame the man. You dont date online, its only loose loose for you. You now brought someone you didnt know because you dated online, and surprised it broke down.

Are you normal?

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Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by sukkot: 5:12am On Dec 15, 2023
pansophist:
sukkot talk true, no be a norm na. Women turning against their men are actually the minority, not the norm.

In all the foreign couples I know, only three broke down after relocation, and out of those three, the men self get their own problem.

if a man is good to a woman, play his part as a man by actions, and a woman sees him as an asset than a liability, marriage breakup hardly happens.

The marriage breakdown are usually centered around those that are dating women they met online, meanwhile, there is no love, just a horney man, and a desperate actress wanting to port.

And for that, i blame the man. You dont date online, its only loose loose for you. You now brought someone you didnt know because you dated online, and surprised it broke down.

Are you normal?
nah bro it's an epidemic , these cases of men getting kicked out. I follow several japa women and men on YouTube who specialise in reporting these cases. It's an epidemic bro. Proper real marriages are breaking down in the west after japa. Even daddy freeze does constant shows about specific cases on his YouTube channel and has guests in the UK in his panel discussing the matter. Ahhh epidemic ni ooooo

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Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by BadBradley: 8:40pm On Dec 15, 2023
Kobojunkiee:
So, una patriarchal society don dey fail una, abi? The war has been won by the women... so why you dey complain? undecided
you mean the complaint about women's lower life expectancy and high number of infertility, junkiee?
Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by richhills(m): 9:12pm On Dec 15, 2023
Simple solution................stop signing marriage certificates. If i am to replay the second half. I won't sign that shit paper again, or I give a long list of prenups agreement.

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Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by pansophist(m): 11:06pm On Dec 15, 2023
sukkot:
nah bro it's an epidemic , these cases of men getting kicked out. I follow several japa women and men on YouTube who specialise in reporting these cases. It's an epidemic bro. Proper real marriages are breaking down in the west after japa. Even daddy freeze does constant shows about specific cases on his YouTube channel and has guests in the UK in his panel discussing the matter. Ahhh epidemic ni ooooo

It is mostly an anglophone thing as I see it. So the UK, Ireland, Canada, USA, Australia, etc.

Other countries are not rabid like the anglophones. For example in the Scandinavia, no such thing as spousal support. After divorce, both go their separate ways. No woman is roping you to sponsor her permanently.

As per human nature, most people are weak, and will exploit laws no matter the injustice it casues to others. But yea, British society is prevalent with those kind of stuff.

Hence I cant live in UK (also Canada) or any society that emasculates me.

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Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by Discerner: 3:05pm On Dec 16, 2023
planetx:
According to the late great Aaron Russo, feminism and women's lib was created in the West by the Rockefellers one of the 13 illuminati families for two reasons, and both have nothing to do with caring for women
1 To get women into the workforce so as to tax them, because basically 50% of the population wasn't being taxed before feminism.
2 To be able to indoctrinate the children from a very early age in what direction the powers that be want them to move, because with the mother busy chasing money and careers, the children are left without proper guidance and the state steps in.


This is part of it, not all of it. It's so much that the whole of this thread cannot explain it fully. There's a spiritual aspect to it also. Feminism was created by those who actually hate women. Hardcore misogynist who are operating with the same guile since the garden in Eden and like clock work, women are fallen for the fruit all over again which proves the story of the scriptures correct that the woman ate the fruit first.

And there's still more evil to unveil.

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Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by XAUBulls: 8:50pm On Dec 16, 2023
sukkot:
So guys we need to understand that women are drawn to protectors and alpha and strong men. It is how they are wired.

Something happens to a Nigerian man when he gets abroad and the women notice it. The man gets emasculated by society.

He goes from being a strong figure of authority in Africa to an unwanted disrespected black man in the west.

Even a 17 year old white boy on the job can almost slap that 40 year old naija man on the job and he will be shaking and calling the 17 year old boy, Sir.

The man is emasculated by society. Goes from being an alpha dog in naija to a puppy in the west.

Our women sense these things and to a woman if you are not an alpha dog you are just useless.

You start emptying the trash and making breakfast and washing dishes now as the man. Jobs that you used to hire maids to do for you in naija.

Not only can a 17 year old white boy disrespect you on the job but you are now a dishwasher at home. You have no value in society.

Anywhere you turn up you are not celebrated but tolerated.

After a while the woman starts to see that this guy is truly worthless to me, why do I need to coexist with this emasculated societal reject ?

I am better off by myself and I can get a better job than him here as a nurse.

He has become a burden to me.

This is why most women chase their husbands away from home after they both relocate abroad
True that.

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Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by Dshocker(m): 1:44am On Dec 17, 2023
1Sharon:
That's the exact reason why they are also killing their wives. They come to the West and feel emasculated, inadequate and insecure.

They end up taking their anger out on the easy target: their wife.

Alot of African women in the West are more successful than the men, but in Nigeria reverse is the case.

There is no basis at the bolded.

All the countries in Europe & America, men still top the list of the most number of billionaires & millionaires.
Re: Why Women Leave Their Husbands Abroad After They Both Japa by Obierika(m): 5:14am On Dec 22, 2023
Starboytwo:
Chai, all i see is sufferment...

Work and toil for 25years washing plate and doing gate man and packing sheet.

Paying mortgage for 22 years and remaining $5k but dem pursue you Comot for your house and told you not to come 200 yards close or risk jail or deportation.

At the end, what do you gain=sufferment.

This is the sad reality for some abroadians

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