Onyiiobi7735:
There's no magic formula there and never will be.Only responsible,self disciplined and self controlled men out there in the diaspora will focus on their hustle and not bother much on satisfaction of sexual urges.They won't allow those urges control them and lead them to adultery, because they have a target to meet, which is financial security for life.
Such men will wait to satisfy their urges only when they return to their wives .
All men cannot be sexually loose dogs with no self control.

Very correct. Not all men do wrong. Your body is your body and the belief that you cannot control sexual urges is a lie from the pit of hell.

That belief is in itself a trap. The truth is; WE ALL CAN CONTROL OUR URGES.

Naijaprosper:



Very correct. Not all men do wrong. Your body is your body and the belief that you cannot control sexual urges is a lie from the pit of hell.

That belief is in itself a trap. The truth is; WE ALL CAN CONTROL OUR URGES.

You are absolutely correct,bro.
Self control and self discipline are the key.m

Naijaprosper:



Very correct. Not all men do wrong. Your body is your body and the belief that you cannot control sexual urges is a lie from the pit of hell.

That belief is in itself a trap. The truth is; WE ALL CAN CONTROL OUR URGES.

You are absolutely correct,bro.
Self control and self discipline are the key.

Jayboi:
Good day everyone. I have been wondering how married men in diaspora with their wives/family in Nigeria cope when they develop sexual urges. I know women can still try and hold body o but men!

For instance, I know up to ten married men staying in the UAE/Qatar with their families here in Nigeria. Infact they visit just once in a year and make sure their families/wives get the best form of comfort. After, they are off again for months.

I don't want to believe they just remain celebate throughout. Or are there Oloshos or prostitutes in the middle east?

The bolded statement says it all.

SIXTEENTH:


I'm tryna keep it through, though it' ain't that easy but my mind's off the grid

were you not aware that the national grid collapse on 12/12/2023

planetx:
He is trying to show us he hangs around oyinbos, I hate Africans that put their own down just to praise this pink people.

My disdain for any white guy is on the hyper gradients. They never wish the blacks well at any point of our existence. They came,collected our pride(slaves) ,our heritage(juju),our self esteem(imposition of democracy) still stealing our resources (crude and now nickel for battery production). If not for our abundant resources the whites can't live without, they would ve nuked the sub saharan Africa off the map of the world....they should be liked,not loved....!

You don't know anything. You think women can hold body not Know - but you're wrong.

Onyiiobi7735:
There's no magic formula there and never will be.Only responsible,self disciplined and self controlled men out there in the diaspora will focus on their hustle and not bother much on satisfaction of sexual urges.They won't allow those urges control them and lead them to adultery, because they have a target to meet, which is financial security for life.
Such men will wait to satisfy their urges only when they return to their wives .
All men cannot be sexually loose dogs with no self control.

De play

Babaibeji2020:

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You see dis war you dey call for, na so palestani do till dem collect wotowoto.😁

10mobile:

Stop claiming to be too strong. He's asking to know how such men manage during that "once in a blue moon". We Africans are often given to hypocrisy. If this question was asked on an American faceless forum like this, you would have seen people telling stories of how they fared in similar situations - including the temptations, failures, and successes. But here, you're all coming up to pontificate and pass moral precepts like Moses and the Pope😂.

When better konji hold you, dem no dey telli person.😁

Smitaro100:



When better konji hold you, dem no dey telli person.😁

No mind them.

Onyiiobi7735:
There's no magic formula there and never will be.Only responsible,self disciplined and self controlled men out there in the diaspora will focus on their hustle and not bother much on satisfaction of sexual urges.They won't allow those urges control them and lead them to adultery, because they have a target to meet, which is financial security for life.
Such men will wait to satisfy their urges only when they return to their wives .
All men cannot be sexually loose dogs with no self control.

articulated wishful fairytale thoughts..the taste of the pudding is in the eating..

10mobile:

No mind them.

Lol.. all dis dem funny questions atimes no be here o..

finallybusy:
How do men in prison cope?

Where do gay came from ?
A man above 25yrs and who is sexually active shouldn't be deprive of a woman. We are only fooling ourselves and lieing to ourselves when we put self control at the forefront.
Sex to a man is a refreshing journey and a boast to forgetting his yesterday failures.

We need sex to survive as humans. There is a distinction between sex and love making. Many will have sex once in a while when abroad or engage in self satisfaction (masturbation)

jesmond3945:
Very good question. I think some cheat, some masturbate, some patronize prostitute, some keep it going.

How do you keep it going until it's gone...........

Eriokanmi:
Good point! Maybe the OP wanted to sample opinion to justify what he does. There responsible men , oh yes! No matter the urge, nothing would happen. Na only those wey lack self control dey do nonsense in the diaspora. I work with some white guys here in Nigeria. We go everywhere. I've never seen them with another woman. I think lack of self control is peculiar to Africans over there.

My guy, be careful o.

A pink man will get wife , and be having immoral acts with another man; na their culture be that o.
Make sure you don't go with them to secluded places or sleep overnight in their houses: you might not make it o. Many Afrikan men have been unalived by these weirdos.

And there is no justice for a case btw a coffee coloured man and a pink man.

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Onyiiobi7735:
There's no magic formula there and never will be.Only responsible,self disciplined and self controlled men out there in the diaspora will focus on their hustle and not bother much on satisfaction of sexual urges.They won't allow those urges control them and lead them to adultery, because they have a target to meet, which is financial security for life.
Such men will wait to satisfy their urges only when they return to their wives .
All men cannot be sexually loose dogs with no self control.

Dey play

Onyiiobi7735:
There's no magic formula there and never will be.Only responsible,self disciplined and self controlled men out there in the diaspora will focus on their hustle and not bother much on satisfaction of sexual urges.They won't allow those urges control them and lead them to adultery, because they have a target to meet, which is financial security for life.
Such men will wait to satisfy their urges only when they return to their wives .
All men cannot be sexually loose dogs with no self control.

okay, so they masturbate then. Thanks for the verse.

Smitaro100:
Na lazy and idle mind dey get time for sex always.. e get hustle or job you go dey pursue na once in a blue moon your mind go dey sex.

so when the blue moon comes what do you do?

nkpommpko:
so when the blue moon comes what do you do?

Then you do what you can do.

Ordinary from AKWA IBOM to LAGOS married men are cheating talkless of those once outside the country, oga their affair with ladies will surpass cheating. The only solution is keep hustling pland your wife should come over be staying with you finished..

No matter how a man is bent to hustle is naturally sex will hungry a man just like water..

jesmond3945:
Very good question. I think some cheat, some masturbate, some patronize prostitute, some keep it going.

Married Men patronizing prostitutes and cheating are two different things?





I am learning

Onyiiobi7735:
There's no magic formula there and never will be.Only responsible,self disciplined and self controlled men out there in the diaspora will focus on their hustle and not bother much on satisfaction of sexual urges.They won't allow those urges control them and lead them to adultery, because they have a target to meet, which is financial security for life.
Such men will wait to satisfy their urges only when they return to their wives .
All men cannot be sexually loose dogs with no self control.

shut up until u travel.

Authoreety:
A real hustler, hustling for his family with target no dey think abt sex o.

wetin be real hustler.

Jayboi:
Good day everyone. I have been wondering how married men in diaspora with their wives/family in Nigeria cope when they develop sexual urges. I know women can still try and hold body o but men!

For instance, I know up to ten married men staying in the UAE/Qatar with their families here in Nigeria. Infact they visit just once in a year and make sure their families/wives get the best form of comfort. After, they are off again for months.

I don't want to believe they just remain celebate throughout. Or are there Oloshos or prostitutes in the middle east?

but wetin concern you! All this one na to cos problem

Smitaro100:
Na lazy and idle mind dey get time for sex always.. e get hustle or job you go dey pursue na once in a blue moon your mind go dey sex.

correct yourself.na poor man no Dey get sex urge.most of u commenting are not upto 25

They won't tell the truth... They're just talking about hustling this and hustling that as if they won't be having sex with their wives if they were hustling in Nigeria.

Even a hustler needs some time to rest and recoup every now and then... Especially men because they're sexual beings and they would use sex to unwind after a long day at work.

God bless u bro.when Dey say hustle hustle I laugh.God that created man and woman na mugu na.What about prostate cancer.u think staying for too long without sex is good?I have been in this game and there’s no man abroad that doesn’t cheat

highchief1:
shut up until u travel.

Lol! Shut up!All men can not be without self discipline and self control. You sound like someone whose education is a complete waste of money and years.

Monthly budget for one night stand is the best. Don’t forget you left home to feed home