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Authoreety:
A real hustler, hustling for his family with target no dey think abt sex o.

the most childish statement i have seen today, so he is a money making robot?

so men in nigeria that are also hustling for their family too dont have sex nor have side chicks too abi?

no be juju be that?

POOR people

And

SEX

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Plenty

Children.

Jayboi:
Good day everyone. I have been wondering how married men in diaspora with their wives/family in Nigeria cope when they develop sexual urges. I know women can still try and hold body o but men!

For instance, I know up to ten married men staying in the UAE/Qatar with their families here in Nigeria. Infact they visit just once in a year and make sure their families/wives get the best form of comfort. After, they are off again for months.

I don't want to believe they just remain celebate throughout. Or are there Oloshos or prostitutes in the middle east?

E no concern anybody as long as the man is still dedicated and responsible to his family.

While most opt for quickies from oloshos or hornie babes or wives abroad, and some get off by doing video sex with their wife and masturbate.

However there are still faithful men out there, trust me.

If u can't even control ur own sexual urges, what's the difference between u & a goat...

What makes us different from animals is our intelligence & self control...Anybody who fuvks around choose to do so, not because he/she can't control themselves

Shaking hand with the milk man

Me I no fit, I must get another woman to satisfy my urge, no time

Onyiiobi7735:
There's no magic formula there and never will be.Only responsible,self disciplined and self controlled men out there in the diaspora will focus on their hustle and not bother much on satisfaction of sexual urges.They won't allow those urges control them and lead them to adultery, because they have a target to meet, which is financial security for life.
Such men will wait to satisfy their urges only when they return to their wives .
All men cannot be sexually loose dogs with no self control.

So people won’t have sex or masturbate for 3/5 years years!!!! People will see reality and keep running away from it. You na go Dey run away from the truth? Prostate cancer catch them later we go see who go enjoy the money nah

Onyiiobi7735:
There's no magic formula there and never will be.Only responsible,self disciplined and self controlled men out there in the diaspora will focus on their hustle and not bother much on satisfaction of sexual urges.They won't allow those urges control them and lead them to adultery, because they have a target to meet, which is financial security for life.
Such men will wait to satisfy their urges only when they return to their wives .
All men cannot be sexually loose dogs with no self control.

easier said

SIXTEENTH:
I'm tryna keep it through, though it' ain't that easy but my mind's off the grid

You think your wife is celibate and keeping her mind off the grid as well? Na simple question I ask o…

You have rightly answered the question. Self discipline is key and it's annoying that most people believe a man is cheating once he's away from his partner for extended periods. I have been out of Nigeria now for over two years, a lady friend was bold to ask me how I am coping and I told her frankly that I don't think about it. Funnily, men with their wives here with them still cheat. It's all about discipline and setting your priorities.

Onyiiobi7735:
There's no magic formula there and never will be.Only responsible,self disciplined and self controlled men out there in the diaspora will focus on their hustle and not bother much on satisfaction of sexual urges.They won't allow those urges control them and lead them to adultery, because they have a target to meet, which is financial security for life.
Such men will wait to satisfy their urges only when they return to their wives .
All men cannot be sexually loose dogs with no self control.

Onyiiobi7735:
Lol!! All men cannot be animals without self control.
Mr Lecturer trying to sound intelligent but sounding even more foolish than ever.Only lustful animals that can't control themselves and lack self discipline reason the way you do.

What percentage of men are you talking about? Let's get the mejority.

Only few men has that power. Mejority are very sexually active- and there's nothing wrong with that. Sex is something like hunger, u can't be very disciplined, focused and active not to go hingry..

Stop using minority as the canon

mctech:
How are their wives back home coping too?

You have helped the OP to balance the question

Carcholce:
This is a joke right?

Is no joke... Dubai get prostitutes now.

Jennyclay:
story!!

Men are scum!!

Your father is a scum...

Smitaro100:
Na lazy and idle mind dey get time for sex always.. e get hustle or job you go dey pursue na once in a blue moon your mind go dey sex.

Stop claiming to be too strong. He's asking to know how such men manage during that "once in a blue moon". We Africans are often given to hypocrisy. If this question was asked on an American faceless forum like this, you would have seen people telling stories of how they fared in similar situations - including the temptations, failures, and successes. But here, you're all coming up to pontificate and pass moral precepts like Moses and the Pope😂.

No virile and healthy man can stay without sex for 365days unless there's something wrong biologically with him no matter how hard he train his mindset. Travelling overseas to hustle where you're exposed to foreign and beautiful woman u go come say na your wife for 9ja u go dey faithful to till u see each other by the end of the year??
With ur money u can get sex anywhere and anything so don't be fooled about a country having strict rules, infact na those countries even commit pass.

Onyiiobi7735:
There's no magic formula there and never will be.Only responsible,self disciplined and self controlled men out there in the diaspora will focus on their hustle and not bother much on satisfaction of sexual urges.They won't allow those urges control them and lead them to adultery, because they have a target to meet, which is financial security for life.
Such men will wait to satisfy their urges only when they return to their wives .
All men cannot be sexually loose dogs with no self control.

Stop deceiving yourself.Once any of the spouses travels,you are already into open marriage and anything can happen,forget all this holier than thou attitude.You think its easy for a man to stay three straight months without cumming,discharging offloading?
The first two years of my marriage i never had sex outside marriage but immediately i traveled out,nobody told me before i asked my guys to arrange babe for me ,and concerning masturbation,i dont do it.

SIXTEENTH:
Sure bro, it's seems as if you're talking about me in particular

Zhe annoying part u go focus dey hustle, small boys go dey scatter wife wey all ur hustle dey comfort.. Na money ur sweet she go use go see am.. This life no balance at all..

Jayboi:
Good day everyone. I have been wondering how married men in diaspora with their wives/family in Nigeria cope when they develop sexual urges. I know women can still try and hold body o but men!

For instance, I know up to ten married men staying in the UAE/Qatar with their families here in Nigeria. Infact they visit just once in a year and make sure their families/wives get the best form of comfort. After, they are off again for months.

I don't want to believe they just remain celebate throughout. Or are there Oloshos or prostitutes in the middle east?

Yes na. In Dubai, e plenty and of various varieties. But e cost o especially if one has a family or project in his home country. For Saudi, e no too plenty and I bet they either have sex with fellow workers/suppliers who are non-Saudis. The same Saudi model applies elsewhere apart from Dubai. Dubai, apart from Israel, is the best place to be as a non-Muslim and non-Arab.

Authoreety:
A real hustler, hustling for his family with target no dey think abt sex o.

Funny dude

Authoreety:
A real hustler, hustling for his family with target no dey think abt sex o.

Hustler or no Hustler, one day out of a year, your mind go surely de, out of 365 nights, temptation go de bro

ExudeLoveToAll:
Wealthy people have more time for sex than an average poor man. Go and ask davido.

If your money is working for you as a man you can afford to do anything you want.

That mindset of an idle man who doesn't have a job is who has time for sex is a wrong idealogy.

There used to be this old notion that idle mindset is what drives poor men to sex. But, promiscuity isn't divided along the lines of social class.

So, you're right. Wealthy men do have, not just more sex, but more sex with larger variety of women. The irony is, I just found out that women in bed with wealthy men tend to orgasm more than they do with poor men.

Money makes that pvssy wet, is a scientific fact!

Get the money kings!!!!

Jayboi:
Good day everyone. I have been wondering how married men in diaspora with their wives/family in Nigeria cope when they develop sexual urges. I know women can still try and hold body o but men!

For instance, I know up to ten married men staying in the UAE/Qatar with their families here in Nigeria. Infact they visit just once in a year and make sure their families/wives get the best form of comfort. After, they are off again for months.

I don't want to believe they just remain celebate throughout. Or are there Oloshos or prostitutes in the middle east?

I have been celibate since August 2022 and still counting. It is a thing of heart and discipline

Jayboi:
Good day everyone. I have been wondering how married men in diaspora with their wives/family in Nigeria cope when they develop sexual urges. I know women can still try and hold body o but men!

For instance, I know up to ten married men staying in the UAE/Qatar with their families here in Nigeria. Infact they visit just once in a year and make sure their families/wives get the best form of comfort. After, they are off again for months.

I don't want to believe they just remain celebate throughout. Or are there Oloshos or prostitutes in the middle east?

With all the hunger in Nigeria, this is what is bothering you?? Nawaoo

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Eriokanmi:
Good point! Maybe the OP wanted to sample opinion to justify what he does. There responsible men , oh yes! No matter the urge, nothing would happen. Na only those wey lack self control dey do nonsense in the diaspora. I work with some white guys here in Nigeria. We go everywhere. I've never seen them with another woman. I think lack of self control is peculiar to Africans over there.

Look at this one, white guys are the greatest patronizers of prostitutes in Africa, you never saw them with women indeed. Oyinbos that are always homey 24/7 and can fvck anything keep deceiving yourself.

Smitaro100:
Read through my write up slowly again, if you no get the point, then ask a more intelligent person to put you through and thank me later.🙄

......u see ds ting u re doing.......exactly how Israeli palestani war started 😋

Eriokanmi:
Good point! Maybe the OP wanted to sample opinion to justify what he does. There responsible men , oh yes! No matter the urge, nothing would happen. Na only those wey lack self control dey do nonsense in the diaspora. I work with some white guys here in Nigeria. We go everywhere. I've never seen them with another woman. I think lack of self control is peculiar to Africans over there.

...if true,you were working with white trams who are not Italians.
Those bastardos bleep naija girls like hell....they even resort to assault/molestation of the greedy daughters of eve. One paid thru his nose for the house tender he sexually molested and assaulted because he didn't want the police in on the matter......we bled him to the last standing tattoo that covered the itallo.....

Eriokanmi:
Good point! Maybe the OP wanted to sample opinion to justify what he does. There responsible men , oh yes! No matter the urge, nothing would happen. Na only those wey lack self control dey do nonsense in the diaspora. I work with some white guys here in Nigeria. We go everywhere. I've never seen them with another woman. I think lack of self control is peculiar to Africans over there.

To be fair, humans are the same everywhere. I know someone who would not have sex with a Japanese lady because he does not find them sexually attractive. On the other hand, I know another who has done it all with Japanese women.

So, it is not peculiar to any race but the person itself.

Babaibeji2020:
...if true,you were working with white trams who are not Italians.
Those bastardos bleep naija girls like hell....they even resort to assault/molestation of the greedy daughters of eve. One paid thru his nose for the house tender he sexually molested and assaulted because he didn't want the police in on the matter......we bled him to the last standing tattoo that covered the itallo.....

He is trying to show us he hangs around oyinbos, I hate Africans that put their own down just to praise this pink people.

Some Nigerian women also hustling why husbands are in Nigeria. Those ones connect with those guys and start rolling. I have seen many like that oversees.