Fountainofyouth:



Hehehe see stupid mindset lol

You have really damaged your sense of rationality and reality, you can't be normal again, your sanity is almost 90% gone and I mean it literally.

Fountainofyouth:


You are delusional, even your fellow males are advising you yet you prefer to be arrogant, continue, if only you will come back to tell bitter tales of how the nonsense you typed up there bite you big hard in the aśs with bitter unending lessons, you sound like a child at this point.

vickydevoka:

I laugh I Swahili. You think say ma dog u de train

1Sharon:


Okay, so your own perspective?

sukkot:
So guys we need to understand that women are drawn to protectors and alpha and strong men. It is how they are wired.

Something happens to a Nigerian man when he gets abroad and the women notice it. The man gets emasculated by society.

He goes from being a strong figure of authority in Africa to an unwanted disrespected black man in the west.

Even a 17 year old white boy on the job can almost slap that 40 year old naija man on the job and he will be shaking and calling the 17 year old boy, Sir.

The man is emasculated by society. Goes from being an alpha dog in naija to a puppy in the west.

Our women sense these things and to a woman if you are not an alpha dog you are just useless.

You start emptying the trash and making breakfast and washing dishes now as the man. Jobs that you used to hire maids to do for you in naija.

Not only can a 17 year old white boy disrespect you on the job but you are now a dishwasher at home. You have no value in society.

Anywhere you turn up you are not celebrated but tolerated.

After a while the woman starts to see that this guy is truly worthless to me, why do I need to coexist with this emasculated societal reject ?

I am better off by myself and I can get a better job than him here as a nurse.

He has become a burden to me.

This is why most women chase their husbands away from home after they both relocate abroad

bestman09:
The simple reason is that majority of women misuses power when they get it. Power, especially financial power should not be entrusted on Nigerian women. Even here in Nigeria, a man can take care of the home for over 20 years, footing all the bills without any complain but immediately he loses his financial capability, he starts loosing respect at home and if the wife gets empowered financially more than the man, the man will be treated like a trash

Fountainofyouth:



Leave am na

Saw his comment and had a big laugh, delusion is really bad for his health 🤣

sukkot:
So guys we need to understand that women are drawn to protectors and alpha and strong men. It is how they are wired.

Something happens to a Nigerian man when he gets abroad and the women notice it. The man gets emasculated by society.

He goes from being a strong figure of authority in Africa to an unwanted disrespected black man in the west.

Even a 17 year old white boy on the job can almost slap that 40 year old naija man on the job and he will be shaking and calling the 17 year old boy, Sir.

The man is emasculated by society. Goes from being an alpha dog in naija to a puppy in the west.

Our women sense these things and to a woman if you are not an alpha dog you are just useless.

You start emptying the trash and making breakfast and washing dishes now as the man. Jobs that you used to hire maids to do for you in naija.

Not only can a 17 year old white boy disrespect you on the job but you are now a dishwasher at home. You have no value in society.

Anywhere you turn up you are not celebrated but tolerated.

After a while the woman starts to see that this guy is truly worthless to me, why do I need to coexist with this emasculated societal reject ?

I am better off by myself and I can get a better job than him here as a nurse.

He has become a burden to me.

This is why most women chase their husbands away from home after they both relocate abroad

vickydevoka:

If he knows how powerful a lady you called your wife is in the UK. He won't even say that rubbish. Most UK men marry ugly or average ladies bcus they are more calm and considerate. I'm yet to see any of my friends whose wise is finer than them. If them de 9ja de will never marry most of those ladies. So if the want to search for ladies the go for character over beauty bcus in reality most fine ladies have bad character

1Sharon:


Are your friends good looking to begin with? Maybe the beautiful ones didn’t want them

Starboytwo:
Chai, all i see is sufferment...

Work and toil for 25years washing plate and doing gate man and packing sheet.

Paying mortgage for 22 years and remaining $5k but dem pursue you Comot for your house and told you not to come 200 yards close or risk jail or deportation.

At the end, what do you gain=sufferment.

armyofone:
I wonder what you will do if you feathered a girl child @ Sukkot. Don't empower her, you hear.

I like how the west mellowed your alpha guys.
Bring the red, white, blue and green pills. We will swallow it together to create Alpha Couples

Keep the alpha rism at the confines of your night dreams. When you walk out the door, take the trash out - its trash day

Karnice600:



Alpha these, alpha that.
You heard the popular old saying, “it’s the men’s world?”
A man need to know how the world works behind the scenes. How those ugly wirings and dirty greasy gears fit and run to give the front end life.
A true alpha male lose some battles to win strategic wars.
An alpha male is not a super hero who wins all the time.
An alpha male is good with adaptive learning irrespective of location.
An alpha male would chose to be mentally efficient over being “muscularly” effective and intellectually useless.
Above all an alpha male doesn’t say he is alpha to earn points

finallybusy:
The only form of engagement illiterate Nairaland moderators can think up. Intellectually stunted platform.

BadBradley:
their are still controlling men abroad and patriarchy still exists in yhr west.

The OP nailed it perfectly. When a woman finds the husband has lost value in western society she doesn't feel protected.

Stop trying to push your own narrow , false perspective here

Maxxim:
The same reason why nigerian men become emasculated and not being able to wield any power is the same as what happens when nigerian politicians reaches abroad without no security guards and loads of escorts.

Coronavirus1:
Liberty and greed make women leave their husband. Abroad husband is very loyal why in Abroad but when in Nigeria he is a vampire why Abroad women become vampire be careful careful

descarado:

I needed to quote this.
Thank you for the submission.

When I travelled out of Nigeria and started working, I met some Nigerian guys along the line of my job and it happened they will take order from me and equally report to me.
What I saw was shocking.
No other black African guy not to talk of other races looked and talked down on me like my brothers. Brothers I defend at work, help behind their back?

At a point,I said enough and started treating them like I should have done at first and I never regretted it.

sukkot:
that is a very brilliant parallel analogy. Our powerful politicians come to the west and are reduced to nothing talk less of you that is a nobody . You see them in the trains looking very decrepit and vulnerable. That their big agbada hides many ailments. They look decrepit and vulnerable and you can just walk up to them and slap them . Aregbesola was almost slapped in America by this guy who saw him and ekweremadu was beaten to stupor in Germany. Ibori and ekweremadu were thrown into British prison like common criminals

That is a wonderful parallel. Even our politicians are emasculated when they enter the west and they have billions in the bank akant. Talk less of the average naija man with nothing in the akant. You will be emasculated by society to the tenth power.

Gerrard59:


The solution is to build a prosperous society and impose your cultural norms. That is what Chinese, Emirati and Japanese men did. I have never seen/read a Chinese politician jailed in the West.

sukkot:
that is a very brilliant parallel analogy. Our powerful politicians come to the west and are reduced to nothing talk less of you that is a nobody . You see them in the trains looking very decrepit and vulnerable. That their big agbada hides many ailments. They look decrepit and vulnerable and you can just walk up to them and slap them . Aregbesola was almost slapped in America by this guy who saw him and ekweremadu was beaten to stupor in Germany. Ibori and ekweremadu were thrown into British prison like common criminals

That is a wonderful parallel. Even our politicians are emasculated when they enter the west and they have billions in the bank akant. Talk less of the average naija man with nothing in the akant. You will be emasculated by society to the tenth power.

sukkot:
So guys we need to understand that women are drawn to protectors and alpha and strong men. It is how they are wired.

Something happens to a Nigerian man when he gets abroad and the women notice it. The man gets emasculated by society.

He goes from being a strong figure of authority in Africa to an unwanted disrespected black man in the west.

Even a 17 year old white boy on the job can almost slap that 40 year old naija man on the job and he will be shaking and calling the 17 year old boy, Sir.

The man is emasculated by society. Goes from being an alpha dog in naija to a puppy in the west.

Our women sense these things and to a woman if you are not an alpha dog you are just useless.

You start emptying the trash and making breakfast and washing dishes now as the man. Jobs that you used to hire maids to do for you in naija.

Not only can a 17 year old white boy disrespect you on the job but you are now a dishwasher at home. You have no value in society.

Anywhere you turn up you are not celebrated but tolerated.

After a while the woman starts to see that this guy is truly worthless to me, why do I need to coexist with this emasculated societal reject ?

I am better off by myself and I can get a better job than him here as a nurse.

He has become a burden to me.

This is why most women chase their husbands away from home after they both relocate abroad

joseph1832:
those who eventually don't chase their husbands away turn them to boy toys. Some women even go as far as marrying men who they can control and dominate at will. I've seen this happen countless times.

Maxxim:

Yes I saw the video, now let's assume this dude wants to speak with em even just to get some sight of him here in naija I believe the process in his security protocol would have discouraged the dude.
The western society is fair for the weak ones, including women and low income earners and promotes justice for each of the individual.
There's oppression here in the country, imagine a rich man checking you and reassuring emself that he's still richer than you just to feel special and know he's still in control.

sukkot:
YES SIR. YOU KNOW IT

joseph1832:
men who are alphas. Who know who they are when they were in Nigeria, become the biggest disgrace known to their family lineage when they go abroad. It's shameful.